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Actually maybe it’s because the majority of the population is overweight so it’s all about appealing to your maximum market?  | |||
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"Wording is a little off there.... What the fuck is normal?! Lol I think ALL shapes and sizes should be celebrated! "Couldnt agree more  | |||
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"Wording is a little off there.... What the fuck is normal?! Lol I think ALL shapes and sizes should be celebrated! "No you don't. You wouldn't celebrate anorexia  | |||
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"I dunno, but hey, let’s start a whole new thread about it! I’m sure this isn’t going to be in the slightest antagonistic!
Actually maybe it’s because the majority of the population is overweight so it’s all about appealing to your maximum market? "You have hit the nail on the head. I think it's trying to appeal to the mass market. It does seem obvious that is the aim for some of them | |||
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"Well when ever a thread is posted about gym women or slim women the old favs come out "dog a bone" "real women" etc etc How easy do people react on here? I wasn't rude in my original post. Just a question " I'm the first to have a pop at the people who make those derogatory comments. You've basically said that anyone who's not the same body size as you isn't normal...how's that not rude? | |||
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"What's the fetish on this site for fat threads? What about normal sized people? " You mean average. There has been average threads. Start another one and see how it goes.  | |||
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"Well when ever a thread is posted about gym women or slim women the old favs come out "dog a bone" "real women" etc etc How easy do people react on here? I wasn't rude in my original post. Just a question " Because it's very competitive on here. People who are in one bracket will defend themselves  | |||
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"Wording is a little off there.... What the fuck is normal?! Lol I think ALL shapes and sizes should be celebrated!
No you don't. You wouldn't celebrate anorexia "Fair point....but I wouldn't call someone abnormal or body shame them either. | |||
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"Well when ever a thread is posted about gym women or slim women the old favs come out "dog a bone" "real women" etc etc How easy do people react on here? I wasn't rude in my original post. Just a question I'm the first to have a pop at the people who make those derogatory comments. You've basically said that anyone who's not the same body size as you isn't normal...how's that not rude? "I think they meant average. Not fat, not thin. | |||
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"Well when ever a thread is posted about gym women or slim women the old favs come out "dog a bone" "real women" etc etc How easy do people react on here? I wasn't rude in my original post. Just a question " You've been around long ebough to know how to word a thread for a bit of a reaction. There was a slim person thread started in the same vein as the bbw chat ones but not enough people were interested in chatting on there it seems. | |||
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"Well when ever a thread is posted about gym women or slim women the old favs come out "dog a bone" "real women" etc etc How easy do people react on here? I wasn't rude in my original post. Just a question Because it's very competitive on here. People who are in one bracket will defend themselves
This is my bracket (......)" | |||
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"Well when ever a thread is posted about gym women or slim women the old favs come out "dog a bone" "real women" etc etc How easy do people react on here? I wasn't rude in my original post. Just a question Because it's very competitive on here. People who are in one bracket will defend themselves
This is my bracket (......)"Jeez brain....you fecked it up for a second time | |||
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"Well when ever a thread is posted about gym women or slim women the old favs come out "dog a bone" "real women" etc etc How easy do people react on here? I wasn't rude in my original post. Just a question Because it's very competitive on here. People who are in one bracket will defend themselves
This is my bracket (......)
Jeez brain....you fecked it up for a second time "No. Just the once. It doesn't allow space in between the brackets, so I had to fill the hole | |||
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"Well when ever a thread is posted about gym women or slim women the old favs come out "dog a bone" "real women" etc etc How easy do people react on here? I wasn't rude in my original post. Just a question Because it's very competitive on here. People who are in one bracket will defend themselves
This is my bracket (......)
Jeez brain....you fecked it up for a second time
No. Just the once. It doesn't allow space in between the brackets, so I had to fill the hole "Good comeback | |||
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"We an they are not fat it's called bbw an BBM not fat Fat is a horrid word " I prefer fat myself. We're not all the same... | |||
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"Wording is a little off there.... What the fuck is normal?! Lol I think ALL shapes and sizes should be celebrated! "Normal is healthy size surely? Not obese, not under weight. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. " Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. | |||
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"We an they are not fat it's called bbw an BBM not fat Fat is a horrid word " No its not.... Fat cunt is horrid, fat is just a description. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. " Talking to people is not encouraging them. It's just being polite and nice. To my knowledge there have not been any feeder threads or encouraging people to get fatter. | |||
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"What's the fetish on this site for fat threads? What about normal sized people? " Can't say I've seen that many to be honest. Are you talking dress sizes, obesity or what? I think there's room for everyone here, we're all human beings after all. I can be attracted to a variety of shapes and sizes because I find it has no bearing on personality or sexiness. Perhaps you ought to try meeting people who don't look the same as you? You might find you've been missing out!! | |||
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"Wording is a little off there.... What the fuck is normal?! Lol I think ALL shapes and sizes should be celebrated!
