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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 06/03/18 08:53:36]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get some folk don't reply to messages. But some people feel the need to reply just to be a rude obnoxious moron. Is there any need for it.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I get some folk don't reply to messages. But some people feel the need to reply just to be a rude obnoxious moron. Is there any need for it."

Nope

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Nope. Block. Report if you feel the need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wonderful world of fab I'm afraid Op. But no , there's really no need to vulger or rude.

The report and block button is your friend

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

It depends on your interpretation of rude.

When visible my profile states local, straight, single, tall sub men who can accommodate: no ambiguity in that. I was contacted by a married, bi, short man from miles away.

I asked why he thought I'd make an exception meeting him? He apologised for not reading the profile...then posted a thread about rude responses to messages.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I get some folk don't reply to messages. But some people feel the need to reply just to be a rude obnoxious moron. Is there any need for it."

You got a reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a small minority of very rude people on here. Just keyboard warriors

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"It depends on your interpretation of rude.

When visible my profile states local, straight, single, tall sub men who can accommodate: no ambiguity in that. I was contacted by a married, bi, short man from miles away.

I asked why he thought I'd make an exception meeting him? He apologised for not reading the profile...then posted a thread about rude responses to messages. "

It’s different to no reply threads. The ones where guys want a message, just any message rather than being ignored or deleted.

You just can’t win huh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a small minority of very rude people on here. Just keyboard warriors "

This.

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By *parky4gMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Two rules of fab

1) don’t talk about fab

2) Always read the profile

3) Do you think you have a real chance of getting a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get them from men and TVs who have obviously never read or ignored my profile...I just point this out in a nice way and it seems to work for me

Well it has so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes a caustic or sarcastic put down is the only response worth considering.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Most people would ignore or delete so I’m wondering what evoked a nasty response.

I didn’t send a nasty reply to this request, but I was tempted to tell the couple asking to meet Sir for their first black and bareback experience to fuck right off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was a polite message stating what i was looking for. I'd read there profile and it seemed to be a match as we all wanted the same.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

That may have evoked the ride response.....staying as a single guy what you are seeking to a couple.

We don't reply to these messages as to us the guy should not state what they are looking for, he would be joining us, therefore he should not lay down what he wants in a first message. In our opinion That s saying he wants to play by his rules.....nope, sorry that would warrant a no reply from us.

We have had this debate with many single guys in bars n clubs, they just don't get that to join a couple you have to be respectful to the couple, and just not be so selfish as to just think about themselves all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That may have evoked the ride response.....staying as a single guy what you are seeking to a couple.

We don't reply to these messages as to us the guy should not state what they are looking for, he would be joining us, therefore he should not lay down what he wants in a first message. In our opinion That s saying he wants to play by his rules.....nope, sorry that would warrant a no reply from us.

We have had this debate with many single guys in bars n clubs, they just don't get that to join a couple you have to be respectful to the couple, and just not be so selfish as to just think about themselves all the time. "

Maybe I'm misunderstanding but this is why I hardly ever meet couples, why shouldn't a man (or woman) state what they are looking for from a meet? I don't think that is being disrespectful to the couple or selfish.

Surely its a 3 way street? Shouldn't everyone have fun? Stating what we want enables you to tell us if its the same for you or not.

Having said that I wouldn't lay down any rules and experience tells me some people can be very pushy and rude, so I can understand why couples may be wary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get some folk don't reply to messages. But some people feel the need to reply just to be a rude obnoxious moron. Is there any need for it."

No there isn't. Report them.

Women and couples often happily admit to taking the piss out of men they reject. It's childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That may have evoked the ride response.....staying as a single guy what you are seeking to a couple.

We don't reply to these messages as to us the guy should not state what they are looking for, he would be joining us, therefore he should not lay down what he wants in a first message. In our opinion That s saying he wants to play by his rules.....nope, sorry that would warrant a no reply from us.

We have had this debate with many single guys in bars n clubs, they just don't get that to join a couple you have to be respectful to the couple, and just not be so selfish as to just think about themselves all the time. "

Are you for real??!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what your saying is us men and just here to be used as couples see fir. Now imagine if i said that about women. Id be called a sexist pig.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope there no need at less some people get replies where i do not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what your saying is us men and just here to be used as couples see fir. Now imagine if i said that about women. Id be called a sexist pig."

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"So what your saying is us men and just here to be used as couples see fir. Now imagine if i said that about women. Id be called a sexist pig."

If you quote and reply, we can be sure of who you are addressing

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"That may have evoked the ride response.....staying as a single guy what you are seeking to a couple.

We don't reply to these messages as to us the guy should not state what they are looking for, he would be joining us, therefore he should not lay down what he wants in a first message. In our opinion That s saying he wants to play by his rules.....nope, sorry that would warrant a no reply from us.

We have had this debate with many single guys in bars n clubs, they just don't get that to join a couple you have to be respectful to the couple, and just not be so selfish as to just think about themselves all the time.

Are you for real??!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That may have evoked the ride response.....staying as a single guy what you are seeking to a couple.

We don't reply to these messages as to us the guy should not state what they are looking for, he would be joining us, therefore he should not lay down what he wants in a first message. In our opinion That s saying he wants to play by his rules.....nope, sorry that would warrant a no reply from us.

We have had this debate with many single guys in bars n clubs, they just don't get that to join a couple you have to be respectful to the couple, and just not be so selfish as to just think about themselves all the time. "

seriously?

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