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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your views

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Mostly.

I always ask if a person is attached, whether they state they can accommodate or not. I've met and spoken to a fair few that have said they can accommodate, and do, who are attached and playing without their partner's knowledge.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I hope not, we can't accommodate.

Cal

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

No. We can't accommodate as we have kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only men

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"No. We can't accommodate as we have kids."

Same here

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

That might equally apply to singles who have kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Only men"

Ah! Snap! You beat me!

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


" Only men"

And if they're men who have custody of the kids?

You need to understand things aren't as black and white as you like to think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Only men

And if they're men who have custody of the kids?

You need to understand things aren't as black and white as you like to think."

I understand perfectly.

I was pointing out a forum double standard. If you've ever read any threads, it's always men that can't accommodate that are branded cheats. It seems irrelevant if women can't accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who you ask. I don't have that mindset. It would be a bit hypocritical of me to think that way, given I'm single, yet can't acommodate .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Just the single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Men are branded as cheaters, women are praised for being concerned for their safety.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


" Only men

And if they're men who have custody of the kids?

You need to understand things aren't as black and white as you like to think.

I understand perfectly.

I was pointing out a forum double standard. If you've ever read any threads, it's always men that can't accommodate that are branded cheats. It seems irrelevant if women can't accommodate"

Thats due to men not giving a dame if a women is married.

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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago

Lordswood


"Men are branded as cheaters, women are praised for being concerned for their safety."

kinda catch-22 re safety tho, going to an unknowns place?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No but it does make me more wary of the fact they may be cheating.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I'm cheating, and so is my wife!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Men are branded as cheaters, women are praised for being concerned for their safety.

kinda catch-22 re safety tho, going to an unknowns place?"

If I was single I wouldn't have a stranger I just met in my home and I wouldn't go to theirs even if I was a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re small minded then yes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Only men"

Haha.... about right.... or that's what women think

I've known single women that don't accommodate ..... they have kids and don't want men in the house.... fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site really fucked up with the wording of certain things on here.

It should say don’t want to accommodate rather than cannot accommodate, and the same with travel.

It’s everyones individual choice as to whether they want to invite random strangers from the internet to their homes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have cats..... and they say i can accommodate

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Yeah we are! I cheat on my imaginary husband all the time...i even cuckold him by having them lay on his imaginary body on his imaginary side of the bed

In my experience yes, the men who cant accom are cheating with the exception of those who are mummys boys still living with their parents, or those who have no job and have to live in a shared DSS house with 20 other single blokes who have made a total cock of their lives.

Single Dads who actually give a shit and see their kids excepted

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I technically can accomodate, but I don't because I don't want any of you twats coming round my gaff.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I technically can accomodate, but I don't because I don't want any of you twats coming round my gaff. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your views "

yes when your a single male

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I technically can accomodate, but I don't because I don't want any of you twats coming round my gaff. "

Sound judgment

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We can but won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah we are! I cheat on my imaginary husband all the time...i even cuckold him by having them lay on his imaginary body on his imaginary side of the bed

In my experience yes, the men who cant accom are cheating with the exception of those who are mummys boys still living with their parents, or those who have no job and have to live in a shared DSS house with 20 other single blokes who have made a total cock of their lives.

Single Dads who actually give a shit and see their kids excepted "

How about a couple who are getting married and living in a shared house to save a bit of money so we can have a good day while saving a deposit for a house?

Ads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't accommodate because I'm lodging. Even if my landlord and landlady weren't prudish I'd still respect the fact I'm living in their house and also even if all that wasn't an issue. There's bunk beds on the other side of the room for when my kids come to stay....doesn't exactly give off a sexy vibe does it?

I'm curious though if I'd get more interest if I was able to accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I technically can accomodate, but I don't because I don't want any of you twats coming round my gaff.

Sound judgment "

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I can't accommodate because I'm lodging. Even if my landlord and landlady weren't prudish I'd still respect the fact I'm living in their house and also even if all that wasn't an issue. There's bunk beds on the other side of the room for when my kids come to stay....doesn't exactly give off a sexy vibe does it?

I'm curious though if I'd get more interest if I was able to accommodate.

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Just change it and see. Just because it says you can doesn't mean you have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your views

yes when your a single male which in the long run is unfair"

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I technically can accomodate, but I don't because I don't want any of you twats coming round my gaff. "

We ain’t twats, let us round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could but have custody of my kids and don't want to start explaining everything to them just yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't accommodate because I'm lodging. Even if my landlord and landlady weren't prudish I'd still respect the fact I'm living in their house and also even if all that wasn't an issue. There's bunk beds on the other side of the room for when my kids come to stay....doesn't exactly give off a sexy vibe does it?

