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"He went back to his wife but STILL telling me he loves me and wants to carry on seeing me. I've said no chance and it feels good to feel in control once again. Just wanted to share this " | |||
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"How long has it been since this happened because although you’re riding high now I’m guessing you have feelings for him hence the posting...:." Yes i.am missing him. It's been a couple of months now. But I can't let him use me for.sex  | |||
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"You don't have to play his games. He is being unfair to you and his wife by trying to get you to play along. The other thread said it all. Get yourself a hobby to help distract you from missing him. Tell him not to contact you again until he is free and if you're still free and interested you'll consider what he has to say then. " Brill advice and thank u. Xx | |||
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"He went back to his wife but STILL telling me he loves me and wants to carry on seeing me. I've said no chance and it feels good to feel in control once again. Just wanted to share this "You do realise that if you're still in contact, then you're not rid of him? | |||
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"How long has it been since this happened because although you’re riding high now I’m guessing you have feelings for him hence the posting...:. Yes i.am missing him. It's been a couple of months now. But I can't let him use me for.sex "Fair play
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I believe he has some sort of feelings for me but not love. New hobby is what I need xx | |||
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"How long has it been since this happened because although you’re riding high now I’m guessing you have feelings for him hence the posting...:. Yes i.am missing him. It's been a couple of months now. But I can't let him use me for.sex
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"He went back to his wife but STILL telling me he loves me and wants to carry on seeing me. I've said no chance and it feels good to feel in control once again. Just wanted to share this "Shag someone else! You soon be over him | |||
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"Delete and block his number to protect yourself when you feel your resolve crumbling!" | |||
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"He went back to his wife but STILL telling me he loves me and wants to carry on seeing me. I've said no chance and it feels good to feel in control once again. Just wanted to share this
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"He went back to his wife but STILL telling me he loves me and wants to carry on seeing me. I've said no chance and it feels good to feel in control once again. Just wanted to share this
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"You don't have to play his games. He is being unfair to you and his wife by trying to get you to play along. The other thread said it all. Get yourself a hobby to help distract you from missing him. Tell him not to contact you again until he is free and if you're still free and interested you'll consider what he has to say then. " I took your advice and he hasn't responded. Knew what the answer would be anyway. Time to move on and I miss him | |||
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"You don't have to play his games. He is being unfair to you and his wife by trying to get you to play along. The other thread said it all. Get yourself a hobby to help distract you from missing him. Tell him not to contact you again until he is free and if you're still free and interested you'll consider what he has to say then. I took your advice and he hasn't responded. Knew what the answer would be anyway. Time to move on and I miss him "It's not his response that's important now, it's yours. Stick to your guns, keep busy and grieve the end of this and begin to celebrate your life as it will be without him. | |||
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"Chin up chick, once a cheat always a cheat. Your worth more. xx" What a load of bollocks. How the fuck do you know that everyone who has cheated will cheat again?   | |||
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"Chin up chick, once a cheat always a cheat. Your worth more. xx What a load of bollocks. How the fuck do you know that everyone who has cheated will cheat again? "Agree with this, some will but others won't. All depends on the person. Unfair to label all the same. G | |||
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"How long has it been since this happened because although you’re riding high now I’m guessing you have feelings for him hence the posting...:." Accuracy- 100 | |||
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"He went back to his wife but STILL telling me he loves me and wants to carry on seeing me. I've said no chance and it feels good to feel in control once again. Just wanted to share this "damn he loved and lost  | |||
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"He went back to his wife but STILL telling me he loves me and wants to carry on seeing me. I've said no chance and it feels good to feel in control once again. Just wanted to share this damn he loved and lost "better to have love and lost than..... well you know the rest | |||
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"How long has it been since this happened because although you’re riding high now I’m guessing you have feelings for him hence the posting...:. Yes i.am missing him. It's been a couple of months now. But I can't let him use me for.sex "Or...you could use HIM for sex!  | |||
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"He went back to his wife but STILL telling me he loves me and wants to carry on seeing me. I've said no chance and it feels good to feel in control once again. Just wanted to share this "Well considering its the 3rd thread you have put up about your affair . i can see you are in control | |||