Normal is healthy size surely? Not obese, not under weight. "Not always, no. I know plenty of bigger and slimmer people who are extremely fit, work out regularly and have altogether good health. And plenty of let's say average sized or slim people who are very unhealthy. Size isn't an indication of health. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. " If its something about them that is unhealthy and can be changed then I'm all for it. Such as smoking, alcoholism or being grossly overweight. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. " I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. If its something about them that is unhealthy and can be changed then I'm all for it. Such as smoking, alcoholism or being grossly overweight. " You think it's ok to say things to make someone feel like shit because you think they're too fat? | |||
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"We an they are not fat it's called bbw an BBM not fat Fat is a horrid word " I'm not a BBW, I'm almost 5 stone overweight and it's fat. If it was muscle I'd be athletic | |||
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"What's the fetish on this site for fat threads? What about normal sized people? " I'm not going to jump onto the use of the phrase "fat" like others, I'm just going to answer your question. People on the forums choose to discuss whatever interests them. If you have noticed a proliferation of threads relating to people of larger build that is because those talking have a preference for larger people. Note I say preference not fetish. It is no different to someone who fancies people with blond hair. I don't like the snog, fuck or avoid threads so I just skip over them because they don't interest me - I suggest you do the same with the "fat" threads. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. " Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. If its something about them that is unhealthy and can be changed then I'm all for it. Such as smoking, alcoholism or being grossly overweight. " What about attitudes? They are changeable | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. If its something about them that is unhealthy and can be changed then I'm all for it. Such as smoking, alcoholism or being grossly overweight. You think it's ok to say things to make someone feel like shit because you think they're too fat? "I wouldn't let them think that i think its something to be proud of. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. " | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things!" You might as well celebrate anyone who's life choices are detrimental to their health then. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. If its something about them that is unhealthy and can be changed then I'm all for it. Such as smoking, alcoholism or being grossly overweight. You think it's ok to say things to make someone feel like shit because you think they're too fat?
I wouldn't let them think that i think its something to be proud of. "Well, as we know, we're very different people. I don't believe anyone should be made to feel bad based on their appearance. And if we're gonna say it's from a health perspective, my health is no one's business but mine. Also...I'm very proud of my body, whether it's fat or thin | |||
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"a bit of jealousy maybe ? it seems to me that the BBWs are far more attractive to men on these forums , or maybe im missing the point " Never forget, horny men are like electricity. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! You might as well celebrate anyone who's life choices are detrimental to their health then. " You're missing the point...I'm talking about celebrating fat people...not people for being fat. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! You might as well celebrate anyone who's life choices are detrimental to their health then. You're missing the point...I'm talking about celebrating fat people...not people for being fat." We do celebrate Winston Churchill, but not because he was fat... | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things!" Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. If its something about them that is unhealthy and can be changed then I'm all for it. Such as smoking, alcoholism or being grossly overweight. You think it's ok to say things to make someone feel like shit because you think they're too fat?
I wouldn't let them think that i think its something to be proud of.
Well, as we know, we're very different people. I don't believe anyone should be made to feel bad based on their appearance. And if we're gonna say it's from a health perspective, my health is no one's business but mine.
Also...I'm very proud of my body, whether it's fat or thin "Tell that to the health care staff that have to move the overweight people around the hospital. Or the extra money having to be wasted in hospitals on upgrading the strength of all the beds and chairs, lifting slings etc etc. Then it becomes everyone's business. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. " Again...missing my point...  | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! You might as well celebrate anyone who's life choices are detrimental to their health then. You're missing the point...I'm talking about celebrating fat people...not people for being fat." Ok let's stop using BBW then and call it what it is. | |||
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"We an they are not fat it's called bbw an BBM not fat Fat is a horrid word " No it's not. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. If its something about them that is unhealthy and can be changed then I'm all for it. Such as smoking, alcoholism or being grossly overweight. You think it's ok to say things to make someone feel like shit because you think they're too fat?
I wouldn't let them think that i think its something to be proud of.
Well, as we know, we're very different people. I don't believe anyone should be made to feel bad based on their appearance. And if we're gonna say it's from a health perspective, my health is no one's business but mine.
Also...I'm very proud of my body, whether it's fat or thin
Tell that to the health care staff that have to move the overweight people around the hospital. Or the extra money having to be wasted in hospitals on upgrading the strength of all the beds and chairs, lifting slings etc etc. Then it becomes everyone's business. "You can say that about absolutely anyone who doesn't live a totally healthy lifestyle...smokers, drinkers, anyone who does anything that might land them in hospital one day. I'm not suggesting we applaud people for being fat. I'm saying we shouldn't shame people based on their appearance. You're taking extremes too...most fat people don't need a reinforced bed, do they?! | |||
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"Well when ever a thread is posted about gym women or slim women the old favs come out "dog a bone" "real women" etc etc How easy do people react on here? I wasn't rude in my original post. Just a question " And now you see via your own thread that larger women get similarly ignorant comments. Everyone's happy | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point... "What's your point? | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! You might as well celebrate anyone who's life choices are detrimental to their health then. You're missing the point...I'm talking about celebrating fat people...not people for being fat. Ok let's stop using BBW then and call it what it is." Yes! I'd love that! I hate the term BBW! I'd much rather be referred to as fat. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. If its something about them that is unhealthy and can be changed then I'm all for it. Such as smoking, alcoholism or being grossly overweight. You think it's ok to say things to make someone feel like shit because you think they're too fat?
I wouldn't let them think that i think its something to be proud of.
Well, as we know, we're very different people. I don't believe anyone should be made to feel bad based on their appearance. And if we're gonna say it's from a health perspective, my health is no one's business but mine.
