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When you realise you're alone

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

So pretty unwell at work today so much so I ended up in a&e. There for a few hours suspected meningitis of the viral kind but because I had my daughter with me they said someone had to collect her..... All my relatives are min 100 miles away. Mum died just recently and no one I could ask to watch my daughter so I've had to head home and if it gets worse i have to go back in.......

Sometimes reality really does suck! Oh and to boot my step dad just died. Feeling rather sorry for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive unhelpful hug.

Hope it doesn't get worse.

Sorry for your loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh blimey. If I was close, I'd help. I hope things improve xx

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Oh blimey. If I was close, I'd help. I hope things improve xx"

Thank you I'm praying they dont.... running out of Kleenex xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs to you x

I completely understand how you feel.

Yes it does suck to be alone - but you have your child.

You'll stay strong for her.

Hope you feel better soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only add to the hugs and well wishers. You seem a really really strong lady. I wish you the absolute best.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Fuckinel that's shit. Really hope your better soon. Hugs

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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"So pretty unwell at work today so much so I ended up in a&e. There for a few hours suspected meningitis of the viral kind but because I had my daughter with me they said someone had to collect her..... All my relatives are min 100 miles away. Mum died just recently and no one I could ask to watch my daughter so I've had to head home and if it gets worse i have to go back in.......

Sometimes reality really does suck! Oh and to boot my step dad just died. Feeling rather sorry for myself "

Not good hun if you have that I've just got out of hospital my self with that and a blood clot on my lung. Sending hugs your way hun xxx

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Damn I hope you get better swiftly! Can someone keep checking on you by phone?

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

nr Letterkenny


"So pretty unwell at work today so much so I ended up in a&e. There for a few hours suspected meningitis of the viral kind but because I had my daughter with me they said someone had to collect her..... All my relatives are min 100 miles away. Mum died just recently and no one I could ask to watch my daughter so I've had to head home and if it gets worse i have to go back in.......

Sometimes reality really does suck! Oh and to boot my step dad just died. Feeling rather sorry for myself "

some days just are pretty crap hope on the road to recovery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs- hope you’re feeling much better very soon

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Sending hugs x

Everyone needs some TLC sometimes and it sucks that you have nobody living close enough to give you some. I wish you a swift recovery x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a bloody sad time for you love.

Wish I could do something to help?

Your not alone...your FAB friends are here...sending hugs and love your way.

Xxxxx

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Virtual Hugs all round for you.

If it gets too much and you want to speak out, we're here for you!

Wishing you a speedy recovery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this. Does your daughter have a school friend shes ever stayed over with she could go to if you have to go back to hospital xx

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Thank you! Will gladly take the virtual hugs! My bloody sore head just isn't easing and I feel drained.

Things can only get better tho xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey you’ve been through it recently hope you’re health improves soon.

Without knowing you it’s hard to suggest anything practical, however I have found in the past (some) school friends parents can really step up at times and help out when needed, might be worth a shout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a lot of stuff going on for you. No wonder you're feeling as you are. Hopefully not meningitis and things feeling a bit better in the morning. Big hug from me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending big bear hugs Darlo, you’ve really had a sorry time of late xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

big hugs to you x i hope you feel better soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh sounds like you having a real rubbish time of it. Roxi's suggestion of school mum's helping is a good one, when I was poorly last year they were a godsend when I didnt have anyone else to help out.

Am so sorry to hear of your recent losses and wish you a speedy recovery. Big hugs

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Ohh that must be really miserable discovering you have no one when you need help, I dont know how old your little one is but is there a school/nursery friends parent that would help out. I guess it is something you actually need to have in place in an emergency. If you are really sick se would be placed in care until you are better

Hope you feel better soon x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I was only talking about this kind of situation earlier. I was saying I feel I'm destined to walk this world alone, and the thing that frightens me about it is getting ill and having no help or support.

I really do hope you feel tip top asap x

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I was only talking about this kind of situation earlier. I was saying I feel I'm destined to walk this world alone, and the thing that frightens me about it is getting ill and having no help or support.

I really do hope you feel tip top asap x"

Thank you! I do hope you aren't alone! Make sure you've plenty friends near you x

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I am at work every day and only lived here just under 2 years do not know the mums. I'd feel awful asking anyone to watch my daughter anyway as not their responsibility. It was the same with my son. He's all grown up tho and fled the nest so sadly not nearby either as his studies have taken him further afield. I'll just have to suck it up being unwell and make best I can do xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs to you hunni, sorry it can't be anything more. We hope you are feeling better soon though xx

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Bless you thats awful... hope you feel better soon, lots of fluids and keep warm but well ventiated. Sending hugs x

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