FabSwingers.com forum: Private Notes about YOU!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Imagine there was a technical glitch on the site or it was hacked so that you could read the private notes people had made about you, or the private notes you had made about them.

Would you look?

If so, what do you imagine people have said about you (either good or bad!) and would people be shocked either positively or negatively about what you’ve written about them?

On this profile I haven’t made any private notes yet, but when I was here before I used it occasionally to note the real names etc of people I was friendly with. I’m quite sure I’m not on the radar of anyone sufficiently to warrant any notes about myself (unless it’s hate mail!

), but what about you?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

What other people think about me is their business.

I’m not interested in reading whatever someone here wrote about me (if anything) unless of course it’s how fabulous I am.

I can count on one hand the people who actually know me.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I dont use the notes... the new mailbox holds all past conversation and i cant be ased making notes from what folk say in forums.

I would be very surprised if anyone had any notes on us... we are not forum famous and dont do anything outstanding or noteworthy

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I've never used the private notes thing and I can't believe anyone would be bothered writing anything about me.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'd worry none of it is GDPR compliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly, I think I’d look and I can imagine I’d be a little hurt. But it’s likely that people tend to use the notes to remind themselves re the things they are not so keen on about someone - hence you’re likely to find the “bad”. And whilst it’s just someone’s opinion, it’s their truth of you and no more right or wrong than your truth.

It’d be a good self flagellation session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never used the private notes thing and I can't believe anyone would be bothered writing anything about me."
i have and its not good im afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you were here before...ffs what was your name Dan?

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

Ha, of course I’d look

what would I find out about myself, no feckin idea

I don’t use the notes on our profile so can’t share but I would if I did

Mrs blue eyes

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

No, I’m not interested. Not sure I’m prominent enough for anyone to form any real opinion, I think I likely fade in with the masses.

I started using it to register people’s names and now I just make a note if anyone particularly behaving like an arse on the forum. Some consistently behave like an arse so no note necessary

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sadly, I think I’d look and I can imagine I’d be a little hurt. But it’s likely that people tend to use the notes to remind themselves re the things they are not so keen on about someone - hence you’re likely to find the “bad”. And whilst it’s just someone’s opinion, it’s their truth of you and no more right or wrong than your truth.

It’d be a good self flagellation session.

I think you’re right, when I was here on the rare occasions I made a note about anything other than a real name or someone’s birthday etc, it was only to record something negative if someone had been particularly vile!

The thousands of positive transactions I had with people were rarely noteworthy! Human nature I guess!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It’d be a good self flagellation session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use that tool. I wouldn't read them. I'm guessing it's used as a tool for negative, so I'd rather not know to be honest. Only a select few truly know me from here. Their opinion is the only one that counts and I would hope I'm not in their private notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine would probably say . ffs you still on here ? im suprised you can still get it up

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'd worry none of it is GDPR compliant.

This made me chuckle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I’m not interested. Not sure I’m prominent enough for anyone to form any real opinion, I think I likely fade in with the masses.

I started using it to register people’s names and now I just make a note if anyone particularly behaving like an arse on the forum. Some consistently behave like an arse so no note necessary

Oh shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id look which I think most would, what would I find? God only knows haha wouldn't be much bad though, I'm lovely haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always used the notes doodar - very funny to read some back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never used the notes function, and I don’t know if I’d like to read what people say about me. I’m not sure all of it is complimentary x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I've never used the private notes thing and I can't believe anyone would be bothered writing anything about me. i have and its not good im afraid

Excellent I do hope it's really really bad

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Id think it would mostly be like

"Winked me"

"fabbed me"

"Didn't like face pic"

"Didn't like what they wrote here.."

"didn't like pic".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What you were here before...ffs what was your name Dan? "

I was previously here as ToyBoyRoy (catfishing as a 21 year old), briefly returning as KoiBoi, until I realised the term ‘Boi’ was what was causing all that interest from fellas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good tool to use before blocking someone...so you remember what the feck you blocked em for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What you were here before...ffs what was your name Dan?