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"He went back to his wife but STILL telling me he loves me and wants to carry on seeing me. I've said no chance and it feels good to feel in control once again. Just wanted to share this Well considering its the 3rd thread you have put up about your affair . i can see you are in control " | |||
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"Falling for a married man. He's laughing! !!" no he's loved and lost he's not laughing | |||
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"He's still loved. Just now only 1 play mate " maybe his wife doesn't play that's why he strayed we don't know and never will | |||
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"He's still loved. Just now only 1 play mate maybe his wife doesn't play that's why he strayed we don't know and never will "Oh you mean the " Im not getting nothing at home" Chestnut | |||
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"He's still loved. Just now only 1 play mate maybe his wife doesn't play that's why he strayed we don't know and never will Oh you mean the " Im not getting nothing at home" Chestnut "its a common chestnut | |||
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"He's still loved. Just now only 1 play mate maybe his wife doesn't play that's why he strayed we don't know and never will "phaaaaaa that's okay then | |||
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"He's still loved. Just now only 1 play mate maybe his wife doesn't play that's why he strayed we don't know and never will Oh you mean the " Im not getting nothing at home" Chestnut its a common chestnut "haha exacly | |||
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"He's still loved. Just now only 1 play mate maybe his wife doesn't play that's why he strayed we don't know and never will phaaaaaa that's okay then "so many permutations of why these things happen but let's face it they do and often ......feelings eh who'd have em | |||
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"I'm married. We play together. If he cheated his balls would be in a vice " Miami? Oh my I fancy some sun | |||
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"He's still loved. Just now only 1 play mate maybe his wife doesn't play that's why he strayed we don't know and never will phaaaaaa that's okay then so many permutations of why these things happen but let's face it they do and often ......feelings eh who'd have em "Does not matter what his situation was . The point is . He was married . And she had a choice to go there or not go there . | |||
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"I'm married. We play together. If he cheated his balls would be in a vice " Kinky | |||
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"He would wish that was his punishment " you just know he's gonna slip up don't you ? | |||
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"Not all men r cheating dogs.. I'm good " one minute I'm getting the woman's here next minute the guy .......whos here | |||
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"Not all men r cheating dogs.. I'm good one minute I'm getting the woman's here next minute the guy .......whos here "never the guy. Always girl | |||
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"Besides he can fuck who he likes as long as I can join..." so its the woman | |||
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"Not all men r cheating dogs.. I'm good " you said here " not all men are cheating dogs I'm good " | |||
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"exacly . if you both allow each other to play . Why would there be any need to cheat " the other lass didn't know. . | |||
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"Not all men r cheating dogs.. I'm good you said here " not all men are cheating dogs I'm good " "yeah I'm good. I've not got a dog | |||
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"exacly . if you both allow each other to play . Why would there be any need to cheat " cheating is so naughty | |||
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"Not all men r cheating dogs.. I'm good you said here " not all men are cheating dogs I'm good " yeah I'm good. I've not got a dog"who let the dogs out woof woof woof | |||
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"exacly . if you both allow each other to play . Why would there be any need to cheat the other lass didn't know. ." i know . i was talking about you and your hubby . if you both allow each other to play . Then they would be no reason whatsoever for any one of you too cheat | |||
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"Not all men r cheating dogs.. I'm good you said here " not all men are cheating dogs I'm good " yeah I'm good. I've not got a dogwho let the dogs out woof woof woof "said guys mam!! | |||
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"Just sad... so many ppl in this world no need to chase attached ppl" so many attached people out there chasing though | |||
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"exacly . if you both allow each other to play . Why would there be any need to cheat the other lass didn't know. . i know . i was talking about you and your hubby . if you both allow each other to play . Then they would be no reason whatsoever for any one of you too cheat " that's us tho. I don't even think the poor lady was a "swinger " | |||
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"Just sad... so many ppl in this world no need to chase attached pplso many attached people out there chasing though "god help ur future wife | |||
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"exacly . if you both allow each other to play . Why would there be any need to cheat the other lass didn't know. . i know . i was talking about you and your hubby . if you both allow each other to play . Then they would be no reason whatsoever for any one of you too cheat that's us tho. I don't even think the poor lady was a "swinger "" what is a swinger | |||