Also...I'm very proud of my body, whether it's fat or thin
Tell that to the health care staff that have to move the overweight people around the hospital. Or the extra money having to be wasted in hospitals on upgrading the strength of all the beds and chairs, lifting slings etc etc. Then it becomes everyone's business. "this is very true actually , as an health care professional myself i can confirm that bariatric equipment is very expensive but needed to protect us nurse from injury when trying to move and handle very over weight people | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point? "That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. If its something about them that is unhealthy and can be changed then I'm all for it. Such as smoking, alcoholism or being grossly overweight. You think it's ok to say things to make someone feel like shit because you think they're too fat?
I wouldn't let them think that i think its something to be proud of.
Well, as we know, we're very different people. I don't believe anyone should be made to feel bad based on their appearance. And if we're gonna say it's from a health perspective, my health is no one's business but mine.
Also...I'm very proud of my body, whether it's fat or thin
Tell that to the health care staff that have to move the overweight people around the hospital. Or the extra money having to be wasted in hospitals on upgrading the strength of all the beds and chairs, lifting slings etc etc. Then it becomes everyone's business. this is very true actually , as an health care professional myself i can confirm that bariatric equipment is very expensive but needed to protect us nurse from injury when trying to move and handle very over weight people "I fucked my back up carrying a very small, disabled adult to the bath and to her chair and back to bed. No equipment was there for me. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. If its something about them that is unhealthy and can be changed then I'm all for it. Such as smoking, alcoholism or being grossly overweight. You think it's ok to say things to make someone feel like shit because you think they're too fat?
I wouldn't let them think that i think its something to be proud of.
Well, as we know, we're very different people. I don't believe anyone should be made to feel bad based on their appearance. And if we're gonna say it's from a health perspective, my health is no one's business but mine.
Also...I'm very proud of my body, whether it's fat or thin
Tell that to the health care staff that have to move the overweight people around the hospital. Or the extra money having to be wasted in hospitals on upgrading the strength of all the beds and chairs, lifting slings etc etc. Then it becomes everyone's business.
You can say that about absolutely anyone who doesn't live a totally healthy lifestyle...smokers, drinkers, anyone who does anything that might land them in hospital one day.
I'm not suggesting we applaud people for being fat. I'm saying we shouldn't shame people based on their appearance.
You're taking extremes too...most fat people don't need a reinforced bed, do they?!"Yeah....and 2 members of staff x | |||
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What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be."I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted. We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. If its something about them that is unhealthy and can be changed then I'm all for it. Such as smoking, alcoholism or being grossly overweight. You think it's ok to say things to make someone feel like shit because you think they're too fat?
I wouldn't let them think that i think its something to be proud of.
Well, as we know, we're very different people. I don't believe anyone should be made to feel bad based on their appearance. And if we're gonna say it's from a health perspective, my health is no one's business but mine.
Also...I'm very proud of my body, whether it's fat or thin
Tell that to the health care staff that have to move the overweight people around the hospital. Or the extra money having to be wasted in hospitals on upgrading the strength of all the beds and chairs, lifting slings etc etc. Then it becomes everyone's business.
You can say that about absolutely anyone who doesn't live a totally healthy lifestyle...smokers, drinkers, anyone who does anything that might land them in hospital one day.
I'm not suggesting we applaud people for being fat. I'm saying we shouldn't shame people based on their appearance.
You're taking extremes too...most fat people don't need a reinforced bed, do they?!
Yeah....and 2 members of staff x"I'm in hospital regularly...not once have i required any special treatment due to my size, and I'm very fat. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. If its something about them that is unhealthy and can be changed then I'm all for it. Such as smoking, alcoholism or being grossly overweight. You think it's ok to say things to make someone feel like shit because you think they're too fat?
I wouldn't let them think that i think its something to be proud of.
Well, as we know, we're very different people. I don't believe anyone should be made to feel bad based on their appearance. And if we're gonna say it's from a health perspective, my health is no one's business but mine.
Also...I'm very proud of my body, whether it's fat or thin
Tell that to the health care staff that have to move the overweight people around the hospital. Or the extra money having to be wasted in hospitals on upgrading the strength of all the beds and chairs, lifting slings etc etc. Then it becomes everyone's business.
You can say that about absolutely anyone who doesn't live a totally healthy lifestyle...smokers, drinkers, anyone who does anything that might land them in hospital one day.
I'm not suggesting we applaud people for being fat. I'm saying we shouldn't shame people based on their appearance.
You're taking extremes too...most fat people don't need a reinforced bed, do they?!
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"What's the fetish on this site for fat threads? What about normal sized people? " The average size of women now in the uk (ie normal and i hate that word) is size 16. The fashion world says anyone 14 to 16 and up would be a bbw So in response there are alot of groups aimed at the fuller figure because people like them. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I think it's hypocritical talking about healthy whilst partaking in a high risk activity. It's akin to Lewis Hamilton berating Valentino Rossi for driving too fast!" Not sure that follows. As a swinger can I not criticise those who shoot up heroin with shared needles? | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant. "I'm not saying we should...I'm saying all people should be celebrated regardless of their body shape or size. | |||
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If you feel shit being fat lose weight...I'm fat by the way."I agree! I don't feel shit | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant. "They aren't. They are saying it doesn't make them want to vomit or call someone names. They aren't bothered by someone's appearance, even though they know of the health risks. My ex calling me a fat doughnut-eating cunt, when I put on 9 stone, did not make me want to go on a diet. I met a lovely man I wanted to be more agile in bed with and made an effort. I felt good about myself, after years of abuse, and my mind was in the right place to do something about it. | |||
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What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant.
