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"Just get rid of the shite ones. Hahaha, only joking xx I don't know. I'm not sure if that is the answer. " I agree that there’s some arseholes on here and it must be hell for women sometimes but the numbers do seem to be so uneven | |||
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"Ban all other men except me I say . And I'd still get nowhere "Oh dear, is it that bad for you | |||
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"Ban all other men except me I say . And I'd still get nowhere "?? good answer | |||
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"Ban all other men except me I say . And I'd still get nowhere
Oh dear, is it that bad for you"Lately yes  | |||
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"Ban all other men except me I say . And I'd still get nowhere
?? good answer "Sorry tried to put a smiley face | |||
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"I am interested to see if woman think this would be a good idea" Woman who on any other site get no attention hold the cards on here. The only reason for guys to be on is because they either lack confidence or they like a challenge | |||
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"Ban all other men except me I say . And I'd still get nowhere
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"Why does it matter how many men there are? " 100 men for every woman does make it great | |||
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"Why does it matter how many men there are? 100 men for every woman does make it great" Makes it great for the woman lol. Don't you like a bit of competition?  | |||
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"Why does it matter how many men there are? 100 men for every woman does make it great Makes it great for the woman lol. Don't you like a bit of competition? "It’s a pain sometimes lol | |||
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"I am interested to see if woman think this would be a good idea" No...it's a free world.....and from vaguely scientific studies we worked out its about 10 to 1 men to women.... I'm sure we can cope | |||
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"Why does it matter how many men there are? 100 men for every woman does make it great Makes it great for the woman lol. Don't you like a bit of competition?
It’s a pain sometimes lol"Why, if it was easy it'd get boring | |||
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"Why does it matter how many men there are? 100 men for every woman does make it great Makes it great for the woman lol. Don't you like a bit of competition?
It’s a pain sometimes lol"The answer is a different site then I like the challenge | |||
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"I am interested to see if woman think this would be a good idea No...it's a free world.....and from vaguely scientific studies we worked out its about 10 to 1 men to women.... I'm sure we can cope "Lol ok, guess so  | |||
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"Why does it matter how many men there are? 100 men for every woman does make it great Makes it great for the woman lol. Don't you like a bit of competition?
It’s a pain sometimes lol
Maybe but easier would be nicer
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"Admin could get rid of all the hot,gorgeous, fit men to give the rest a chance. That would even things up a bit." Yep leave us ugly buggers to have a little bit of fun as life is far too short hahahaha | |||
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"Admin could get rid of all the hot,gorgeous, fit men to give the rest a chance. That would even things up a bit. Yep leave us ugly buggers to have a little bit of fun as life is far too short hahahaha" Us ugly women, who don't get any attention on any other site, would have no other option than to fuck the average or ugly men. | |||
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"Admin could get rid of all the hot,gorgeous, fit men to give the rest a chance. That would even things up a bit. Yep leave us ugly buggers to have a little bit of fun as life is far too short hahahaha Us ugly women, who don't get any attention on any other site, would have no other option than to fuck the average or ugly men. " Is that good or bad? | |||
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"Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Really you sound like children....... Mummy can you get one for us all please? And can mine have titties on top ? What makes you think that if there is an equal amount of men and women that one of the women is going to want YOU ? What you are actually saying is....... These women wouldn't get a man anywhere else so i'm really annoyed that these women can say no to me..... If there were less men they'd have to let me fuck them. " What she said | |||
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"Maybe all names in a hat then "cept yours. You can't put your name in the hat..... there's too many of you blokes. | |||
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"This might upset some people... Is Fab too cheap? If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted). We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers." This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ? | |||
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"Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Really you sound like children....... Mummy can you get one for us all please? And can mine have titties on top ? What makes you think that if there is an equal amount of men and women that one of the women is going to want YOU ? What you are actually saying is....... These women wouldn't get a man anywhere else so i'm really annoyed that these women can say no to me..... If there were less men they'd have to let me fuck them. " Did you ever know that you're my hero? | |||
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place. I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive." Exactly this. | |||
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"This might upset some people... Is Fab too cheap? If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted). We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers. This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ?" If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month. | |||
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"Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Really you sound like children....... Mummy can you get one for us all please? And can mine have titties on top ? What makes you think that if there is an equal amount of men and women that one of the women is going to want YOU ? What you are actually saying is....... These women wouldn't get a man anywhere else so i'm really annoyed that these women can say no to me..... If there were less men they'd have to let me fuck them. Did you ever know that you're my hero? "As long as im not your wind | |||
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"If you only count the genuine decent guys who know how to string a sentence together it's about even actually lol " Staaaaap, hahaha  | |||
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"This might upset some people... Is Fab too cheap? If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted). We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers. This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ? If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month." Does that guarantee sex ? | |||
