FabSwingers.com forum: Bi men or bi women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who is the most disrespectful of other people's preferences - bi men or bi women?

Have you been in a situation where a bi man or bi woman has tried to persuade or coerce you to play with them? Or tried to grope you in a club or party situation?

If you're straight would you ever meet a bi person of the same sex as you, for example as a couple?

What are your experiences?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Once had a rather d*unk bi guy pretty much demanding a guy suck him off at a party. But I think it was the drink, he sobered up and apologised.

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

Everyone has preferences and we respect them all, whether we agree with them or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are more assumptions around women in the scene. A higher percentage are openly bi or bi-playful and a lot forget that straight women swing too.

I think it's more likely a straight woman will receive unwanted attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've found most people to be respectful whether bi or straight. The only occasions when someone has tried to 'take advantage' of a close situation with a grope or touch, they have been straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as a bi lady of part of a couple We do tend to attract couples where the other lady is bi but we don't put this as something we demand as we do meet straight couples too. We would even meet straight female in a mff situation as there is still so many things we can get up to without the girls playing together . We do like to get any boundaries cleared up before a meet or play so no one feels uncomfortable and if the other lady is unsure / new to playing with others I tend to leave them to make the first move unless previously asked to do this due to nerves .

We have also played with a bi curious guy in a club but we didn't know he was until after , hubby is totally straight but never felt uncomfortable and said providing the guys knew not to try anything he is quite happy to again although it's not something that we would look for in a profile but wouldn't put us off either . We do find alot of straight couples tend to not contact/ reply though ....not sure if it's because they think I will want to play with all girls that we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, this is the only example I can contribute. During my first bi mmf the husband of the couple I was with, just started sucking my cock. Didn’t ask and we hadn’t really discussed boundaries beforehand at all. I was wet behind the ears then

His wife intervened and said to him ‘Stop! You don’t even know if he likes that!’ Sheepishly the guy turned to me and asked whether it was ok. I laughed and told him to carry on. However if I hadn’t been bi-curious at that time all he’ll could have broken out.

The woman in this case was more respectful than the guy.

From a personal point of view no one would know I was bi from the way I act with other men, because I always respect their boundaries. I don’t even Fab straight guys pics these days unless I know they appreciate it for what it is - a show of appreciation for a good picture.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think there are more assumptions around women in the scene. A higher percentage are openly bi or bi-playful and a lot forget that straight women swing too.

I think it's more likely a straight woman will receive unwanted attention. "

I think this too. A straight man would probably punch a bi guy that tried it on. A straight woman would be less likely to do that.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've seen it from both men and women but don't feel that one is worse than the other - they can both be inappropriate.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I think there are more assumptions around women in the scene. A higher percentage are openly bi or bi-playful and a lot forget that straight women swing too.

I think it's more likely a straight woman will receive unwanted attention. "

I would agree with this.

Early in our swinging life I was randomly hugged and kissed by a rather hot lady.

I'm bi so reciprocated, but had I been straight I would have been far less impressed. ..

Nita

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