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By *entleHardie OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Well, most ladies on here put on their profile that they want someone to send an intelligent message....

What is an intelligent message???

Please teach xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message about string theory?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please see attached my gorgeous cock pics

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By *entleHardie OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

So how about something like...

Hi

Great profile and wonderful pictures xx

I would love to chat to you xx

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By *entleHardie OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Please see attached my gorgeous cock pics "

Lmao

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There is no magic catch all formula OP - each person has their own specific criteria as to what makes a good opening message. All you can do as the sender is be yourself, speak to people as you'd expect to be spoken to and the rest is down to whether there's an attraction and you've interested/intrigued the recipient enough for them to want to reply.

Helps of course if you have a decent profile and pics to go along with your message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how about something like...

Hi

Great profile and wonderful pictures xx

I would love to chat to you xx"

Sounds too copy and pastey! That’s the sort of message even I used to get once in a while!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, most ladies on here put on their profile that they want someone to send an intelligent message....

What is an intelligent message???

Please teach xx"

Something that someone can come up with without ‘teaching’.

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By *entleHardie OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Nice one xx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

There was a thread earlier about what kind of messages to send. Perhaps look for that, I cba to repeat myself....again.

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By *entleHardie OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"There was a thread earlier about what kind of messages to send. Perhaps look for that, I cba to repeat myself....again."

Thanks. Can’t see it. I’ve looked xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, most ladies on here put on their profile that they want someone to send an intelligent message....

What is an intelligent message???

Please teach xx"

If I read that on a profile I know there's 99.999% chance that she won't reply.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Read the profile carefully then say something that shows you read it.

Be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A perfect icebreaker is impossible,just have to hope you fall lucky with whatever you want to say,and whoever is on the other end is in the mood to read it and reply.

Ie just be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how about something like...

Hi

Great profile and wonderful pictures xx

I would love to chat to you xx"

Hi will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, most ladies on here put on their profile that they want someone to send an intelligent message....

What is an intelligent message???

Please teach xx"

I've noticed you get more replies back (even if it's a no thank you) when you talk about your self a little and talk about what they've put in there profile info rather than focusing on just the pictures of them (shows your interested in more than just there body in my opinion) and sending some face/ body pics without a dick pic unless requested but I'm probably wrong though haha

Apart from that I don't really have any other advice as sometimes not even that works and I think I've only ever had 1 reply from sending someone a message saying want too f*** (the reply was yes sure but after you go f*** yourself) haha so don't advise going down that root

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By *entleHardie OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Well, most ladies on here put on their profile that they want someone to send an intelligent message....

What is an intelligent message???

Please teach xx

I've noticed you get more replies back (even if it's a no thank you) when you talk about your self a little and talk about what they've put in there profile info rather than focusing on just the pictures of them (shows your interested in more than just there body in my opinion) and sending some face/ body pics without a dick pic unless requested but I'm probably wrong though haha

Apart from that I don't really have any other advice as sometimes not even that works and I think I've only ever had 1 reply from sending someone a message saying want too f*** (the reply was yes sure but after you go f*** yourself) haha so don't advise going down that root"

Thanks fella. Really appreciate

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By *entleHardie OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"So how about something like...

Hi

Great profile and wonderful pictures xx

I would love to chat to you xx

Hi will do. "

Thanks xx

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By *entleHardie OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Read the profile carefully then say something that shows you read it.

Be yourself.

"

Thanks so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only perfect message is the one that's sent to the right person at the right time and produces the response you wish it to.

There is no magic formula.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Means nice clean nice message more than 5 lines. As well be intelligent sexy looking and well hung in that context

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By *lean and hygienic 69Man
over a year ago

preston

I love your public pictures but I would really like to see your private pictures in time xx

looking at your intrests they seem similar to minexx

please see this as my CV

soft or full contact im happy with your rules

I know another single guy messaging you,im safe and genuine if i can verify in any way please let me know xxx

Im open minded and honest and not a weirdo ha ha lol

if you think im worthy message me i would love to talk about our interests stories and fantasies xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how about something like...

Hi

Great profile and wonderful pictures xx

I would love to chat to you xx"

Bro, why do you think you can attach items to messages?

That's for your dissertation, usually a pdf to be attached.

Tip: make sure it's formatted using LaTex then all the ladies will recognize your alpha maleness and jump on your cock.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I love your public pictures but I would really like to see your private pictures in time xx

looking at your intrests they seem similar to minexx

please see this as my CV

soft or full contact im happy with your rules

I know another single guy messaging you,im safe and genuine if i can verify in any way please let me know xxx

Im open minded and honest and not a weirdo ha ha lol

if you think im worthy message me i would love to talk about our interests stories and fantasies xxxxx

"

If that's the kind of opening message you send then I'll be brutally honest and say I'll be surprised if you get many replies!! It's not tailored in any way to the recipient, tells them nothing about you or what you're looking for/can offer and the xx's sprinkled throughout it are a little presumptuous

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By *lean and hygienic 69Man
over a year ago

preston

that messege was tailored to a profile that I read and the reply i got was wow such a nice messege

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By *lean and hygienic 69Man
over a year ago

preston

your probably right thanks for the feed back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best way to get attention is not to message at all.. just fab their pics

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