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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or so some on the forum say...

Single men post threads all the time asking why they can't get meets and they are slagged off like mad.

And they're still getting slagged off now on a thread by a woman that can't get meets.

Why do women join Fab if they hate men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or so some on the forum say...

Single men post threads all the time asking why they can't get meets and they are slagged off like mad.

And they're still getting slagged off now on a thread by a woman that can't get meets.

Why do women join Fab if they hate men?"

Because they hate men!

Joke before the lynch mob descends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or so some on the forum say...

Single men post threads all the time asking why they can't get meets and they are slagged off like mad.

And they're still getting slagged off now on a thread by a woman that can't get meets.

Why do women join Fab if they hate men?"

For the satisfaction of constantly rejecting them?

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By *icolazCageMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Because most single men see this as an instant sex site...

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I love single men. All I’ve met, but one, have been great blokes and even that one hasn’t put me off meeting others since. I won’t tar them all with the same brush.

I know that’s not answered your question though... a man hater might be along in a moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now thats a headline!

Ok, i misread "are" for "eat" but great header.

Not all guys moan though do they?

Only if the gag is too loose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OOOOOOOSE SLAGGING OFF MY MEN!!

HOW DARE THEY!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because most single men see this as an instant sex site... "

I dunno about most. You'd have to be a complete idiot to think you could sign up and be fucking almost immediately.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Or so some on the forum say...

Single men post threads all the time asking why they can't get meets and they are slagged off like mad.

And they're still getting slagged off now on a thread by a woman that can't get meets.

Why do women join Fab if they hate men?"

We are a couple, I like women hence joining but if the right guy came alone

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Because most single men see this as an instant sex site...

I dunno about most. You'd have to be a complete idiot to think you could sign up and be fucking almost immediately. "

Unfortunately some do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally love single men but I think it's because they see it has instant sex as someone said above. It's like they come on and expect to just be offered on a place like we're all easy. And you have to remember although this site caters for all types it is a swingers site so it's not necessarily aimed at single men looking for single women. There are other places for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because most single men see this as an instant sex site...

I dunno about most. You'd have to be a complete idiot to think you could sign up and be fucking almost immediately.

Unfortunately some do! "

A lot do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now thats a headline!

Ok, i misread "are" for "eat" but great header.

Not all guys moan though do they?

Only if the gag is too loose. "

Eat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally love single men but I think it's because they see it has instant sex as someone said above. It's like they come on and expect to just be offered on a place like we're all easy. And you have to remember although this site caters for all types it is a swingers site so it's not necessarily aimed at single men looking for single women. There are other places for that. "

Most couples are looking for single women. It should be renamed Fabfindasinglewoman.

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Or so some on the forum say...

Single men post threads all the time asking why they can't get meets and they are slagged off like mad.

And they're still getting slagged off now on a thread by a woman that can't get meets.

Why do women join Fab if they hate men?

For the satisfaction of constantly rejecting them?

"

True of some

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

What’s the female equivalent of a white knight called?

People are here for whatever reason they choose OP - NO exceptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I could copy and paste the abuse I just got from a guy for just saying no.

Yes I’ve blocked and reported.

It gets tiresome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all a conspiracy, this is really a feminist group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because most single men see this as an instant sex site...

I dunno about most. You'd have to be a complete idiot to think you could sign up and be fucking almost immediately.

Unfortunately some do!

A lot do. "

A lot do. I'd a guy mail me yesterday asking advice on meeting girls. Why he mailed me I have no idea. He is from the same town as me. But I told him get to know the women by talking to them and don't send them dick pics, and he was like

"fuck that I just want a wham bam thank you mam"

So with attitudes like of guys mailing women that I think women don't start off hating men, but after the first few hundred emails they get in the first day of joining they hate them.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Women have the choice end of story but with alot of men getting up on a cracked plate women's personnas climb high onto a pedestal. End of the day alot of men would stick it in a Susan Boyle lookalike just to get their Willies wet

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By *icolazCageMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Wish I could copy and paste the abuse I just got from a guy for just saying no.

Yes I’ve blocked and reported.

It gets tiresome. "

That kinda thing puts a lot of people off men and it’s gives the genuine men a 0.1% chance of anything haha

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I love single guys!! Quite like attached ones too, but as I’m straight (actual straight, not fab straight!) I’m only interested in playing with guys.

I’ll have a social with any bugger though - who’s round is it?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because most single men see this as an instant sex site...