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"I dunno about the pay thing. The more people pay maybe the will feel even more entitled to something " It's why I don't bother with pay sites. | |||
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"If you only count the genuine decent guys who know how to string a sentence together it's about even actually lol " Don't exaggerate. It'd be 10 to 1 in favour of women | |||
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"Why does it matter how many men there are? " The number doesn't matter, but the number of time wasters and numpties does (men, women, couples). | |||
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"If you only count the genuine decent guys who know how to string a sentence together it's about even actually lol " Or maybe they are just shocked your willing to listen so they get uptight | |||
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"This might upset some people... Is Fab too cheap? If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted). We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers. This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ? If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month. Does that guarantee sex ?" Nope | |||
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"Why does it matter how many men there are? 100 men for every woman does make it great" It's not high. On the basis of a few surveys I have done the breakdown is roughly 75% men and 5% women. So 15 to 1. | |||
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"I'm not the greatest at maths. But I'm almost certain it isn't possible to have equal men and woman." You have mastery maths glasshopppaaaaaaaa........ Most man call woman wimmin innit man? | |||
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"Why does it matter how many men there are? 100 men for every woman does make it great It's not high. On the basis of a few surveys I have done the breakdown is roughly 75% men and 5% women. So 15 to 1. " Where did the 20% go ? | |||
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"Why does it matter how many men there are? 100 men for every woman does make it great It's not high. On the basis of a few surveys I have done the breakdown is roughly 75% men and 5% women. So 15 to 1. Where did the 20% go ?" Couples. So looked at another way, it's 85/15. | |||
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"Why does it matter how many men there are? 100 men for every woman does make it great It's not high. On the basis of a few surveys I have done the breakdown is roughly 75% men and 5% women. So 15 to 1. Where did the 20% go ?" Couples probably | |||
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"Ban all other men except me I say . And I'd still get nowhere "You still probably won't mate | |||
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out"Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol | |||
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"This might upset some people... Is Fab too cheap? If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted). We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers. This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ? If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month." I don't think that would deter anyone....maybe £100 a month but then how many people would actually subscribe at all? | |||
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"They should delete duplicate profiles and profiles that haven’t been used after so many months. As had been said before get rid of the shit guys lol " Yeah! Out with those mugs! Hahaha! | |||
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol"The men would get double the action. | |||
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"This might upset some people... Is Fab too cheap? If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted). We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers. This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ? If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month. I don't think that would deter anyone....maybe £100 a month but then how many people would actually subscribe at all?" Would that guarantee sex with someone you want to have sex with ? | |||
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"This might upset some people... Is Fab too cheap? If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted). We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers. This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ? If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month. I don't think that would deter anyone....maybe £100 a month but then how many people would actually subscribe at all? Would that guarantee sex with someone you want to have sex with ?" Nope | |||
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"This might upset some people... Is Fab too cheap? If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted). We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers. This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ? If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month. I don't think that would deter anyone....maybe £100 a month but then how many people would actually subscribe at all? Would that guarantee sex with someone you want to have sex with ? Nope" So. For £100 a month ( more than my T.V. and mobile together ) More than I pay for Gas come to think of it. I can do exactly what I am doing now - for free ? | |||
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"This might upset some people... Is Fab too cheap? If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted). We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers. This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ? If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month. I don't think that would deter anyone....maybe £100 a month but then how many people would actually subscribe at all? Would that guarantee sex with someone you want to have sex with ? Nope So. For £100 a month ( more than my T.V. and mobile together ) More than I pay for Gas come to think of it. I can do exactly what I am doing now - for free ?" What exactly are you doing now for free? | |||
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"Why does it matter how many men there are? 100 men for every woman does make it great" But there aren’t 100 men for every woman! There are around 10! Granted that’s still a lot! X | |||
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"This might upset some people... Is Fab too cheap? If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted). We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers. This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ? If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month. I don't think that would deter anyone....maybe £100 a month but then how many people would actually subscribe at all? Would that guarantee sex with someone you want to have sex with ? Nope So. For £100 a month ( more than my T.V. and mobile together ) More than I pay for Gas come to think of it. I can do exactly what I am doing now - for free ?" Exactly which is why paying more for the site doesn't stack up in my opinion. | |||
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"Any guys that send abusive messages, don't turn up to an arranged meet and are blocked because of these things should be banned. That'll get rid of loads and should even the numbers up a bit!!!! "
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"Any guys that send abusive messages, don't turn up to an arranged meet and are blocked because of these things should be banned. That'll get rid of loads and should even the numbers up a bit!!!!