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"Just sad... so many ppl in this world no need to chase attached pplso many attached people out there chasing though "I'm guessing ur shared accommodation is with ur wife  | |||
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"exacly . if you both allow each other to play . Why would there be any need to cheat the other lass didn't know. . i know . i was talking about you and your hubby . if you both allow each other to play . Then they would be no reason whatsoever for any one of you too cheat that's us tho. I don't even think the poor lady was a "swinger "what is a swinger "not got a clue | |||
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"exacly . if you both allow each other to play . Why would there be any need to cheat the other lass didn't know. . i know . i was talking about you and your hubby . if you both allow each other to play . Then they would be no reason whatsoever for any one of you too cheat that's us tho. I don't even think the poor lady was a "swinger "" No i dont think she had a clue her hubby was cheating by the sounds of it | |||
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"Just sad... so many ppl in this world no need to chase attached pplso many attached people out there chasing though I'm guessing ur shared accommodation is with ur wife "oh we have a no reply . i think you are on too something Miss Marple | |||
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"exacly . if you both allow each other to play . Why would there be any need to cheat the other lass didn't know. . i know . i was talking about you and your hubby . if you both allow each other to play . Then they would be no reason whatsoever for any one of you too cheat that's us tho. I don't even think the poor lady was a "swinger "what is a swinger not got a clue"exactly theirs no one type that does this its real life real people ,real meets ,real affairs | |||
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"Ur wife doesn't know ur on here does she " who's wife .......his? | |||
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"Ur wife doesn't know ur on here does she who's wife .......his? " | |||
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"Ur wife doesn't know ur on here does she who's wife .......his? "To be honest my ex wife does not know im on here . but concidering we was divorced 8 years ago . its none of her buisness | |||
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"Ur wife doesn't know ur on here does she who's wife .......his? To be honest my ex wife does not know im on here . but concidering we was divorced 8 years ago . its none of her buisness "bet she'd still say something | |||
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"Ur wife doesn't know ur on here does she who's wife .......his? To be honest my ex wife does not know im on here . but concidering we was divorced 8 years ago . its none of her buisness bet she'd still say something "lol fucking right she would . she has a opinion on everything | |||
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"Ur wife doesn't know ur on here does she who's wife .......his? To be honest my ex wife does not know im on here . but concidering we was divorced 8 years ago . its none of her buisness bet she'd still say something lol fucking right she would . she has a opinion on everything "ha | |||
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"How long has it been since this happened because although you’re riding high now I’m guessing you have feelings for him hence the posting...:. Yes i.am missing him. It's been a couple of months now. But I can't let him use me for.sex
Or...you could use HIM for sex! " | |||
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"Ur wife doesn't know ur on here does she who's wife .......his? "yours | |||
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"Besides he can fuck who he likes as long as I can join..." But how do you know? What if he doesn't want you to join in? There are lots of couples on here with cheating other halves!!! Some couples on here think they've got it made. Just because you have an "open" relationship and you think you are sharing in the life style you'd be surprised how many are cheating or prepared to cheat!! | |||
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"Besides he can fuck who he likes as long as I can join... But how do you know? What if he doesn't want you to join in? There are lots of couples on here with cheating other halves!!! Some couples on here think they've got it made. Just because you have an "open" relationship and you think you are sharing in the life style you'd be surprised how many are cheating or prepared to cheat!! " totally agree to this | |||
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"Besides he can fuck who he likes as long as I can join... But how do you know? What if he doesn't want you to join in? There are lots of couples on here with cheating other halves!!! Some couples on here think they've got it made. Just because you have an "open" relationship and you think you are sharing in the life style you'd be surprised how many are cheating or prepared to cheat!! " then I watch x | |||
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"Ur wife doesn't know ur on here does she who's wife .......his? yours "Ahhhh well she's long gone I'm afraid but hey such is life | |||
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"I 100% trust that my man will never cheat" and 100% got it made. Sorry if that bothers u | |||
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"I 100% trust that my man will never cheat" of course you do but hey crap happens | |||
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"He went back to his wife but STILL telling me he loves me and wants to carry on seeing me. I've said no chance and it feels good to feel in control once again. Just wanted to share this
Shag someone else!