I dunno about most. You'd have to be a complete idiot to think you could sign up and be fucking almost immediately.

Unfortunately some do!

A lot do.

A lot do. I'd a guy mail me yesterday asking advice on meeting girls. Why he mailed me I have no idea. He is from the same town as me. But I told him get to know the women by talking to them and don't send them dick pics, and he was like

"fuck that I just want a wham bam thank you mam"

So with attitudes like of guys mailing women that I think women don't start off hating men, but after the first few hundred emails they get in the first day of joining they hate them. "

That's depressing.

Good point though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because most single men see this as an instant sex site...

I dunno about most. You'd have to be a complete idiot to think you could sign up and be fucking almost immediately.

Unfortunately some do!

A lot do.

A lot do. I'd a guy mail me yesterday asking advice on meeting girls. Why he mailed me I have no idea. He is from the same town as me. But I told him get to know the women by talking to them and don't send them dick pics, and he was like

"fuck that I just want a wham bam thank you mam"

So with attitudes like of guys mailing women that I think women don't start off hating men, but after the first few hundred emails they get in the first day of joining they hate them.

That's depressing.

Good point though. "

Yup and for this reason I never mail women first.

I actually advised a girl who I knew who was joining this site to set up her profile log out and wait a week before logging back in. Delete every mail and start fresh. It clears out the clutter of the crazy influx of mails that overwhelms new women to the site.

Sure as a man on my first day I had 50 mails from so called straight guys looking to suck me off. I actually stopped using the site and only recently came back on here.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Or so some on the forum say...

Single men post threads all the time asking why they can't get meets and they are slagged off like mad.

And they're still getting slagged off now on a thread by a woman that can't get meets.

Why do women join Fab if they hate men?"

I don't think it's a man thing, or a woman thing, or a couples thing, or specific to any gender identity. Some people join with wildly unrealistic expectations of what the site is, or how they can use it best for them, and the ensuing disappointment can lead to exasperation, either through lack of response or receiving too many dubious messages. If they also lack empathy and can't stop to think how the site might work and cause frustrations for someone of a different gender then the bitterness snowballs since their situation won't be resolved because they haven't changed what isn't working for them as a result. I reckon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or so some on the forum say...

Single men post threads all the time asking why they can't get meets and they are slagged off like mad.

And they're still getting slagged off now on a thread by a woman that can't get meets.

Why do women join Fab if they hate men?

I don't think it's a man thing, or a woman thing, or a couples thing, or specific to any gender identity. Some people join with wildly unrealistic expectations of what the site is, or how they can use it best for them, and the ensuing disappointment can lead to exasperation, either through lack of response or receiving too many dubious messages. If they also lack empathy and can't stop to think how the site might work and cause frustrations for someone of a different gender then the bitterness snowballs since their situation won't be resolved because they haven't changed what isn't working for them as a result. I reckon."

I very much agree. Lack of empathy on both sides. Same actions = same results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined Fab thinking I would find intelligent, mature, sexually enlightened men.

I found the absolute opposite.

The sexist nonsense that I read daily is frightening.

I dont hate men. I do laugh at alot of them though

Frankly, given some of the garbage that is posted on here, they deserve to be laughed at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As one of the single men to recently join the site i find this thread really fascinating.

From the brief time here it's clear many men think its a knocking shop for an easy lay and get frustrated, send crappy messages and create a cycle of abuse and mistrust.

I suppose as the experienced members, do you think there is a solution? Even a partial one.

Some are here (myself included) for genuine long term reasons. Surely these are the people to keep the community going over time, how would you encourage those single men? (Outside of the standard verifications etc)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally love single men but I think it's because they see it has instant sex as someone said above. It's like they come on and expect to just be offered on a place like we're all easy. And you have to remember although this site caters for all types it is a swingers site so it's not necessarily aimed at single men looking for single women. There are other places for that. "

But fab is exactly that. It's called fab for a reason... Friends And Benefits. Not just for couples because it's not just a swingers site after all .

What does annoy me is, when a guy messages me telling me to meet him without seeing what he looks like. Erm no. This isn't blind date! lol.

Or the other types having ago at me because I want a quick social first. Starting on me saying im a timewaster and i need to get off fab and join a dating site! No I don't want to date. A simple coffee (even for an hour) whilst I'll pay for my own isn't a date!

