FabSwingers.com forum: Paypigs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had a few of these approach me lately. Weird trend, the financial domination thing. Where does that odd quirk come from in the male psyche, I wonder...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea. I absolutely can’t fathom it, I get the whole dom / sub scene thing but to literally give away your hard earned cash to some random exploitative person is beyond my comprehension.

At risk of offending some people here, I actually think it must be some kind of mild mental health issue - but if they get pleasure from it then, hey, who am I to judge?

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

The thought of being at work while my owner relaxes in bed with a alpha male is very arousing to me.

Recieving a message saying work hard bitch.

Then having to kneel once home with the equlivent of what ive earned and handing it over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it comes down to that they can’t get a meet any other way than to pay for it in whatever guise you call it.....I just find it kinda sad and pity guys that feel they need to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thought of being at work while my owner relaxes in bed with a alpha male is very arousing to me.

Recieving a message saying work hard bitch.

Then having to kneel once home with the equlivent of what ive earned and handing it over."

Not my idea of any kind of a relationship.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

What is a pay pig?

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

I have had quite a few of these messages.

It's against fab rules so you can report them for it but I'm kinda thinking that some of these messages are just to get some kind of a reaction from you or a reply for attention (be it negative or positive, it's attention all the same) and that they dont intend on acting on it.

It's along with offering money for sex, I don't like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is one?"

From tinterweb:

Otherwise known as financial domination, a pay pig is a submissive person (generally speaking a man) who gets sexual gratification from being financially exploited.

Being a pay pig can come in all sorts of forms. Sometimes it goes alongside other types of humiliation, with the added frission of paying the person who is inflicting it. Webcamming is also a popular form of pay pigging, with clients paying £20 or £50 on the demand of the cam performer.

More committed pay pig relationships can involve weekly or monthly direct debits or cheques, right up to allowing the dominant partner to control their entire bank account. Of course this comes with something of a risk of getting ripped off, but we can only assume that’s part of the appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’ve just deduced that I must be a

Biscuit pig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google it. Read an article a couple of yrs ago that a woman in the U.S. had written. It was mental the holidays and lifestyle she had. Some of the articles i read there was no sex involved at all.

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

"What is a pay pig? "

It a fetish/submissive thing, generally someone who likes to be treated like dirt and exploited for their money. There's alot of this on Twitter, women who will never meet them, just demand gifts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always like to wonder on their childhood for them to go this way. Abusive upbringing perhaps? It’s genuinely odd.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Well whatever rocks your world I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seen something about this on Judge Riner the other day on daytime tv

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We were just offered money to put on a sex show for a verified guy, thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thought of being at work while my owner relaxes in bed with a alpha male is very arousing to me.

Recieving a message saying work hard bitch.

Then having to kneel once home with the equlivent of what ive earned and handing it over."

Even though it’s not my ‘thing’ I can get and understand pretty much all of that right up to the very last sentence.

But I suppose I spend my hard earned on football and cake, and you spend your hard earned on those leisure activities you enjoy too, so fair do’s I guess! As long as it doesn’t become exploitative and leave you in hardship.

I can’t ever imagine any sexual thrill being worth that price!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were just offered money to put on a sex show for a verified guy, thinking about it

It’s against site rules. Report them.

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

"I always like to wonder on their childhood for them to go this way. Abusive upbringing perhaps? It’s genuinely odd. "

Whilst I don't like it I don't know if you can say that about them? Maybe they just get off on pleasing a pretty woman and making them happy? Most these men have more money than sense so maybe they can just afford to do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it’s just an extreme form of domination. Their hard earned cash being taken away from them leaving them helpless and having to ask for handouts or having to earn their cash back.

The trouble is (and this might be part of the kink) you leave yourself vulnerable where people will just completely rip you off.

And i suppose the attraction is that a lot of the women that subscribe to this kind of thing are young attractive types who lead a lifestyle that requires upkeep, and who could be deemed to be out of their league, but the cash keeps them around.

I dunno. I’m just surmising. Different strokes for different folks. But not for me, i have a hard job keeping track of my own money, let alone anyone elses!

