FabSwingers.com forum: When you realise

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you realise that the meet is going well, and realisation has struck that one of you has to make a move, how do you react?

Do you move a hand to the knee with a sloth like approach? Pounce like a jaguar pinning them down? Get all chimpanzee and poke a finger in the bum?

What do you do?

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Is lobbing ya cock out too subtle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well last time I met someone we were supposed to go for a coffee, I got in his car and said we'll have a cuppa tea in my house. As soon as we got in my house we were all over each other and I was pulling his dick out to suck. Think I may have been a bit too forward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last meet, I just walked up to her, hand on her waist, and have her a kiss. Look where that got me

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Not too forward at all. Us guys are quite simple really and need that direct help

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Haha mine never seems to go past social status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have to make the first move. I’m no good in reading if a man is interested in me. They usually go to kiss me, if i like them i snog them, if i’m not feeling it they get my cheek.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Interesting question. Hand on knee or thigh and lean in for a kiss. Is usually a good start.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"They have to make the first move. I’m no good in reading if a man is interested in me. They usually go to kiss me, if i like them i snog them, if i’m not feeling it they get my cheek."

I like this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last meet social in pub near his house .Then he invited me back too his .i think it was my low dress and heels.Then back at his he closed door slapped my ass and took me too his bed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My last meet social in pub near his house .Then he invited me back too his .i think it was my low dress and heels.Then back at his he closed door slapped my ass and took me too his bed.

there's no way I'd slap someone's arse on the first meet unless I knew they realky wanted it...could go horribly wrong !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, with a grin, asked if he still fancied me and wanted to have a fuck.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

I tend to freeze.. the fear of making a wrong move kicks in..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wait till the grab me kiss me and push me back against the wall...

After that.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes those three little words help....

FAF

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By *addynLouV2Couple
over a year ago

Mad House

I usually start to take some of my clothes off...when it feels right, and make my way over to whoever looks most excited

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Were Really crap at reading signals, so they would have to be a bit foward and come out with it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm oblivious to hints. I need telling. I won't make the first move partly because I don't want to offend and partly because I don't want to fall foul of non consentual touching.

It is a minefield.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

You are so right. A potential minefield indeed.

I would rather be seen as being a bit slow rather than crude or pushy.

Makes the occasions when it all clicks so special though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus leave a guy in suspense why don’t you!!

Did you get your cup of tea or what??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a hand on the thigh or some form of accidental hand brushing gently into her....

My fave is the classic hand in the small of the back manoeuvre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can usually read signals well... Sometimes body language etc can be hard to read. If i'm interested the guy will know.

Last guy I met, we were laughing as soon as we got to my hotel room, we clicked.

Pretty obvious we were into each other, solidified when he lay on my bed, looked at me and said 'bend over'

The rest was history, veri to prove it and planning for him to spend the night with me when i'm back in Scotland.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I, with a grin, asked if he still fancied me and wanted to have a fuck. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well last time I met someone we were supposed to go for a coffee, I got in his car and said we'll have a cuppa tea in my house. As soon as we got in my house we were all over each other and I was pulling his dick out to suck. Think I may have been a bit too forward!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They have to make the first move. I’m no good in reading if a man is interested in me. They usually go to kiss me, if i like them i snog them, if i’m not feeling it they get my cheek."

I was looking forward to some 'cheek' verification's but you don't show them!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

" When you realise that the meet is going well, and realisation has struck that one of you has to make a move, how do you react?

Do you move a hand to the knee with a sloth like approach? Pounce like a jaguar pinning them down? Get all chimpanzee and poke a finger in the bum?

What do you do? "

I don't do things by numbers or formula

Being empathic one feels the way

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

When she goes the toilet,

Strip naked and when she comes back,

While holding your cock,

Just say

Can you give us a hand with this,

You win some an lose some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It started with a kiss....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Just say..... So..... Fancy a fuck?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They have to make the first move. I’m no good in reading if a man is interested in me. They usually go to kiss me, if i like them i snog them, if i’m not feeling it they get my cheek.

I was looking forward to some 'cheek' verification's but you don't show them!"

No i’ve deleted my profile a few times and lost them. My most recent meet has given up re-veryifying me. He’s had more than my cheek though

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I'm so bad at reading signals, and I find it difficult to think anyone would want to fuck me. But if I think they're interested and not going to make a move, I lightly touch their arm or knee, maintain eye contact, and lean forward slightly as they're talking

Works every time

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By *aptain ScarlettWoman
over a year ago

swansea

I find that while having a chat in the hotel bar and I see that twinkle in the eye (so a confirmed fanny flutter) the easiest way is to just give them my room number.Then hope like hell they will follow and won't leave me hanging !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My last meet social in pub near his house .Then he invited me back too his .i think it was my low dress and heels.Then back at his he closed door slapped my ass and took me too his bed.

there's no way I'd slap someone's arse on the first meet unless I knew they realky wanted it...could go horribly wrong !

We had chatted for months and knew each other really well before social meet .Sometimes you just know what too do with the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" When you realise that the meet is going well, and realisation has struck that one of you has to make a move, how do you react?

Do you move a hand to the knee with a sloth like approach? Pounce like a jaguar pinning them down? Get all chimpanzee and poke a finger in the bum?

What do you do? "

I will have pre-agreed my “rooster hand” signal.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Just shout "tits oooot!" Crack on from there.

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By *4gnumprMan
over a year ago

telford

Your a Dream

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find that while having a chat in the hotel bar and I see that twinkle in the eye (so a confirmed fanny flutter) the easiest way is to just give them my room number.Then hope like hell they will follow and won't leave me hanging !!

fanny flutter?

what if the can't remember the room number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One meet I had she literally unzipped me at the front door. Don't even think she said hello lol

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"I, with a grin, asked if he still fancied me and wanted to have a fuck. "

I hope he said yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My last meet, I just walked up to her, hand on her waist, and have her a kiss. Look where that got me

Doesn't sound forward at all. Sounds as sexy as hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's hot!

It is a minefield. I'm a pretty big guy and some find me intimidating and that's the last thing I want any lady to be around me so I generally err on the side of caution.

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By *reckledWoman
over a year ago

manchester

The last time I met someone we were sat in the pub and he got up to go to the toilet and as he was standing up he leaned a bit further and just went for it. I wasn’t expecting it at all! Pleasant surprise though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When something is happening a wee smile and a kiss usually works when the lady makes the first move

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