FabSwingers.com forum: Lights on or Lights Off ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I prefer low lights / dim lights / candles.

Hate it when people leave the 'big light' on when they accom - and have been known to ask them to switch um off (cheeky, I know)

Bright light always seems to draw my eyes and I am never able to lose myself in the meet as much as I do when the lighting is subtle.

So what do you prefer ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pitch black

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"pitch black

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no way, your far to hot to not be seen and admired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dimmed lights make for a nice relaxing setting. Full blown arc lights seem a bit to clinical for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Candles....I have wee flower lights round my bed so sometimes them but never ever the big light lol.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Mood lighting, so much more seductive

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

soft lighting i like to see every delicious curve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who I'm with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mood lighting, so much more seductive"

Definitely agree! This is one of the reasons we don't want to have pictures or video taken - the room ends up being lit like an operating theatre - yuk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer low lights / dim lights / candles.

Hate it when people leave the 'big light' on when they accom - and have been known to ask them to switch um off (cheeky, I know)

Bright light always seems to draw my eyes and I am never able to lose myself in the meet as much as I do when the lighting is subtle.

So what do you prefer ?"

Dont get much choice outside..

and its always lights on.. how else can I get the good camera lighting

Cali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Subtle low lighting is my favourite or candle light.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Subtle low lighting is my favourite or candle light.

and scented candles are such an effective way of losing the smell of sex after they've gone home

apart from the cinnamony ones that are always out at crimbo - they make me gag !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make it fun, blindfold and candles.....and have the fire brigade on hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Subtle low lighting is my favourite or candle light.

and scented candles are such an effective way of losing the smell of sex after they've gone home

apart from the cinnamony ones that are always out at crimbo - they make me gag !"

Lol i don't like the xmas ones either much. There are some lovely scented ones that do help set the mood for a hot night.

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

miners helmet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive just restored an age old fireplace in the bedroom

am gonna fill it with a nice candle arrangement for the coming winter nights

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Im sure low lights are best.. i dont want all my flabby bits on show.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I"m going for lights off to improve my chances

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Im sure low lights are best.. i dont want all my flabby bits on show.

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your tits arent flabby !!!! oops must make sure i read replies properly !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red light can create a delightfully erotic atmosphere

Though we forgot to take out the red bulbs in our bedroom on one occasion, and the look on the carpet fitter's face was priceless when he came down and asked if we had any stronger lights as he couldn't see what he doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Red light can create a delightfully erotic atmosphere

I'd give anything to be a fly on THAT perticular wall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything except you cock eh wishy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on just not too bright. I like to see what I'm doing it adds to the experience for me, although my victims oops partners, might prefer the dark lol

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By *TUNNAWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I prefer dimmed lights an candles.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I like lights on…. what we see adds to the mental stimulation. Whether they are the main lights dimmed, mood lighting, candles or all three I don’t really mind…. I just don’t want to get a burnt retina if I happen to look directly at it.

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

anglepoise lamp in the eyes...do me...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes no difference to me,,, if its ………Ambient day light………. Misty Moon-light,,,,…..100watt bright light…. Or Scented candlelight…. I’m easy……….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I’m easy……….

We know that Sox lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I’m easy……….

We know that Sox lol"

hahaha,,,,, Yeah I know........ but sometimes it would just be nice if it weren’t though necessity though !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I’m easy……….

We know that Sox lol

hahaha,,,,, Yeah I know........ but sometimes it would just be nice if it weren’t though necessity though !!!!

You were supposed to say you were also hard,.... Jeez do I have to do Everything for myself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I’m easy……….

We know that Sox lol

hahaha,,,,, Yeah I know........ but sometimes it would just be nice if it weren’t though necessity though !!!!

You were supposed to say you were also hard,.... Jeez do I have to do Everything for myself lol"

Yeeeeeeeeeeees……That’s it,,,,,, thats the reason "I’m easy”………. Because otherwise I end up having to do everything myself….!....haha

and far to often too lol.....

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

We prefer a low light situation, but the director says the camera doesn't pick up the close ups so well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mood lighting definitely

I'm not a candle fan really, I'd be scared that I'd set some guys cock on fire in the literal sense.

Though as we don't accommodate I had to make do with what's available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mood lighting and or candles. Hate that bright light thing too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Subtle low lighting is my favourite or candle light.

and scented candles are such an effective way of losing the smell of sex after they've gone home

apart from the cinnamony ones that are always out at crimbo - they make me gag !"

don't shove em down so far then. tch some people

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

As most of my meets are day time I dont really have a choice!!

But if I had my way it would be under the covers in complete darkness!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never ever everrrrrr do i have sex whilst its still light lol ... candles only or dark

xxx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

low lighting if I have 50p for the meter, failing that candles

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"low lighting if I have 50p for the meter, failing that candles

I'll put 50p in your meter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me,i prefer soft lighting.....something to hard about bright lights,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moon light in a car park!! I'm so classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enough lights to see what i'm enjoying, a meet once swapped herself for her granny...

Lights on now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on is a must just to make sure you dont get a swicheroo.

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Depends what we're doing, I prefer lowlights and candlelight but the bedroom gets really warm with lots of candles alight, thats for intimate, erotic sex, if we're having a night of BDSM then it has to be bright light, don't want to poke anyones eye out with me crop, or get a flogger in someones eye... lol..

Devil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just enough lighting to see what you doing lol

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By *ooseLipsWoman
over a year ago

Durham-ish

"just enough lighting to see what you doing lol

Same for me, I like to see whats on offer....

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By *DSRMan
over a year ago

leicester

candles, or dimmer for me... I enjoy the site of people so i don't want to not see them, but to much light feels more like a normal everyday nothing speical going on atmosphere... It's nice to set a mood

That said, i love morning sex in the natural day light via the window... that's greeeeeat tooooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mood lighting or lights off. Main lights are too offensive for fun.

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

"just enough lighting to see what you doing lol

Just enough to see WHO you are doing you mean!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anything that shows up a face fulla cum at least(on snaps) hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Low mood lighting fa women

And dark rooms fa most blokes lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind low lighting, but I prefer the person I'm with not to be too dim

Wolf

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows

Low lighting every time does it for me.... just as long as I can look into the womans eyes

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Off..or dimmed..the wife doesnt like me seeing her naked.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Not too bright but bright enough to perv all the fun! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't use the main light, usually just the lamp... no point in me getting all dressed to impress then switching all the lights out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im sure low lights are best.. i dont want all my flabby bits on show.

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am sure you look beautiful in any light.

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