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"Besides he can fuck who he likes as long as I can join... But how do you know? What if he doesn't want you to join in? There are lots of couples on here with cheating other halves!!! Some couples on here think they've got it made. Just because you have an "open" relationship and you think you are sharing in the life style you'd be surprised how many are cheating or prepared to cheat!! "
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"You can't odds life 60 years ago relationships lasted 50 years no your lucky if they get to double figures "that's because women knew there men were cheating but stayed for financial security Women work now And vote | |||
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"I 100% trust that my man will never cheat" Do you have him locked up in your cellar then?  | |||
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"Besides he can fuck who he likes as long as I can join... But how do you know? What if he doesn't want you to join in? There are lots of couples on here with cheating other halves!!! Some couples on here think they've got it made. Just because you have an "open" relationship and you think you are sharing in the life style you'd be surprised how many are cheating or prepared to cheat!! then I watch x"That sounds very controlling!! That can push a massive wedge between a couple and then just out of spite the inevitable happens!!! Think how easy it would be for him to arrange something as apposed to a couple in vanilla life? Just saying.... No relationship is solid or perfect because people aren't!!! | |||
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"You can't odds life 60 years ago relationships lasted 50 years no your lucky if they get to double figures that's because women knew there men were cheating but stayed for financial security
Women work now
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"You probably won't be able to move on until you cut contact" This is so right | |||
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"You can't odds life 60 years ago relationships lasted 50 years no your lucky if they get to double figures that's because women knew there men were cheating but stayed for financial security
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"Besides he can fuck who he likes as long as I can join... But how do you know? What if he doesn't want you to join in? There are lots of couples on here with cheating other halves!!! Some couples on here think they've got it made. Just because you have an "open" relationship and you think you are sharing in the life style you'd be surprised how many are cheating or prepared to cheat!!
Usually the ones that go on and on about what a great couple they are. To hide the cracks."....whilst the fella is banging half of fab behind their back. Relationships are an ongoing work. Nobody knows what will happen. | |||
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"Besides he can fuck who he likes as long as I can join... But how do you know? What if he doesn't want you to join in? There are lots of couples on here with cheating other halves!!! Some couples on here think they've got it made. Just because you have an "open" relationship and you think you are sharing in the life style you'd be surprised how many are cheating or prepared to cheat!! then I watch x
That sounds very controlling!! That can push a massive wedge between a couple and then just out of spite the inevitable happens!!! Think how easy it would be for him to arrange something as apposed to a couple in vanilla life?
Just saying.... No relationship is solid or perfect because people aren't!!! "controlling??? If it happens it happens but it won't so I'm okay. . | |||
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"there will always be an element of doubt when one says, i’m going out with friends, i’m working late or going away on business........." Not for all of us. | |||
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"I think it's dead sad women expect there men to cheat.. what a miserable relationship " I don’t think it's neccessarily the fact that women expect their men to cheat,more the fact they're not so naive to think it won't happen to them. I trusted my husband 99.9%. | |||
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"there will always be an element of doubt when one says, i’m going out with friends, i’m working late or going away on business........." omg u need to get over ur past. I ain't got the head space to worry about what ifs. All the above would not make me worry. Ur poor head x | |||
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"I think it's dead sad women expect there men to cheat.. what a miserable relationship I don’t think it's neccessarily the fact that women expect their men to cheat,more the fact they're not so naive to think it won't happen to them. I trusted my husband 99.9%." I've been there. We both have.. Both got cheated on. I'm never going to believe he's going to cheat. And the pain I felt I'd never inflict on anyone else | |||
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"I think it's dead sad women expect there men to cheat.. what a miserable relationship I don’t think it's neccessarily the fact that women expect their men to cheat,more the fact they're not so naive to think it won't happen to them. I trusted my husband 99.9%." have u had a relationship since x | |||
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"I think it's dead sad women expect there men to cheat.. what a miserable relationship I don’t think it's neccessarily the fact that women expect their men to cheat,more the fact they're not so naive to think it won't happen to them. I trusted my husband 99.9%.have u had a relationship since x" Yes I have. | |||
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"I think it's dead sad women expect there men to cheat.. what a miserable relationship I don’t think it's neccessarily the fact that women expect their men to cheat,more the fact they're not so naive to think it won't happen to them. I trusted my husband 99.9%.have u had a relationship since Yes I have." do u not trust him | |||
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"I think it's dead sad women expect there men to cheat.. what a miserable relationship " I think it's rude to hikack someone's thread but there we are. People don't like cockiness, they'll jump all over it when they see it. It's nice that you have the trust you do and you'd be confident that if I asked your fella to come and fuck me but hang on mate you can leave your mrs in the house, not having her peeping on us, you absolutely sure he wouldn't deliver and just keep it under his hat. | |||
