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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many is too much and what's too few?

How are you influenced on who you'll talk to?

Opinions...?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I like a lady with several veris, but then I have always been attracted to promiscuous women. I like a mix of verifications, which tell a story about who the person /people are.... Socials, meetings at clubs, sex meets.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Psychology is an amazing thing. I’d have thought someone with tons would have been more sought after (in a bit ‘minor celebrity’ way) but the opinions I read on here are usually quite the opposite!)

I’m happy to meet someone either way

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

The amount of veries doesn't bother me as much as the content of them tbh .

Ie I tend to avoid profiles with loads of really graphic ones ,but like profiles with witty or nice ones if that makes sense .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of veries doesn't bother me as much as the content of them tbh .

Ie I tend to avoid profiles with loads of really graphic ones ,but like profiles with witty or nice ones if that makes sense .

Miss"

Yeah that makes sense...... don't literally need to know the ins and outs of a meet.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I think no matter how many someone has you still need to make your own mind up about wether you want to meet them or not, you could read fantastic veri’s and still not click with them face to face.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Not bothered about the numbers, at least it shows they have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care how many veris someone has, whether it is none or a hundred. I have alot of veris and if that means someone that doesn't know a thing about me wants to form an opinion that prevents them from meeting me then that is fine as I wouldn't want to meet someone like that either

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"The amount of veries doesn't bother me as much as the content of them tbh .

Ie I tend to avoid profiles with loads of really graphic ones ,but like profiles with witty or nice ones if that makes sense .

Miss"

This sums up my thoughts pretty much perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my verifications! They remind me of the amazing people I've met swinging. I always read them on profiles too and see how closely they match with what I'm hearing from that person. There's almost hidden code in there once you've read a lot of them... You know the proper decent wronguns who will be fun from the polite veris lol xx

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Some paint such a lovely colourful picture. More concerned about lack of veris or no veris or webcam only veris

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm here to find like minded people compatible with my needs. What a total stranger has to say about another total stranger carries zero relevance to me.

I engage, meet socially and use my own judgement.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"I don't care how many veris someone has, whether it is none or a hundred. I have alot of veris and if that means someone that doesn't know a thing about me wants to form an opinion that prevents them from meeting me then that is fine as I wouldn't want to meet someone like that either "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm influenced by how a person speaks to me, their character and how they treat people in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a good question.

For me it does not matter.

But i think if i got to my target of 500 veris it might scare few off just another 478 to go lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not bothered about the numbers, at least it shows they have met. "

Yeah more the merrier

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

The numbers dont bother me, as long as someone is real and they play safe.

The only downside is there are only so many times you be told to treat the same person with respect.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont show mine as i dont need someone saying how great this was or that.

people should want to meet me as they like me not what someone said

i find it egotistical.

yet if im meeting i tend to look for verified people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All good answers and I'm finding I agree with snippets from each.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Verifications can work against you. A guy had a girl say that she wouldn’t meet because he had met someone she knew/didn’t like. It wasn’t even recently but she still held it against him. He’s since hidden his verifications.

I like to read what people think of me at times. Some can be really sweet and heart warming. I do have a couple that are tongue in cheek too from friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More interested in the person and how I connect with them

No veri is ever gping to tell me that because thats how they intetact with another...

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I have no interest in people's veris, it's very rare I'll actually look at them. They mean nothing, only at they've met people on here, no knowledge of who they've met away from here. If people are influenced by them then that's their choice, but you never know what's underneath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than 4 displayed sex veri's put me off meeting the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More than 4 displayed sex veri's put me off meeting the person. "

But couples get 8.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More than 4 displayed sex veri's put me off meeting the person.

But couples get 8."

No still 4.

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