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By *heekycheeky25 OP   Man
over a year ago

Twickenham

Had no luck as of yet on fab. I know a lot of ladies just get spam mail or constantly get cock pics. And it ruins it for genuine guys looking for some swinging fun. But I’ll stick it out for a little longer. Would love to get to know some women on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many. Just look at their veris

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Nobody meets on here, its all a game lol

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By *heekycheeky25 OP   Man
over a year ago

Twickenham

I do but I message and because they get so many spam messages they may skip without reading mine

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

You’ve only been on 3 weeks - give it time!!

Try a club or social, that’ll help you get to know people xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had no luck as of yet on fab. I know a lot of ladies just get spam mail or constantly get cock pics. And it ruins it for genuine guys looking for some swinging fun. But I’ll stick it out for a little longer. Would love to get to know some women on fab?"

You've only been on 3 weeks and you have one picture and barely any bio

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By *heekycheeky25 OP   Man
over a year ago

Twickenham

I’m going to a club on Wednesday. How do I get involved in socials? Xx

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I’m going to a club on Wednesday. How do I get involved in socials? Xx"

Look for them advertised on the forums

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By *lastic.Mask.ManMan
over a year ago

Grimsby


"I’m going to a club on Wednesday. How do I get involved in socials? Xx"

Be social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody is ruining anything for anybody,if anything,some are actually making it easier for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a genuine guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do but I message and because they get so many spam messages they may skip without reading mine"

what do you mean by 'spam mail'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spam spam spam spam egg beans n spam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spam spam spam spam egg beans n spam "

Green eggs and spam

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By *heekycheeky25 OP   Man
over a year ago

Twickenham

Junk mail. I get the picture lol. I need to be more involved in socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Junk mail. I get the picture lol. I need to be more involved in socials "

What is a ‘genuine guy’ ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also - I’ve never received any junk mail on here...am I missing out?!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Junk mail. I get the picture lol. I need to be more involved in socials "

And stop insinuating people aren’t genuine. Some have been here years and worked hard to build up friendships/relationships.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Also - I’ve never received any junk mail on here...am I missing out?! "

Do you want to claim ppi??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also - I’ve never received any junk mail on here...am I missing out?!

Do you want to claim ppi??"

I want a millionaire prince to give me money!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also - I’ve never received any junk mail on here...am I missing out?!

Do you want to claim ppi??"

Have you been injured at work and it wasn’t your fault?

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Junk mail. I get the picture lol. I need to be more involved in socials "

i've never seen any junk mail in messages, or heard anyone ever mention it...thats nonsense..stupid excuse

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Also - I’ve never received any junk mail on here...am I missing out?!

Do you want to claim ppi??

I want a millionaire prince to give me money!! "

Oh snap!

One just emailed me this morning.

Will I forward on his details?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also - I’ve never received any junk mail on here...am I missing out?!

Do you want to claim ppi??

I want a millionaire prince to give me money!!

Oh snap!

One just emailed me this morning.

Will I forward on his details? "

Oh yes please! Could do with a couple of million this month

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine. "

I’m gonna start blocking people anytime I see the words genuine/time waster and more importantly the biggest pisser-offer ‘dreamer’ written. They drive me up the bloody wall.

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By *lastic.Mask.ManMan
over a year ago

Grimsby


"Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine.

I’m gonna start blocking people anytime I see the words genuine/time waster and more importantly the biggest pisser-offer ‘dreamer’ written. They drive me up the bloody wall. "

You will be using the block button alot then.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

We've posted on quite a few a similar threads but what seems to come across is that most seem to think that just sending out messages is the key to success on here. It's not.

As I've said many times before, FAB is just another tool in your box, sometimes useful, sometimes not, but you need a hell of a lot more to complete the job, along with a bit of patience and a lot of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine.

I’m gonna start blocking people anytime I see the words genuine/time waster and more importantly the biggest pisser-offer ‘dreamer’ written. They drive me up the bloody wall. "

I do the exact same already. Or professional or the brilliant ‘I make 50 shades look tame’ damn, you’re going to stalk and abuse me aren’t ya?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine.

I’m gonna start blocking people anytime I see the words genuine/time waster and more importantly the biggest pisser-offer ‘dreamer’ written. They drive me up the bloody wall.

You will be using the block button alot then."

I will have RSI by the end of it. Better not use my fave wank finger.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine.

