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By *layful Harlequin OP   Man
over a year ago

iver heath

So is it normal to drop someone an email saying hello and introduce yourself nicely then get blocked for it ! I mean that’s just rude or is it just me not getting site rules

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

You weren't their type. They couldn't be bothered to tell you, so they blocked you.

Not nice, move on and forget them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means the other party has no interest in you/your mail - and is saving you both the bother of wasting time by future contact being prevented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's rude but some people don't care.

They might just know you and want to avoid embarrassing conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it isn't rude, it just means that they don't want to meet you and block you so neither party contacts the other again. I regularly block members I don't want to meet, mostly I send a polite reply first these days. XXX

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"So is it normal to drop someone an email saying hello and introduce yourself nicely then get blocked for it ! I mean that’s just rude or is it just me not getting site rules "

If you know it’s common practice why are you even asking the question? It states it’s not rude and should be taken for a no thank you.

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By *layful Harlequin OP   Man
over a year ago

iver heath

I get that and fine with no reply would not email a second time without response from them. Just the bloke straight away is over kill I think !

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"No it isn't rude, it just means that they don't want to meet you and block you so neither party contacts the other again. I regularly block members I don't want to meet, mostly I send a polite reply first these days. XXX"

This.

That or they may know you in ‘real life’

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

How many times had you messaged them previously? Did you read their profile first? There are many reasons why you might have been blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's very rude. I mean if you went and said hello to a woman in a bar and she just blanked you that would be pretty rude.

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By *vie RuthWoman
over a year ago

Just where the rainbow end.s . .

It's the way some people work on here I'm afraid Better they do it now rather than chat like some do Arrange a meet and then block you without meeting up .

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By *layful Harlequin OP   Man
over a year ago

iver heath


"I get that and fine with no reply would not email a second time without response from them. Just the bloke straight away is over kill I think !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People use it as a filter and although you may have been accepting of a polite thanks but no thanks, many on here become abusive once they've been turned down. The block prevents this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the blocking tool is oft used by dafties in forums that dont like the opinions of others...How childish

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By *layful Harlequin OP   Man
over a year ago

iver heath


"How many times had you messaged them previously? Did you read their profile first? There are many reasons why you might have been blocked."

Only once and do say I’ll not contact again if no reply

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"the blocking tool is oft used by dafties in forums that dont like the opinions of others...How childish"

That’s me to a t haha

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By *layful Harlequin OP   Man
over a year ago

iver heath

Well I guess it’s just the way things are but you feel like your in the wrong. In. Some way and puts you off saying hello to people I’m finding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times had you messaged them previously? Did you read their profile first? There are many reasons why you might have been blocked.

Only once and do say I’ll not contact again if no reply "

But how do they know that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You weren't their type. They couldn't be bothered to tell you, so they blocked you.

Not nice, move on and forget them."

this

don’t worry about the ones that block you, it’s the ones that reply agreeing to meet you, you have to keep your wits about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I guess it’s just the way things are but you feel like your in the wrong. In. Some way and puts you off saying hello to people I’m finding "
Don't beat yourself up over it dude ... shit happens here just like the real world.... move on and smile and b lucky

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