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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Did you decide that swinging was a sexual lifestyle choice you were happy to get involved with ?

There are 'younger' people on here but most of them are male and probably looking for 'easy shags' rather than adopting a longer term sexual lifestyle choice.

I know that is a sweeping generalisation and know that it doesn't apply to every younger single lad on here.

I also know there are some younger couples knocking about too but it does seem that a lot of profiles are for folk in their 30's, 40's and 50's

For me, I would say I was in conventional relationships til I was in my early 30's and it was only after a relationship breakdown did I find the where with all to look at myself and alternative sexual lifestyles more closely.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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I was dragged in screaming at 49

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

36

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We were both in our early to mid 20's when we first dipped our toes in.....

Had spoken about it and had a join interest in swinging for a good couple of years before we felt ready to take plunge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was 47, and before i got married, when i was a teenager.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Did you decide that swinging was a sexual lifestyle choice you were happy to get involved with ?

There are 'younger' people on here but most of them are male and probably looking for 'easy shags' rather than adopting a longer term sexual lifestyle choice.

I know that is a sweeping generalisation and know that it doesn't apply to every younger single lad on here.

I also know there are some younger couples knocking about too but it does seem that a lot of profiles are for folk in their 30's, 40's and 50's

For me, I would say I was in conventional relationships til I was in my early 30's and it was only after a relationship breakdown did I find the where with all to look at myself and alternative sexual lifestyles more closely.

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19,but we didnt call it swinging

Had a threesome for 3 years at Uni,looking back i realise i had a boyfriend and a lover,he was best man at our wedding and we are still friends.

As i was exploring my sexuality kev and i always had an open attitude to same sex fucking...so for many years i met bi and lesbian women without him,(and vice versa)

i think we have always had an alternative to the mainstream view of our relationship and what mattered to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 30 single mum looking for excitement get to a certain age friends settling down, married children and I still wanted to play. Started of on chat and dating channel met a guy he took me to cupids and the rest is history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

A couple of weeks before my 49th birthday.

Always have been completely at ease with the fact that I don't have to be in love with someone to be able to enjoy good sex with them. I was promiscuous as a teenager and in my late teens/early twenties my norm was if I found someone attractive and that was reciprocated, we more often than not ended up shagging

I had my first moresome when I was 20 with three guys I worked with - mmmm happy memories. I shagged with most of my male friends....and went to the weddings of the majority of them, and 30-odd years later am still friends with them, their wives and their kids.

I had three long term monogamous relationships before joining Fab (2 years, 2 years and then 16 years) and never felt the need to look outside of any of the relationships for sex. Since joining Fab I've had a very satisfying sex life with a multitude of partners. I had my first bisexual experience a couple of weeks before my 50th birthday.

Almost 15 months ago I met my partner at a swingers party and we have been happily swinging together ever since....isn't life grand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mid 40s for me. Ms

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ever since i was sexually active. I cant say how old otherwise ruggers will kick my arse. The things i was doing where typical swingers things, only i had never heard of the word swinging. I knew i wasnt conventional and i knew i was different from my friends. I thought i was strange or that there was something wrong with me. When i met my ex husband i realized i wasnt the only one like me. Then i discovered what swingers where and it was amazing to realize that i was normal and that there was so many other people like me. Thats why i love the social side as well just nice to be with likeminded people

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Next week. I live in hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't swing i am only here for the sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted to try it much earlier.. but didnt do it till I was 26 or 27..

However, it was not the best of experiences due to other stuff.. but I have always been into multiple partners.. just only once before I was swinging had them together.

I had to wait till last year to begin to really explore though. so that would be at 34..

Cali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple of weeks before my 49th birthday.

Always have been completely at ease with the fact that I don't have to be in love with someone to be able to enjoy good sex with them. I was promiscuous as a teenager and in my late teens/early twenties my norm was if I found someone attractive and that was reciprocated, we more often than not ended up shagging

I had my first moresome when I was 20 with three guys I worked with - mmmm happy memories. I shagged with most of my male friends....and went to the weddings of the majority of them, and 30-odd years later am still friends with them, their wives and their kids.

I had three long term monogamous relationships before joining Fab (2 years, 2 years and then 16 years) and never felt the need to look outside of any of the relationships for sex. Since joining Fab I've had a very satisfying sex life with a multitude of partners. I had my first bisexual experience a couple of weeks before my 50th birthday.

Almost 15 months ago I met my partner at a swingers party and we have been happily swinging together ever since....isn't life grand "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"36"

Oooh me too

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