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Is it safer to meet at a sex club or hotel rather than at home?

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By *carlet_heaven OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

Or just as risky anytime?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have thought the answer was pretty obvious lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who you're meeting I suppose, but if you need to ask, then I'd say a coffee shop

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

I would never allow randoms from the internet into my home. No chance! Never been to a sex club but been to swingers clubs many times.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Being on over a year i would say you know the answer.......personally bringing strangers into your home is a no no......not until you get to know them

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Never at home unless you know them VERY well..forget hotel rooms.. go to a swinging club . Chat and socialise then play in an open room. Or just chill in the lounge and watch.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I’ve only experienced anything remotely scary at a club. None of the meets I’ve had in my home have been scary or weird.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I won't have someone come to my home unless I know them well and trust them. Aside from the obvious risks to your own wellbeing, you're also opening your home and its contents to someone who may well be using sites such as these to rob people, in the knowledge that the crime will likely go unreported because of the circumstances. I've heard firsthand stories of people having items such as televisions, laptops, cameras, etc., stolen either from their own home, or from properties they'd rented for parties.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I used to meet at home, with a local security measure in place. All but one of these meets went well. The one that didn't was the one time I didn't have security in place and I took a risk.

I have always felt safe at clubs but few men want to meet at clubs. I prefer to meet people I have already vetted at hotels but will occasionally go on to an hotel is a social is going exceptionally well.

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