I'm a single woman and I will never run along to a guys home etc for an instant fuck! Im alone and always put my safety first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally love single men but I think it's because they see it has instant sex as someone said above. It's like they come on and expect to just be offered on a place like we're all easy. And you have to remember although this site caters for all types it is a swingers site so it's not necessarily aimed at single men looking for single women. There are other places for that.

But fab is exactly that. It's called fab for a reason... Friends And Benefits. Not just for couples because it's not just a swingers site after all .

What does annoy me is, when a guy messages me telling me to meet him without seeing what he looks like. Erm no. This isn't blind date! lol.

Or the other types having ago at me because I want a quick social first. Starting on me saying im a timewaster and i need to get off fab and join a dating site! No I don't want to date. A simple coffee (even for an hour) whilst I'll pay for my own isn't a date!

I'm a single woman and I will never run along to a guys home etc for an instant fuck! Im alone and always put my safety first."

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Because most single men see this as an instant sex site...

I dunno about most. You'd have to be a complete idiot to think you could sign up and be fucking almost immediately.

Unfortunately some do!

A lot do. "

I've been here for over 12 years, you'd have thought that I qualified for a sympathy shag by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because most single men see this as an instant sex site...

I dunno about most. You'd have to be a complete idiot to think you could sign up and be fucking almost immediately.

Unfortunately some do!

A lot do.

I've been here for over 12 years, you'd have thought that I qualified for a sympathy shag by now "

Oh alright then..... bend over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love single men but unfortunately there are some that think that they can send you one message and you'll reply with your address and be waiting at the door with your legs open lol

Luckily it's a small minority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally love single men but I think it's because they see it has instant sex as someone said above. It's like they come on and expect to just be offered on a place like we're all easy. And you have to remember although this site caters for all types it is a swingers site so it's not necessarily aimed at single men looking for single women. There are other places for that.

But fab is exactly that. It's called fab for a reason... Friends And Benefits. Not just for couples because it's not just a swingers site after all .

What does annoy me is, when a guy messages me telling me to meet him without seeing what he looks like. Erm no. This isn't blind date! lol.

Or the other types having ago at me because I want a quick social first. Starting on me saying im a timewaster and i need to get off fab and join a dating site! No I don't want to date. A simple coffee (even for an hour) whilst I'll pay for my own isn't a date!

I'm a single woman and I will never run along to a guys home etc for an instant fuck! Im alone and always put my safety first."

Well theres nothing wring with a coffee for a first date, much easier than a meal and gives you chance to talk without any time commitments.... which is why it also works well for socials. Better than bar too as your both sober.

I agree that everyone should put their safety first, there too many nutters around.

My experiance is fab suffers alot of people asking for things they are not prepared to do themselves ie must have face pic when no pics themselves or no dick pics when every pic on their profile is of their pussy.

Of course not everyone on here is like that and i've met some nice people. Tbe hardest part of the whole process is getting someone to look past the picture and see the person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As one of the single men to recently join the site i find this thread really fascinating.

From the brief time here it's clear many men think its a knocking shop for an easy lay and get frustrated, send crappy messages and create a cycle of abuse and mistrust.

I suppose as the experienced members, do you think there is a solution? Even a partial one.

Some are here (myself included) for genuine long term reasons. Surely these are the people to keep the community going over time, how would you encourage those single men? (Outside of the standard verifications etc)

"

I don't know the solution. It's a great question.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

It’s interesting - I got told sorry they wasn’t interested last week, we had chatted in a club, and we spoke on here. I said ok fine - I know where I stand and moved on.

There are people that have I known in the scene for years, we have a flirt and chat but we would never play. They have said I am not their type, and I am like fine no issues but I won’t be rude

The people I have even blocked m, have either blocked me first or generally been rude about me

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"I personally love single men but I think it's because they see it has instant sex as someone said above. It's like they come on and expect to just be offered on a place like we're all easy. And you have to remember although this site caters for all types it is a swingers site so it's not necessarily aimed at single men looking for single women. There are other places for that.

But fab is exactly that. It's called fab for a reason... Friends And Benefits. Not just for couples because it's not just a swingers site after all .

What does annoy me is, when a guy messages me telling me to meet him without seeing what he looks like. Erm no. This isn't blind date! lol.

Or the other types having ago at me because I want a quick social first. Starting on me saying im a timewaster and i need to get off fab and join a dating site! No I don't want to date. A simple coffee (even for an hour) whilst I'll pay for my own isn't a date!