I'm not saying we should...I'm saying all people should be celebrated regardless of their body shape or size."tell that to the NHS over weight people are being refused surgery until they lose some weight , | |||
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"a bit of jealousy maybe ? it seems to me that the BBWs are far more attractive to men on these forums , or maybe im missing the point " I doubt they are; lot of smoke up arse blowing. There are more fat women than slim so what's a horny guy to do? | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Talking to people is not encouraging them. It's just being polite and nice. To my knowledge there have not been any feeder threads or encouraging people to get fatter. " | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant.
I'm not saying we should...I'm saying all people should be celebrated regardless of their body shape or size."But we celebrate them for good things about them, not the bad things. As someone said above, we celebrate Churchill for his talents as a war leader, not for his fatness. Ditto with other fat people. | |||
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What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant.
I'm not saying we should...I'm saying all people should be celebrated regardless of their body shape or size.tell that to the NHS over weight people are being refused surgery until they lose some weight , "They should x | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be."Or by just putting less food into their own mouths. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. If its something about them that is unhealthy and can be changed then I'm all for it. Such as smoking, alcoholism or being grossly overweight. You think it's ok to say things to make someone feel like shit because you think they're too fat?
I wouldn't let them think that i think its something to be proud of.
Well, as we know, we're very different people. I don't believe anyone should be made to feel bad based on their appearance. And if we're gonna say it's from a health perspective, my health is no one's business but mine.
Also...I'm very proud of my body, whether it's fat or thin
Tell that to the health care staff that have to move the overweight people around the hospital. Or the extra money having to be wasted in hospitals on upgrading the strength of all the beds and chairs, lifting slings etc etc. Then it becomes everyone's business.
You can say that about absolutely anyone who doesn't live a totally healthy lifestyle...smokers, drinkers, anyone who does anything that might land them in hospital one day.
I'm not suggesting we applaud people for being fat. I'm saying we shouldn't shame people based on their appearance.
You're taking extremes too...most fat people don't need a reinforced bed, do they?!
Yeah....and 2 members of staff xx2 staff ? more like 8 for some of them "You're taking morbidly obese. I'm about 4 and a half stone over my ideal weight. People keep saying I don't look fat, but I am, so those comments people make include me. Not that they make a difference to me, what other people say about my body. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant.
I'm not saying we should...I'm saying all people should be celebrated regardless of their body shape or size.
But we celebrate them for good things about them, not the bad things. As someone said above, we celebrate Churchill for his talents as a war leader, not for his fatness. Ditto with other fat people.
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant.
They aren't. They are saying it doesn't make them want to vomit or call someone names. They aren't bothered by someone's appearance, even though they know of the health risks.
My ex calling me a fat doughnut-eating cunt, when I put on 9 stone, did not make me want to go on a diet. I met a lovely man I wanted to be more agile in bed with and made an effort. I felt good about myself, after years of abuse, and my mind was in the right place to do something about it. "I entirely agree. Insulting an overweight person is unlikely to encourage them to lose weight. But, you do get threads on here where men (usually) will help positively celebrate fatness. Basically because they think it's a quick route to a fuck. | |||
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"We an they are not fat it's called bbw an BBM not fat Fat is a horrid word No its not.... Fat cunt is horrid, fat is just a description. "
You beat me to it. Any word can be used in a negative sense. It's all about the intention.
Getting back to the original point of the thread, I really don't see what all the fuss is about...
This place is full of threads about loving big tits/small tits, hairy pussy/ shaved pussy, bald men/hairy men, tattoos/no tattoos.
I only tick a few of those boxes and really couldn't give a f##k that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
Or by just putting less food into their own mouths. "The right food, in the right quantities. Plus exercise. You can't just say to someone put less food in your mouth. That is useless advice that I'm sure they can work out for themselves. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
Or by just putting less food into their own mouths. "Yes. Every person who it overweight is so because they eat too much.... | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. " As is gangbanging strangers. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant.
I'm not saying we should...I'm saying all people should be celebrated regardless of their body shape or size.
But we celebrate them for good things about them, not the bad things. As someone said above, we celebrate Churchill for his talents as a war leader, not for his fatness. Ditto with other fat people.
Size is not an indication of health. We will have to agree to disagree I think."It is. It's not a perfect indicator. To deny the correlation between weight and diabetes is counter factual. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
Or by just putting less food into their own mouths.
Yes. Every person who it overweight is so because they eat too much.... "You're getting it. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
Or by just putting less food into their own mouths. "You're working your best stirring spoon a bit this morning huh lol It's about putting the right food at the right quantities in your mouth..... Not just less. But this isn't a weight loss advice thread is it.... It's a why arent there more 'normal people' threads....a question that seems to have gotten lost on here somewhat. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant.
They aren't. They are saying it doesn't make them want to vomit or call someone names. They aren't bothered by someone's appearance, even though they know of the health risks.
My ex calling me a fat doughnut-eating cunt, when I put on 9 stone, did not make me want to go on a diet. I met a lovely man I wanted to be more agile in bed with and made an effort. I felt good about myself, after years of abuse, and my mind was in the right place to do something about it.
I entirely agree. Insulting an overweight person is unlikely to encourage them to lose weight.
