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"Because even though its a swinger site, conversation is still a real thing haha. Some women like the chase I imagine!" I think that's alot to do with it. The need to feel wanted. What's the story with your username? | |||
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"Because if they didn’t wake up to 100 new messages each day they wouldn’t be able to put themselves on a popularity pedestal high above us mere mortal men? ![]() I woke up to no messages today ![]() | |||
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"Because I like to know if they’ve read my profile. I’m one of those annoying people with ‘if you’ve read my profile put this in the title...’. And how will men put the keyword as the title if they haven’t read my profile, because I messaged them first ![]() ![]() Form...form the sentences. Not fork. My hands are weak ![]() | |||
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"Because if they didn’t wake up to 100 new messages each day they wouldn’t be able to put themselves on a popularity pedestal high above us mere mortal men? ![]() Ah true. "I had Jason momoa message me, i turned him down because it made me feel better about myself." ... ![]() | |||
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"Just because I’d rather not get a cock pic with a first message it doesn’t mean I don’t answer the messages that include one. I see no need to unilaterally block people. I’d miss out on way too much fun if I did ![]() No you wouldn't, you'd be finding your own. | |||
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"Because even though its a swinger site, conversation is still a real thing haha." This. *Breaking news* woman has liberated attitude to sex AND likes to have conversation. | |||
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"Because not ALL single men do this...would be a shame to miss out of the decent guys we might otherwise never get to chat to because some guys think a dick pic is the best first impression..." exactly this ![]() | |||
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"This suggestion quite often gets grumpy reactions- I think guys should simply take the decision not to send the first message." You're preaching to the converted there, my hard rockin' amigo! | |||
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"Because if they didn’t wake up to 100 new messages each day they wouldn’t be able to put themselves on a popularity pedestal high above us mere mortal men? ![]() ![]() We're not all like that Clam. | |||
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"Because I like to know if they’ve read my profile. I’m one of those annoying people with ‘if you’ve read my profile put this in the title...’. And how will men put the keyword as the title if they haven’t read my profile, because I messaged them first ![]() ![]() ![]() Forking hell! ![]() | |||
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"Because not ALL single men do this...would be a shame to miss out of the decent guys we might otherwise never get to chat to because some guys think a dick pic is the best first impression..." But you'd be busy with the guys YOU proactively found to meet yourself.... so you wouldn't miss them. Simples ![]() | |||
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"Because if they didn’t wake up to 100 new messages each day they wouldn’t be able to put themselves on a popularity pedestal high above us mere mortal men? ![]() ![]() You are an exception though. ![]() | |||
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"Because if they didn’t wake up to 100 new messages each day they wouldn’t be able to put themselves on a popularity pedestal high above us mere mortal men? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Because not ALL single men do this...would be a shame to miss out of the decent guys we might otherwise never get to chat to because some guys think a dick pic is the best first impression... But you'd be busy with the guys YOU proactively found to meet yourself.... so you wouldn't miss them. Simples ![]() I wouldn't be though. I tried to find men myself and came up blank. It doesn't work for me that way. I'm doing great my way. | |||
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"Because not ALL single men do this...would be a shame to miss out of the decent guys we might otherwise never get to chat to because some guys think a dick pic is the best first impression..." ![]() | |||
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"Because even though its a swinger site, conversation is still a real thing haha. This. *Breaking news* woman has liberated attitude to sex AND likes to have conversation. " This will surely never catch on? | |||
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"Because not ALL single men do this...would be a shame to miss out of the decent guys we might otherwise never get to chat to because some guys think a dick pic is the best first impression... But you'd be busy with the guys YOU proactively found to meet yourself.... so you wouldn't miss them. Simples ![]() Yes you are. But you're not one of the "delicate flower" type of fabbers. | |||
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"Because not ALL single men do this...would be a shame to miss out of the decent guys we might otherwise never get to chat to because some guys think a dick pic is the best first impression... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Because not ALL single men do this...would be a shame to miss out of the decent guys we might otherwise never get to chat to because some guys think a dick pic is the best first impression... But you'd be busy with the guys YOU proactively found to meet yourself.... so you wouldn't miss them. Simples ![]() With the amount of single guys on site I highly doubt I'd get a hence to message that many, and some of the best meets I've had have been with guys I'd never usually message, so I'll stick with my way and just ignore the dick pics. ![]() | |||
