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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Serious issue, Mrs has a serious stalker, even him being warned by the police hasn't helped. Don't want to put any details on here, but could anyone with knowledge or help please PM us, we are really concerned now

Thank you in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Beat the shit out of the low life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go back to the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a few ideas, none that would go down too well but would give great satisfaction.

seriously though, go back to the police.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

It has to be a police thing.

Been there, suffered that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks the kicking shit advice really appeals to me, but not to her. He's a cowardly cunt, how do people get so much pleasure out of being a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to the police again. If he's on here then report to Admin. They are great at sorting issues like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to the police again. If he's on here then report to Admin. They are great at sorting issues like that. "

Thanks and if he is we don't know his username

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Be polite and insistent when you go back to the police.

Log everything try to obtain photographic data.

Hope you get rid of the weasel.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Ask police for advice on taking out a restraint order.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Thanks the kicking shit advice really appeals to me, but not to her. He's a cowardly cunt, how do people get so much pleasure out of being a cunt"
I know...I can never understand how this cunts think it's OK to act like they do. I do hope the police sort him out. Good luck.

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Serious issue, Mrs has a serious stalker, even him being warned by the police hasn't helped. Don't want to put any details on here, but could anyone with knowledge or help please PM us, we are really concerned now

Thank you in advance"

Police can issue a Police Information Notice (PIN) immediately. If this has no effect then seek a restraining order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask him in for coffee...... and don't let him out again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all advice, there is a lot that's already done, but even so we appreciate all advice x

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Police don't tend to do anything until they physically do something, it's a joke, even though when that person actually does something it could be very serious! Really pees me off. Just block them, don't acknowledge them, they thrive attention an if you give it they're winning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always get someone else to do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Police don't tend to do anything until they physically do something, it's a joke, even though when that person actually does something it could be very serious! Really pees me off. Just block them, don't acknowledge them, they thrive attention an if you give it they're winning. "

Not doing it on here mores the pity, and it's the fact he could do something physical that's concerning me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Police don't tend to do anything until they physically do something, it's a joke, even though when that person actually does something it could be very serious! Really pees me off. Just block them, don't acknowledge them, they thrive attention an if you give it they're winning. "

That’s not true at all. There are several offences where no physical act warrants police action. Harassment, malicious comunications, several sections of the public order act to name a few, none require a physical act to be used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all advice, there is a lot that's already done, but even so we appreciate all advice x"

You’re asking for advice but say you don’t want to give any details, how can people offer advice if they don’t know what’s going on. Either give some details or don’t ask for advice. The two go hand in hand really, you can’t get one without giving the other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for all advice, there is a lot that's already done, but even so we appreciate all advice x

You’re asking for advice but say you don’t want to give any details, how can people offer advice if they don’t know what’s going on. Either give some details or don’t ask for advice. The two go hand in hand really, you can’t get one without giving the other."

The PM method thanks for your contribution

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"Police don't tend to do anything until they physically do something, it's a joke, even though when that person actually does something it could be very serious! Really pees me off. Just block them, don't acknowledge them, they thrive attention an if you give it they're winning.

That’s not true at all. There are several offences where no physical act warrants police action. Harassment, malicious comunications, several sections of the public order act to name a few, none require a physical act to be used. "

I've known various situations to have the police turn around and say "well as they haven't done anything there's nothing we can do". They can warn the person, not that it does much use, but to obtain a restraining order requires police support and proof to support the allegations. If you're being stalked you can take photos, but what's to say that person doesn't turn it around on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Police don't tend to do anything until they physically do something, it's a joke, even though when that person actually does something it could be very serious! Really pees me off. Just block them, don't acknowledge them, they thrive attention an if you give it they're winning.

That’s not true at all. There are several offences where no physical act warrants police action. Harassment, malicious comunications, several sections of the public order act to name a few, none require a physical act to be used.

I've known various situations to have the police turn around and say "well as they haven't done anything there's nothing we can do". They can warn the person, not that it does much use, but to obtain a restraining order requires police support and proof to support the allegations. If you're being stalked you can take photos, but what's to say that person doesn't turn it around on you. "

My point was that the “do something” doesn’t need to be a physical act. It can be as little as unwarranted and repeated messages for instance. Each instance would have to dealt with by it’s own merits but people don’t need to wait for something to get physical, there is plenty of legislation to deal with things way before it gets that far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Police don't tend to do anything until they physically do something, it's a joke, even though when that person actually does something it could be very serious! Really pees me off. Just block them, don't acknowledge them, they thrive attention an if you give it they're winning.

That’s not true at all. There are several offences where no physical act warrants police action. Harassment, malicious comunications, several sections of the public order act to name a few, none require a physical act to be used.

I've known various situations to have the police turn around and say "well as they haven't done anything there's nothing we can do". They can warn the person, not that it does much use, but to obtain a restraining order requires police support and proof to support the allegations. If you're being stalked you can take photos, but what's to say that person doesn't turn it around on you.

My point was that the “do something” doesn’t need to be a physical act. It can be as little as unwarranted and repeated messages for instance. Each instance would have to dealt with by it’s own merits but people don’t need to wait for something to get physical, there is plenty of legislation to deal with things way before it gets that far. "

Legislation is fine, but without effective use of it...be that by the witness or law it's worthless.

OP as stated without info it's impossible to advise you accurately. Let the authorities deal with it.

Ridiculous claims of smashing people and getting even dont help your position and in fact it's your wife you should be thinking about not your revenge.

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