FabSwingers.com forum: Can you go off someone because of this Forum?

By *oiretblanc OP Couple
over a year ago

London

Recently I have been turned off some people after reading their posts on the Forum...

They have a great profile and very sexy photos and we all seem to fancy each other and are happily messaging away...and then I read something they have written in the Forum and it all goes sour!

Anyone else ever experienced this?

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Recently I have been turned off some people after reading their posts on the Forum...

They have a great profile and very sexy photos and we all seem to fancy each other and are happily messaging away...and then I read something they have written in the Forum and it all goes sour!

Anyone else ever experienced this? "

Yep

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Recently I have been turned off some people after reading their posts on the Forum...

They have a great profile and very sexy photos and we all seem to fancy each other and are happily messaging away...and then I read something they have written in the Forum and it all goes sour!

Anyone else ever experienced this?

Yep"

But glad I found out before I met them lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I do my best to put people off with my forum posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep!

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Yep. I do my best to put people off with my forum posts"

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Oh my goodness yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. And I'm sure they wouldn't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently I have been turned off some people after reading their posts on the Forum...

They have a great profile and very sexy photos and we all seem to fancy each other and are happily messaging away...and then I read something they have written in the Forum and it all goes sour!

Anyone else ever experienced this? "

Yep

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Deffo yes ..But on the flip side I've made a couple of really good friends too . So it's both really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take to people on here because of what they look like in their profile pics.

If I'm drawn to someone it's because of what they say. If they suddenly turn on someone, and I don't think it was justified, I can change my mind about them. I do understand that no body is perfect, and we all have our imperfections and bad days, so it can be forgiven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes jack usually ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forum and status updates yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, just the same as I'm sure I've written things that have put people off.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Viewing forum posts in my opinion is the best insight you have on people. You can’t get that from normal messaging.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

In fact in the past I’ve even told potential meets that are non forumites that I post. This is who I am and this is what I stand for.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Deffo yes ..But on the flip side I've made a couple of really good friends too . So it's both really

This is true..I messaged a guy from a forum post.....and he is now my partner in crime, FB, soul mate, best friend ( and I am secretly in love with him ha ha....although I am sure he knows as we are so similar lol)

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Viewing forum posts in my opinion is the best insight you have on people. You can’t get that from normal messaging. "

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Yep, just the same as I'm sure I've written things that have put people off.

Guilty as charged too x

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Deffo yes ..But on the flip side I've made a couple of really good friends too . So it's both really

No longer a secret then

yay shall we all buy hats

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I try to give a benefit of the doubt at first or try not to jump to conclusions and see if it’s a regular pattern or mind set off that person where they come out with the same thing repeatedly or even worser things then yes I tend to steer clear.....fair enough we don’t know each other in real life but I guess the forums give a glimpse off some ones personality and people see that as a way to vet people.

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By *lastic.Mask.ManMan
over a year ago

Grimsby

Oh yes but I also find myself more interested in certain people because of what they post.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Deffo yes ..But on the flip side I've made a couple of really good friends too . So it's both really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can go off people simply because of the day of the week it is, I don't need the forum to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently I have been turned off some people after reading their posts on the Forum...

They have a great profile and very sexy photos and we all seem to fancy each other and are happily messaging away...and then I read something they have written in the Forum and it all goes sour!

Anyone else ever experienced this? "

Oh yes all the time. And I have no problem that people will have judged me by my posts. But of course the opposite can and will be true.

It's one of the reasons I post what I think, I'd rather be liked/disliked for what I believe rather than what I said to court favour or popularity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. I do my best to put people off with my forum posts"
same here

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

...maybe it’s also down to individual instinct/gut feeling about some one which can a lot off the times be right so naturally we follow it, and other times maybe we just caught said person on a bad day or on a sensitive subject perhaps? I’m just brain storming..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always interesting to see how people interact with others. Constant sniping and negativity towards others reveals far more than the flirtatious private message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tolerance is the key....

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Deffo yes ..But on the flip side I've made a couple of really good friends too . So it's both really

No longer a secret then

yay shall we all buy hats "
Great idea . The first ever fab social at a wedding

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By *elvet Teddy18Woman
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

A picture is just what we want to flaunt.

There's a lot to be said for what some think is acceptable to post in the forums.

You can't win them all! But some aren't worth winning

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Deffo yes ..But on the flip side I've made a couple of really good friends too . So it's both really

No longer a secret then

yay shall we all buy hats "

No need lol...he is no longer on here as he is terminally ill....