I’m gonna start blocking people anytime I see the words genuine/time waster and more importantly the biggest pisser-offer ‘dreamer’ written. They drive me up the bloody wall.

I do the exact same already. Or professional or the brilliant ‘I make 50 shades look tame’ damn, you’re going to stalk and abuse me aren’t ya? "

Sod it. Might add ‘dom’ in there.

So you once pulled someone’s hair and called them a bitch... check you out, you mad man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine.

I’m gonna start blocking people anytime I see the words genuine/time waster and more importantly the biggest pisser-offer ‘dreamer’ written. They drive me up the bloody wall.

I do the exact same already. Or professional or the brilliant ‘I make 50 shades look tame’ damn, you’re going to stalk and abuse me aren’t ya?

Sod it. Might add ‘dom’ in there.

So you once pulled someone’s hair and called them a bitch... check you out, you mad man. "

Oh you spanked your ex girlfriend? Come get me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is ruining anything for you.

Women not replying doesn't mean they aren't genuine.

Claiming to be genuine is meaningless.

Understand why those 3 points are true and you'll be fine on here

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"I do but I message and because they get so many spam messages they may skip without reading mine"

That isn't why they are skipping yours.

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By *heekycheeky25 OP   Man
over a year ago

Twickenham

I’m newish to the website. It’s interesting to see how some people react to newbies. I’m still getting to grips with things and learning how it works. I guess I worded what I was trying to say wrong. But doesn’t matter a lot of people seem really touchy about this stuff. Happy swinging people. I haven’t come here to cause any upset... Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do people actually meet ungenuine people ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m newish to the website. It’s interesting to see how some people react to newbies. I’m still getting to grips with things and learning how it works. I guess I worded what I was trying to say wrong. But doesn’t matter a lot of people seem really touchy about this stuff. Happy swinging people. I haven’t come here to cause any upset... Happy swinging "

I think it's more to do with the fact that, because they are not having fun with you, then they must not be genuine or not be fun. That's how the title heading reads OP. Men need to stand out in their messages/profiles. Otherwise it can be a non starter for many. We don't get spam. We just get some who stand out more than others and gravitate towards those people, depending on our personal preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walks away shaking my head.

Sometimes it's better to say nothing at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still don’t know what a ‘genuine guy’ is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Walks away shaking my head.

Sometimes it's better to say nothing at all. "

Very wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still don’t know what a ‘genuine guy’ is "

I like your profile,im genuine and not meeting,i dont know what catagory that puts me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still don’t know what a ‘genuine guy’ is "

I think they're the same as 'nice guys'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still don’t know what a ‘genuine guy’ is

I think they're the same as 'nice guys' "

Ohhhhh okay gotcha

What are nice guys?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Nobody meets on here, its all a game lol"

I like games

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still don’t know what a ‘genuine guy’ is

I think they're the same as 'nice guys'

Ohhhhh okay gotcha

What are nice guys? "

The ones who don't get meets... Apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody meets on here, its all a game lol

I like games "

Scrabble?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was too easy it would be no fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m newish to the website. It’s interesting to see how some people react to newbies. I’m still getting to grips with things and learning how it works. I guess I worded what I was trying to say wrong. But doesn’t matter a lot of people seem really touchy about this stuff. Happy swinging people. I haven’t come here to cause any upset... Happy swinging

I think it's more to do with the fact that, because they are not having fun with you, then they must not be genuine or not be fun. That's how the title heading reads OP. Men need to stand out in their messages/profiles. Otherwise it can be a non starter for many. We don't get spam. We just get some who stand out more than others and gravitate towards those people, depending on our personal preferences "

OP had you asked for advice rather than accusing the people you want that advice from of not being genuine then the responses could well have been very different

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By *octor DeleriumMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Cyndi Lauper will be along later.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I’m newish to the website. It’s interesting to see how some people react to newbies. I’m still getting to grips with things and learning how it works. I guess I worded what I was trying to say wrong. But doesn’t matter a lot of people seem really touchy about this stuff. Happy swinging people. I haven’t come here to cause any upset... Happy swinging "

Sometimes you're just the wrong post at the wrong time. There are a lot of similar posts on the forums & occasionally you catch someone's wrath because of something on a previous post. Don't take it to heart.

It takes time to build up a profile & connections with people. Some newbies seem to think they'll be knee deep in women the second they set up a profile & then get huffy when it doesn't happen like that!