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

The twitter thing is vile

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

"I always like to wonder on their childhood for them to go this way. Abusive upbringing perhaps? It’s genuinely odd.

Lets face it, most men have more money than sense...and they don't need much money do they. JUST KIDDING. Honest.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I spoke to one once - I don't think it was on here, POF maybe? He'd had a two year relationship with one woman and never even met her! I can't remember if it was him or another that wanted to collect me in a car to deliver me to my 'lover'..... bonkers! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DAMN... just realised I may be a pay pig to Mrs May....

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It's not allowed on this site but on others it does happen.

I do find most people who advertise themselves as paypigs are not genuine though.

It is a form of financial humiliation. They work hard for their money only to have it taken off them, maybe role-play extortion, or just literally given to someone they feel is stronger, or worthier, and will make better use of it, and deserves it more than them.

For some people it is their fetish, and although hard to explain it is just what feels right to them.

There are many more whose fetish seem to be pretending to be a paypig, rather than actually being one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve just deduced that I must be a

Biscuit pig

Tie you up, then eat your custard creams infront of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it comes down to that they can’t get a meet any other way than to pay for it in whatever guise you call it.....I just find it kinda sad and pity guys that feel they need to do it"

I doubt they actually get any kind of meet out of it ?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"It's not allowed on this site but on others it does happen.

I do find most people who advertise themselves as paypigs are not genuine though.

For some people it is their fetish, and although hard to explain it is just what feels right to them.

There are many more whose fetish seem to be pretending to be a paypig, rather than actually being one."

Indeed. By all accounts the vast majority of alleged paypigs just get off on talking about it rather than doing it.

Which I suppose is reassuring.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"It's not allowed on this site but on others it does happen.

I do find most people who advertise themselves as paypigs are not genuine though.

For some people it is their fetish, and although hard to explain it is just what feels right to them.

There are many more whose fetish seem to be pretending to be a paypig, rather than actually being one."

This.

Especially in a world where money means so much to onlookers, it's a byproduct of power and authority, to have that stripped and taken away can reach into someones psyche in a way that physical domination can't.

It opens someone up to vulnerability in a way that also undermines their 'masculinity'.

I've dabbled in financial domination but it something I like to do face to face, none of this via Twitter stuff...

To me it can be a bit like cuckoldry plus... Someone who isn't even granted the pleasures of a cuckold...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had quite a few of these messages.

It's along with offering money for sex, I don't like it. "

Not something I am personally into, but I'm honestly not surprised you've been offered money, you are stunning!!

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By *elsosreyxCouple
over a year ago

Southminster

"It's not allowed on this site but on others it does happen.

I do find most people who advertise themselves as paypigs are not genuine though.

For some people it is their fetish, and although hard to explain it is just what feels right to them.

There are many more whose fetish seem to be pretending to be a paypig, rather than actually being one."

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By *elsosreyxCouple
over a year ago

Southminster

"It's not allowed on this site but on others it does happen.

I do find most people who advertise themselves as paypigs are not genuine though.

For some people it is their fetish, and although hard to explain it is just what feels right to them.

There are many more whose fetish seem to be pretending to be a paypig, rather than actually being one.

This.

It opens someone up to vulnerability in a way that also undermines their 'masculinity'.

I've dabbled in financial domination but it something I like to do face to face, none of this via Twitter stuff...

To me it can be a bit like cuckoldry plus... Someone who isn't even granted the pleasures of a cuckold..."

totally this! The real finsubs are usually commercially powerful men!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I’ve seen a few of these women on Facebook where they have a list of things they want like designer handbags, holidays, cars etc in return for pics

whoever is buying them stuff has more money than sense!

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Kinell I'm in the wrong job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This guy on here messages me constantly Asking to hook up with him, and I've always found something off about him so I never went there, anyway he posted his twitter ages ago and he does this, it's absolutely disgusting the way he goes on, his twitter is just full of 'sissy faggot send your hard earned money to daddy, it's better with daddy then you worthless pigs' I guess if people are pathetic enough to send their money to him though after being spoken to like that then they deserve to be treat like that haha

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"What is one?