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"I think it's dead sad women expect there men to cheat.. what a miserable relationship I don’t think it's neccessarily the fact that women expect their men to cheat,more the fact they're not so naive to think it won't happen to them. I trusted my husband 99.9%.have u had a relationship since Yes I have.do u not trust him " I trusted him the same amount 99.9%. Just because I have been monumentally cheated on doesn't mean I can't trust the next guy,I take each guy as a separate case,I just know the signs more now | |||
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"I think it's dead sad women expect there men to cheat.. what a miserable relationship I think it's rude to hikack someone's thread but there we are. People don't like cockiness, they'll jump all over it when they see it. It's nice that you have the trust you do and you'd be confident that if I asked your fella to come and fuck me but hang on mate you can leave your mrs in the house, not having her peeping on us, you absolutely sure he wouldn't deliver and just keep it under his hat. " 100% sure. I'm not cockie I have every faith in him. A lot of my comments are tongue in cheek. U don't know me to label me | |||
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"there will always be an element of doubt when one says, i’m going out with friends, i’m working late or going away on business........." People should be able to do all the above | |||
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"there will always be an element of doubt when one says, i’m going out with friends, i’m working late or going away on business......... People should be able to do all the above" do u trust ur fella 100% X | |||
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"Besides he can fuck who he likes as long as I can join... But how do you know? What if he doesn't want you to join in? There are lots of couples on here with cheating other halves!!! Some couples on here think they've got it made. Just because you have an "open" relationship and you think you are sharing in the life style you'd be surprised how many are cheating or prepared to cheat!! " | |||
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"That said I'm off to fantasies about u fucking him now "He doesn't look like my type so don't worry. | |||
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"He's still loved. Just now only 1 play mate maybe his wife doesn't play that's why he strayed we don't know and never will "thata no reason to stray if you have any respect for your wife and yourself | |||
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"#nevertakeyourpartnerforgranted. Glad you're that confident in your relationship and long may that continue. I've never been cheated on so wouldn't know what it feels like but I have been taken for granted." I've been cheated on. I'm happy it was a stepping stone to meeting my soul mate. We both have more respect than cheating | |||
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"People who trust 100% are naive in my opinion. I don't trust myself, or my children to be 100% honest in everything so I certainly wouldn't put 100% trust in a partner not fucking someone if the opportunity arose, especially as I leave him for a month each year to go on holiday with male friends. " Lol, whyee? | |||
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"People who trust 100% are naive in my opinion. I don't trust myself, or my children to be 100% honest in everything so I certainly wouldn't put 100% trust in a partner not fucking someone if the opportunity arose, especially as I leave him for a month each year to go on holiday with male friends. " I'm far from naive. I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone I didn't fully trust. Been there done that | |||
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"All I'm saying is I'm finding it odd ppl are sympathetic to a woman who had a shag with a married man. Where's the sisterhood these days" in the nunnery | |||
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"People who trust 100% are naive in my opinion. " You know I'm not sure I could live any other way. So I guess I always have to find someone worthy of that trust. | |||
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"Fuck me give me directions ??it'll become a habit "well done sir | |||
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"People who trust 100% are naive in my opinion. You know I'm not sure I could live any other way. So I guess I always have to find someone worthy of that trust." | |||
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"You don't have to play his games. He is being unfair to you and his wife by trying to get you to play along. The other thread said it all. Get yourself a hobby to help distract you from missing him. Tell him not to contact you again until he is free and if you're still free and interested you'll consider what he has to say then. " I hope his wife gets a hobby and fucks him out. Don't want you to get him tho x | |||
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"All I'm saying is I'm finding it odd ppl are sympathetic to a woman who had a shag with a married man. Where's the sisterhood these days" Yeah I don't get it either,I have no sympathy. If you see someone who can only give you scraps of themselves well that's what you'll end up with,scraps. | |||
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"All I'm saying is I'm finding it odd ppl are sympathetic to a woman who had a shag with a married man. Where's the sisterhood these days Yeah I don't get it either,I have no sympathy. If you see someone who can only give you scraps of themselves well that's what you'll end up with,scraps. " love this x | |||
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"He went back to his wife but STILL telling me he loves me and wants to carry on seeing me. I've said no chance and it feels good to feel in control once again. Just wanted to share this "but you only meet women so that's obvious | |||
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"He went back to his wife but STILL telling me he loves me and wants to carry on seeing me. I've said no chance and it feels good to feel in control once again. Just wanted to share this but you only meet women so that's obvious "i dont think that is anything to this thread IMHO | |||
