FabSwingers.com forum: If there’s one thing I could go back in time and tell 18 year old me ...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.. it would be what?

I’d tell myself to lose that cursed shyness I had around that age - so many lost opportunities in my youth because of it!

You?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live life to the full and just go for it

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

Say no

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

that you can get pregnant by having sex standing up haha god I was nieve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not as fat as you think you are.

Make better Man choices.

Have some self respect.

Drink less.

Stay on at college.

Stop smoking.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Invest in Microsoft and Facebook, and take up swinging earlier.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't tell myself a single thing. Learning by my mistakes was a lot of fun mostly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't tell myself a single thing. Learning by my mistakes was a lot of fun mostly."

that’s very true! We’re the people we are because of the journeys we’ve had and the sum total of our successes and failures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do NOT marry him!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Don't buy that KH 350, it's a crock of shit

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Read May Angelou earlier.

Take her quote, Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option, to heart.

You're not fat now, no matter what you're being told. You will be and it won't be the end of the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell myself it’s okay to think differently from others and not to conform to fit the so called normality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. it would be what?

I’d tell myself to lose that cursed shyness I had around that age - so many lost opportunities in my youth because of it!

You? "
I have no regrets and can think of nothing I would want to change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay away from her, she isn't wufe material. She is a psycho who will bleed you dry...............................

Great fuck though so just do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouch, deep question for me.

Get out, you are strong and you will heal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to start smoking when I was 35 for a start!

To go to Harlow and meet Ads before I met my ex husband (although that would have been weird as he would have been 12

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Not to spend all my aunts inheritance money on a fucking ginormous tv for my ex husband only for the fucker to keep it!

Geeky x

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Study hard for that doctor career you dream off.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

To wait a few more years the man who would make me really happy could be found x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get with her! You'll end up losing 6 years of your life and missing out on lots of fun!

Also, there will be these things called "bitcoin". Blow all of your student finance on them instead of buying that stupid 3 wheeler!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell your best friend not to take that flight.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let assholes persuade you that selfish behaviour which they are showing you is called love and that guy from your dreams doesn't exist. He does and he will show you what love is.

Kitten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pack your bags and move, just do it!

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

I'd tell her to learn to be more selfish. Make sure you look out for yourself because no one else is going to no matter what they tell you. Get the life you want for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t take him back the first time he leaves, you’re strong enough to survive and you can do it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pleasing others at the cost of your own happiness is not how to live your life.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

That men are cunts.... Never believe them and buy a wand as soon as it's invented

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Pleasing others at the cost of your own happiness is not how to live your life."

Very poetic and also correct

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

That it's OK to be attracted to both girls and boys.

That it's OK to want to wear clothes that are deemed to be the preserve of women.

That there's no need to be ashamed of yourself & carry that shame around for the next 20+years.

It's OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the blue pill.

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Work harder athletically ...and a bit academically.

Also ...be a bit more confident

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Go back a year and don't be so bloody stupid and pig headed and leave the Navy - you'll still regret it 35 years later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite simply, be more confident.

If 18 year old me knew what 31 year old me was going to get up to he'd be shocked!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

That crazy bitch will ruin your life for the next 10 years! Get out whilst you can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt change a thing as it would risk my kids existance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t wear double denim!

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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You will turn out to be a great man and be very successful.

Learn from all mistakes but for goodness sake don’t let people use your niceness as a weakness

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

newark

"Listen up dickhead, that, this and that you've been thinking about... they turn out like this.

You're welcome

*pats on the back*"

And then shit would get way more fun way earlier than it did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust your gut instinct and if that’s how you see them treating others, it won’t be too long before that’s how they treat you. Still true today on Fab!

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

To not procrastinate as much as I did.

Don't smoke.

Don't but that car.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're not as fat as you think you are.

Make better Man choices.

Have some self respect.

Drink less.

Stay on at college.

Stop smoking."

Exactly this

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Get a better education

and when your first love gets you pregnant just let him fuck off cause he has already given you the best of him in her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore all the shit going on around you and chase the dream. Also cherish your close friends and make sure they know they can turn you to.

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By *implymjWoman
over a year ago

rochdale

When a man you've never met gives you flowers run in the opposite direction.

You are not fat, in fact you are smoking hot.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

".. it would be what?

I’d tell myself to lose that cursed shyness I had around that age - so many lost opportunities in my youth because of it!

You? "

I wood tell my self about fab.

See if it wood change my bad luck back then

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Dont get tbat house together .... dont marry him .

Set the bar higher ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a house with some of the money you’re drinking away in Germany

Don’t let your mate tag along when your ex you’re on good terms with says to come over to get your birthday present

Don’t take the piss out of your mate because he’s got a 32 year old girlfriend, she’s not old... but she is hot and into lingerie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop being so shy and give up smoking!! Could be mortgage free by now with the money I've spent on tobacco over the years!

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