FabSwingers.com forum: Do you ever find that there's something missing?

By *roticGoddessXX OP Woman
over a year ago

Richmond

Morning all.

I'm not in a whiny mood here, just pensive. Something seems to be not quite right, and I'm wondering what other people do???

Life should be perfect right now.

I'm in a fabulous relationship with a man I am still head over heels in love with, three years on.

Financially, I'm more than comfortable.

My temporary job was just made permanent, and it's a calm, relaxing, and fun.

I have my own brand of spirituality that works for me, but doesn't fit into any of the norms.

I have a lot of friends these days for the first time in my life. We go out a lot.

So my question to you all is: what do you do to find that spark in life when life is perfect but something is still missing?

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I look at what i do have and forget what i don't. We live in a world which tells us we never have enough..we need more more more!

When in reality we probably have more than we need to begin with.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I think if I had all that I'd be pretty thankful ,I have some of it and working on other parts.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at what people don’t have and be grateful for what you do have!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to find humour in things around me, which right now is a struggle because I'm building flat pack furniture and I always find theres a bit missing.

To be honest, I hope that you find contentment in what you have. Its funny how people can look at other people and think, what have they got to worry about, but we all need something different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning all.

I'm not in a whiny mood here, just pensive. Something seems to be not quite right, and I'm wondering what other people do???

Life should be perfect right now.

I'm in a fabulous relationship with a man I am still head over heels in love with, three years on.

Financially, I'm more than comfortable.

My temporary job was just made permanent, and it's a calm, relaxing, and fun.

I have my own brand of spirituality that works for me, but doesn't fit into any of the norms.

I have a lot of friends these days for the first time in my life. We go out a lot.

So my question to you all is: what do you do to find that spark in life when life is perfect but something is still missing?

Do you feel there genuinely IS something missing, or that now you're in a contented space you EXPECT something to be missing.

Maybe you need to work toward a new goal to feel that search for contentment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never any clean teaspoons in the drawer.

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By *roticGoddessXX OP Woman
over a year ago

Richmond

I am so very grateful for what I do have.

I've not had it easy in general over the years, and the fact that I am in this place right now is mind numbingly magical.

I live a pretty simple life, don't have a lot of things to clutter it up, and like simplicity.

Please don't get me wrong--I'm not moaning over my life! I just feel like I should be doing something more to make life more meaningful...but I can't figure out what that is!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd want to understand myself more, to get precision upon what isn't right. That could be an emotional or circumstantial thing. Often the questions that we ask ourselves are some of our best tools that we have. I'd certainly not be rushing to change anything, until I understood what was being signaled.

We sometimes need to adjust and mourn for what's gone from our lives, maybe this raises its head when we've quieted down and have the energy and strength.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Can everything be found?

Sometimes just sometimes it finds you.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I am so very grateful for what I do have.

I've not had it easy in general over the years, and the fact that I am in this place right now is mind numbingly magical.

I live a pretty simple life, don't have a lot of things to clutter it up, and like simplicity.

Please don't get me wrong--I'm not moaning over my life! I just feel like I should be doing something more to make life more meaningful...but I can't figure out what that is!"

How about volunteering maybe?give something good back

Miss

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I am so very grateful for what I do have.

I've not had it easy in general over the years, and the fact that I am in this place right now is mind numbingly magical.

I live a pretty simple life, don't have a lot of things to clutter it up, and like simplicity.

Please don't get me wrong--I'm not moaning over my life! I just feel like I should be doing something more to make life more meaningful...but I can't figure out what that is!"

Although you are no doubt deserving of all the good things now , most people who have everything they wish for find giving something to those who don’t a very rewarding thing .

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

As long as you have the ability to make choices, you have all that you need...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don't get me wrong--I'm not moaning over my life! I just feel like I should be doing something more to make life more meaningful...but I can't figure out what that is!"

You exist and you make those around you happier people...what better meaning is there?

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Give something back op like your time or kind words to others that are less fortunate. I have always found a sense of purpose and contentment in doing something for others, no matter how small it may seem if it makes a difference it matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning all.

I'm not in a whiny mood here, just pensive. Something seems to be not quite right, and I'm wondering what other people do???

Life should be perfect right now.

I'm in a fabulous relationship with a man I am still head over heels in love with, three years on.

Financially, I'm more than comfortable.

My temporary job was just made permanent, and it's a calm, relaxing, and fun.

I have my own brand of spirituality that works for me, but doesn't fit into any of the norms.

I have a lot of friends these days for the first time in my life. We go out a lot.

So my question to you all is: what do you do to find that spark in life when life is perfect but something is still missing?

Happiness is like an orgasm, you think about it too much and it will go away. It sounds like there's something missing because you have decided so.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I look at what i do have and forget what i don't. We live in a world which tells us we never have enough..we need more more more!

When in reality we probably have more than we need to begin with."

This pretty much for me. Especially as a couple of friends my age have been diagnosed with stage four cancers and unlikely to see another Christmas.

I'm thankful and enjoying what I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am so very grateful for what I do have.

I've not had it easy in general over the years, and the fact that I am in this place right now is mind numbingly magical.

I live a pretty simple life, don't have a lot of things to clutter it up, and like simplicity.

Please don't get me wrong--I'm not moaning over my life! I just feel like I should be doing something more to make life more meaningful...but I can't figure out what that is!

Although you are no doubt deserving of all the good things now , most people who have everything they wish for find giving something to those who don’t a very rewarding thing . "

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I realised I'm somebody who will never be satisfied, I always want more, to do more to see more or experience more. I have friends who are just content in their little bubble and I'm kind of envious as don't think I'll ever feel like that, there's always something more to aim for.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Morning all.

I'm not in a whiny mood here, just pensive. Something seems to be not quite right, and I'm wondering what other people do???

Life should be perfect right now.

I'm in a fabulous relationship with a man I am still head over heels in love with, three years on.

Financially, I'm more than comfortable.

My temporary job was just made permanent, and it's a calm, relaxing, and fun.

I have my own brand of spirituality that works for me, but doesn't fit into any of the norms.

I have a lot of friends these days for the first time in my life. We go out a lot.

So my question to you all is: what do you do to find that spark in life when life is perfect but something is still missing?

I have very few of those things - and yet I’m still intrinsically happy!

Luckily I’m just naturally a happy person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Life isn't perfect. Lots of things are missing. I'm fucked if I know how to find that spark. It's a daily challenge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfect doesn't exist

Some don't appreciate what they have, some don't.

It's pointless comparing with what anyone appears to have... It's prob a load if debt to fill their void souls.

Any mug can can get a car contract hire ob a swanky new car... Just a facade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfect does exist but sometimes it isn't the ideal you were expecting. Sometimes a little chaos is perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look at what i do have and forget what i don't. We live in a world which tells us we never have enough..we need more more more!

When in reality we probably have more than we need to begin with."

Great answer

I write down three things everyday that I’m grateful for.

Gratitude is a great thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning all.

I'm not in a whiny mood here, just pensive. Something seems to be not quite right, and I'm wondering what other people do???

Life should be perfect right now.

I'm in a fabulous relationship with a man I am still head over heels in love with, three years on.

Financially, I'm more than comfortable.

My temporary job was just made permanent, and it's a calm, relaxing, and fun.

I have my own brand of spirituality that works for me, but doesn't fit into any of the norms.

I have a lot of friends these days for the first time in my life. We go out a lot.

So my question to you all is: what do you do to find that spark in life when life is perfect but something is still missing?

Book a holiday. When lifes good it just gives you that something to look forward to. That extra wee buzz x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Can everything be found?

Sometimes just sometimes it finds you. "

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