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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a single guy I have struggled to attract couples to my profile, also they seem uninterested when I start to message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single guy I have struggled to attract couples to my profile, also they seem uninterested when I start to message them. "

Firstly read their profile. We get so many single guys messaging us,saying “ your profile sounds so interesting “. - our profile says we don’t meet anyone from here we use it to keep in touch with our friends/ organise a party!! So they clearly didn’t read anything.

Your own profile is a little weak.

Do we need to know you’re a heavy cummer?

You need to sell yourself, what will you do with a couple?

so you have to think “what do they want?” And sell yourself accordingly..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single guy I have struggled to attract couples to my profile, also they seem uninterested when I start to message them.

Firstly read their profile. We get so many single guys messaging us,saying “ your profile sounds so interesting “. - our profile says we don’t meet anyone from here we use it to keep in touch with our friends/ organise a party!! So they clearly didn’t read anything.

Your own profile is a little weak.

Do we need to know you’re a heavy cummer?

You need to sell yourself, what will you do with a couple?

so you have to think “what do they want?” And sell yourself accordingly.. "

From a couples point of view, what would make my profile stronger?

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

The picture of you in the black dress in the bathroom mirror would put us off.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"As a single guy I have struggled to attract couples to my profile, also they seem uninterested when I start to message them.

Firstly read their profile. We get so many single guys messaging us,saying “ your profile sounds so interesting “. - our profile says we don’t meet anyone from here we use it to keep in touch with our friends/ organise a party!! So they clearly didn’t read anything.

Your own profile is a little weak.

Do we need to know you’re a heavy cummer?

You need to sell yourself, what will you do with a couple?

so you have to think “what do they want?” And sell yourself accordingly..

From a couples point of view, what would make my profile stronger? "

Wait ten years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The picture of you in the black dress in the bathroom mirror would put us off. "

Its a gym vest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The picture of you in the black dress in the bathroom mirror would put us off.

Its a gym vest. "
to be fair it does look like a black dress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single guy I have struggled to attract couples to my profile, also they seem uninterested when I start to message them.

Firstly read their profile. We get so many single guys messaging us,saying “ your profile sounds so interesting “. - our profile says we don’t meet anyone from here we use it to keep in touch with our friends/ organise a party!! So they clearly didn’t read anything.

Your own profile is a little weak.

Do we need to know you’re a heavy cummer?

You need to sell yourself, what will you do with a couple?

so you have to think “what do they want?” And sell yourself accordingly..

From a couples point of view, what would make my profile stronger?

Wait ten years. "

I think i'd agree with that

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Most couples on here are in the 35 - 55 age group and would consider 22 to be too young.

Not much you can do about that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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From a couples point of view, what would make my profile stronger? "

Your profile is fine.

If we were changing it we'd lose two of the penis pictures. One is enough. We'd also lose the black dress/vest picture.

Maybe the last line of your profile could be changed. Everyone expects good personal hygiene as a minimum.

Stay patient and good luck.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"The picture of you in the black dress in the bathroom mirror would put us off.

Its a gym vest. "

Omg this has me in stitches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "I'm bored" status

Do you think thats attractive and enticing?

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Your profile doesn't really give much info about you. You mention twice that you are a student which in itself would put us off (our son is a student and id hope they are not on a site like this!)

You would need to work quite hard at being mature for 22 and make that come across in your profile.

Maybe say what you are looking for and how you envisage things progressing? Do you want to meet for a social first? Will you use hotels, pay half? What about clubs? You have Le Chambre on your doorstep, would you consider meeting there?

Oh and your current status.... Only boring people get bored. Always keep it positive and upbeat, even google funny status updates if you are struggling.

Your profile is the first thing people see of you. They will make a judgement on you based on what you have bothered to write, and what you show.... one cock pic is more than enough for most, set the rest to friends only.

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By *aggie and DanCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

It is pretty funny.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"Most couples on here are in the 35 - 55 age group and would consider 22 to be too young.

Not much you can do about that.... "

This X10.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset


"The picture of you in the black dress in the bathroom mirror would put us off.

Its a gym vest.

Omg this has me in stitches "

If we see it that way, so do others, you asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking from a couple's point of view, unless a student is your kink. I'm not quite sure what your selling point is.

Also only traveling 10 miles will limit you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The picture of you in the black dress in the bathroom mirror would put us off.

Its a gym vest. to be fair it does look like a black dress "

My shorts blend in well.

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