We still go to Chams when he feels well enough....but our time is/will be limited and sadly one day will come to an end x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"If they suddenly turn on someone, and I don't think it was justified, I can change my mind about them. I do understand that no body is perfect, and we all have our imperfections and bad days, so it can be forgiven. "

This has happened a few times for me. Or if they have a particular opinion that I really disagree with and they are a knob with it then it tends to make close up as well.

I do agree with the latter part of the above - I tend to get a general feel for a poster and it's fairly obvious when external factors are affecting their post.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Recently I have been turned off some people after reading their posts on the Forum...

They have a great profile and very sexy photos and we all seem to fancy each other and are happily messaging away...and then I read something they have written in the Forum and it all goes sour!

Anyone else ever experienced this?

Oh yes all the time. And I have no problem that people will have judged me by my posts. But of course the opposite can and will be true.

It's one of the reasons I post what I think, I'd rather be liked/disliked for what I believe rather than what I said to court favour or popularity"

be true to yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if racist or intolerant! I've also been attracted to women more after reading what they've wrote

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Recently I have been turned off some people after reading their posts on the Forum...

They have a great profile and very sexy photos and we all seem to fancy each other and are happily messaging away...and then I read something they have written in the Forum and it all goes sour!

Anyone else ever experienced this?

Oh yes all the time. And I have no problem that people will have judged me by my posts. But of course the opposite can and will be true.

It's one of the reasons I post what I think, I'd rather be liked/disliked for what I believe rather than what I said to court favour or popularity"

Well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it my post insisting that the 1993 quality control legislation act in regards to commercial office fittings and fixtures be changed?

You can tell me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet . It would have to be something really bad to do so though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently I have been turned off some people after reading their posts on the Forum...

They have a great profile and very sexy photos and we all seem to fancy each other and are happily messaging away...and then I read something they have written in the Forum and it all goes sour!

Anyone else ever experienced this? "

Yes because you start to see the real person.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Yes but people can be different in person and words can be misconstrued.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Yes... depending on the context. Sometimes humour can be misconstrued... I tend to wait and see how things pan out before making snap judgements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beware the ones who are "nice" in the forums, but spiteful and nasty by private message.

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"Was it my post insisting that the 1993 quality control legislation act in regards to commercial office fittings and fixtures be changed?

You can tell me "
nah, they probably read what yo wrote and thought “daaaaamn this boy has hitting the books”.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Recently I have been turned off some people after reading their posts on the Forum...

They have a great profile and very sexy photos and we all seem to fancy each other and are happily messaging away...and then I read something they have written in the Forum and it all goes sour!

Anyone else ever experienced this? "

abso-bloody-lutely!!!

profiles are a bit like a shiny book cover... but forums posting sometimes reveal the truer person.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you can. A profile is written in a manner to appeal and tempt.

The forums are insights into the persons personality. But as stated, the written word is easy to misconstrue here,but the green tick reveals lots!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had many people block me because of my forum posts. Give a fuck, nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah sure, equally a forum post can make me want to get on someone.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

" Of course you can. A profile is written in a manner to appeal and tempt.

The forums are insights into the persons personality. But as stated, the written word is easy to misconstrue here,but the green tick reveals lots!!"
What green tick ??

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

As most of my contacts are with people from the forums what they have to say here tends to be a key shaper as to whether I decide to interact with them or not.

A person's forum posts can be both an attraction and something that puts me off - there have been one or two that I've been interacting with that have fizzled out mainly due to the way they have acted on forums but conversely there have been some who my initial impression has changed for the better as a result of their posts too

Generally speaking, and as others have said I think the forums are a great way of seeing how someone really is beyond their profile blurb

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

" Of course you can. A profile is written in a manner to appeal and tempt.

The forums are insights into the persons personality. But as stated, the written word is easy to misconstrue here,but the green tick reveals lots!! What green tick ??

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next to the persons name you can see what other threads they have posted in

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Deffo yes ..But on the flip side I've made a couple of really good friends too . So it's both really

No longer a secret then

yay shall we all buy hats

No need lol...he is no longer on here as he is terminally ill....

We still go to Chams when he feels well enough....but our time is/will be limited and sadly one day will come to an end x"

Oh Lordy Lordy. I’m so sorry to hear that. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently I have been turned off some people after reading their posts on the Forum...