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"I prefere nice hairy chest pic and face .i think cock should be left to the imagination.But saying that if they say vwe but really ikea pencil it could be a let down ![]() In the words of the great philosopher Socrates....... I agree. And I'm not just agreeing because I have a hairy chest and I think you are dead sexy with great boobs and a lovely curvy bum and stuff honest I'm not ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Because not ALL single men do this...would be a shame to miss out of the decent guys we might otherwise never get to chat to because some guys think a dick pic is the best first impression... But you'd be busy with the guys YOU proactively found to meet yourself.... so you wouldn't miss them. Simples ![]() ![]() That's fine. Just don't be one of the moaners! ![]() | |||
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"I prefere nice hairy chest pic and face .i think cock should be left to the imagination.But saying that if they say vwe but really ikea pencil it could be a let down ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Because not ALL single men do this...would be a shame to miss out of the decent guys we might otherwise never get to chat to because some guys think a dick pic is the best first impression... But you'd be busy with the guys YOU proactively found to meet yourself.... so you wouldn't miss them. Simples ![]() ![]() ![]() But I like a good moan... Can I still moan about other things? | |||
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"I have a cock shot in case i’m Asked for one. But I like to have more approachable pictures in my profile. Face pics are the killers lmao" I like it when I need to ask to see it. | |||
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"Because even though its a swinger site, conversation is still a real thing haha. Some women like the chase I imagine!" ![]() | |||
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"Because if they didn’t wake up to 100 new messages each day they wouldn’t be able to put themselves on a popularity pedestal high above us mere mortal men? ![]() Ha I must be a single male.....0 messages! | |||
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"Because not ALL single men do this...would be a shame to miss out of the decent guys we might otherwise never get to chat to because some guys think a dick pic is the best first impression... But you'd be busy with the guys YOU proactively found to meet yourself.... so you wouldn't miss them. Simples ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Because even though its a swinger site, conversation is still a real thing haha. Some women like the chase I imagine! ![]() Can women not start a conversation these days? I didn't realise things had got soo bad. ![]() | |||
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"Because not ALL single men do this...would be a shame to miss out of the decent guys we might otherwise never get to chat to because some guys think a dick pic is the best first impression... But you'd be busy with the guys YOU proactively found to meet yourself.... so you wouldn't miss them. Simples ![]() ![]() Now you really do sound like a dude! | |||
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"Because even though its a swinger site, conversation is still a real thing haha. Some women like the chase I imagine! ![]() ![]() We can read up | |||
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"Because not ALL single men do this...would be a shame to miss out of the decent guys we might otherwise never get to chat to because some guys think a dick pic is the best first impression... But you'd be busy with the guys YOU proactively found to meet yourself.... so you wouldn't miss them. Simples ![]() ![]() Hahahaa cheers! Least I don't look too much like one! | |||
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"I can't understand why somebody would send a cock/fanny pic in their first message. We straight delete those messages, send a face pic!" I can't understand why anyone would have a face pic on a site like fab. | |||
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"I can't understand why somebody would send a cock/fanny pic in their first message. We straight delete those messages, send a face pic! I can't understand why anyone would have a face pic on a site like fab." Because we look good ![]() | |||
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"I can't understand why somebody would send a cock/fanny pic in their first message. We straight delete those messages, send a face pic! I can't understand why anyone would have a face pic on a site like fab." Why would you not have a face pic?? | |||
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"I can't understand why somebody would send a cock/fanny pic in their first message. We straight delete those messages, send a face pic! I can't understand why anyone would have a face pic on a site like fab. Why would you not have a face pic??" It's not a sensible option. | |||
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"I can't understand why somebody would send a cock/fanny pic in their first message. We straight delete those messages, send a face pic! I can't understand why anyone would have a face pic on a site like fab." We don't on our profile, however we have private ones to send to people as a swap. | |||
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"I can't understand why somebody would send a cock/fanny pic in their first message. We straight delete those messages, send a face pic! I can't understand why anyone would have a face pic on a site like fab. We don't on our profile, however we have private ones to send to people as a swap." Still on the server though. | |||
