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By *ictor Sponge OP   Man
over a year ago

Stokesley

Hello I have always found spreader bars enticing and now I'm looking to purchase one.

Ideally it would incorporate cuffs but I know most can be adapted for this.

Could anyone recommend one. I've seen one on lovehoney which gets great reviews.

Thanks and stay kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made one and it worked fine.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you want to take it to clubs get one that comes in two or three pieces so it is smaller to put in a bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made one for home use.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We bought one from a shop in Brighton. Then had to take it home on the train...

Your best bet is to buy from a shop, you can see what you're getting then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made one for home use."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First bit of kit that I made!

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By *ictor Sponge OP   Man
over a year ago

Stokesley

I can't believe you are all into kinky DIY you naughty practical bunch.

I hadn't thought about transportation which is a great point

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I can't believe you are all into kinky DIY you naughty practical bunch.

I hadn't thought about transportation which is a great point"

The chap in that particular shop is really nice, he wrapped it well

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I made an adapted pair from a broom handle and some bits from b and Q ironmongery aisle ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mr made us one for at home too

B

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is always buy your kit from a shop so you can check it out. Buying BDSM kit online is a bit hit & miss as the quality can be low/cheaply made which will mean it not only feels rubbish but won't last long either.

I don't know your area so can't advise on location, but in my experience a lot of the gay sex shops have all the best equipment.

For travel, there is a really good spreader bar made from neoprene & velcro. Very light with cuffs as well. Look for the Sportsheets bondage bar.

For a higher quality one have a look on the Requlation (based in Angel, north London) website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made one for home use."

And very good it is too...

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't believe you are all into kinky DIY you naughty practical bunch.

I hadn't thought about transportation which is a great point

The chap in that particular shop is really nice, he wrapped it well "

I once bought a long paddle smacky thing and they discreetly wrapped it in a bag. It fell out of the bag in the middle of town.

My kind man friend helped out by running away.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I can't believe you are all into kinky DIY you naughty practical bunch.

I hadn't thought about transportation which is a great point

The chap in that particular shop is really nice, he wrapped it well

I once bought a long paddle smacky thing and they discreetly wrapped it in a bag. It fell out of the bag in the middle of town.

My kind man friend helped out by running away. "

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"The mr made us one for at home too

B

X"

Mine is doing the same x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't believe you are all into kinky DIY you naughty practical bunch.

I hadn't thought about transportation which is a great point

The chap in that particular shop is really nice, he wrapped it well

I once bought a long paddle smacky thing and they discreetly wrapped it in a bag. It fell out of the bag in the middle of town.

My kind man friend helped out by running away. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made one for home use.

And very good it is too...

Peach x"

You wore it well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lovehoney one is very good if it's the same one, I've had mine for years, so unless they have changed the design or materials used that's the one I would recommend

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

What you should do is make yourself some stocks - far kinkier by far... ...you can just get a glimpse of the pair I made, being put to good work in one of my public pics...

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By *ictor Sponge OP   Man
over a year ago

Stokesley


"I can't believe you are all into kinky DIY you naughty practical bunch.

I hadn't thought about transportation which is a great point

The chap in that particular shop is really nice, he wrapped it well "

Glad to hear it

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By *ictor Sponge OP   Man
over a year ago

Stokesley


"I made an adapted pair from a broom handle and some bits from b and Q ironmongery aisle ! X"

A very dungeon feel

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By *ictor Sponge OP   Man
over a year ago

Stokesley


"My advice is always buy your kit from a shop so you can check it out. Buying BDSM kit online is a bit hit & miss as the quality can be low/cheaply made which will mean it not only feels rubbish but won't last long either.

I don't know your area so can't advise on location, but in my experience a lot of the gay sex shops have all the best equipment.

For travel, there is a really good spreader bar made from neoprene & velcro. Very light with cuffs as well. Look for the Sportsheets bondage bar.

For a higher quality one have a look on the Requlation (based in Angel, north London) website."

Thanks for taking the time to reply. I'm in the north east and will look for a local shop

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By *ictor Sponge OP   Man
over a year ago

Stokesley


"I've made one for home use.

And very good it is too...

Peach x"

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By *ictor Sponge OP   Man
over a year ago

Stokesley


"I can't believe you are all into kinky DIY you naughty practical bunch.

I hadn't thought about transportation which is a great point

The chap in that particular shop is really nice, he wrapped it well

I once bought a long paddle smacky thing and they discreetly wrapped it in a bag. It fell out of the bag in the middle of town.

My kind man friend helped out by running away. "

I'm clumsy as hell so that would be me all day long

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By *ictor Sponge OP   Man
over a year ago

Stokesley


"The lovehoney one is very good if it's the same one, I've had mine for years, so unless they have changed the design or materials used that's the one I would recommend "

Excellent as I imagine it is the same one

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By *ictor Sponge OP   Man
over a year ago

Stokesley


"What you should do is make yourself some stocks - far kinkier by far... ...you can just get a glimpse of the pair I made, being put to good work in one of my public pics... "

What a party house you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you should do is make yourself some stocks - far kinkier by far... ...you can just get a glimpse of the pair I made, being put to good work in one of my public pics... "

I like those... a lot... they have hand holes in the middle too?

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

Making my own bought all the stuff to do it

Frank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't get ones that go wide enough so making my own and have some other bits and pieces planned too

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By *egularFunMan
over a year ago

...

Made two of my own, it's pretty easy and well worth doing

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By *ictor Sponge OP   Man
over a year ago

Stokesley

I feel a bit of a cop out now buying some. Maybe I should have kept that broom handle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just bought one from a sex shop. It's great but a bit awkward trying to sneak it though hotel reception up your coat sleeve when the chains are all jangling around

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We just bought one from a sex shop. It's great but a bit awkward trying to sneak it though hotel reception up your coat sleeve when the chains are all jangling around "

Thread it through both sleeves and nonchalantly stroll through with both arms sticking out sideways. It might prove difficult in the lift though

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I feel a bit of a cop out now buying some. Maybe I should have kept that broom handle "

You're keeping the spreader bar industry alive and kicking, be proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just bought one from a sex shop. It's great but a bit awkward trying to sneak it though hotel reception up your coat sleeve when the chains are all jangling around

Thread it through both sleeves and nonchalantly stroll through with both arms sticking out sideways. It might prove difficult in the lift though "

I guess if anyone asks I'm just on my way to a scarecrow conference.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We just bought one from a sex shop. It's great but a bit awkward trying to sneak it though hotel reception up your coat sleeve when the chains are all jangling around

Thread it through both sleeves and nonchalantly stroll through with both arms sticking out sideways. It might prove difficult in the lift though

I guess if anyone asks I'm just on my way to a scarecrow conference."

Exactly! What could possibly go wrong?

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