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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess this is inspired by some of the comments in the current jealousy thread.

I have been accused in the past (by those, close friends and the like, who are aware of my lifestyle) of being a 'cold fish' emotionally.

I don't think anything could be further from the truth. Both my F partner and my M fb know that's not the case (and I would hope that the people I have met think so too).

I think I am lucky to have the ability to seperate the sexual act from emotional bonding - but this is something a lot of 'conventional' folk struggle to get their head round.

So, what criticisms (if any) have you had levelled at you for choosing a non-conventional approach to your sex life ?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Whilst working on a trawler, a Skate was tied up in the wheelhouse and all the men fucked it.

A common occurrence, apparently.

Emotions, what are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who has actually owned up to having an alternative lifestyle?

I/we don't hide the fact we go dogging etc. But we don't broadcast the fact either.

We share experiences together not sneak off and do the dirty behind each others backs because someones not getting what they want at home, so who really is the "wet fish" emotionally?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I/we don't hide the fact we go dogging etc. But we don't broadcast the fact either.

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Me neither - but I have long term friends who are obviously aware of the choices I make and whilst they are accepting, that doesn't necessarily equate to them 'understanding' it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I/we don't hide the fact we go dogging etc. But we don't broadcast the fact either.

Me neither - but I have long term friends who are obviously aware of the choices I make and whilst they are accepting, that doesn't necessarily equate to them 'understanding' it."

Thats the common problem, too many people don't want to understand this type of lifestyle.

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