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"All I'm saying is I'm finding it odd ppl are sympathetic to a woman who had a shag with a married man. Where's the sisterhood these days Yeah I don't get it either,I have no sympathy. If you see someone who can only give you scraps of themselves well that's what you'll end up with,scraps. " Not always. Some leave their partners and go on to have a serious relationship with the person they had an affair with. I know it happens because that's what I did. | |||
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"." the problem with affairs is three sides to every story the wifes the mans and the other woman | |||
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"The title of your thread is interesting 'single after affair'. Where you not always single or did you see yourself as his partner despite the fact he had a wife that he was martied to. " That's a good point I never noticed that. | |||
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"He's still loved. Just now only 1 play mate maybe his wife doesn't play that's why he strayed we don't know and never will phaaaaaa that's okay then so many permutations of why these things happen but let's face it they do and often ......feelings eh who'd have em Does not matter what his situation was . The point is . He was married . And she had a choice to go there or not go there . "Always true. | |||
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"I think it's dead sad women expect there men to cheat.. what a miserable relationship "
I think you either trust your OH or you don't, you can't be in a healthy relationship if there is no trust or you think they may cheat this time next week | |||
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"there will always be an element of doubt when one says, i’m going out with friends, i’m working late or going away on business........." Really? You think that if your wife goes out? | |||
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"I think it's dead sad women expect there men to cheat.. what a miserable relationship I don’t think it's neccessarily the fact that women expect their men to cheat,more the fact they're not so naive to think it won't happen to them. I trusted my husband 99.9%.have u had a relationship since Yes I have.do u not trust him I trusted him the same amount 99.9%. Just because I have been monumentally cheated on doesn't mean I can't trust the next guy,I take each guy as a separate case,I just know the signs more now "I have never been cheated on ( that I know of anyway ) but I think I would find it hard to trust the next time even with a different person, did you find it hard to trust again ? | |||
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"I think it's dead sad women expect there men to cheat.. what a miserable relationship I don’t think it's neccessarily the fact that women expect their men to cheat,more the fact they're not so naive to think it won't happen to them. I trusted my husband 99.9%.have u had a relationship since Yes I have.do u not trust him I trusted him the same amount 99.9%. Just because I have been monumentally cheated on doesn't mean I can't trust the next guy,I take each guy as a separate case,I just know the signs more now
I have never been cheated on ( that I know of anyway ) but I think I would find it hard to trust the next time even with a different person, did you find it hard to trust again ?"No not really,I tend to trust people until they give me reason not to. I just know the signs now I'm more aware of how a cheating man act's,but not everyone is the same are they. Carrying around bitterness and mistrust does nothing for your soul. | |||
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"I think it's dead sad women expect there men to cheat.. what a miserable relationship I don’t think it's neccessarily the fact that women expect their men to cheat,more the fact they're not so naive to think it won't happen to them. I trusted my husband 99.9%.have u had a relationship since Yes I have.do u not trust him I trusted him the same amount 99.9%. Just because I have been monumentally cheated on doesn't mean I can't trust the next guy,I take each guy as a separate case,I just know the signs more now
I have never been cheated on ( that I know of anyway ) but I think I would find it hard to trust the next time even with a different person, did you find it hard to trust again ?
No not really,I tend to trust people until they give me reason not to. I just know the signs now I'm more aware of how a cheating man act's,but not everyone is the same are they.
Carrying around bitterness and mistrust does nothing for your soul."A great attitude to have. After seeing what people have written on these and other forums after being cheated on where they said they struggled to trust again and had to work at it, I always imagined that's how it would happen for most people | |||
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"You don't have to play his games. He is being unfair to you and his wife by trying to get you to play along. The other thread said it all. Get yourself a hobby to help distract you from missing him. Tell him not to contact you again until he is free and if you're still free and interested you'll consider what he has to say then. I hope his wife gets a hobby and fucks him out. Don't want you to get him tho x" Maybe I should become her hobby | |||
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"I'm married. We play together. If he cheated his balls would be in a vice " | |||
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"You don't have to play his games. He is being unfair to you and his wife by trying to get you to play along. The other thread said it all. Get yourself a hobby to help distract you from missing him. Tell him not to contact you again until he is free and if you're still free and interested you'll consider what he has to say then. I hope his wife gets a hobby and fucks him out. Don't want you to get him tho x Maybe I should become her hobby " | |||
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"All I'm saying is I'm finding it odd ppl are sympathetic to a woman who had a shag with a married man. Where's the sisterhood these days Yeah I don't get it either,I have no sympathy. If you see someone who can only give you scraps of themselves well that's what you'll end up with,scraps. Not always. Some leave their partners and go on to have a serious relationship with the person they had an affair with. I know it happens because that's what I did." My ex-husband cheated on me and is very happy with the woman. I had a child with him so see them every week, she seems like the perfect girl for him and I'm glad he is happy because we were both miserable together. | |||
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