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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Isn't that just swing talk for lazy at sex ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, yes it is.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Yes, yes it is.

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I knew it was.

100% of respondents have said so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm submissive then lol

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If two submissives meet, who makes the first move ?

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

No there not meant to be lazy or they get whipped and spanked and they should ne hard at work servicing cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When im submissive im working hard to earn my orgasm

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"If two submissives meet, who makes the first move ?"

Will let you know when something happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn I’ve been doing it wrong, I should let him do all the work x

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Damn I’ve been doing it wrong, I should let him do all the work x "

I thought that's what submissive meant. The dom has to be the imagination and the organiser and the everything really

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Damn I’ve been doing it wrong, I should let him do all the work x

I thought that's what submissive meant. The dom has to be the imagination and the organiser and the everything really

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If that's true, I'm in!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn I’ve been doing it wrong, I should let him do all the work x

I thought that's what submissive meant. The dom has to be the imagination and the organiser and the everything really

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That's basically what my relationship with my long term partner is. Every now and then he throws me a curve ball and asks me what I want. I'm so used to him doing all the thinking I come up with nothing.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Damn I’ve been doing it wrong, I should let him do all the work x

I thought that's what submissive meant. The dom has to be the imagination and the organiser and the everything really

That's basically what my relationship with my long term partner is. Every now and then he throws me a curve ball and asks me what I want. I'm so used to him doing all the thinking I come up with nothing."

What a mad crazy submissive sub you are Brain !

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I think i'm a sub.

I just don't know it yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn I’ve been doing it wrong, I should let him do all the work x

I thought that's what submissive meant. The dom has to be the imagination and the organiser and the everything really

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Yes it is to a degree, I do have my own free will outside the bedroom. But he decides what we do and when and how. But he does ask what I’d like and if I give permission to him to do what he does. It doesn’t mean I’m a doormat just that at that time I give him my submission to do what we both enjoy without me having to think about do I want to do this and that. X

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Damn I’ve been doing it wrong, I should let him do all the work x

I thought that's what submissive meant. The dom has to be the imagination and the organiser and the everything really

Yes it is to a degree, I do have my own free will outside the bedroom. But he decides what we do and when and how. But he does ask what I’d like and if I give permission to him to do what he does. It doesn’t mean I’m a doormat just that at that time I give him my submission to do what we both enjoy without me having to think about do I want to do this and that. X "

What if you are in the kitchen and he asks you to cover his cobblers with cream ? Does your outside the bedroom free will kick in ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must say when it comes to sex women are the laziest in bed.. waits for a thunderstorm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn I’ve been doing it wrong, I should let him do all the work x

I thought that's what submissive meant. The dom has to be the imagination and the organiser and the everything really

Yes it is to a degree, I do have my own free will outside the bedroom. But he decides what we do and when and how. But he does ask what I’d like and if I give permission to him to do what he does. It doesn’t mean I’m a doormat just that at that time I give him my submission to do what we both enjoy without me having to think about do I want to do this and that. X

What if you are in the kitchen and he asks you to cover his cobblers with cream ? Does your outside the bedroom free will kick in ?"

If it’s not appropriate to the time and setting then yes I can say no at any time. But if we have the house to ourselves and we both want to then I get the cream and start licking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sheer naivety about the roles of S/D there OP!

Subs are not lazy! We work hard to please our doms and enjoying doing so. And ultimately us subs are in charge so without us there are no Dom’s. And being a sub isn’t just about getting spanked and/or whipped etc. There’s a much greater connection than that. I think if you had a better understanding you’d realise that a session between S/D is actually very intense, satisfying and respectable and normally exhausting!

Rant over, apologies for any offence caused by what I’ve put x

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

So really, the sub is the dom ?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Oh right it all makes sense now I'm submissive,is that the official word for lazy?

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Oh right it all makes sense now I'm submissive,is that the official word for lazy?"

It's not official as such..... yet.

This is just the first leg of the naive lazy lady movement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's me fecked then

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Oh right it all makes sense now I'm submissive,is that the official word for lazy?

It's not official as such..... yet.

This is just the first leg of the naive lazy lady movement."

Let me know when it's official then I can stop calling myself lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So really, the sub is the dom ?"

Not in my case.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Isn't that just swing talk for lazy at sex ?"

Amen to that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've worked with some excellent subs in my time then

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"So really, the sub is the dom ?"
in the true bdsm world .the sub tends to be the one in control .if you are happy letting someone loose on you .you are not a true sub just someone who likes being abused ....big difference

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

I'm 100% sub I've been into bdsm over 30 years

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"If two submissives meet, who makes the first move ?"

The one that’s not snoring ??

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I'm 100% sub I've been into bdsm over 30 years "

30 years in control of doms.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

The best way forward is to get involved properly in the fetish/bdsm scene . you can learn a lot that way

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"I'm 100% sub I've been into bdsm over 30 years

30 years in control of doms. "
and why not

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I'm 100% sub I've been into bdsm over 30 years

30 years in control of doms. and why not "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 100% sub I've been into bdsm over 30 years

30 years in control of doms. and why not

Exactly "

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