They have a great profile and very sexy photos and we all seem to fancy each other and are happily messaging away...and then I read something they have written in the Forum and it all goes sour!

Anyone else ever experienced this? "

It's a great way to filter. There are quite a few that I have blocked after reading their comments and I have no doubt that we have been blocked by a few as well.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Deffo yes ..But on the flip side I've made a couple of really good friends too . So it's both really

No longer a secret then

yay shall we all buy hats Great idea . The first ever fab social at a wedding

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Oh shit . Now I feel bad sorry

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

Yes. With some people it is an easy decision.

With one or two you eventually realise it is time to stop trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

I don’t like overly flirtatious men, so if a man is flirting with every lass on the forums i go right off. This doesn’t matter whether we have communicated/chatted or not.

I like cool calm casual types, not arse licking in an attempt to get a shag types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep.

I don’t like overly flirtatious men, so if a man is flirting with every lass on the forums i go right off. This doesn’t matter whether we have communicated/chatted or not.

I like cool calm casual types, not arse licking in an attempt to get a shag types.

Yes me too i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once you get past a superficial impression of someone and start to see their true personality, it's almost inevitable that it'll happen

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Forums are rather a double edged sword when it comes to getting attention. They both alert people to our presence and also alert people to our character traits they may not like. Still it helps with the filtering, who'd want to be with someone who didn't like them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep.

I don’t like overly flirtatious men, so if a man is flirting with every lass on the forums i go right off. This doesn’t matter whether we have communicated/chatted or not.

I like cool calm casual types, not arse licking in an attempt to get a shag types.

Really hard to communicate that you are cool, calm and casual on here. My Pet peeve is arrogance. It's a real stumbling block on here as there's loads of it

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Very much so.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Very much so."

Be nice

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Yep. I do my best to put people off with my forum posts same here"

I don’t understand that,how do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to think of the forum as something separate from the rest of the site. I will have a peruse,read posts that seem of interest and maybe post something of my own,all while waiting for a reply to a message or as a bit of a break while browsing.It's just like having a conversation in a bar while waiting for someone to show up.

If anyone doesn't like what I have to say on the forum,then they probably wouldn't like me in real life either.So it is probably quite a good filter, for me as well as them.

A profile often only gives a small snapshot whereas a persons posts on the forum can give a deeper insight.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Very much so.

Be nice

You're always nice,I try to be but fail sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure

On the flip side forum posts have also endeared me to someone I would never have otherwise given a second glance.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Very much so.

Be nice

You're always nice,I try to be but fail sometimes

Happy Tuesday

fabalicious lady

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm much more likely to form a favourable opinion of someone because of their posts. There are a few people I disagree with on almost everything but I admire them immensely because they remain consistent and true the themselves.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Very much so.

Be nice

You're always nice,I try to be but fail sometimes

Happy Tuesday

fabalicious lady

Happy Tuesday

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

It can work both ways for me. Some people seem nice but then can be quite nasty with their posts. Then others give the impression that they’re quite harsh and prickly and then post some lovley things and are very intuitive and caring.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Very few, but they aren't the people I'd want to meet anyway.

I do remember someone saying that they thought that I "didn't like" them because of something forum related, which I found odd because a) I'd never met them before and b)I can disagree intellectually with someone without disliking them.

I live in rural England, have worked in Agriculture all my life and am politically left leaning and socially libertarian (which is not the same as "liberal"), if I didn't like people I disagreed with I wouldn't have any friends.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Recently I have been turned off some people after reading their posts on the Forum...

They have a great profile and very sexy photos and we all seem to fancy each other and are happily messaging away...and then I read something they have written in the Forum and it all goes sour!

Anyone else ever experienced this? "

Absolutely, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't take to people on here because of what they look like in their profile pics.

This for me too.

There's some people I disagree with but I still respect their views. I'd chat to them in person but I doubt they'd want to chat to me.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"It can work both ways for me. Some people seem nice but then can be quite nasty with their posts. Then others give the impression that they’re quite harsh and prickly and then post some lovley things and are very intuitive and caring. "

Yes this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. I do my best to put people off with my forum posts same here

I don’t understand that,how do you mean?"

i make joke and people take it the wrong way in the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have and I’m sure I’ll go off a few more

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Its very easy to assume a person is as they post but it is so easy to misinterpret what is written and make an incorrect assumption..