But, you do get threads on here where men (usually) will help positively celebrate fatness. Basically because they think it's a quick route to a fuck. "Which I, as a fat woman, can see. Other women may need the boost from a stranger, because of how they feel about their bodies. I wouldn't try to shame them for that. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant.
I'm not saying we should...I'm saying all people should be celebrated regardless of their body shape or size.
But we celebrate them for good things about them, not the bad things. As someone said above, we celebrate Churchill for his talents as a war leader, not for his fatness. Ditto with other fat people.
Size is not an indication of health. We will have to agree to disagree I think."I am going to put you on the spot here. If I could wave a magic wand and make you significantly less fat, would you want that or would you tell me you preferred to stay as you are. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
Or by just putting less food into their own mouths.
Yes. Every person who it overweight is so because they eat too much.... "so damn right there girl | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
Or by just putting less food into their own mouths.
The right food, in the right quantities. Plus exercise. You can't just say to someone put less food in your mouth. That is useless advice that I'm sure they can work out for themselves. "I'm not so sure. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
Or by just putting less food into their own mouths.
You're working your best stirring spoon a bit this morning huh lol
It's about putting the right food at the right quantities in your mouth..... Not just less. But this isn't a weight loss advice thread is it.... It's a why arent there more 'normal people' threads....a question that seems to have gotten lost on here somewhat. "Those threads get little response because average people have no pull on here. I'm looking forward to being average again, so I can take pics of myself in lingerie and fight for a spot on hot pics, for my attention fix. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant.
I'm not saying we should...I'm saying all people should be celebrated regardless of their body shape or size.
But we celebrate them for good things about them, not the bad things. As someone said above, we celebrate Churchill for his talents as a war leader, not for his fatness. Ditto with other fat people.
Size is not an indication of health. We will have to agree to disagree I think.
It is. It's not a perfect indicator. To deny the correlation between weight and diabetes is counter factual. "So weight lifters who are "overweight"....not healthy. Fat people who work out several times a week and eat well...not healthy. And a "normal" sized person who doesnt work out and eats shit all the live long day....totally healthy. That makes perfect sense... | |||
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"Well when ever a thread is posted about gym women or slim women the old favs come out "dog a bone" "real women" etc etc How easy do people react on here? I wasn't rude in my original post. Just a question I'm the first to have a pop at the people who make those derogatory comments. You've basically said that anyone who's not the same body size as you isn't normal...how's that not rude?
Joint first lol
Body shaming isn't ok on either side, maybe you should start your own thread op?
And maybe not make comments like "normal sized people" "This is the op's own thread? | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
Or by just putting less food into their own mouths. "Not all fat people are fat because they eat alot I'm fat because I have a massive sweet tooth. I'll happily not eat a proper dinner and have cake and custard instead hahaha | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
Or by just putting less food into their own mouths.
The right food, in the right quantities. Plus exercise. You can't just say to someone put less food in your mouth. That is useless advice that I'm sure they can work out for themselves.
I'm not so sure. "I'm sure. What if I put 4 bars of chocolate in my mouth every day plus 1 bag of chips. That's only 5 items but a lot of calories. 1 big Mac meal is almost a daily amount of calories for a woman, I think. One meal, all the calories for the day. | |||
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Body shaming isn't ok on either side, maybe you should start your own thread op?
And maybe not make comments like "normal sized people"
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Body shaming isn't ok on either side, maybe you should start your own thread op?
And maybe not make comments like "normal sized people"
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Joint first lol
Body shaming isn't ok on either side, maybe you should start your own thread op?
And maybe not make comments like "normal sized people"
This is the op's own thread?
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What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant.
I'm not saying we should...I'm saying all people should be celebrated regardless of their body shape or size.
But we celebrate them for good things about them, not the bad things. As someone said above, we celebrate Churchill for his talents as a war leader, not for his fatness. Ditto with other fat people.
Size is not an indication of health. We will have to agree to disagree I think.
I am going to put you on the spot here. If I could wave a magic wand and make you significantly less fat, would you want that or would you tell me you preferred to stay as you are. "Significantly? No...I'm currently a size 18/20...I'd like to get back to my normal size of 16/18 (my current medical treatment has made me gain weight). I don't wish to be any smaller than that. I've been every size from an 8 to a 26 and that is how I feel at my best. I work out hard 3/4 times a week and walk for at least 30 mins every day and I eat, for the most part, healthily. I've no desire to be slim again. | |||
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What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
Or by just putting less food into their own mouths.
The right food, in the right quantities. Plus exercise. You can't just say to someone put less food in your mouth. That is useless advice that I'm sure they can work out for themselves.
I'm not so sure.
I'm sure. What if I put 4 bars of chocolate in my mouth every day plus 1 bag of chips. That's only 5 items but a lot of calories.
1 big Mac meal is almost a daily amount of calories for a woman, I think. One meal, all the calories for the day. "Trouble is, they wouldn't just eat one Big mac meal would they.. | |||
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What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant.
I'm not saying we should...I'm saying all people should be celebrated regardless of their body shape or size.
But we celebrate them for good things about them, not the bad things. As someone said above, we celebrate Churchill for his talents as a war leader, not for his fatness. Ditto with other fat people.
Size is not an indication of health. We will have to agree to disagree I think.
It is. It's not a perfect indicator. To deny the correlation between weight and diabetes is counter factual.
So weight lifters who are "overweight"....not healthy.
Fat people who work out several times a week and eat well...not healthy.