I'm a single woman and I will never run along to a guys home etc for an instant fuck! Im alone and always put my safety first.

Well theres nothing wring with a coffee for a first date, much easier than a meal and gives you chance to talk without any time commitments.... which is why it also works well for socials. Better than bar too as your both sober.

I agree that everyone should put their safety first, there too many nutters around.

My experiance is fab suffers alot of people asking for things they are not prepared to do themselves ie must have face pic when no pics themselves or no dick pics when every pic on their profile is of their pussy.

Of course not everyone on here is like that and i've met some nice people. Tbe hardest part of the whole process is getting someone to look past the picture and see the person. "

Spot on with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the men's faults coz they don't do as they are told and lie on the bed naked with their erect willy,s standing up for females to take full advantage of.

XXX

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"It's the men's faults coz they don't do as they are told and lie on the bed naked with their erect willy,s standing up for females to take full advantage of.

XXX"

And that's a problem why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like married ones best though (ducks quick to avoid missiles) but I,'ve met some cool single guys. The hide your verifications bit is there to use and no one has to accept a verification in the first instance. I suspect the reason people don't meet members with lots of verifications is they think it's more risky. And persons not interested in clubs ect may avoid people who are. There's good singles and bad singles on here of all sexuality,/ couples. The most polite I find are TVs/CDs. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the men's faults coz they don't do as they are told and lie on the bed naked with their erect willy,s standing up for females to take full advantage of.

XXX

And that's a problem why "

I was making a joke! Lol XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Err...I was joking about men lying down, it was a bit of lighthearted fun, no need for a load of inbox messages thanks fellas XXX

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Not all women join here to meet men. That is a massive assumption you have made. Some like myself meet women and couples only. I am under no illusions that there are some good guys out there (Ive played with a few over the years), but my general point of view is that the standard of men on here is dire (and declining). Easier and less hassle to pull one in a pub.

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"I like married ones best though (ducks quick to avoid missiles) but I,'ve met some cool single guys. The hide your verifications bit is there to use and no one has to accept a verification in the first instance. I suspect the reason people don't meet members with lots of verifications is they think it's more risky. And persons not interested in clubs ect may avoid people who are. There's good singles and bad singles on here of all sexuality,/ couples. The most polite I find are TVs/CDs. XXX"

Would have to disagree .manners .politeness and respect isn't gender .or sexually oriented specific.

You get tnucs in all forms of life

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Because most single men see this as an instant sex site... "

Very true. Most that join nowadays dont understand what swinging is all about. They treat it like all date sites, expecting the ladies to be up for sex straight away, esp if they are online

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"Err...I was joking about men lying down, it was a bit of lighthearted fun, no need for a load of inbox messages thanks fellas XXX"

Exactly my point of last post .humour bypass big problems for some hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like married ones best though (ducks quick to avoid missiles) but I,'ve met some cool single guys. The hide your verifications bit is there to use and no one has to accept a verification in the first instance. I suspect the reason people don't meet members with lots of verifications is they think it's more risky. And persons not interested in clubs ect may avoid people who are. There's good singles and bad singles on here of all sexuality,/ couples. The most polite I find are TVs/CDs. XXX"

I don't meet people with more than 4 sex veris showing, but not because it's risky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen a single girls account and how many ‘wanna fuck’ messages they get.

Even when they put a status up asking for them to be intrigued in their messages, each message was the same

A lot of men think with their dicks and expect women to find their cock pic the best they’ve seen

But it makes the likes of me look great as I look st the woman’s profile and respond accordingly and don’t send cock pics and don’t respond if I’m not what they are looking for.

So I disagree single men are great and long may they continue

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Or so some on the forum say...

Single men post threads all the time asking why they can't get meets and they are slagged off like mad.

And they're still getting slagged off now on a thread by a woman that can't get meets. "

I'm not the average single man

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I am not shit. Just don’t get the chance to prove it.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I have nothing against single men and stand up for those decent ones that show up to socials and have a laugh without the expectance of sex.