If it is persistent then it is probably fair to say that it is a trait, however, human nature being what it is, it seems the one strike rule usually applies and that redemption is never found as future posts will be overlooked..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep... a few times. And glad I was saved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beware the ones who are "nice" in the forums, but spiteful and nasty by private message.

The problem with the forums is, people can't be spiteful or nasty to someone, because they get a ban.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its very easy to assume a person is as they post but it is so easy to misinterpret what is written and make an incorrect assumption..

so u saying people here do not stand a second chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently I have been turned off some people after reading their posts on the Forum...

They have a great profile and very sexy photos and we all seem to fancy each other and are happily messaging away...and then I read something they have written in the Forum and it all goes sour!

Anyone else ever experienced this? "

Most definitely but I'm million percent sure I've said things that have made people feel the same about me hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm never swayed by forum personas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deffo yes ..But on the flip side I've made a couple of really good friends too . So it's both really

This

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Does make you think really...? At times lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Their bad posts wouldn't put me off if they had nice tits or a pretty fajiner.

My posts make me come across as a vacuous narcassist which can be off putting I guess but fuck em! They are probably like really ugly with bad hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently I have been turned off some people after reading their posts on the Forum...

They have a great profile and very sexy photos and we all seem to fancy each other and are happily messaging away...and then I read something they have written in the Forum and it all goes sour!

Anyone else ever experienced this?

Absolutely, yes."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. And I'm sure they wouldn't care."

i don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know if anyone else feels like this but although I’ve met a few from the forum when I was single and one since for a social, I feel like the people posting on the forum aren’t real, they go back into their little boxes once they have had their say, I view profiles of course I do and think ‘oh they seem nice’ but in terms of using the forum as a place to gauge how they are as a person is a nil point for me (I can’t speak for Ads) as there is a very very slim chance of us ever meeting anyone from the forums as we aren’t everyone’s cup of tea! So when I see someone posting something that I don’t agree with etc it never really registers with me as I know I won’t be meeting them, likewise if it was someone that I did agree with, the likehood of me meeting them is very slim.

Hope that made sense?

Geeky x

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

You deff start forming opinions of people on forums, rightly or wrongly. For many its the first impression of them and how they go about things. Human nature. G

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Hell to the yes. Of all genders.

Folk have blocked me, I've blocked folk. Such is life.

I tend to block people from my inbox that I don't wish to know in real life. Same applies here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. And I'm sure they wouldn't care.

i don’t

But by replying to me belies that somewhat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. And I'm sure they wouldn't care.

i don’t

But by replying to me belies that somewhat."

Boom

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

"Its very easy to assume a person is as they post but it is so easy to misinterpret what is written and make an incorrect assumption..

so u saying people here do not stand a second chance

Im not talking to you, ever.. you disagreed with me on another post once!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been attracted to someone via the forum (hence my current relationship status) and it's true what most are saying. You can tell so much about a person from what they post, their opinions on certain issues and their general manner.

I guess that's why I've only ever met people I've spoken to on the forums.

P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. And I'm sure they wouldn't care.

i don’t

But by replying to me belies that somewhat."

i’ve walked through the mirror and ended up in fantasy land, where all your assumptions are true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. And I'm sure they wouldn't care.

i don’t

But by replying to me belies that somewhat.

i’ve walked through the mirror and ended up in fantasy land, where all your assumptions are true

"
whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this instance...

Chat shit , don't get banged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. And I'm sure they wouldn't care.

i don’t

But by replying to me belies that somewhat.

i’ve walked through the mirror and ended up in fantasy land, where all your assumptions are true

whatever "

Give it a rest you two,bloodyhell

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I know a few people have blocked me due to my forum posts.

Probably on the topics of hilsbrough, single guy bashing, and childish posts.

Saying that I know that people don’t like me as I wear a collar sometimes and people think I am sub in real life (actually switch but hey ho)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a few people have blocked me due to my forum posts.

Probably on the topics of hilsbrough, single guy bashing, and childish posts.

Saying that I know that people don’t like me as I wear a collar sometimes and people think I am sub in real life (actually switch but hey ho)

Lots of forum users have blocked me,but still have banter with me on here......go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a few people have blocked me due to my forum posts.

Probably on the topics of hilsbrough, single guy bashing, and childish posts.

