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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the most effective approach? I have tried witty messages, naughty, informative....etc etc and its always hit and miss.....all suggestions gratefully received

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Can only comment that if I fancy or click with you then Im interested, if not there is no point as it would be a waste of your time and mine. Therefore just be yourself and send a good clear pic.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a secret formula but if i told you would all be at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single women - copy of bank statement

Couples - picture of my Aston and a promise the hubby can have a go

These are the most effective approaches I have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you mistress xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol excellent....my insignia just wont cut it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice for what its worth, is simply just accept that in most part, it is a hit and miss process !!!!

Your writing to individuals who may, or may not be feeling receptive to your approach dependant how they feel that day….!.

So therefore it cant really be expected that any type of blanket approach will prove more effective than just being courteous and polite...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Soxy you may well be right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Fancy a Fuck' naturally..

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"What is the most effective approach? I have tried witty messages, naughty, informative....etc etc and its always hit and miss.....all suggestions gratefully received "

Think it often can be hit & miss as not everyone is going to be tempted by the same approach.

Also I think it can depend on how much free time they have at that moment, their mood etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Fancy a Fuck' naturally..

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stating that you were five times champion stamplicker at mount pleasant sorting office usually does the trick

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was simple and all you had to do was ask - where would be the fun in that.

If all else fails - offer 'em £50! (joke)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there isnt one.

u have to take different approaches with different women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

avatar pics do it for me (female) ...and can i just say filthy rich.....wowza!!!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I usually find sending them a photo of me flattening my eyebrows with my tongue does the trick.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"What is the most effective approach? I have tried witty messages, naughty, informative....etc etc and its always hit and miss.....all suggestions gratefully received "

If ever there was a message that showed that men think women are one single homogenous group that respond to one kind of treatment like platic in flames ........this is it.

Try speaking to them as people.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

platic is the new plaStic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol excellent....my insignia just wont cut it though"

i like insignias

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

an insignias good but its not quite an aston martin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i find clubbing the buggers over the head and draggin em back ta me cave ta be quite effective xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"What is the most effective approach? I have tried witty messages, naughty, informative....etc etc and its always hit and miss.....all suggestions gratefully received "

Its hit and miss not everyone will fancy u,just be yourself.anything else will be found out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the most effective approach? I have tried witty messages, naughty, informative....etc etc and its always hit and miss.....all suggestions gratefully received "

3 meets in August? You must have been doing something right!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

must have been the warm weather lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the most effective approach? I have tried witty messages, naughty, informative....etc etc and its always hit and miss.....all suggestions gratefully received

3 meets in August? You must have been doing something right! "

Stops cleaning the DBS!! 3 meets, panic over,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with soapy, a bit of a spanking never hurts for long lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I know there was a point to this thread but i keep forgetting what it was when i look at that glorious hairy cheat of the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Fancy a Fuck' naturally..

"

Well now you come to mention it ........... Lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

personality, humour and compatability... show it does not solely revolve around your penis and the obsession to insert it into an orifice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I advise guys to write something substantial, 3 paragraphs at least, about themselves they can cut 'n' paste then edit to include something from the target's profile to show you get them and you're paying attention. Give them something to respond to, make yourself interesting. Don't expect a reply. Don't whine when you don't get a reply. Take no reply as a "Thanks but no thanks" and try again. Cut, paste, be cool. Not that difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the most effective approach? I have tried witty messages, naughty, informative....etc etc and its always hit and miss.....all suggestions gratefully received "

I always find the "sneak up from behind" technique works for me, ie, hammer, a couple of sharp dunts to the cranium and.... "Bobs yer uncle", they`re like putty in your hands.

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