From tinterweb:

Otherwise known as financial domination, a pay pig is a submissive person (generally speaking a man) who gets sexual gratification from being financially exploited.

Weekly/monthly direct debits or cheques???? Contactless paypigs could be a good earner

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"I think it comes down to that they can’t get a meet any other way than to pay for it in whatever guise you call it.....I just find it kinda sad and pity guys that feel they need to do it

I doubt they actually get any kind of meet out of it ? "

Meets do happen as well, especially if it helps to sustain the relationship. There may be no sex though.

It can involve transferring ownership of the home, car and all assets from the pig, when done fully and the pig knows what he's fit for.

I like it, it's a clean relationship and there's no need to wash the bedding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lot of female friends that are paypigs and I still wouldn't go near them in that sort of way. I can understand that the money is extremely good, none of them come from abusive backgrounds, all of them stinking rich , but to me it's just one step away from being a hooker! But I keep that thought to myself. It's up to them what they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thought of being at work while my owner relaxes in bed with a alpha male is very arousing to me.

Recieving a message saying work hard bitch.

Then having to kneel once home with the equlivent of what ive earned and handing it over."

I’m sorry mate but I think you’re being exploited. Doesn’t sound like a healthy set up to me at all but as long as you’re happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it comes down to that they can’t get a meet any other way than to pay for it in whatever guise you call it.....I just find it kinda sad and pity guys that feel they need to do it

I doubt they actually get any kind of meet out of it ?

Meets do happen as well, especially if it helps to sustain the relationship. There may be no sex though.

It can involve transferring ownership of the home, car and all assets from the pig, when done fully and the pig knows what he's fit for.

I like it, it's a clean relationship and there's no need to wash the bedding.

even more perks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a pay pig?

It a fetish/submissive thing, generally someone who likes to be treated like dirt and exploited for their money. There's alot of this on Twitter, women who will never meet them, just demand gifts."

I've often seen on a well known fetish site woman having on their profiles with the likes of ' want to spoil me? Here's my wish list's

That type of thing

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"The thought of being at work while my owner relaxes in bed with a alpha male is very arousing to me.

Recieving a message saying work hard bitch.

Then having to kneel once home with the equlivent of what ive earned and handing it over.

I’m sorry mate but I think you’re being exploited. Doesn’t sound like a healthy set up to me at all but as long as you’re happy. "

Welcome to a relationship with a power dynamic. If something is negotiated and discussed, then agreed to (or desired) it is as far removed from exploitation as possible.

It takes a lot of work, trust and understanding to make a relationship like this work, if anything it's more healthy because of the depth of communication and support between the partners.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"The thought of being at work while my owner relaxes in bed with a alpha male is very arousing to me.

Recieving a message saying work hard bitch.

Then having to kneel once home with the equlivent of what ive earned and handing it over.

I’m sorry mate but I think you’re being exploited. Doesn’t sound like a healthy set up to me at all but as long as you’re happy.

Welcome to a relationship with a power dynamic. If something is negotiated and discussed, then agreed to (or desired) it is as far removed from exploitation as possible.

It takes a lot of work, trust and understanding to make a relationship like this work, if anything it's more healthy because of the depth of communication and support between the partners. "

It's as healthy a relationship as the people within it choose to make it. If everything is consensual, there's full openness and honesty, then each is getting what they are in the relationship for. There are many unhealthy relationships out there in the wider world that don't have any explicit element of cashpiggery within them. It's all about the people themselves and what they're wanting from their lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it personally, but what people spend their money on is their business

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"I’ve just deduced that I must be a

Biscuit pig

Tie you up, then eat your custard creams infront of you

Oi that's called mental torture you know

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

haha I thought this was going to be about PayPal having cheated you out of money, jeez I need to keep up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve just deduced that I must be a

Biscuit pig

Tie you up, then eat your custard creams infront of you

Oi that's called mental torture you know

I’m a cheesecake pig.

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