FabSwingers.com forum: Couples - Four Way Attraction

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So many couples proiles don't have pictures of the man, or maybe just a close up penis picture.

Are women expected to be left guessing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are expected to fuck the other man no matter what. That's what Swinging is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

They could also guess right

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We won't interact with profiles if I can't see the guy.

I understand that couples have many valid reasons for not showing his picture but I have many valid reasons for wanting to see what he looks like.

It's different if only the women play but I'm straight.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

This is why we have single profiles now and meet other couples at clubs/socials.

As nice couple said, we don't reply to profiles where there are no pics of the male,as I too am straight and feel like they don't care what I think.

Miss

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We would always attach our face pics with a message.

We dont have pics on here because we dont want/need that kind of attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our joint profile we have private pics of us both... and together too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are expected to fuck the other man no matter what. That's what Swinging is. "

Absolute tosh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all profiles just have all female pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to add....

A FOUR way attraction is soooo much harder than a three way attraction... dynamics between everyone can be such hard work... for women it's easy, but for the blokes it's like we all have to be a Channing Tatum lookalike and have a six pack to match.

Sorry to disappoint ladies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to add....

Sorry to disappoint ladies... "

How is it easy for women? And who is Channing Tatum?

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"So many couples proiles don't have pictures of the man, or maybe just a close up penis picture.

Are women expected to be left guessing? "

We don't have many public pics of M, but always share pics of us both when chatting and looking to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are expected to fuck the other man no matter what. That's what Swinging is.

Absolute tosh"

What other reason could it be? If women were allowed an opinion, surely couples looking for couples with bi women would have pics of both of them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are expected to fuck the other man no matter what. That's what Swinging is.

Absolute tosh

What other reason could it be? If women were allowed an opinion, surely couples looking for couples with bi women would have pics of both of them?

'If women were allowed an opinion..??' Sorry got no idea what world you're living on, certainly isn't ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to add....

Sorry to disappoint ladies...

How is it easy for women? And who is Channing Tatum?"

Really? You don't know who 'he' is??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to add....

Sorry to disappoint ladies...

How is it easy for women? And who is Channing Tatum?

Really? You don't know who 'he' is?? "

I've Googled 'him' but I'm no wiser. I don't fancy that type of man.

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

It's a pet hate of ours, people are free to run their profile how they like but it makes no sense to us at all.

We just tend to avoid those without pics of the guy unless they send them in a first message.

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By *r FirecrackerMan
over a year ago

London

"Women are expected to fuck the other man no matter what. That's what Swinging is. "

What a load of BS!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Women are expected to fuck the other man no matter what. That's what Swinging is. "

We understand where your sarcasm is coming from, so many couples completely hide the male half.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Women are expected to fuck the other man no matter what. That's what Swinging is. "

Exactly

It’s not rocket science is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep!

Just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t have many pics of mr on our profile but, I do have pics of him available if we’re looking at meeting. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are expected to fuck the other man no matter what. That's what Swinging is.

We understand where your sarcasm is coming from, so many couples completely hide the male half. "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are expected to fuck the other man no matter what. That's what Swinging is.

Exactly

It’s not rocket science is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would like to think you can see enough of both of our bodies in our public pics to work out if you want to chat. We are always happy to exchange face pics early into messaging so as not to waste anyone's time too, but won't display face pics publicly as last time we did that I bagged a stalker and there's enough odd in the world without it being on your doorstep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would like to think you can see enough of both of our bodies in our public pics to work out if you want to chat. We are always happy to exchange face pics early into messaging so as not to waste anyone's time too, but won't display face pics publicly as last time we did that I bagged a stalker and there's enough odd in the world without it being on your doorstep. "

You profile is good. It’s nice to see couples together too.

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

You profile is good. It’s nice to see couples together too.

Yours looks pretty good too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's our approach.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's a pet hate of ours, people are free to run their profile how they like but it makes no sense to us at all.

We just tend to avoid those without pics of the guy unless they send them in a first message."

Some couples seem to be taken aback if you ask for pictures of the male. It has become easier not to ask.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

This one's been done before.

In our case we're only looking for men for MFM threesomes, so absolutely no need to advertise me (hubby). Although we do share pics of us both when we get chatting to men.

Having said that, we are off to our first couples-only social soon and it's looking like our menu might be broadening. If/when we start looking for other couples we'll have to get some 'me' pics in our public gallery.

I'd better have that bath.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

We have photos of both of us on our profile

maybe that's why the lack of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a pet hate of ours, people are free to run their profile how they like but it makes no sense to us at all.

We just tend to avoid those without pics of the guy unless they send them in a first message.

Some couples seem to be taken aback if you ask for pictures of the male. It has become easier not to ask."

My very first comment on this thread was only half joking.

"The women are bi... they'll put on a show for the men... then they all pile on..." It's a cliché but seems to be expected.

Of course couples only looking for straight men for MMF wouldn't need a public pic of the guy on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This one's been done before.

In our case we're only looking for men for MFM threesomes, so absolutely no need to advertise me (hubby). Although we do share pics of us both when we get chatting to men.

I'd better have that bath."

The thread does say couples fourway. We agree that three way is a different dynamic.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"So many couples proiles don't have pictures of the man, or maybe just a close up penis picture.

Are women expected to be left guessing? "

When messaging we include face and body pics of us both.

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"It's a pet hate of ours, people are free to run their profile how they like but it makes no sense to us at all.

We just tend to avoid those without pics of the guy unless they send them in a first message.

Some couples seem to be taken aback if you ask for pictures of the male. It has become easier not to ask.

My very first comment on this thread was only half joking.

"The women are bi... they'll put on a show for the men... then they all pile on..." It's a cliché but seems to be expected.

Of course couples only looking for straight men for MMF wouldn't need a public pic of the guy on their profile. "

Loads of pics of me on our profile because we are looking for straight women and couples. I'm also a massive tart

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"It's a pet hate of ours, people are free to run their profile how they like but it makes no sense to us at all.

We just tend to avoid those without pics of the guy unless they send them in a first message.

Some couples seem to be taken aback if you ask for pictures of the male. It has become easier not to ask.

My very first comment on this thread was only half joking.

"The women are bi... they'll put on a show for the men... then they all pile on..." It's a cliché but seems to be expected.

Of course couples only looking for straight men for MMF wouldn't need a public pic of the guy on their profile.

Loads of pics of me on our profile because we are looking for straight women and couples. I'm also a massive tart

A photo tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah not a fan when the dude ain’t on show.

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