And a "normal" sized person who doesnt work out and eats shit all the live long day....totally healthy.
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What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
Or by just putting less food into their own mouths.
Not all fat people are fat because they eat alot
I'm fat because I have a massive sweet tooth.
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What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant.
They aren't. They are saying it doesn't make them want to vomit or call someone names. They aren't bothered by someone's appearance, even though they know of the health risks.
My ex calling me a fat doughnut-eating cunt, when I put on 9 stone, did not make me want to go on a diet. I met a lovely man I wanted to be more agile in bed with and made an effort. I felt good about myself, after years of abuse, and my mind was in the right place to do something about it.
I entirely agree. Insulting an overweight person is unlikely to encourage them to lose weight.
But, you do get threads on here where men (usually) will help positively celebrate fatness. Basically because they think it's a quick route to a fuck. "No different to complimenting a hot wife: his balls are not going to empty themselves. Same bloke will post on threads about leaving if found girlfriend as no way would he pass her around like party favours. | |||
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What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
Or by just putting less food into their own mouths.
The right food, in the right quantities. Plus exercise. You can't just say to someone put less food in your mouth. That is useless advice that I'm sure they can work out for themselves.
I'm not so sure.
I'm sure. What if I put 4 bars of chocolate in my mouth every day plus 1 bag of chips. That's only 5 items but a lot of calories.
1 big Mac meal is almost a daily amount of calories for a woman, I think. One meal, all the calories for the day.
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What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant.
I'm not saying we should...I'm saying all people should be celebrated regardless of their body shape or size.
But we celebrate them for good things about them, not the bad things. As someone said above, we celebrate Churchill for his talents as a war leader, not for his fatness. Ditto with other fat people.
Size is not an indication of health. We will have to agree to disagree I think.
It is. It's not a perfect indicator. To deny the correlation between weight and diabetes is counter factual.
So weight lifters who are "overweight"....not healthy.
Fat people who work out several times a week and eat well...not healthy.
And a "normal" sized person who doesnt work out and eats shit all the live long day....totally healthy.
That makes perfect sense...
Yes because those people are a small percentage so the correlation is not effected. They are easily accounted for when you consider body fat percentage. To deny that excess body fat is linked to a variety of health problems is counter factual. "I'm talking from a personal point of view...other people's health problems aren't my business. I'm simply pointing out that you can't tell how healthy a person is by looking at them. So what right does anyone have to me derogatory about someone because they're concerned about their health? People aren't nasty to fat/skinny people because they're concerned for their health. They're nasturtium because they don't find them attractive and usually have nothing better to do. It's needless and cruel. | |||
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"OP you’re gorgeous, I’m sure my fat ass is no competition so I wouldn’t worry. And we’re not a fetish, were people. In relation to other replies about food in vs food out beleive it or not it isn’t always that simple. I have a disease that causes weight gain and so do the steroid medications to treat it. I’ll have the disease for life and will take the meds for life unless they come up with something better, like a cure. But in the meantime I eat no more than 20g of net carbs a day, can’t remember the last time I ate bread ect, lean meats, veggies. Plenty of gym time with a trainer. Very Keto diet and have eaten this way for about 6 months. I lose about 1lb a week, some weeks I lose nothing and people doing the same thing as me lose a hell of a lot more. So it’s not always so black and white. Your slimmer figure is celebrated daily in the media, on our televisions and in magazines ect, your body type is already the favourite kind, so what’s the big deal in letting the bigger ladies have a little praise on here? " | |||
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What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
Or by just putting less food into their own mouths.
Not all fat people are fat because they eat alot
I'm fat because I have a massive sweet tooth.
I'll happily not eat a proper dinner and have cake and custard instead hahaha
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" Tell that to the health care staff that have to move the overweight people around the hospital I work with overweight carers and they do less work. True story x x When I was in Hospital three nurses in the ward were bigger than me. Didn't you tell them how gross they were? And how they're costing the NHS millions?! " | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
Or by just putting less food into their own mouths.
Yes. Every person who it overweight is so because they eat too much....
