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Do dominate woman still exist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So been on and off fab for a few years now and lately Ive been interested in dominate woman.

I am very much into bdsm play and Ive pretty much always been the dom which is great and I am very confidante in being the dom but I would really like to start being a sub.

Are there any out there on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Definitely yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep...women just tend to have a little more tact tho and don't call themselves "Mrs Grey"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha I dont think I would be interested if they did call themselves Mrs grey.

Terrible films

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im just not getting anywhere with this. Everytime I speak to someone they always want to be the sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha I dont think I would be interested if they did call themselves Mrs grey.

Terrible films"

That's what most of us think about "Mr Grey" yet there's a fuck tonne on site lol

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Yes we exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Of course there are dominant women on the site..

Be patient, they will show as you become clearer on what you want..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I must be doing something wrong then or there are just not that many around where I live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be doing something wrong then or there are just not that many around where I live "

Perhaps you need to be on a more specialist site?

Or go to clubs?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would say most of the females I know on here are dominant

They are not afraid of saying what they do or don’t want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No doubt they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty. But there are also men who say they are submissive yet persistently try to top from the bottom. It gets on your nerves after a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have looked into over sites but they are either pay a ridiculous monthly subscription or pay for them. Im not really interested in either I would really like a natural d/s relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love this post

I think dominant woman are the most sexiest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love this post

I think dominant woman are the most sexiest"

In fact if any want to dominate me please message me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks ladyq I do to just finding them seems to be a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im glad if im after sub men i know where to find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im glad if im after sub men i know where to find them"

Here x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sweetchick32 from your profile you look like what im looking for. Your pictures are fab

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I would say most of the females I know on here are dominant

They are not afraid of saying what they do or don’t want "

Yes also they have the veto and final decision-making power - just as they do in marriage and relationships.

Not against this in fact I welcome it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im glad if im after sub men i know where to find them

Here x"

No on a site that caters for it

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I have looked into over sites but they are either pay a ridiculous monthly subscription or pay for them. Im not really interested in either I would really like a natural d/s relationship."

OP there are other non-pay sites that cater to those interested in BDSM one quite well known one too - site rules prevent it being named here but a bit of Googling should find it for you.

The thing you need to remember about this site is you are already in a majority as a single man so your options are already limited so by having further very specific requirements you're limiting those chances of meeting someone that matches what you're looking for even further.

You'd be better off looking at other sites or searching for local munches (socials in the BDSM world) where you can meet likeminded people.

That said there ARE ladies here who are Dommes and looking for sub males - is just a question of finding them and then appealing to them via your profile and pics and any messages you may send

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks. I have done a lot of googling for this and never come across a site thats free and as easy to use as fab.

There is a really popular site but its not used for meeting.

My local munch which I went to once but since then they started running it on a sunday which I can not do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just not getting anywhere with this. Everytime I speak to someone they always want to be the sub"

So you are not taking hints form these posts? Probably if you said dominant on your profile, not dominate and fixed a few other spelling & grammar mistakes you would attract a better class of lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks. I have done a lot of googling for this and never come across a site thats free and as easy to use as fab.

There is a really popular site but its not used for meeting.

My local munch which I went to once but since then they started running it on a sunday which I can not do."

My God I just read this on your profile

"I am also intrested in meeting a tv/ ts but only hot sexy ones. Im not intrested in any that are older than 45 simple because they just look like a man in womans clothes. I want to meet and play with the real deal." You are such an ignorant human being, sorry existing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats wrong with that. If I want to meet a tv/ts I will only go for one thats made the effort in looking like a woman not a man in a skirt with hairy legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks. I have done a lot of googling for this and never come across a site thats free and as easy to use as fab.

There is a really popular site but its not used for meeting.

My local munch which I went to once but since then they started running it on a sunday which I can not do.

My God I just read this on your profile

"I am also intrested in meeting a tv/ ts but only hot sexy ones. Im not intrested in any that are older than 45 simple because they just look like a man in womans clothes. I want to meet and play with the real deal." You are such an ignorant human being, sorry existing."

He did not ask for profile advice s

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you I did think that was a bit uncalled for. There is no need to put whats on my profile on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of dominant women here but if you're looking for a true Domme to use you as a sex toy you may be disappointed. As a Domme I never Offer sex, in fact unless i was in a particularly good mood you wouldn't even be allowed to cum. Of course I only speak personally and there may be some ladies out there who'll indulge you.

I do not use this site for BDSM meets though

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By *ustanhonestblokeMan
over a year ago

northampton

I have a fantastic Mistress.

It's a cf/nm relationship.

We have been together over 2 years and every day I appreciate how lucky I am. Most men want a dominant woman just to take control in the bedroom.

As Mistress Haze's sub I can tell you i turn my back when she gets changed. Trust and respect are paramount. Good luck in your search but be more open about what you really want.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"So been on and off fab for a few years now and lately Ive been interested in dominate woman.

I am very much into bdsm play and Ive pretty much always been the dom which is great and I am very confidante in being the dom but I would really like to start being a sub.

Are there any out there on fab"

What a shame Southampton is so far away, or I'd happily have you naked and on you knees.

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By *iss sarahWoman
over a year ago

Dumfries and galloway

We do exist but the amount of crap we have to put up with on here off pretentdy wannabe subs who just want a go ! All this yes mistress crap and you read their profile and there's no indication of been a sub just looking for a wet hole

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well im not just looking for a wet hole im looking to learn to be a proper sub. I have been a dom for years and know what it takes to be a sub. I just need to find me a dom

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By *tevie1Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I think they are an endangered species in Middlesbrough!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"So been on and off fab for a few years now and lately Ive been interested in dominate woman.

I am very much into bdsm play and Ive pretty much always been the dom which is great and I am very confidante in being the dom but I would really like to start being a sub.

Are there any out there on fab"

Waves I'm just up the road from you. Look at our pictures, you will see 2 pics of me in full Domme mode. I CANNOT be Dommed. I am a full BDSM Domme, not a 50 shades pretender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do indeed.. just up the road too!

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By *tevie1Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I think I must live ina Domme wilderness

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By *rankyJAYMan
over a year ago

jarrow

Every mans wife is dominant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit bossy ….

does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every mans wife is dominant "
. So so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be dominant or sub, I like both. X

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