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Can ORAL be taught to someone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You either got it or you aint! Who agrees?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"You either got it or you aint! Who agrees?"

Having read Cosmo for several years which says that the only way to get decent oral is to tell the guy what you like, I reckon people can be taught.

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By *azmissy67Woman
over a year ago

welshpool area

I only gave my ex two bj the whole time we were married - 20 years ! but since then i've practiced very hard and told I'm not bad now.

I'm self taught - watched porn for technique and just went with what felt good for me and from the reactions from the guys - what was good for them hehe

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

yep am sure even the greatest oral givers have something to learn from each one they do....

it's great learning each persons individual responses to it too....

Wolf

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Well, my school didn't do too good a job.

Failed Oral french of all things.

Mind you, had i been a student and not a mere pupil i would have had it licked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes but some women can give 'deep throat' for example, but then others cant. Im not sure cosmos is right lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was rubbish at giving head to Men until about 5 years ago when i was 'trained' lol and now im pretty good so yes you can be taught.

Ive always, instinctively, known what to do with women though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you listen to the individual.. Deep throat is not so much something some people can do.. but many women dont like it.. I personally do..and have been told I am reasonable at it.. but I enjoy it and that shows.

Not every guy likes it the same.. so being very good at seeing what each little thing you do does to the guy, you can make it good for each guy.. to be fair if its in a gang bang situation I tend to do it how I want.. as well.. its all about me..

But yes I do think that women can be taught but not all want to do it how a man may want it.

Cali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm giving oral to a woman for the 1st time I make a point of gauging their reaction to what I do so that I can find their sweet spot. As far as wifey's bj's are concerned she does a great job and everyone she's met has enjoyed them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any skill can be learned but real talent lies the love of what you do.

whatever it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby always enjoys it, i just do what i like doing, he cums pretty quick. Other men i have met have asked me to do different things. That way you learn about it, and by reading sex manuals. If your with a man you dont fancy or like that much, you dont enjoy doing it in the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"any skill can be learned but real talent lies the love of what you do.

whatever it is."

I agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all different and like it in different ways, so I would say that a man who learns to observe a womans reaction and act on that is one who gives great oral and same relates to any sexual act.

My OH is fantastic at oral, in my opinion, and never fails to make come and thats because he knows to read my reactions. He tries different techniques and I either pull away a little or, if im really enjoying it, ill grab his ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You either got it or you aint! Who agrees?"

Its like anything you do, you have a 'natural' or 'starting' ability, but this can improve with practice & experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

practise makes perfect but you must enjoy what you are doing.i love giving face.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

i can talk for hours

i try add to my vocabulary every day

though i have my favourites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find every woman reacts differently and you have to adjust your technique accordingly so yes it's taught everytime as far as I'm concerned xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman that doesn't suck cock is about as useful as an umbrella in a hurricane.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"any skill can be learned but real talent lies the love of what you do.

whatever it is.

I agree with this"

Me too

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

i love giving BJs and would love to deep throat but no matter how hard i try i just cant seem too

but over all i beleive that every expereince is a learning oppitunity,, what works for one person doesnt work for another ..

and practising is so much fun.....

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine


"A woman that doesn't suck cock is about as useful as an umbrella in a hurricane. "
so the answer is blowing in the wind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some men/women like to teach men/women how to lick it/suck it tell them to go faster/slower etc, others are not comfortable with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

If people are'nt comfortable with showing someone the best way to hit your buttons or to be shown how to help someone else acheive total pleasure then they will continue to give and receive shite oral forever

Surely the whole purpose is about maximum pleasure fro everyone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If people are'nt comfortable with showing someone the best way to hit your buttons or to be shown how to help someone else acheive total pleasure then they will continue to give and receive shite oral forever Surely the whole purpose is about maximum pleasure fro everyone?"
Absolutley

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Of course.

Not everyone will like it the same way, so how would you know if they didn't move you in the right direction or tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not all women like the same technique, so by listening and adapting you learn what your partner likes and what she doesnt, and at times a helping hand to guide you to the correct spot never did any harm.

I am always glad to learn something new

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By *DSRMan
over a year ago

leicester

yep, anyone can learn to improve on their technique, anyone can get batter than they were, BUT.. Everyone is unique, like one football player is better than another one who get's the same training etc... Anyone can be good, but NO ONE... can be as good as me

:P

haha

I win

x

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