Sadly it's the idiots that spoil it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some really nice single men,and chatted to a few not so nice

it's the pushy single guys that can't take a polite rejection that spoil fab and give single guys a bad rep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met some really nice single men,and chatted to a few not so nice

it's the pushy single guys that can't take a polite rejection that spoil fab and give single guys a bad rep "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Idiotic pushy single men do not spoil it for others! They are really easy to avoid/ ignore/ block. I think it's these women that insist it's polite to read and respond to everything that comes into their box that have the problems. I don't encounter rudeness or pushiness because I only read and reply to the messages I like the look of. And I receive no hassle ever. And encounter no abuse. But apparently that makes me rude and ignorant and up my own arse, but at least my fab experience is a happy fun one and I don't need to spend my time on here moaning about how crap the men are. It's not just the men that is crap it's the way people don't take control of their time on here properly.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

People are people, you get pushy men and pushy females on here, we have had the odd abusive email when we say no thanks and that includes some from females. Most guys are polite when we reject them as they are expecting it and some are just greatful to get a reply which in many ways is sad.

Females on the other hand are used to being worshipped on here so it come as a bit of a shock to some when somebody says no.

Just compare the many threads on here and see how different the advice is to guys than it is to females

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I don't hate men,I just find I'm not wholly compatible with them relationship wise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Idiotic pushy single men do not spoil it for others! They are really easy to avoid/ ignore/ block. I think it's these women that insist it's polite to read and respond to everything that comes into their box that have the problems. I don't encounter rudeness or pushiness because I only read and reply to the messages I like the look of. And I receive no hassle ever. And encounter no abuse. But apparently that makes me rude and ignorant and up my own arse, but at least my fab experience is a happy fun one and I don't need to spend my time on here moaning about how crap the men are. It's not just the men that is crap it's the way people don't take control of their time on here properly. "

Agree.

I reply to all first messages and very rarely get abuse. I get replies saying it's a change for someone to send a nice reply. The rude men are generally only rude because they constantly get ignored.

Some men think that the site is fuck n go but I can't blame them for thinking that, considering the pics and text on some profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People are people, you get pushy men and pushy females on here, we have had the odd abusive email when we say no thanks and that includes some from females. Most guys are polite when we reject them as they are expecting it and some are just greatful to get a reply which in many ways is sad.

Females on the other hand are used to being worshipped on here so it come as a bit of a shock to some when somebody says no.

Just compare the many threads on here and see how different the advice is to guys than it is to females"

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"Idiotic pushy single men do not spoil it for others! They are really easy to avoid/ ignore/ block. I think it's these women that insist it's polite to read and respond to everything that comes into their box that have the problems. I don't encounter rudeness or pushiness because I only read and reply to the messages I like the look of. And I receive no hassle ever. And encounter no abuse. But apparently that makes me rude and ignorant and up my own arse, but at least my fab experience is a happy fun one and I don't need to spend my time on here moaning about how crap the men are. It's not just the men that is crap it's the way people don't take control of their time on here properly.

Agree.

I reply to all first messages and very rarely get abuse. I get replies saying it's a change for someone to send a nice reply. The rude men are generally only rude because they constantly get ignored.

Some men think that the site is fuck n go but I can't blame them for thinking that, considering the pics and text on some profiles. "

Agreed ..local update last night.....guys I'm horny who wants to fuck me now .fuck and go.......serious update from well veried person ...

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over a year ago


"Idiotic pushy single men do not spoil it for others! They are really easy to avoid/ ignore/ block. I think it's these women that insist it's polite to read and respond to everything that comes into their box that have the problems. I don't encounter rudeness or pushiness because I only read and reply to the messages I like the look of. And I receive no hassle ever. And encounter no abuse. But apparently that makes me rude and ignorant and up my own arse, but at least my fab experience is a happy fun one and I don't need to spend my time on here moaning about how crap the men are. It's not just the men that is crap it's the way people don't take control of their time on here properly. "

you have a very valid point

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over a year ago


"Idiotic pushy single men do not spoil it for others! They are really easy to avoid/ ignore/ block. I think it's these women that insist it's polite to read and respond to everything that comes into their box that have the problems. I don't encounter rudeness or pushiness because I only read and reply to the messages I like the look of. And I receive no hassle ever. And encounter no abuse. But apparently that makes me rude and ignorant and up my own arse, but at least my fab experience is a happy fun one and I don't need to spend my time on here moaning about how crap the men are. It's not just the men that is crap it's the way people don't take control of their time on here properly.

Agree.

I reply to all first messages and very rarely get abuse. I get replies saying it's a change for someone to send a nice reply. The rude men are generally only rude because they constantly get ignored.

Some men think that the site is fuck n go but I can't blame them for thinking that, considering the pics and text on some profiles.

Agreed ..local update last night.....guys I'm horny who wants to fuck me now .fuck and go.......serious update from well veried person ..."

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