I agree, but sometimes the nice ones are still overlooked "Should the same not apply to woman, then? | |||
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"Any guys that send abusive messages, don't turn up to an arranged meet and are blocked because of these things should be banned. That'll get rid of loads and should even the numbers up a bit!!!!
I agree, but sometimes the nice ones are still overlooked
Should the same not apply to woman, then? "Well, obviously. Equality and all | |||
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"If you only count the genuine decent guys who know how to string a sentence together it's about even actually lol " But if you only count the genuine decent men AND women who know how to string a sentence together the ratio would be about the same as it is now, but the site membership would be massively diminished ... | |||
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol"It's a different kind of struggle for women on fab. The ratio might be 100 men for every woman but how many of those 100 men would anyone actually choose to meet? Out of 100 messages from men there are only ever 2 or 3 that i would consider replying to. Out of these i may fancy one of them but possibly won't be physically attracted to any. The vast majority are the "fuck now?" or "need my balls emptying" type of message. Out of those 100 men the majority will have made no effort at all to write their profile and will have multiple photos of their cock from every conceivable angle and nothing else. When you take out all the dross the numbers even up considerably. We just have to wade through piles of shit to discover the rare gem that is a single man we would actually meet. | |||
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol
It's a different kind of struggle for women on fab.
The ratio might be 100 men for every woman but how many of those 100 men would anyone actually choose to meet?
Out of 100 messages from men there are only ever 2 or 3 that i would consider replying to. Out of these i may fancy one of them but possibly won't be physically attracted to any.
The vast majority are the "fuck now?" or "need my balls emptying" type of message.
Out of those 100 men the majority will have made no effort at all to write their profile and will have multiple photos of their cock from every conceivable angle and nothing else.
When you take out all the dross the numbers even up considerably. We just have to wade through piles of shit to discover the rare gem that is a single man we would actually meet."So much sense!! | |||
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"I am interested to see if woman think this would be a good idea" Not really no. They might be good ones | |||
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place. I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive." Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads?? | |||
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"As a couple who are only interested in men who are swingers as a lifestyle choice, and have no interest in men looking for an easy shag, we feel that once we’ve eliminated the latter group, there are actually very few men left in our geographical area. There are enough to keep us happy, but we do need the fish pond replenished from time to time. If men were no longer allowed to join Fab, that would not make us go out and meet someone unsuitable for our needs just because we’d run out of men who are suitable. I think if we ran out of men we’d go to another site rather than settle for what we don’t want. Mrs" To be honest, i would do exactly the same. As a guy on here i don't feel or even notice competition from other guys. Because like most i just get on with talking and meeting with couples that i want to talk and meet with. I't rarely causes any problems and certainly dosn't stop me from wanting to be on here. From conversations i have had with couples from the first time i joined here until i re-joined this time, the underlying thing that always came up was a guy/guys thinking it was a god driven right for them to meet anyone they fancied. Well guys, it isn't and never has been. It's guys desperation to meet someone/anyone, that really does turn couples and ladies just to delete/ignore. | |||
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"Why does it matter how many men there are? 100 men for every woman does make it great But there aren’t 100 men for every woman! There are around 10! Granted that’s still a lot! X" I'll get my coat.... that should reduce it by 0.001% Statistics created by Sydney University | |||
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place. I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive. Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads?? " ..as summed up very succinctly in your current status  | |||
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"Any guys that send abusive messages, don't turn up to an arranged meet and are blocked because of these things should be banned. That'll get rid of loads and should even the numbers up a bit!!!! " And the women, tvs and couples who do the same. | |||
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"Yeah all the women would leave." I certainly wouldn't be fighting over the men that were left. | |||
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place. I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive. Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads?? ..as summed up very succinctly in your current status "I like short and direct!! Ha | |||
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place. I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive. Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads?? ..as summed up very succinctly in your current status
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"The male to female ratio may be extreme, but the idiot-male to decent-male ratio makes it a necessary evil." | |||
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"Any guys that send abusive messages, don't turn up to an arranged meet and are blocked because of these things should be banned. That'll get rid of loads and should even the numbers up a bit!!!! And the women, tvs and couples who do the same. " Obviously | |||
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"Why does it matter how many men there are? 100 men for every woman does make it great" That would b even some gangbang | |||