Saying that I know that people don’t like me as I wear a collar sometimes and people think I am sub in real life (actually switch but hey ho)

Lots of forum users have blocked me,but still have banter with me on here......go figure

Cant believe iv just put "go figure"

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By *alentino7Man
over a year ago

London

"Forum and status updates yes

This. It never happened to me OP but I guess it's a quite frequent possibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. And I'm sure they wouldn't care.

i don’t

But by replying to me belies that somewhat.

i’ve walked through the mirror and ended up in fantasy land, where all your assumptions are true

whatever

Give it a rest you two,bloodyhell

i’m still waiting for my apology, she told everyone in the forum that disliked her?

and not a clue why she thought that?

i go off people cause they make shit up just to get the sympathy vote, well fuck that crap, if people want to believe what they read then fine, but fucked if i can be arsed with people who tell lies just to get noticed.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I know a few people have blocked me due to my forum posts.

Probably on the topics of hilsbrough, single guy bashing, and childish posts.

Saying that I know that people don’t like me as I wear a collar sometimes and people think I am sub in real life (actually switch but hey ho)

Lots of forum users have blocked me,but still have banter with me on here......go figure

Cant believe iv just put "go figure""

I can't believe you have either,that's worse than using emojis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on here make shit up

Aren't all they seem to be?

Even on the forum??

Tut. And you all claim to be such an honest bunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. I'm sure that I've rubbed people up the wrong way too. Not everyone will get along. I wouldn't block those I don't get along with (though there are some I've broken that rule with

). I just avoid their posts or comments and interact with those I do like. A bit like how I manage my inbox really. Makes for a stress free time. I come on here for escapism and fun, not for drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. And I'm sure they wouldn't care.

i don’t

But by replying to me belies that somewhat.

i’ve walked through the mirror and ended up in fantasy land, where all your assumptions are true

whatever

Give it a rest you two,bloodyhell

i’m still waiting for my apology, she told everyone in the forum that disliked her?

and not a clue why she thought that?

Why on earth would anyone on the forum care? Why would you care? Sympathy?? Lie to get noticed? Now you're making shit up.

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

I think the forums can easily have have a negative effect on a fab experience. Opinions can be quite unattractive and certainly don't often appeal to the masses. Its too easy to come across the wrong way in type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a few people have blocked me due to my forum posts.

Probably on the topics of hilsbrough, single guy bashing, and childish posts.

Saying that I know that people don’t like me as I wear a collar sometimes and people think I am sub in real life (actually switch but hey ho)

Lots of forum users have blocked me,but still have banter with me on here......go figure

Cant believe iv just put "go figure"

I can't believe you have either,that's worse than using emojis

I did use an emoji earlier,i feel 14 again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. And I'm sure they wouldn't care.

i don’t

But by replying to me belies that somewhat.

i’ve walked through the mirror and ended up in fantasy land, where all your assumptions are true

whatever

Give it a rest you two,bloodyhell

i’m still waiting for my apology, she told everyone in the forum that disliked her?

and not a clue why she thought that?

Why on earth would anyone on the forum care? Why would you care? Sympathy?? Lie to get noticed? Now you're making shit up. "

am i? which bit?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I know a few people have blocked me due to my forum posts.

Probably on the topics of hilsbrough, single guy bashing, and childish posts.

Saying that I know that people don’t like me as I wear a collar sometimes and people think I am sub in real life (actually switch but hey ho)

Lots of forum users have blocked me,but still have banter with me on here......go figure

Cant believe iv just put "go figure"

I can't believe you have either,that's worse than using emojis

I did use an emoji earlier,i feel 14 again"

So you used 'go figure' and an emoji! Tut tut.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve not been put off anyone from the forums by their posts but, as Geeky said, I’m highly unlikely to meet them so it doesn’t bother me - we’re all just chatting and people can hold what views they want without upsetting me in real life.

There was one gentleman however, that used to really annoy me. Every single post. Just so negative and horrible to people. I left the forums for a few months to stop getting wound up in real life about it and when I returned he was gone and all was well with the world! That was a good day

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

It works the other way too - I have found that some people who I thought would possibly be stand offish are absolutely lovely

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

It’s good to have a real example in the thread

Oh no! I believed the shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. And I'm sure they wouldn't care.

i don’t

But by replying to me belies that somewhat.

i’ve walked through the mirror and ended up in fantasy land, where all your assumptions are true

whatever

Give it a rest you two,bloodyhell

i’m still waiting for my apology, she told everyone in the forum that disliked her?

and not a clue why she thought that?

