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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all

Me and my partner have been swinging on and off for 4 years. I understand were not going to be everyone's cup of tea but the amount of comments we have been receiving are negative. Can someone tell us where were going wrong? Is it our look? Our pics? Profile? Etc. I would love honesty. Thanks I appreciate anyone's opinions and views

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Not my cup of tea. But I'm a fussy cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from a couple of non smiley photos, I can't see an issue.

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Every paragraph contains something negative. It's not really a friendly read.

Hope you find what you're after.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every paragraph contains something negative. It's not really a friendly read.

Hope you find what you're after."

Ok thank you hun. Much appreciated x

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

You're being negative about urself

U will be someone cup of tea. Try turning ur profile positive rather than " let's get this one thing straight we ain't barbie and ken"

U may aswell said we ain't all that. U both look lovely. Sell it xx

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

newark

To us, your photos suggest moody and frankly.. abit chavvy.

Honest, as requested

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

P's ur verification say ur doing fine.xx

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're being negative about urself

U will be someone cup of tea. Try turning ur profile positive rather than " let's get this one thing straight we ain't barbie and ken"

U may aswell said we ain't all that. U both look lovely. Sell it xx"

Thanks guys much appreciated x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What negative comments are you getting, are people contacting you with them?

I found your profile a bit hard to follow and I think your phone has converted some emojis to question marks.

Otherwise its pretty clear what you're after and I've seen a lot worse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What negative comments are you getting, are people contacting you with them?

I found your profile a bit hard to follow and I think your phone has converted some emojis to question marks.

Otherwise its pretty clear what you're after and I've seen a lot worse."

Well the comments were getting in private is that I'm a fatty even heard the same comment in a swingers club last night. So its done a great deal for my self confidence. And apparently were the odd couple etc. We have had loads of mixed comments us

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Omg did u tell them u wasn't interested? How sad to bully someone on here. Sad twats xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What negative comments are you getting, are people contacting you with them?

I found your profile a bit hard to follow and I think your phone has converted some emojis to question marks.

Otherwise its pretty clear what you're after and I've seen a lot worse.

Well the comments were getting in private is that I'm a fatty even heard the same comment in a swingers club last night. So its done a great deal for my self confidence. And apparently were the odd couple etc. We have had loads of mixed comments us "

Unless they are buying your weekly shop or you're sitting on their face, your weight is none of their business.

As a fellow fat chick, it can be really heartbreaking hearing other people's opinions about you. Especially when you've over heard it. Just remember those comments come from some ignorant twit, if manners smacked them in the face, they still wouldn't know how to use them.

As for nasty comments on here block them. Move on from it.

I swung with an ex about 15 years back. He was tall and stocky and me short and fat. We found it hard to find couples where the couple fancied both of us. We always seemed to find that if the male fancied me, the female didn't fancy my ex. (Vice versa) stick with it.

As for you're profile, it gets straight to the point, I'd take out those lines separating each section though. Take out some of the negatives and make yourselves sound a bit more tantalising.

Again ignore the comments.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What negative comments are you getting, are people contacting you with them?

I found your profile a bit hard to follow and I think your phone has converted some emojis to question marks.

Otherwise its pretty clear what you're after and I've seen a lot worse.

Well the comments were getting in private is that I'm a fatty even heard the same comment in a swingers club last night. So its done a great deal for my self confidence. And apparently were the odd couple etc. We have had loads of mixed comments us "

I see.

People can be extremely rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What negative comments are you getting, are people contacting you with them?

I found your profile a bit hard to follow and I think your phone has converted some emojis to question marks.

Otherwise its pretty clear what you're after and I've seen a lot worse."
me to I agree with this and remember you can't please all of the people all of the time

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By *osheaMan
over a year ago

manchester

I think there should be more body shots of you Kat. Maybe your legs in stockings? Also green pants? where the Calvin Kleins in the wash? just being honest good luck.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Just read your profile. I am assuming you have made changes already after replies here. There are a couple of negative aspects still but it sounds a lot better than some have suggested above. One thing that stuck out for me is the bit about smoking. I would advise you to change that to we are considerate smokers or sonething similar. I wish you well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me your profile read fine but the status comes across as quite aggressive, I'm sure it's jot meant in that way though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile comes across as a lot less aggressive and negative now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your advise and guidance its been much appreciated x

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Cut it shorter. Men won't really read it. Get to the point what you want and looking for. And what you don't do or want. Cut all the rest off.

Anything longer will just get skipped or copy and paste message.

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