I'm curious though if I'd get more interest if I was able to accommodate.

Just change it and see. Just because it says you can doesn't mean you have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't and won't as I have a Tennant. We have an agreement not to bring anyone overnight. I've a daughter who also often calls by and has a key. That said I won't meet anyone who can't accommodate and that's because hotels just become not economical for regular repeats meets which is what I look for in someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im single but dont accom, I have my reasons. Once trust is built up, ill offer it.

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By *upcake99Woman
over a year ago

South Wales.


"No. We can't accommodate as we have kids."

I can't either due to kids... and I'm single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can’t accommodate but i do explain why if people do read my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site really fucked up with the wording of certain things on here.

It should say don’t want to accommodate rather than cannot accommodate, and the same with travel.

It’s everyones individual choice as to whether they want to invite random strangers from the internet to their homes."

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Probably. Personally I would not have some random off a sex site inside my home. Really don't care what others think the reasons are for.

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By *witch4Fun24Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Neither of us can accommodate, Princess has children and I am very picky about who comes into my flat. It is my space away from the world and I don't want random strangers in it. My family don't even come over without an invitation.

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London


" Only men

And if they're men who have custody of the kids?

You need to understand things aren't as black and white as you like to think.

I understand perfectly.

I was pointing out a forum double standard. If you've ever read any threads, it's always men that can't accommodate that are branded cheats. It seems irrelevant if women can't accommodate

Thats due to men not giving a dame if a women is married.

"

Well some men do give a dame, friends who know me, can vouch that if a woman finds herself in a relationship on or off the scene, I do not play with them unless there new partner knows.

So yes there are some of us who do give a dame.

And yes, I also dont accommodate, so that makes me one of them

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I don't brand anyone, but I will ask why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I CAN accommodate, I just prefer not to. My elderly (very religious ) landlady lives in the flat below me and hears every little thing that goes on in my flat bit of a passion killer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Only men

And if they're men who have custody of the kids?

You need to understand things aren't as black and white as you like to think."

No-one said there had to be thinking....

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By *expuss2015Woman
over a year ago

Planet Sex

I’m single and can’t accomodate as have kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can...... but that doesn’t mean I will....so many factors to consider first....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not at all

everyone has there reasons why they can't/don't accomodate the same as though that have there reasons for not travelling

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Your views "

Only the men. Women who can't accommodate are merely protecting their safety. Men are not allowed to do that.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Not all men who say they can't/won't accommodate secretly have a partner at home, but many will.

Women are less likely to be on that position as

1. They are more likely to have custody of children. I believe. 90% of single parents are women

2. Women have more reason to be worried about safety. Very few women will be able to fight off a man who turns violent, very few men won't be able to fight off a violent woman

3. Women are more likely to be honest about an unknowing party as they will still get lots of men willing to fuck them.

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By *ibertine_mindsCouple
over a year ago

Staffs/ Derbys/ Peak District

We prefer visiting other couples, it adds to the dynamic of the meeting with our relationship being D/s. We also prefer to meet away from where we live for a number of genuine reasons. This has never been a problem as some couples enjoy ‘entertaining’ have more suitable accommodation.

We could just about accommodate and have quite a range of equipment that would be fun and of interest to others, but currently we don’t have the space as we are between houses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can’t accommodate as we have adult children at home, x

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I wouldn't go to a man's house even if they could accommodate! but I do ask why they can't accommodate, as I don't want to meet guys cheating on their partners.

As a single lady a while ago, I would sometimes invite guys I had met previously back to my house, but after one dick head turned up, uninvited one Sunday lunchtime, when my children were at home, I decided accommodating even if I trusted them, was no longer an option.

Club meets suit me better !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say I can accommodate on my profile as technically I can, but 99% of the time I choose not to.

I live with family who I help care for and it's their home, I'm just lodging. Bringing randoms in would be disrespectful as well as awkward.

There's also the safety aspect, as a man not physical so much but there are some right nut jobs around and I don't want to risk one knowing where I live and the shit that could bring to my family.

There does also seem to be a presumption by some that if a guy can't accommodate he will expect the woman to. I've never felt that way, it's what hotels are for isn't it?