Why on earth would anyone on the forum care? Why would you care? Sympathy?? Lie to get noticed? Now you're making shit up.

am i? which bit?"

All of it. And I suspect you're projecting your own motivations. I'll leave you to it. Have fun.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Yes. And I'm sure they wouldn't care.

i don’t

But by replying to me belies that somewhat.

i’ve walked through the mirror and ended up in fantasy land, where all your assumptions are true

whatever

Give it a rest you two,bloodyhell

i’m still waiting for my apology, she told everyone in the forum that disliked her?

and not a clue why she thought that?

Why on earth would anyone on the forum care? Why would you care? Sympathy?? Lie to get noticed? Now you're making shit up.

am i? which bit?"

It's so obvious you two are hot for each other, just get a room and get it over with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a couple of forumites, and if anything, their forum posts made them more appealing. But I know what you mean, some people reveal themselves to be actual morons through posting here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a few people have blocked me due to my forum posts.

Probably on the topics of hilsbrough, single guy bashing, and childish posts.

Saying that I know that people don’t like me as I wear a collar sometimes and people think I am sub in real life (actually switch but hey ho)

Lots of forum users have blocked me,but still have banter with me on here......go figure

Cant believe iv just put "go figure"

I can't believe you have either,that's worse than using emojis

I did use an emoji earlier,i feel 14 again

So you used 'go figure' and an emoji! Tut tut."

I feel in a rebellious mood today

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Beware the ones who are "nice" in the forums, but spiteful and nasty by private message.

The problem with the forums is, people can't be spiteful or nasty to someone, because they get a ban. "

Lol, oh I don't know - I've seen quite a lot of spite on the forums!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Yes. And I'm sure they wouldn't care.

i don’t

But by replying to me belies that somewhat.

i’ve walked through the mirror and ended up in fantasy land, where all your assumptions are true

whatever

Give it a rest you two,bloodyhell

i’m still waiting for my apology, she told everyone in the forum that disliked her?

and not a clue why she thought that?

Why on earth would anyone on the forum care? Why would you care? Sympathy?? Lie to get noticed? Now you're making shit up. "

Maybe ignore each other now please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. And I'm sure they wouldn't care.

i don’t

But by replying to me belies that somewhat.

i’ve walked through the mirror and ended up in fantasy land, where all your assumptions are true

whatever

Give it a rest you two,bloodyhell

i’m still waiting for my apology, she told everyone in the forum that disliked her?

and not a clue why she thought that?

Why on earth would anyone on the forum care? Why would you care? Sympathy?? Lie to get noticed? Now you're making shit up.

Maybe ignore each other now please

You'd have banned me for less than he's said.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Yes. And I'm sure they wouldn't care.

i don’t

But by replying to me belies that somewhat.

i’ve walked through the mirror and ended up in fantasy land, where all your assumptions are true

whatever

Give it a rest you two,bloodyhell

i’m still waiting for my apology, she told everyone in the forum that disliked her?

and not a clue why she thought that?

Why on earth would anyone on the forum care? Why would you care? Sympathy?? Lie to get noticed? Now you're making shit up.

Maybe ignore each other now please

You'd have banned me for less than he's said."

Right now I am trying to give both of you a chance to take it elsewhere, if you both carry on then I might be banning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met a couple of forumites, and if anything, their forum posts made them more appealing. But I know what you mean, some people reveal themselves to be actual morons through posting here!"

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over a year ago

"I've met a couple of forumites, and if anything, their forum posts made them more appealing. But I know what you mean, some people reveal themselves to be actual morons through posting here!

Haha that wasn't directed at anyone in particular!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.... and I thought I was having an off day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met a couple of forumites, and if anything, their forum posts made them more appealing. But I know what you mean, some people reveal themselves to be actual morons through posting here!

Haha that wasn't directed at anyone in particular!!"

I know but if there’s piss flying about I like to take a shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. We wouldn't meet anyone who uses the forums so don't need to worry about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s worked both ways for me.

I’ve met men because I liked how they came across & conducted themselves. I’ve also not people based on this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also think doesn’t matter how many times people ‘reinvent’ themselves, their true colours always show through on here at some point...just have to bide time.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Can people stop breaking rules on the thread, if you want to dispute a ban you have had do what Admin ask and ask them from the contact button. If you keep doing it on the forum you are likely to get another ban

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

As this is turning bitchy I am going to shut this. Here are the forum rules if anyone wants to read them

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

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