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"This might upset some people... Is Fab too cheap? If it was more expensive to join maybe it would deter time wasters and chancers. I certainly think free access should be severely restricted. Perhaps so free members can't initially make contact, but could register to have a profile should paying Fabbers could contact them (if they wanted). We'd happily pay a bit more, especially if it was for access to a community where there was less chancers. This often comes up. How much are you prepared to pay ? If it was a near guaranteed community of genuine like-minded people (the male / female / couple ratio doesn't matter), I dunno. £10 - £20 a month." If it cost £20 a month to be a member here I'd be long gone, think that would decrease the number of women members even more. | |||
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place. I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive. Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads?? " I also struggle on here, I don’t think there is a magic formula unfortunately | |||
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"If you only count the genuine decent guys who know how to string a sentence together it's about even actually lol " I'd say the women outweight the men if we are looking at it like that. Well that is certainly my experience. Just because there maybe 100 men to one woman doesn't mean she fancies any of them. | |||
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place. I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive. Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads?? I also struggle on here, I don’t think there is a magic formula unfortunately "No, there isn’t. I paid £10 a month for a different site but the standards were higher and I didn’t get any obscene or FAF messages. It was worth it just for that. I got called a ‘time wasting cunt’ the other night by two guys looking for a girl to join them. I politely said no and imformed them that I was actually on my way back from LA anyway. It’s made me chuckle now but it’s not acceptable really. | |||
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place. I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive."
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place. I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive. Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads?? I also struggle on here, I don’t think there is a magic formula unfortunately
No, there isn’t. I paid £10 a month for a different site but the standards were higher and I didn’t get any obscene or FAF messages. It was worth it just for that.
I got called a ‘time wasting cunt’ the other night by two guys looking for a girl to join them. I politely said no and imformed them that I was actually on my way back from LA anyway. It’s made me chuckle now but it’s not acceptable really. "Now look here you know you're not supposed to do stuff like going abroad, you're meant to be available at all times! Lol XXX | |||
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"I dunno about the pay thing. The more people pay maybe the will feel even more entitled to something " I agree. I've been on sites where men have to pay and their attitudes were dreadful. | |||
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol"Women with high standards certainly struggle on here! | |||
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place. I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive. Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads?? I also struggle on here, I don’t think there is a magic formula unfortunately
No, there isn’t. I paid £10 a month for a different site but the standards were higher and I didn’t get any obscene or FAF messages. It was worth it just for that.
I got called a ‘time wasting cunt’ the other night by two guys looking for a girl to join them. I politely said no and imformed them that I was actually on my way back from LA anyway. It’s made me chuckle now but it’s not acceptable really. "I that is why I just ignore messages that don’t hold my interest, I’ve had too many abusive messages over the year ( tell me the name of this nice site that have nice guys on it) | |||
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol
Women with high standards certainly struggle on here! " | |||
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"Ban all other men except me I say . And I'd still get nowhere "Ha that's my line lol | |||
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol
Women with high standards certainly struggle on here! "Yaaaaas! | |||
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"Stopping more men from joining won't make those who are already here suddenly become attractive to those who didn't find them attractive in the first place. I think some people keep forgetting that it's all about attraction. It doesn't matter how much or little competition you have if who you are trying to attract don't find you attractive. Even though there is a huge imbalance of men to women I’m still struggling to find what I like on here yet on other sites/apps I seem to find loads?? I also struggle on here, I don’t think there is a magic formula unfortunately
No, there isn’t. I paid £10 a month for a different site but the standards were higher and I didn’t get any obscene or FAF messages. It was worth it just for that.
I got called a ‘time wasting cunt’ the other night by two guys looking for a girl to join them. I politely said no and imformed them that I was actually on my way back from LA anyway. It’s made me chuckle now but it’s not acceptable really.
Now look here you know you're not supposed to do stuff like going abroad, you're meant to be available at all times! Lol XXX"Better quit my job then just to please the guys | |||
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol
Women with high standards certainly struggle on here! "So do men with high standards | |||
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol
Women with high standards certainly struggle on here!
So do men with high standards "Amen to that. | |||
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"Maybe all names in a hat then "I thought it was car keys in a bowl
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"What about the gals who want more than 1 guy?
If it was equal numbers there would be women left out
Would woman ever struggle on here? Lol
Women with high standards certainly struggle on here!
So do men with high standards "What about us with no standards whatsoever? Even so, I still can’t even get a sniff of pussy  | |||
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