Tbh I'm glad I don't meet many new people anymore, saves me giving a shit.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

When I first moved to Leeds for work I had to live in a shared apartment with a colleague and there was no way in hell was I going to explain my relationship dynamic or the stream of visitors to them so I never accommodated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. You have students like me that will only accommodate to certain people due to living arrangements, people with kids and other obstacles. Don't assume that someone is always cheating. And even if they are. Its their choice amd your choice to turn them down.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I wouldn't go to a man's house even if they could accommodate! but I do ask why they can't accommodate, as I don't want to meet guys cheating on their partners.

As a single lady a while ago, I would sometimes invite guys I had met previously back to my house, but after one dick head turned up, uninvited one Sunday lunchtime, when my children were at home, I decided accommodating even if I trusted them, was no longer an option.

Club meets suit me better ! "

Yeah that happened to me as well only thankfully I was out shopping with my children at the time. He texted to say I just turned up at yours but you're out

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle


"I wouldn't go to a man's house even if they could accommodate! but I do ask why they can't accommodate, as I don't want to meet guys cheating on their partners.

As a single lady a while ago, I would sometimes invite guys I had met previously back to my house, but after one dick head turned up, uninvited one Sunday lunchtime, when my children were at home, I decided accommodating even if I trusted them, was no longer an option.

Club meets suit me better !

Yeah that happened to me as well only thankfully I was out shopping with my children at the time. He texted to say I just turned up at yours but you're out "

That's why I NEVER meet in my home town area, only while I'm working.

I've been followed round shopping centres twice by a meet and 1 turned up outside my (secure) building

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


" Only men

And if they're men who have custody of the kids?

You need to understand things aren't as black and white as you like to think.

I understand perfectly.

I was pointing out a forum double standard. If you've ever read any threads, it's always men that can't accommodate that are branded cheats. It seems irrelevant if women can't accommodate"

I'm in that boat. Or at least can rarely accommodate due to the kids. But you can fully understand the assumption based on (granted perceived) figures. When you look at the volumes of cheating men on hear v the small number of men who have full custody of children one could at least say there's a fail likelyness the can't accomadte = cheating. Clearly this is not always the case. I think what is important is if your intrested is to take the time to ask and get to know a bit about the person in question. That's why I'm always open when asked questions about my family life and home situation. I have nothing to hide. I think most people get the feel for if someone is genuine or lying after a chat or social meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this doesn't seem fair for single men. I can not accom and thats not because I am cheating its simple because I live in a not very well built flat with walls so thin you can here what eveyone else who lives there are doing. I find hotle meets are best to solve this.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" Only men

And if they're men who have custody of the kids?

You need to understand things aren't as black and white as you like to think.

I understand perfectly.

I was pointing out a forum double standard. If you've ever read any threads, it's always men that can't accommodate that are branded cheats. It seems irrelevant if women can't accommodate

Thats due to men not giving a dame if a women is married.

"

Exactly. A lot of men will fuck anyone when horny. I tried to organise a meet with a married woman. But there were too many hoops to jump through, what with when he would be going out, or what excuses could be made for an evening away etc etc. Just not worth the hassle. A single man may have gone for it I'm sure. And many have.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks


"Yeah we are! I cheat on my imaginary husband all the time...i even cuckold him by having them lay on his imaginary body on his imaginary side of the bed

In my experience yes, the men who cant accom are cheating with the exception of those who are mummys boys still living with their parents, or those who have no job and have to live in a shared DSS house with 20 other single blokes who have made a total cock of their lives.

Single Dads who actually give a shit and see their kids excepted

How about a couple who are getting married and living in a shared house to save a bit of money so we can have a good day while saving a deposit for a house?

Ads"

Ads/Geeky - you talk openly about your situation and come as a package so its transparent to anyone you interact with.

Its those who hide and blatently lie to cover the fact that they are attached. When they suggest car meets or motorhomes or outdoors i just think fuck me in a bed like a normal person!

Also, as someone else touched on above, its just not practical or financially viable to regularly meet someone in hotels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah we are! I cheat on my imaginary husband all the time...i even cuckold him by having them lay on his imaginary body on his imaginary side of the bed

In my experience yes, the men who cant accom are cheating with the exception of those who are mummys boys still living with their parents, or those who have no job and have to live in a shared DSS house with 20 other single blokes who have made a total cock of their lives.