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"I prefere nice hairy chest pic and face .i think cock should be left to the imagination.But saying that if they say vwe but really ikea pencil it could be a let down ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I can never find anyone I want to talk to and I hate scrolling through the hundreds of local men to get to the others " Oh its a sea of dross, most men's profiles are gross or so banal I get totally turned off within about 5 mins!! I have good filters and I am rarely overwhelmed with mail so letting the guys that are interested find me is a much better idea for me. I don't need attention from the masses, but I am primal prey, so if someone wants to meet me he has to pursue me to turn me on to him. That's why sending a cock first does not work for me, I have to desire the man first. Unless your cock pics look like Commando4's - their ilk would always be welcome in my inbox, men need to learn to take good pics not ugly close ups! ![]() | |||
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"I prefere nice hairy chest pic and face .i think cock should be left to the imagination.But saying that if they say vwe but really ikea pencil it could be a let down ![]() ![]() ![]() Its not ikea pencil ![]() | |||
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"This suggestion quite often gets grumpy reactions- I think guys should simply take the decision not to send the first message. You're preaching to the converted there, my hard rockin' amigo!" I’ll rock out with my cock out, but no shock when I’m blocked out ![]() | |||
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"I can never find anyone I want to talk to and I hate scrolling through the hundreds of local men to get to the others Oh its a sea of dross, most men's profiles are gross or so banal I get totally turned off within about 5 mins!! I have good filters and I am rarely overwhelmed with mail so letting the guys that are interested find me is a much better idea for me. I don't need attention from the masses, but I am primal prey, so if someone wants to meet me he has to pursue me to turn me on to him. That's why sending a cock first does not work for me, I have to desire the man first. Unless your cock pics look like Commando4's - their ilk would always be welcome in my inbox, men need to learn to take good pics not ugly close ups! ![]() I wonder if now that you can label your photos, there maybe a way of filtering out dick pics in the future. | |||
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"I prefere nice hairy chest pic and face .i think cock should be left to the imagination.But saying that if they say vwe but really ikea pencil it could be a let down ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Nope Ikeas are bigger, mine’s more like the worn out stubby that’s been sharpened too much ![]() | |||
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"I like getting to know someone first. I like the feeling of wanting to see his cock. If he sends it right away he's taking away the anticipation. It's like waking up Christmas day, knowing what presents you have. " Yes, exactly this!! I also find it a turn off seeing an erection from a random stranger. If I like the person, even a tiny bit, it is highly erotic. | |||
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"I can never find anyone I want to talk to and I hate scrolling through the hundreds of local men to get to the others Oh its a sea of dross, most men's profiles are gross or so banal I get totally turned off within about 5 mins!! I have good filters and I am rarely overwhelmed with mail so letting the guys that are interested find me is a much better idea for me. I don't need attention from the masses, but I am primal prey, so if someone wants to meet me he has to pursue me to turn me on to him. That's why sending a cock first does not work for me, I have to desire the man first. Unless your cock pics look like Commando4's - their ilk would always be welcome in my inbox, men need to learn to take good pics not ugly close ups! ![]() That would be useful - it's in the first line of my profile and they still don't see it. I wonder if men realise how many potential meets they have lost by trying to shove their cock in a woman's face before she desires it? They are their own worst enemy. | |||
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"Because not ALL single men do this...would be a shame to miss out of the decent guys we might otherwise never get to chat to because some guys think a dick pic is the best first impression..." This ![]() | |||
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"What are you on about.. women love cock ![]() Depends how attractive they are,some look rank. | |||
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"I hunted my new FWB myself and sent the first message. XXX" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I can't understand why somebody would send a cock/fanny pic in their first message. We straight delete those messages, send a face pic! I can't understand why anyone would have a face pic on a site like fab." Why not? I like to see people’s faces and more likely to respond if I see one. I’m not hiding my lifestyle or have a partner hidden away at home so am being completely open and honest. | |||
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"I like getting to know someone first. I like the feeling of wanting to see his cock. If he sends it right away he's taking away the anticipation. It's like waking up Christmas day, knowing what presents you have. Yes, exactly this!! I also find it a turn off seeing an erection from a random stranger. If I like the person, even a tiny bit, it is highly erotic. " Exactly - if only those men understood they are turning women OFF when after a few messages the same pics could turn them ON! I particularly object to the Monday morning 'day off balls full' brigade! Not before my coffee, not unless I've spent the night with you!! ![]() | |||
