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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm finding this site doesn't seem to be all that it's cracked up to be. I think if your female you'd be inundated with messages, however as a male I don't quite see the audience. If I was gay I'd be in every night as it seems to be men looking at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding this site doesn't seem to be all that it's cracked up to be. I think if your female you'd be inundated with messages, however as a male I don't quite see the audience. If I was gay I'd be in every night as it seems to be men looking at me "

Cool

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try a pic with a different angle of your dick. Might give your profile a fresh look to it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What did you think it was cracked up to be?

It can be difficult for men it seems, hope your experience improves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding this site doesn't seem to be all that it's cracked up to be. I think if your female you'd be inundated with messages, however as a male I don't quite see the audience. If I was gay I'd be in every night as it seems to be men looking at me "

Just because you're inundated with offers doesn't mean they're worth accepting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preconceptions can be a beeyatch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you looking for? Your profile says regular NSA sex and you seem to have a regular friend...

Have you networked at social events or clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep saying this but go try tinder is you want a leg over, if you don't get a meet the first day you're doing it wrong.

You have veri's so you're already way up the ladder. Whats the problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience of the site as a man is diametrically opposed to yours. I love the site. But I guess it’s a case of ‘it is what you make it’.

It took a while to figure out how to make it what I wanted though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe try a pic with a different angle of your dick. Might give your profile a fresh look to it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked for advice, so ok, several points...

There are about 100 single guys on site to every 2/3 single women, purely because of that fact, men will need to work harder. Women get 100s of messages and day here so tours needs to stand out for all the right reasons.

I tend to think women in general need a little more mental stimulation than most men before they decide they wanna fuck someone. Forums and chat are a great way to get to know people!

Clubs and social events are also great for networking and meeting people!

You've been on site 7 months and have 5 verifications, that's not bad going.

Try changing your pics up a bit...very few women are impressed by a profile full of dick pics...you don't need to show your face but a torso or bum pic as your avatar would be much more appealing!

Don't be negative or moany in your profile or status. That will also put many off.

You get out of fab what you put into it, regardless of who you are.

Good luck OP

Strumps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe try a pic with a different angle of your dick. Might give your profile a fresh look to it. "

I've chosen a slightly more subtle way of proudly displaying my 12"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe try a pic with a different angle of your dick. Might give your profile a fresh look to it.

I've chosen a slightly more subtle way of proudly displaying my 12" "

Lies

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Maybe try a pic with a different angle of your dick. Might give your profile a fresh look to it.

I've chosen a slightly more subtle way of proudly displaying my 12" "

Well worth a fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was a thread about wind farms and their environmental impact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this another boo hoo somebody love me I'm not getting any action thread?

Boy o boy o boy.... plenty of desperate house wifes on pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding this site doesn't seem to be all that it's cracked up to be. I think if your female you'd be inundated with messages, however as a male I don't quite see the audience. If I was gay I'd be in every night as it seems to be men looking at me "
I'm confused OP...You seem to have pulled according to your verifications... ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not moaning it's just an observation. I'm not saying I expect women to fall at my feet, I'm not stupid and I understand how it all works, however I'm not convinced people are as genuine as they like to make out on here. I'm not alone on this either from reading profiles etc

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

If i can just offer my little tip... your veri from 27 Dec may be deterring new interest? Especially since all 5 veris are from same lady. Dont get me wrong its great you have had some success you are doing better than most.

Just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if youre not happy dont stay - simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe try a pic with a different angle of your dick. Might give your profile a fresh look to it.

I've chosen a slightly more subtle way of proudly displaying my 12"

Well worth a fab "

why thanks so much

*bows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a big boy! Mike

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It's not easy being a man on here,hope thing's improve for you. Having said that it sounds like you have to look at different way's of meeting people. Organised group socials,club's etc

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'm not moaning it's just an observation. I'm not saying I expect women to fall at my feet, I'm not stupid and I understand how it all works, however I'm not convinced people are as genuine as they like to make out on here. I'm not alone on this either from reading profiles etc "

That's because most men join with unrealistic expectations, and judging from my area, they think a cock is enough to entice a woman and little else effort. Then sprout the everyone is fake line, because lo and behold, they haven't got women rushing to meet them.

On the other hand, most men are visual so all they need to see is your cock and you'll have plenty of offers to let them to suck it, it all depends in how much effort an individual is prepared to make

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