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By *inkySeeKinkyDo OP   Woman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

...but when it comes down to it they cant as they have a partner/child/parent/housemates mates living with them...

Question: what did you think "can accomodate meant" when you joined?

I often wonder if they think it means they can accomodate any size vagina with their manhood!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of people can accomodate - it might mean they provide a hotel room - maybe they should specify - i do think people assume they mean their own home - i know thats how i take it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can accomodate when wife/partner/kids are out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...but when it comes down to it they cant as they have a partner/child/parent/housemates mates living with them...

Question: what did you think "can accomodate meant" when you joined?

I often wonder if they think it means they can accomodate any size vagina with their manhood! "

Why can't you accommodate...

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"...but when it comes down to it they cant as they have a partner/child/parent/housemates mates living with them...

Question: what did you think "can accomodate meant" when you joined?

I often wonder if they think it means they can accomodate any size vagina with their manhood! "

...they can bung the missus £50 - 'there ya go love buy yaself something nice. Don't rush back'

Or seriously they may pay for a hotel room.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDo OP   Woman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks


"...but when it comes down to it they cant as they have a partner/child/parent/housemates mates living with them...

Question: what did you think "can accomodate meant" when you joined?

I often wonder if they think it means they can accomodate any size vagina with their manhood!

Why can't you accommodate..."

I have children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's quite calculated. Being able to accommodate is almost always seen as a positive, say you can and by the time the truth is out hope that the other person is so keen to meet it's no longer an issue

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By *inkySeeKinkyDo OP   Woman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

I just wondered if they actually knew what it meant when they joined.

A male friend joined and ticked all the would meet section not realising what TVs were and was mortified when i told him as hes a homophobic git

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By *inkySeeKinkyDo OP   Woman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks


"I think it's quite calculated. Being able to accommodate is almost always seen as a positive, say you can and by the time the truth is out hope that the other person is so keen to meet it's no longer an issue"

This is my main experience unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wondered if they actually knew what it meant when they joined.

A male friend joined and ticked all the would meet section not realising what TVs were and was mortified when i told him as hes a homophobic git "

clearly he’s was quite eager to jump knee deep into the clunge

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By *inkySeeKinkyDo OP   Woman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks


"I just wondered if they actually knew what it meant when they joined.

A male friend joined and ticked all the would meet section not realising what TVs were and was mortified when i told him as hes a homophobic git

clearly he’s was quite eager to jump knee deep into the clunge "

Hes a unlos homophobic git now

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By *inkySeeKinkyDo OP   Woman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

I remember the first time i heard the term and didnt have a clue what it meant.

Didnt fab have a glossary for all its weird and wonderful swinging terminology or havei dreamt it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wondered if they actually knew what it meant when they joined.

A male friend joined and ticked all the would meet section not realising what TVs were and was mortified when i told him as hes a homophobic git

clearly he’s was quite eager to jump knee deep into the clunge

Hes a unlos homophobic git now "

i’m guessing the site didn’t live up to his expectations? such a common problem.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We have learned that "can accommodate" means everything from the back seat of a car or lorry cab, through place of work to their own home or a hotel room. Caveat emptor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...but when it comes down to it they cant as they have a partner/child/parent/housemates mates living with them...

Question: what did you think "can accomodate meant" when you joined?

I often wonder if they think it means they can accomodate any size vagina with their manhood!

Why can't you accommodate..."

Married with kids, obviously.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Single guys have commitments too that may mean they can accommodate but just not all the time. Some are single Dad’s, looking after parents or are in shared accommodation following a split.

If a guy said they can accommodate I’d expect that to be at his place. I think many use it to get more messages/meets as otherwise many won't talk to guys who can’t accommodate as they presume they are cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...but when it comes down to it they cant as they have a partner/child/parent/housemates mates living with them...

Question: what did you think "can accomodate meant" when you joined?

I often wonder if they think it means they can accomodate any size vagina with their manhood! "

Why can't you accommodate?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

What would you put if you can accommodate at a hotel, but not at your home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again, where it is ok for the women to not beable to accommodate and if a man cant he have to be married lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you put if you can accommodate at a hotel, but not at your home? "

The men I've spoken to tell me they accommodate in hotels not their home. That's fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...but when it comes down to it they cant as they have a partner/child/parent/housemates mates living with them...

Question: what did you think "can accomodate meant" when you joined?

I often wonder if they think it means they can accomodate any size vagina with their manhood! "

It is quite annoying when you get to the stage of arranging a meet and they mention that they don't actually accomodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again, where it is ok for the women to not beable to accommodate and if a man cant he have to be married lol."

No one said that Shag.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"What would you put if you can accommodate at a hotel, but not at your home? "

I'd say that is accommodating, as it is providing somewhere for the meet to take place. Others may see it differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you put if you can accommodate at a hotel, but not at your home? "

I would a little bit, I find hotels a little bit cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again, where it is ok for the women to not beable to accommodate and if a man cant he have to be married lol.

No one said that Shag. "
I see. I guess some might think that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...but when it comes down to it they cant as they have a partner/child/parent/housemates mates living with them...

Question: what did you think "can accomodate meant" when you joined?

I often wonder if they think it means they can accomodate any size vagina with their manhood!

It is quite annoying when you get to the stage of arranging a meet and they mention that they don't actually accomodate "

It can be. I went into London for a drink with someone who said he can accommodate. After a couoke of drinks he said that he had just moved in with some friends but his aunt lived near me and was away for 3 months of the year, and we could use her house. I declined and on the way back to the station he said we should find an alley or somewhere I could give him a blow job.

I had to laugh at the audacity of him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I can't accomm at home, just to many people about all the damn time so put can't accomm. However if I really wanted to meet the person I would suggest I pay for a hotel or even split the cost.

Otherwise its just saying you are bullshitting

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"What would you put if you can accommodate at a hotel, but not at your home?

I would a little bit, I find hotels a little bit cold "

You would what a little bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again, where it is ok for the women to not beable to accommodate and if a man cant he have to be married lol.

No one said that Shag. I see. I guess some might think that."

It's the reasons why that people question. A man will often be accused of being in a relationship and a cheater. A woman will not; although I have been asked many times if I'm married or who I live with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you put if you can accommodate at a hotel, but not at your home?

I would a little bit, I find hotels a little bit cold

You would what a little bit? "

LMAO I misread your comment

I thought you said "would you be put off" not what would put you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again, where it is ok for the women to not beable to accommodate and if a man cant he have to be married lol.

No one said that Shag. I see. I guess some might think that.

It's the reasons why that people question. A man will often be accused of being in a relationship and a cheater. A woman will not; although I have been asked many times if I'm married or who I live with. "
That is right they do and the best option is to put to beable to accomodate and just say you have visitors if they are asking why you cant or something similar there.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I wouldn't bring a stranger into my children's home for sex.

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