I was previously here as ToyBoyRoy (catfishing as a 21 year old), briefly returning as KoiBoi, until I realised the term ‘Boi’ was what was causing all that interest from fellas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never used the private notes thing and I can't believe anyone would be bothered writing anything about me. i have and its not good im afraid

Excellent I do hope it's really really bad

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obviously

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"No, I’m not interested. Not sure I’m prominent enough for anyone to form any real opinion, I think I likely fade in with the masses.

I started using it to register people’s names and now I just make a note if anyone particularly behaving like an arse on the forum. Some consistently behave like an arse so no note necessary

Oh shit

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"What you were here before...ffs what was your name Dan? "

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Imagine there was a technical glitch on the site or it was hacked so that you could read the private notes people had made about you, or the private notes you had made about them.

Would you look?

If so, what do you imagine people have said about you (either good or bad!) and would people be shocked either positively or negatively about what you’ve written about them?

), but what about you?

I use notes for all sorts of things

Previous usernames being one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only use private notes with people who I've messaged with a view towards meeting (so, not really people on the forums). And even those I stopped doing over a year ago.

And I'd probably only look at what a few people have written about me if I could. There aren't many people whose opinions I'd want to know, even less whose opinions I'd care about

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I've never used the private notes thing and I can't believe anyone would be bothered writing anything about me. i have and its not good im afraid

Excellent I do hope it's really really bad

obviously

Thankyou

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"No, I’m not interested. Not sure I’m prominent enough for anyone to form any real opinion, I think I likely fade in with the masses.

I started using it to register people’s names and now I just make a note if anyone particularly behaving like an arse on the forum. Some consistently behave like an arse so no note necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never used the private notes thing and I can't believe anyone would be bothered writing anything about me. i have and its not good im afraid

Excellent I do hope it's really really bad

obviously

Thankyou

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yer would not thank me if yer saw em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine there was a technical glitch on the site or it was hacked so that you could read the private notes people had made about you, or the private notes you had made about them.

Would you look?

If so, what do you imagine people have said about you (either good or bad!) and would people be shocked either positively or negatively about what you’ve written about them?

), but what about you?

I use notes for all sorts of things

Previous usernames being one "

That's actually a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only used the private notes once to put a note on a profile I kept looking at but when I read through it they weren't my type, otherwise I just keep message threads

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I've never used the private notes thing and I can't believe anyone would be bothered writing anything about me. i have and its not good im afraid

Excellent I do hope it's really really bad

obviously

Thankyou

yer would not thank me if yer saw em

I would,I love it when people hate me

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"It's a good tool to use before blocking someone...so you remember what the feck you blocked em for

I know I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never used the private notes thing and I can't believe anyone would be bothered writing anything about me. i have and its not good im afraid

Excellent I do hope it's really really bad

obviously

Thankyou

yer would not thank me if yer saw em

I would,I love it when people hate me

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lol

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Imagine there was a technical glitch on the site or it was hacked so that you could read the private notes people had made about you, or the private notes you had made about them.

Would you look?

If so, what do you imagine people have said about you (either good or bad!) and would people be shocked either positively or negatively about what you’ve written about them?

), but what about you?

I use notes for all sorts of things

Previous usernames being one "

The constant changing of usernames confuses the hell out of me

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

[Removed by poster at 03/03/18 21:33:38]

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Imagine there was a technical glitch on the site or it was hacked so that you could read the private notes people had made about you, or the private notes you had made about them.

Would you look?

If so, what do you imagine people have said about you (either good or bad!) and would people be shocked either positively or negatively about what you’ve written about them?

), but what about you?

I use notes for all sorts of things

Previous usernames being one

That's actually a good idea

Haha I occasionally have the odd one

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I Use the Box to add repeat messages with the date.

Randomly sent c&p from them on a regular basis. It is quite hilarious to see men are so shallow they say the same old thing to every one.

