FabSwingers.com forum: Hate me or agree with me

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you’re on here as a single geeza or lady yet have a partner at home I genuinely feel sorry for your partner!

Why feel the need to double dip and then go back to your partner?

If things aren’t the same change it, make things work. Bring your partner to this site become a couples profile!

If you disagree with me fair enough but just have a little think to yourself and wonder how you would feel if this happened to you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t hate and don’t agree

Nothing is every black and white and this has been done so many times. Keep to the people you want to meet and you’ll be fine

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"If you’re on here as a single geeza or lady yet have a partner at home I genuinely feel sorry for your partner!

Why feel the need to double dip and then go back to your partner?

If things aren’t the same change it, make things work. Bring your partner to this site become a couples profile!

If you disagree with me fair enough but just have a little think to yourself and wonder how you would feel if this happened to you.."

Totally agree.

Imagine the horror for the innocent spouse if/when they find out. Plus the shame of everybody (family and friends) finding out the reason for the subsequent divorce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well according to your header I should hate you, and before you say anything I have been on the receiving end of a cheating partner. But life isn’t always so black and white. This subject has been done to death. Some will agree and others won’t.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Disagree. My partner knows what I do and is happy about it. We have certain rules around my lifestyle with I adhere to so it’s not a problem she doesn’t swing hence it’s only me on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither hate you or agree with you. What other people do is their business, and I know first hand how complicated relationships can be. It's not always a case of leave if you aren't getting sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you’re on here as a single geeza or lady yet have a partner at home I genuinely feel sorry for your partner!

Why feel the need to double dip and then go back to your partner?

If things aren’t the same change it, make things work. Bring your partner to this site become a couples profile!

If you disagree with me fair enough but just have a little think to yourself and wonder how you would feel if this happened to you..

Totally agree.

Imagine the horror for the innocent spouse if/when they find out. Plus the shame of everybody (family and friends) finding out the reason for the subsequent divorce."

No horror on my part, or shame for either of us.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I think some are missing the point! I guessed that the OP is about cheating, not consensual playing around.

Cheating is never right, for whatever reason. Fix it or get out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of me agrees and part of me disagrees, I’m a single lady and don’t have a partner at home just a fuck buddy. So I can’t judge others as don’t know the circumstances, I personally couldn’t do it to a partner if they knew nothing of me meeting elsewhere I’m a really bad liar for a start

. But I believe I could do it if the other person knew about my lifestyle and still chose to be with me, I’ll probs get shot for this next comment but I have met with people who are with someone and there partner isn’t aware they are meeting others

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

If you are in a loveless, sexless marriage then there's an arguable case. However people stepping out of their partners just because they want a bit on the side will not be going anywhere near me

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Worry about own business and let others worry about theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate? Bit strong really OP.

Agree?

Why is it always a binary option?

I have not walked in the shoes of others, those I know and those I don't.

What gives any of us the right to judge how others live their lives?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As has been said on here many times. Not my circus, not my monkeys.

If someone asks for opinion on their marital situation or tries to involve me in some way then I'll give my view otherwise I'm not really interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What I’m saying is that ‘cheating’ isn’t right end of. If you’ve been cheated on then this is irrelevant to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you disagree then that’s your opinion, I’m not saying you’re right and I’m not saying you’re wrong.

Just I think cheating isn’t right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I detect some personal issues OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know the backstories or journeys that people have taken to get to the point that they’ve joined a Fuck site to cheat on their partner. What’s that old saying - don’t judge anyone until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes.

What I do know is that everyone’s story and reasons for being here will be different, some more legitimate than others, but it’s rarely as black and white as the frequent threads like this suggest.

If you don’t want to meet cheats, then avoid / block them and focus on those you do want to meet.

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I love my life partner, but he doesn't want to fuck me. I joined Fab with the aim of finding an outlet for my physical needs. Instead, I found a wonderful man who has several playmates as he is poly. He makes me smile and brightens my life. We're never going to want to be together exclusively, so he's not a threat to my primary relationship, but it makes me more settled and kinder in my "normal" life. This won't work forever and it won't work for everyone, but I still feel lucky and satisfied

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

FAB marriage guidance

I wanted the FAB mortgages dept

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Quite...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think some are missing the point! I guessed that the OP is about cheating, not consensual playing around.

Cheating is never right, for whatever reason. Fix it or get out!"

It’s that simple, folks!

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I think some are missing the point! I guessed that the OP is about cheating, not consensual playing around.

Cheating is never right, for whatever reason. Fix it or get out!"

Yes, a few posters have missed the point.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"FAB marriage guidance

I wanted the FAB mortgages dept "

I'm looking for the FAB accounts department. I think it's near the FAB canteen

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"FAB marriage guidance

I wanted the FAB mortgages dept "

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By *litheroevoyeurMan
over a year ago

Clitheroe

"If you’re on here as a single geeza or lady yet have a partner at home I genuinely feel sorry for your partner!

Why feel the need to double dip and then go back to your partner?

If things aren’t the same change it, make things work. Bring your partner to this site become a couples profile!

If you disagree with me fair enough but just have a little think to yourself and wonder how you would feel if this happened to you.."

Why does it concern you, what others get up to?

Having an opinion is one thing but dishing out advice is quite another.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

someones life outside of the scene has nothing to do with us.

We wouldn’t want to know,

We are here to have fun and not judge others.

If your cheating or not, it wouldn’t make any difference to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you’re on here as a single geeza or lady yet have a partner at home I genuinely feel sorry for your partner!

Why feel the need to double dip and then go back to your partner?

If things aren’t the same change it, make things work. Bring your partner to this site become a couples profile!

If you disagree with me fair enough but just have a little think to yourself and wonder how you would feel if this happened to you.."

SPOT ON!!

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