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"What gets me is the whole attitude of eat less and you will lose weight on here! As anyone thought that some might just have phsyicalogic conditions? Try telling a anorexic person to just eat more food! It's far more complex then enter at more or email at less for many people...but as always the same judgemental people hijack threads like these..heaven help us all "I agree. I know from personal experience that eating can be mixed up with all sorts of psychological issues. That still doesn't make being fat a good thing. | |||
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"What gets me is the whole attitude of eat less and you will lose weight on here! As anyone thought that some might just have phsyicalogic conditions? Try telling a anorexic person to just eat more food! It's far more complex then enter at more or email at less for many people...but as always the same judgemental people hijack threads like these..heaven help us all
Absolutely. But i don't think that psychological issues in the main account for the numbers of overweight people in society. "I'd say psychological issues are a very small part of it. A lot of it simply people don't want to lose weight so they eat what they want, which is fine. Part of it is lack of education on food groups/healthy food etc, there's the financial aspect as well. There are over weight people who binge and eat a lot but that doesn't mean every single over weight person does | |||
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"“Why so many fat threads?” Because fat women are awesome and should be appreciated. Next question..... What about fat men? Would you say the same about them? Well I don’t really find any men attractive, but if they are decent guys then yeah definitely! So you actually appreciate decent personalities, not body shapes. No, I appreciate female body shapes as that’s what I’m attracted to. If I liked fat men that would make me bi. " So you don't care what a woman's personality is like, as long as you fancy her? | |||
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"“Why so many fat threads?” Because fat women are awesome and should be appreciated. Next question..... What about fat men? Would you say the same about them? Well I don’t really find any men attractive, but if they are decent guys then yeah definitely! So you actually appreciate decent personalities, not body shapes. No, I appreciate female body shapes as that’s what I’m attracted to. If I liked fat men that would make me bi. So you don't care what a woman's personality is like, as long as you fancy her? " Sounds to me like your trolling for an argument | |||
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"“Why so many fat threads?” Because fat women are awesome and should be appreciated. Next question..... What about fat men? Would you say the same about them? Well I don’t really find any men attractive, but if they are decent guys then yeah definitely! So you actually appreciate decent personalities, not body shapes. No, I appreciate female body shapes as that’s what I’m attracted to. If I liked fat men that would make me bi. So you don't care what a woman's personality is like, as long as you fancy her? " Classic Clem | |||
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"“Why so many fat threads?” Because fat women are awesome and should be appreciated. Next question..... What about fat men? Would you say the same about them? Well I don’t really find any men attractive, but if they are decent guys then yeah definitely! So you actually appreciate decent personalities, not body shapes. No, I appreciate female body shapes as that’s what I’m attracted to. If I liked fat men that would make me bi. So you don't care what a woman's personality is like, as long as you fancy her? " Hello didn't say that. You always seem to just go out of your way to get a rise out of people. Don't you get bored? | |||
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"“Why so many fat threads?” Because fat women are awesome and should be appreciated. Next question..... What about fat men? Would you say the same about them? Well I don’t really find any men attractive, but if they are decent guys then yeah definitely! So you actually appreciate decent personalities, not body shapes. No, I appreciate female body shapes as that’s what I’m attracted to. If I liked fat men that would make me bi. So you don't care what a woman's personality is like, as long as you fancy her? Sounds to me like your trolling for an argument "Of course he is.... And so many are willing to scratch his itch lol | |||
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" Tell that to the health care staff that have to move the overweight people around the hospital x When I was in Hospital three nurses in the ward were bigger than me. Didn't you tell them how gross they were? And how they're costing the NHS millions?! No... I think that only happens on the internet. I doubt if people do that face to face. However I have to admit that I might look at a really overweight person and think I don't want to be that big again ( I was fatter because I ate too much and also ate the wrong things but have now admitted it to myself be able to lose weight and keep it off ) but I would never question why anyone else is fat. It could be their choice and it is none of my business " I think you're right! | |||
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" Tell that to the health care staff that have to move the overweight people around the hospital x When I was in Hospital three nurses in the ward were bigger than me. Didn't you tell them how gross they were? And how they're costing the NHS millions?! " No... I think that only happens on the internet. I doubt if people do that face to face. However I have to admit that I might look at a really overweight person and think I don't want to be that big again ( I was fatter because I ate too much and also ate the wrong things but have now admitted it to myself be able to lose weight and keep it off ) but I would never question why anyone else is fat. It could be their choice or they could be denying they needed to do something like I was...but either option is none of my business | |||
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"I think there are many beautiful people on this site, whether fat thin or medium, but when people are falling over themselves to compliment the more voluptuous figure they make comments like Who wants to cuddle a stick And sadly it seems socially acceptable to do that. No matter your body size, if you show respect to others then you deserve respect back. Kind regards Stick cuddler x" You'll find it's usually men trying to ingratiate themselves making those comments. Just like "straight" men raving over ts/tvs with "you're more feminine than real women". Some people will say anything to get laid. | |||
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"“Why so many fat threads?” Because fat women are awesome and should be appreciated. Next question..... What about fat men? Would you say the same about them? Well I don’t really find any men attractive, but if they are decent guys then yeah definitely! So you actually appreciate decent personalities, not body shapes. No, I appreciate female body shapes as that’s what I’m attracted to. If I liked fat men that would make me bi. So you don't care what a woman's personality is like, as long as you fancy her? Sounds to me like your trolling for an argument "This is the old "You disagree so you're a troll" statement isn't it.. that's fine. | |||
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"So when the bareback threads come out we are repeatedly told dont post if you are not interested, no one is interested in your safe sex high horse opinion, they can choose their own level of risk , in this day and age there is medication if they were to contract something But when the fat threads are posted... the moderate sized people get onto their high horse and tell people it must not be encouraged, something must be done to improve health risk etc ... its all just for your own good and the good of the nhs Do i have that right? "You're preaching to the converted: my point exactly! | |||
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"Just you're typical Sunday morning on fab I see...." Of course. | |||