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"I can't understand why somebody would send a cock/fanny pic in their first message. We straight delete those messages, send a face pic! I can't understand why anyone would have a face pic on a site like fab. Why not? I like to see people’s faces and more likely to respond if I see one. I’m not hiding my lifestyle or have a partner hidden away at home so am being completely open and honest. " Good luck to you. I don't really want my friends or family knowing to be honest. | |||
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"What are you on about.. women love cock ![]() ![]() ![]() Yours doesn't,but let's be honest some do. We're forever hearing about manky vaginas,but there's some bloody ugly penises out there. I like a photo of a naked guy I find attractive complete with cock pic. | |||
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"I'm filtered up to the eyeballs and therefore am proactive and will initiate contact when someone takes my fancy... but I will also occasionally drop filters to take part in a forum discussion of interest, and that's usually when opportunists will pounce with cock pic intros. Is that my fault? Do I simply accept that by being here I should meekly allow people to behave towards me in a manner that I feel is inappropriate and makes me uncomfortable? I've said "No" on my profile... shouldn't that be enough? Is it acceptable here then that No doesn't really mean No and men should be allowed to carry on, regardless of a woman's expressed wishes... and if so, how far does that extend? Food for thought... ![]() This!! | |||
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"I like getting to know someone first. I like the feeling of wanting to see his cock. If he sends it right away he's taking away the anticipation. It's like waking up Christmas day, knowing what presents you have. Yes, exactly this!! I also find it a turn off seeing an erection from a random stranger. If I like the person, even a tiny bit, it is highly erotic. Exactly - if only those men understood they are turning women OFF when after a few messages the same pics could turn them ON! I particularly object to the Monday morning 'day off balls full' brigade! Not before my coffee, not unless I've spent the night with you!! ![]() I like a pic of a cock that I have made hard. | |||
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"What are you on about.. women love cock ![]() ![]() ![]() I think it’s the disembodied cock pics are the issue rather than a naked photo of a guy who happens to have his hard, semi or soft cock in view. Although if I did really worry about how my cock looks I may have thought you were talking about mine ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I prefere nice hairy chest pic and face .i think cock should be left to the imagination.But saying that if they say vwe but really ikea pencil it could be a let down ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Betting shop pen ![]() | |||
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"I prefere nice hairy chest pic and face .i think cock should be left to the imagination.But saying that if they say vwe but really ikea pencil it could be a let down ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Currently it looks like the sky blue ones it’s that fecking cold | |||
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"I prefere nice hairy chest pic and face .i think cock should be left to the imagination.But saying that if they say vwe but really ikea pencil it could be a let down ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Shouldn’t take long - about 10 stitches will do. ![]() | |||
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"Op is frustrated as he's being overlooked for sending cock pics!.. Over a year on the site and not even a sniff from a women.. Don't worry you and the rest of the Neanderthals can all keep blaming us women for that! That's going work to get you a shag isn't it, Not! Haha .. Maybe try the cock pics again hey ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Because not ALL single men do this...would be a shame to miss out of the decent guys we might otherwise never get to chat to because some guys think a dick pic is the best first impression... But you'd be busy with the guys YOU proactively found to meet yourself.... so you wouldn't miss them. Simples ![]() ![]() ![]() Irony alert!!! | |||
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" Why don't they block single men, then send the first message themselves? " i would say they very picky with very high standards which is fair to them but hard on other who want the same thing for this site. ![]() | |||
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"I can't understand why somebody would send a cock/fanny pic in their first message. We straight delete those messages, send a face pic! I can't understand why anyone would have a face pic on a site like fab. Why not? I like to see people’s faces and more likely to respond if I see one. I’m not hiding my lifestyle or have a partner hidden away at home so am being completely open and honest. Good luck to you. I don't really want my friends or family knowing to be honest. " Nothing wrong with that but my preference is to see a face. | |||
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"I like getting to know someone first. I like the feeling of wanting to see his cock. If he sends it right away he's taking away the anticipation. It's like waking up Christmas day, knowing what presents you have. Yes, exactly this!! I also find it a turn off seeing an erection from a random stranger. If I like the person, even a tiny bit, it is highly erotic. Exactly - if only those men understood they are turning women OFF when after a few messages the same pics could turn them ON! I particularly object to the Monday morning 'day off balls full' brigade! Not before my coffee, not unless I've spent the night with you!! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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