Single Dads who actually give a shit and see their kids excepted "

I live with parents, I'm not a mummies boy. I have a totally valid reason for doing so, I would rather not have to but the situation my parents find themselves in means it's the best option. Please try to be a little more kind with your words.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford


"In my experience yes, the men who cant accom are cheating with the exception of those who are mummys boys still living with their parents, or those who have no job and have to live in a shared DSS house with 20 other single blokes who have made a total cock of their lives.

Single Dads who actually give a shit and see their kids excepted "

sorry to disagree but why label all single men like that,due to your experience.

it dosnt mean that the single men have made a total fool of there lives, other factors could be involved that your not aware of and yet you label them

im single and couldnt accommodate due to being a single parent and yet I wasnt going to introduce different ladies to my children

some ladies do cheat on here but men are the only ones that get labeled as cheating

what about the men that get harassed intimidated by the ladies dont men deserve the right to have safety for themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because locally there are a lot of navy lads on fab who live on the base. But most of them are arseholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah we are! I cheat on my imaginary husband all the time...i even cuckold him by having them lay on his imaginary body on his imaginary side of the bed

In my experience yes, the men who cant accom are cheating with the exception of those who are mummys boys still living with their parents, or those who have no job and have to live in a shared DSS house with 20 other single blokes who have made a total cock of their lives.

Single Dads who actually give a shit and see their kids excepted

I live with parents, I'm not a mummies boy. I have a totally valid reason for doing so, I would rather not have to but the situation my parents find themselves in means it's the best option. Please try to be a little more kind with your words."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. We can't accommodate as we have kids."
am the same. I have a son at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a young teenage son at home with me and that’s why I won’t accomadate as I refuse to take fab home with me regarding meets etc as seeing different strange woman in and out the house would not be good what so ever.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks


"In my experience yes, the men who cant accom are cheating with the exception of those who are mummys boys still living with their parents, or those who have no job and have to live in a shared DSS house with 20 other single blokes who have made a total cock of their lives.

Single Dads who actually give a shit and see their kids excepted

sorry to disagree but why label all single men like that,due to your experience.

it dosnt mean that the single men have made a total fool of there lives, other factors could be involved that your not aware of and yet you label them

im single and couldnt accommodate due to being a single parent and yet I wasnt going to introduce different ladies to my children

some ladies do cheat on here but men are the only ones that get labeled as cheating

what about the men that get harassed intimidated by the ladies dont men deserve the right to have safety for themselves "

Because those are the situations i have encountered and they have shaped my fab experience.

Many of the men i have chatted with over the years are found to be in those situations because they have been a arsehole and a cheat and their wives have taken them for everything and theyve ended up with nothing.

Ive also encountered and invested time in several men who have become regular fbs who have eventually turned out to be married/attached and had deceived me into thinking they were single. That really fucks with your head somewhat and shapes your opinion, so its better for my own mental protection to assume the worst and if the best happens then great. Its a form of self preservation.

My OP did start with "in my experience" and i cant change my history, however meeting men who accom now to ensure they arent lying is within my control.

My intention was not to label all men as cheats, and i really dont think i that i did, but my apologies to those it offended. I was merely giving my view based on my own experiences.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Your views "

Yes they are and it’s not always the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually yes.

The irony is that we can both accomodate, but we're both also cheaters and make no secret of it on here...

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I must be cheating..... although I've no idea on who??

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Usually i cant accom because of a housemate, but i do get the whole cheat abuse a fair amount even though im single but dont want to make my friend feel uncomfortable

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I think a one line explanation about why people prefer not to meet people at their home would help the situation. Then people won't jump to their own conclusions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a one line explanation about why people prefer not to meet people at their home would help the situation. Then people won't jump to their own conclusions. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accomodate - so I don't meet people that can't accomodate either.

I give zero fucks whether people think I'm attatched or not

Obviously the men that can't accomodate are cheaters though

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think a one line explanation about why people prefer not to meet people at their home would help the situation. Then people won't jump to their own conclusions. "
to a certain extent yes but i have it on my profule but still get the grief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your views "

YES!! ya cheating bar steward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a serious note... there are couples who can't accommodate, so how would that be construed as cheating

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

It would be great to beable to take things on face value but alas unfortunately there's normally a hidden agenda... you can cheat/lie in any ways on here.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


" Only men

And if they're men who have custody of the kids?

You need to understand things aren't as black and white as you like to think.

I understand perfectly.

I was pointing out a forum double standard. If you've ever read any threads, it's always men that can't accommodate that are branded cheats. It seems irrelevant if women can't accommodate"

Spot on. Singles guys seem to get a particularly bad rap with this one x

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