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" In fact, we love "Coy" and one of our meets, although she is confident as hell, plays coy with me sometimes and it is sooo damned sexy. " Do you think you would find it as sexy if you knew your meet wasn't playing at being coy and really was constantly worried about keeping bits covered and how they looked? | |||
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"I am interested in seeing where (or if) there is a line at which it starts to be a turn off. But the other interesting side to this will be if singles meeting will generally have different views to couples meeting. Is it different when it is your primary sex rather than the additional something extra? " I have seen from both sides of the coin so to speak, and its a turn off either way | |||
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"Anyone with bad hangups i wouldnt e looking to meet through swinging. Might be different if i was looking for a relationship but i am not and swinging is about fun for me and hangups are out. " aye | |||
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" In fact, we love "Coy" and one of our meets, although she is confident as hell, plays coy with me sometimes and it is sooo damned sexy. Do you think you would find it as sexy if you knew your meet wasn't playing at being coy and really was constantly worried about keeping bits covered and how they looked? " Errrr.... Short answer. I don't know! Looking at it as I do (with rose coloured glasses ) I would assume that they are not happy about the way they look. As the guy up there somewhere said, back off and see where it goes. I suppose if it was a serious case, we wouldn't play, but we can always have a laugh and try to make the person a bit more at ease. If it was a couple though, I would seriously question any partner who would put him/her spouse in that position. Untried for me, but that is how I think I would react as although sex is what we are here for, it is not everything. (strange voice) Com ean Meestor Rumour and lie on za couch! So how long has sex been just a bonus when svingging? | |||
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"I am interested in seeing where (or if) there is a line at which it starts to be a turn off. But the other interesting side to this will be if singles meeting will generally have different views to couples meeting. Is it different when it is your primary sex rather than the additional something extra? " I see where you are coming from (metaphorically) ! Not really much use me answering because we are perhaps different to the majority on here. We love the sex, but we are not at all only driven by the sex. Both of us are quite happy to meet as a social and not play, even if we had been led to believe… From what we have read on this and past threads, quite a few would not consider meeting without the sex. And, although they themselves were beginners once themselves, they wouldn’t meet newbies! That is not a criticism of anyone, it is just how it is, but for our part, we actually like meeting newbies and some of the best fun we have had has been with them… So, we will leave you to get the answers you need and watch with interest. xxxx | |||
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"I am interested in seeing where (or if) there is a line at which it starts to be a turn off. But the other interesting side to this will be if singles meeting will generally have different views to couples meeting. Is it different when it is your primary sex rather than the additional something extra? I see where you are coming from (metaphorically) ! Not really much use me answering because we are perhaps different to the majority on here. We love the sex, but we are not at all only driven by the sex. Both of us are quite happy to meet as a social and not play, even if we had been led to believe… From what we have read on this and past threads, quite a few would not consider meeting without the sex. And, although they themselves were beginners once themselves, they wouldn’t meet newbies! That is not a criticism of anyone, it is just how it is, but for our part, we actually like meeting newbies and some of the best fun we have had has been with them… So, we will leave you to get the answers you need and watch with interest. xxxx " we also meet newbies (like you said we all had to start somewhere) and are happy with just socials not met anyone who had a hang up that got in the way but would hope if we did we would handle it with the upmost sensitivity. | |||
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