Just find it helpful tho I dont say nasty things.

User names help me whe so many change except we the blighters actually go UNLOS

I imagine I would be thought a grumpy person, been told that often enough once you say no thanks.

I wouldnt look more than likely,not too bothered what they think

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I Use the Box to add repeat messages with the date.

Randomly sent c&p from them on a regular basis. It is quite hilarious to see men are so shallow they say the same old thing to every one.

Just find it helpful tho I dont say nasty things.

User names help me whe so many change except we the blighters actually go UNLOS

I imagine I would be thought a grumpy person, been told that often enough once you say no thanks.

I wouldnt look more than likely,not too bothered what they think"

I use it for this too and it really does make me chuckle when 12 months after being horribly rude they come back and want in my pants. I tend to have a bit of fun with that.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

"It's a good tool to use before blocking someone...so you remember what the feck you blocked em for

I wish I remembered to do this ... I forget it's there most of the time and do occasionally wonder why I've blocked someone.

I honestly don't imagine many, if any, people know me well enough on here to bother making notes and, hopefully, I've not offended anyone badly enough for them to want to either. So even if I could, I don't expect there'd be anything for me to read.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I Use the Box to add repeat messages with the date.

Randomly sent c&p from them on a regular basis. It is quite hilarious to see men are so shallow they say the same old thing to every one.

Just find it helpful tho I dont say nasty things.

User names help me whe so many change except we the blighters actually go UNLOS

I imagine I would be thought a grumpy person, been told that often enough once you say no thanks.

I wouldnt look more than likely,not too bothered what they think

I use it for this too and it really does make me chuckle when 12 months after being horribly rude they come back and want in my pants. I tend to have a bit of fun with that.

Haha snap !!! I rarely block mainly because I like to toy with them cat and mouse when they message again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never used them in all honesty.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I can imagine what they would say and no, I wouldn't look.

Years ago a guy asked everyone in our friendship group if they wanted to know what he thought of them, I was the only one who said no. I didn't really care what people thought of me then and I care even less now.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"What other people think about me is their business.

I’m not interested in reading whatever someone here wrote about me (if anything) unless of course it’s how fabulous I am.

I can count on one hand the people who actually know me.

This

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I dont use the notes... the new mailbox holds all past conversation and i cant be ased making notes from what folk say in forums.

I would be very surprised if anyone had any notes on us... we are not forum famous and dont do anything outstanding or noteworthy"

And this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do read them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can guess what some people of me. But as unlike so many on here I've never craved popularity I genuinely couldn't care less what the vast majority of people think of me, so no I wouldn't be in the slightest bit interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine that people on here have as much interest in me as I have in knowing what they think about me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do read them.

Ah, Platinum membership holder hey? I used to have that, I miss not being able to read them any more

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I do read them.

Oh damn! Look I wrote that when I was really tired one night ok!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"I Use the Box to add repeat messages with the date.

Randomly sent c&p from them on a regular basis. It is quite hilarious to see men are so shallow they say the same old thing to every one.

Just find it helpful tho I dont say nasty things.

User names help me whe so many change except we the blighters actually go UNLOS

I imagine I would be thought a grumpy person, been told that often enough once you say no thanks.

I wouldnt look more than likely,not too bothered what they think

I use it for this too and it really does make me chuckle when 12 months after being horribly rude they come back and want in my pants. I tend to have a bit of fun with that.

Dirty my note on you says must use translator when speaking and uses funny money (if anyone else says that’s rude, it is but I have know dirty for years),

Your one on me would be a fooking pain in the ass

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Even though I knew better I'd read every single word

Then I'd over think it for a day or two

Then I'd ask my Fab bestie....is that accurate? Am I really an up her own arse, finicky twat, with a piss poor attitude and thunder thighs? Hahaha! I'm just guessing that's what they might say from typical abuse I get from butt hurt rejected single guys.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.

Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food.

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.

Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food. "

Well said

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Lot's would probably say that bitch banned me ( even if I hadn't )

Nope I wouldn't look if I could, mine is used to remind me of anything I am likely to forget

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.

Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food. "

Granny!!! You’d read someone’s diary? Or go through their phone?!

Would you steal the money out of the wallet you found?!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

My notes usually consist of one word per profile. Rarely worth writing anymore

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Not a function that I use, well I did once and only recently, ‘likes sex at a certain time of the month’. I then used another function I rarely use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really couldn’t care less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn’t even know you could do this , wouldn’t use it ourselves

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.

Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food.

Granny!!! You’d read someone’s diary? Or go through their phone?!

Would you steal the money out of the wallet you found?!

No. Nor the battery from the phone, nor the lock from your diary.

We were talking about reading notes given the opportunity.

Mind you ....... if it was some rich person who wouldn't suffer from monetary loss and there was enough in there to feed someone..... I know which way my moral compass would swing. Circumstances n all that....... DON'T you JUDGE Meeeeeeeeeeeeee........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they didn't want to tell me themselves, I'd rather not. So I'd stay oblivious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.

Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food. "

So would I.

I’m nosey that’s why, and knowledge is power

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.

Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food.

Granny!!! You’d read someone’s diary? Or go through their phone?!

Would you steal the money out of the wallet you found?!

No. Nor the battery from the phone, nor the lock from your diary.

We were talking about reading notes given the opportunity.

Yeah but reading notes about you on here isn’t like reading someone’s diary. I’d hate someone to read mine (not that I have one) so I’d apply the same logic and not read theirs.

Oh I’m judging Granny... how do you know the person is rich? It may be all the money that they have in the world, just cause it’s all in their wallet it’s not for you to decide how it should be spent. You never know what’s going on in someone else’s world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do read them.

Oh damn! Look I wrote that when I was really tired one night ok! "

I knew it was too good to be true.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.

Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food.

Granny!!! You’d read someone’s diary? Or go through their phone?!

Would you steal the money out of the wallet you found?!

No. Nor the battery from the phone, nor the lock from your diary.

We were talking about reading notes given the opportunity.

Yeah but reading notes about you on here isn’t like reading someone’s diary. I’d hate someone to read mine (not that I have one) so I’d apply the same logic and not read theirs.

Well she would have dropped it in her castle grounds whilst the footman was tupping her against a gold leafed downspout only to be discovered by her husband as he landed in his ivory helicopter causing him to let slide the baluga from the crystal fucking nosebags they were wearing cos they'd misplaced the silver tongs......... AND....... she dropped it so that i'd bend over to pick it up causing her husband to go arse over tit so she could finish her illicit fuck in peace.

That's how I know she's rich. If we want to take hypotheticals to the hype.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I do read them.

Oh damn! Look I wrote that when I was really tired one night ok!

I knew it was too good to be true.

To be fair it was because I got my new varifocals.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'd read the notes, just as i'd read your diary if I found it, flick through your phone or go through your wallet.

Intelligence might not be as blissful as ignorance but it's certainly better food.

Granny!!! You’d read someone’s diary? Or go through their phone?!

Would you steal the money out of the wallet you found?!

No. Nor the battery from the phone, nor the lock from your diary.

We were talking about reading notes given the opportunity.

Yeah but reading notes about you on here isn’t like reading someone’s diary. I’d hate someone to read mine (not that I have one) so I’d apply the same logic and not read theirs.

That's how I know she's rich. If we want to take hypotheticals to the hype. "

Thanks Granny!

I’ve just read a post on FB from some woman going nuts at her local council for not clearing her street of snow... she is in the high council tax bracket and is furious! She’s been properly roasted with suggestions her butler should clear it with his gold leafed shovel. It’s properly made me laugh. You could actually have written it!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

One doesn't frequent FizzogNovel.

Mayhap one should.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"One doesn't frequent FizzogNovel.

Mayhap one should."

You would have a field day!

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