Chat on forums, go to clubs & socials & get to know people. Swinging is a social scene for people who like to have sex. Doesn't mean they are desperate or aren't choosy about who they play with. Make friends, the fun will follow!!

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Also - I’ve never received any junk mail on here...am I missing out?!

Do you want to claim ppi??

Have you been injured at work and it wasn’t your fault?"

If I get a message on here from Parky or Gloria Hunniford about over 50's life insurance, I'm off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody is ruining anything for anybody,if anything,some are actually making it easier for others."

That’s such a good comment, never thought of it that way but your right.

As thanks to the idiots and time wasters, you make it a lot easier for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine.

I’m gonna start blocking people anytime I see the words genuine/time waster and more importantly the biggest pisser-offer ‘dreamer’ written. They drive me up the bloody wall. "

Ive been a fantasist, it was fun. Dreamer sounds a bit wishy washy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spam spam spam spam egg beans n spam

Green eggs and spam "

sam iam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m newish to the website. It’s interesting to see how some people react to newbies. I’m still getting to grips with things and learning how it works. I guess I worded what I was trying to say wrong. But doesn’t matter a lot of people seem really touchy about this stuff. Happy swinging people. I haven’t come here to cause any upset... Happy swinging "

Youll soon learn the trigger words that cause upset, dont worry. We were all new once. Ps dont ask about bareback, squirting or being married for another few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also - I’ve never received any junk mail on here...am I missing out?! "

Yeah have you not had your shopping vouchers come through for next tesco and BnQ yet

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Nobody meets on here, its all a game lol

I like games

Scrabble? "

Cluedo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody meets on here, its all a game lol

I like games

Scrabble? "

Don't knock scrabble... odd the people you find unexpectedly bowling into your life from such a deviant game

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Nobody meets on here, its all a game lol

I like games

Scrabble?

Don't knock scrabble... odd the people you find unexpectedly bowling into your life from such a deviant game "

I'm dyslexic.. Half my words don't count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody meets on here, its all a game lol

I like games

Scrabble?

Don't knock scrabble... odd the people you find unexpectedly bowling into your life from such a deviant game

I'm dyslexic.. Half my words don't count "

They should and I bet they score highly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a genuine guy? "

I read your profile only yesterday and laughed out loud when I saw this...

I thought 'Oh dear, hope he doesn't say 'nice' next'

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By *parky4gMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

We always get this on the forum

Get your ass to a club or event there are plenty about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody meets on here, its all a game lol

I like games

Scrabble?

Don't knock scrabble... odd the people you find unexpectedly bowling into your life from such a deviant game "

I would never knock scrabble. I love it. And the tiles would go everywhere.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just because you aren't getting the response you hoped for it doesn't mean that people aren't genuine. "

This!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a genuine guy?

I read your profile only yesterday and laughed out loud when I saw this...

I thought 'Oh dear, hope he doesn't say 'nice' next' "

Nice genuine guys are so fun

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"What is a genuine guy?

I read your profile only yesterday and laughed out loud when I saw this...

I thought 'Oh dear, hope he doesn't say 'nice' next'

Nice genuine guys are so fun "

Nah; too vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I’m about as genuine as they come and it does knock you back a bit when you send a message to a woman and they delete it . But keep going mate you’ll soon get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a genuine guy?

I read your profile only yesterday and laughed out loud when I saw this...

I thought 'Oh dear, hope he doesn't say 'nice' next'

Nice genuine guys are so fun

Nah; too vanilla "

True. We need a Christrian Grey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep your chin up pal your meets will happen there’s plenty of decent ladies on fab you just need to hang on in there a lot of guys get there mail deleted and some woman just blatantly block you for no reason but I rise above it and think to myself it’s there loss not mine,just give it time it will happen.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"What is a genuine guy?

I read your profile only yesterday and laughed out loud when I saw this...

I thought 'Oh dear, hope he doesn't say 'nice' next'

Nice genuine guys are so fun

Nah; too vanilla

True. We need a Christrian Grey"

But he is a character in a work of fiction, ergo; he's not genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a genuine guy?

I read your profile only yesterday and laughed out loud when I saw this...

I thought 'Oh dear, hope he doesn't say 'nice' next'

Nice genuine guys are so fun

Nah; too vanilla

True. We need a Christrian Grey

But he is a character in a work of fiction, ergo; he's not genuine "

Oh, snap!

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