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"It makes me laugh that two of the don’t celebrate / encourage the fat people posters on this thread both have said they want to meet me. I’m fat. " Three, sorry! | |||
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"It makes me laugh that two of the don’t celebrate / encourage the fat people posters on this thread both have said they want to meet me. I’m fat. " As I've said, the balls won't empty themselves! | |||
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"It makes me laugh that two of the don’t celebrate / encourage the fat people posters on this thread both have said they want to meet me. I’m fat. " There is a difference between not celebrating being fat and not being bothered if someone is fat is there not? | |||
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"It makes me laugh that two of the don’t celebrate / encourage the fat people posters on this thread both have said they want to meet me. I’m fat. " I don't recall you ever asking for that to be celebrated though. It doesn't define you. Your mind does. | |||
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"It makes me laugh that two of the don’t celebrate / encourage the fat people posters on this thread both have said they want to meet me. I’m fat. Three, sorry!" They just want to fuck you.... Not celebrate you | |||
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"What's the fetish on this site for fat threads? What about normal sized people? You mean average. There has been average threads. Start another one and see how it goes. "I'm sure I read somewhere that the Average UK dress size is 16-18. | |||
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"It makes me laugh that two of the don’t celebrate / encourage the fat people posters on this thread both have said they want to meet me. I’m fat. There is a difference between not celebrating being fat and not being bothered if someone is fat is there not?" But surely this comment suggests he is bothered about people who are fat? "If its something about them that is unhealthy and can be changed then I'm all for it. Such as smoking, alcoholism or being grossly overweight." | |||
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"It makes me laugh that two of the don’t celebrate / encourage the fat people posters on this thread both have said they want to meet me. I’m fat. " As one of those people, I don't see anything inconsistent in that. | |||
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"It’s good to be inclusive to make people feel sexy and wanted. I think this is one of Fabs positive aspects. But is it healthy to encourage it when it’s around something destructive and unhealthy like being obese? Akin to having a fetish to body mutilation? Just a thought for discussion a bit of sitting on the fence devils advocacy. Why do you need do encourage or discourage? Why can't people let people be and live however they are or want to be? I think it's really shitty to make someone feel bad based on any aspect of their appearance. I entirely agree that no one should be made to feel bad about how they look. However, the difficulty is when beig over weight is "celebrated" and seen as a good thing. Isn't an analogy with someone who, say, lost their legs in an accident. No one would make them feel bad about that, but equally no one would suggest that having no legs is a good thing. Why shouldn't fat people be celebrated?! Why shouldn't think people be? Everyone is different and we all like different things! Being significantly overweight is unhealthy. I start from the premise that it's not good to celebrate things that are unhealthy. If people choose to be overweight that's a matter for them, just as smoking sixty a day or eating every night at Macdonalds is. None are things to be celebrated or encouraged I would have thought. Again...missing my point...
What's your point?
That no one should be made to feel bad based on their appearance, fat or thin, or any other aspect of it. Everyone is different and I for one think that's a good thing. Health issues can be addressed by doctors, family or friends of needs be.
I've agreed with that. My point is that being overweight should not be celebrated or promoted.
We shouldn't have a go at fat people for being fat, but neither should we say that being fat is brilliant.
I'm not saying we should...I'm saying all people should be celebrated regardless of their body shape or size.
But we celebrate them for good things about them, not the bad things. As someone said above, we celebrate Churchill for his talents as a war leader, not for his fatness. Ditto with other fat people.
Size is not an indication of health. We will have to agree to disagree I think.
It is. It's not a perfect indicator. To deny the correlation between weight and diabetes is counter factual.
So weight lifters who are "overweight"....not healthy.
Fat people who work out several times a week and eat well...not healthy.
And a "normal" sized person who doesnt work out and eats shit all the live long day....totally healthy.
That makes perfect sense...
Yes because those people are a small percentage so the correlation is not effected. They are easily accounted for when you consider body fat percentage. To deny that excess body fat is linked to a variety of health problems is counter factual.
I'm talking from a personal point of view...other people's health problems aren't my business.
I'm simply pointing out that you can't tell how healthy a person is by looking at them. So what right does anyone have to me derogatory about someone because they're concerned about their health?
People aren't nasty to fat/skinny people because they're concerned for their health. They're nasturtium because they don't find them attractive and usually have nothing better to do. It's needless and cruel."I'm not advocating being nasty to people. Just don't say things that aren't true. You said size is not an indicator of health. It is. It's an indicator, not a perfect one but reasonably good. | |||
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"Funny when I started my body shaming thread, several of the people posting here commented that body shaming wasn't a thing on fab LOL" We are discussing in the abstract as to whether being overweight is a thing to be celebrated. That's a very different thing to talking with an overweight person and thrusting ones unsolicited opinions about said subject on them. That's just bad manners. | |||
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"It makes me laugh that two of the don’t celebrate / encourage the fat people posters on this thread both have said they want to meet me. I’m fat. There is a difference between not celebrating being fat and not being bothered if someone is fat is there not? But surely this comment suggests he is bothered about people who are fat? "If its something about them that is unhealthy and can be changed then I'm all for it. Such as smoking, alcoholism or being grossly overweight."" I agree to some extent...but it's not a one size fits all situation and the manner of the approach in which it's said my be more helpful to whoever you are speaking about...they all differ | |||
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"Funny when I started my body shaming thread, several of the people posting here commented that body shaming wasn't a thing on fab LOL We are discussing in the abstract as to whether being overweight is a thing to be celebrated. That's a very different thing to talking with an overweight person and thrusting ones unsolicited opinions about said subject on them. That's just bad manners. " Yup shame people couldn’t see this before getting personal. A lot is beginning to make sense now. Shame. | |||
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"Funny when I started my body shaming thread, several of the people posting here commented that body shaming wasn't a thing on fab LOL We are discussing in the abstract as to whether being overweight is a thing to be celebrated. That's a very different thing to talking with an overweight person and thrusting ones unsolicited opinions about said subject on them. That's just bad manners. " My comment was related to the fact that people said that body shaming isn't a thing on here when this thread alone is proving that it is | |||
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