FabSwingers.com forum: Attention with no intent..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I keep finding over and over again woman that say they want to meet but never actually meet! I mean these status' updates are almost hourly yet they haven't had a verification on a year.. these people cross me as narcissistic types.. anyone else? Before anyone says it yes I know they might not just want to meet me but they seem to never meet anyone, moan about it, post a load of pics then call the men peeves and dreamers? No I'm not frustrated, yes I get my fair share of fun from here, no I'm not sour, just curious.. I do get the vibe from quite a lot on here that they are literally just here for men to tell them they look good and would like to fuck them and that's all they are here for? Anyone else get this vibe from profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many are. You just have to recognise the signs and avoid. It's quite easy really.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Each to their own. Just pass them by and enjoy yourself doing what you want.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Same could be said of men! Plenty men are on meet me today and never meet or delete messages without reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have gotten that vibe with some. I think there are all sorts on here. Some enjoy meeting, some just enjoy the attention. It's good that you can see the flags OP. Stops you from messaging someone who isn't looking to meet in general. It doesn't concern me though. We are all on here for our own reasons

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Ah yes. The attention seeking status update. Makes people easy to avoid.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

In a nutshell..

The meeters get to meet

The fakers get to fake

The posers get to pose

And the moaners get to moan...

Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a nutshell..

The meeters get to meet

The fakers get to fake

The posers get to pose

And the moaners get to moan...

Simples. "

A bit of something for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just end up meeting guys they've met before?

I post meets and then don't have any new verifications to back them up, mostly I just meet guys I've met before.

Meeting someone I know will give me a good time will always take priority over a new guy

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Don't forget some are on multiple sites like us, so we do meet outside of fab.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Maybe they just end up meeting guys they've met before"

This. Or maybe they just don't bother asking for veris even if it is someone new. Lack of recent veris doesn't mean someone hasn't met recently.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'm possibly guilty of this to an extent. I post pics fairly often at times, I join in the forums and of course I enjoy all the false flattery and flirty banter. However it's rare I meet anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People use this site for a variety of reasons, being validated on a daily basis by an adoring public is one of many.

Status updates however lame they may seem do keep the profile at the top of viewing feeds so perhaps they’re trying to attract someone after all....

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"In a nutshell..

The meeters get to meet

The fakers get to fake

The posers get to pose

And the moaners get to moan...

Simples. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a nutshell..

The meeters get to meet

The fakers get to fake

The posers get to pose

And the moaners get to moan...

Simples. "

I'm now singing Taylor Swift, shake it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a nutshell..

The meeters get to meet

The fakers get to fake

The posers get to pose

And the moaners get to moan...

Simples.

I'm now singing Taylor Swift, shake it off

Thanks for that! Now I am too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep finding over and over again woman that say they want to meet but never actually meet! I mean these status' updates are almost hourly yet they haven't had a verification on a year.. these people cross me as narcissistic types.. anyone else? Before anyone says it yes I know they might not just want to meet me but they seem to never meet anyone, moan about it, post a load of pics then call the men peeves and dreamers? No I'm not frustrated, yes I get my fair share of fun from here, no I'm not sour, just curious.. I do get the vibe from quite a lot on here that they are literally just here for men to tell them they look good and would like to fuck them and that's all they are here for? Anyone else get this vibe from profiles? "
maybe they meet but don't display verifications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same could be said of men! Plenty men are on meet me today and never meet or delete messages without reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s probably a year since my last Veri from sex.

I don’t ask for them as I have one or two already. I’m still having sex though

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I'll just throw this one in for debate...

Isn't this swinging malarky essentially all about narcissism?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"In a nutshell..

The meeters get to meet

The fakers get to fake

The posers get to pose

And the moaners get to moan...

Simples.

A bit of something for everyone

Oh and don't forget the wankers, their people too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some meet

Some dont

Some look for attention

Some dont look for attention

Some troll for a heated discussion

Some dont troll for a heated discussion

Some men like to cross dress

Some men don’t crossdress

Some like bareback

Some dont like bareback

Some look to cheat

Some dont cheat

Some like bdsm

Some dont like bdsm

We are all different and we all run our profiles to suit and how we do it is our choice.

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Last few meets I've had I haven't received verifications but doesn't bother me as the few I have prove that I'm genuine. Plus saying they're are available doesn't mean they can't be selective about any offers received. Sometimes they just dont float your boat.

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