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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Why ?

Serious Question.

Can those that can only rise to the the b.s. answer of 'cos we can' or 'cos we want' - just not bother .... ta x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why ?

Serious Question.

Can those that can only rise to the the b.s. answer of 'cos we can' or 'cos we want' - just not bother .... ta x "

I think I may be bi-polar (yes you are Paul), so I only ever meet as a couple

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By *edditchcpl69Couple
over a year ago

REDDITCH

because thats how it works for us

seriously though, it is the watching each other with somebody else more than the act of sex if that makes sense lol

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By *eviousLiasonsCouple
over a year ago

Travelling

Because, for us, the seeing each other having fun is as important as having fun ourselves.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Why ?

Serious Question.

Can those that can only rise to the the b.s. answer of 'cos we can' or 'cos we want' - just not bother .... ta x

I think I may be bi-polar (yes you are Paul), so I only ever meet as a couple "

that's not bi - polar Paul. Oh yes it is Paul. No Gran it's schitzo.... isn't it me. Yes it is you. Yes. Are you ? He is we are.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Thats what works for us, but we have the attitude of never say never.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

" Because, for us, the seeing each other having fun is as important as having fun ourselves. "

Hellooooo not seen you post for ages xxx thanks for the answer. x

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Thats what works for us, but we have the attitude of never say never.

Thanks. Why ? Why does it work for you ?

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Why do people only play with single guys / black guys / bi fems etc etc?

I don't really understand the question to be honest. Even though it's not the answer you want, I guess it all boils down to that old chestnut - preference. It's how people WANT to play - it's how they get their kicks or feel comfortable. Not an exciting answer but there you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Granny are yo one of he voices in my head?

(yes she is) arrrrgggghhh!

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Why do people only play with single guys / black guys / bi fems etc etc?

Thanks for the reply

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Granny are yo one of he voices in my head?

(yes she is) arrrrgggghhh!"

I'm ALL of the voices in your head

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By *edditchcpl69Couple
over a year ago

REDDITCH

wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the biggest problem was couples where the male wants to play alone? Thats why I don't bother sending out messages to fems as most of the time they get left unread or unreplied?

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"Why do people only play with single guys / black guys / bi fems etc etc?

Thanks for the reply

You're most welcome m'lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Granny are yo one of he voices in my head?

(yes she is) arrrrgggghhh!

I'm ALL of the voices in your head "

If that's true can you stop the one that keeps telling me to steal ornamental trees from people's gardens, I was followed home by Alan titchmarsh last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos we can. Lol.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Cos we can. Lol.

Pffffffft !

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

I'm a couple and so is my wife???? or am I my wife too??? doh!!!!, xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we never do anything apart and other than that it suits us down to the ground.

Is that an OK answer ?

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Because we never do anything apart and other than that it suits us down to the ground.

Is that an OK answer ?"

Mmmmmmmmmm .... well it's better than COS we can. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite frankly I couldn't give a shit if its better or worse than 'cos we can' - thats the way it is - like it or not

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By *edditchcpl69Couple
over a year ago

REDDITCH

at least you got a reply we just got ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not into watching each other and actually prefer seperate room play, but neither of us would want to meet on our own.

We have split up at parties to play on our own, but wouldn't meet seperately as singles.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Quite frankly I couldn't give a shit if its better or worse than 'cos we can' - thats the way it is - like it or not

Quite franky I couldn't give a shit that you couldn't give a shit if it's better or worse than 'cos we can' and I like it not :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos we want

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

i would if i could but i cant so i wont and it aint worth becoming a couple so i could get some wood.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Cos we want

Want is better than can ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its amazing how many couples who only play together mail me and when i say i dont meet couples all of a sudden the guys single, shes just a fuck buddle or he can meet alone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

It would'nt have the same buzz for me if he was'nt there enjoying it too with me

I know him inside out and know exactly what turns him on the most,so its a heady feeling to be able to give that to him with the experiences we share as a couple on here

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

i would if i could but i cant so i wont and it aint worth becoming a couple so i could get some wood."

You can't even comment on this thread unless you go swinging with yourself

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"because thats how it works for us

seriously though, it is the watching each other with somebody else more than the act of sex if that makes sense lol"

Thank you

xxx

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By *edditchcpl69Couple
over a year ago

REDDITCH

your most welcome

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

i would if i could but i cant so i wont and it aint worth becoming a couple so i could get some wood.

You can't even comment on this thread unless you go swinging with yourself "

Have been known to go dogging by myself. And use both hands ( alternatively it must be said, does that not count? )

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

i would if i could but i cant so i wont and it aint worth becoming a couple so i could get some wood.

You can't even comment on this thread unless you go swinging with yourself

Have been known to go dogging by myself. And use both hands ( alternatively it must be said, does that not count? ) "

When your left hand wanks ...does your right hand know about it ?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

i would if i could but i cant so i wont and it aint worth becoming a couple so i could get some wood.

You can't even comment on this thread unless you go swinging with yourself

Have been known to go dogging by myself. And use both hands ( alternatively it must be said, does that not count? )

When your left hand wanks ...does your right hand know about it ?"

Turns green with envy.

And last weeks jizz.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

i would if i could but i cant so i wont and it aint worth becoming a couple so i could get some wood.

You can't even comment on this thread unless you go swinging with yourself

Have been known to go dogging by myself. And use both hands ( alternatively it must be said, does that not count? )

When your left hand wanks ...does your right hand know about it ?

Turns green with envy.

And last weeks jizz. "

If you had to have one hand cut off which one would it be ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would if i could but i cant so i wont and it aint worth becoming a couple so i could get some wood.

You can't even comment on this thread unless you go swinging with yourself

Have been known to go dogging by myself. And use both hands ( alternatively it must be said, does that not count? )

When your left hand wanks ...does your right hand know about it ?

Turns green with envy.

And last weeks jizz.

If you had to have one hand cut off which one would it be ?"

Yours xx

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

i would if i could but i cant so i wont and it aint worth becoming a couple so i could get some wood.

You can't even comment on this thread unless you go swinging with yourself

Have been known to go dogging by myself. And use both hands ( alternatively it must be said, does that not count? )

When your left hand wanks ...does your right hand know about it ?

Turns green with envy.

And last weeks jizz.

If you had to have one hand cut off which one would it be ?"

the one not holding the knife.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

And if i had to have a foot cut off, i'd have to replace vwe with average

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

And if i had to have a foot cut off, i'd have to replace vwe with average"

If you had your head cut off you could say your looks had improved without lying .....

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

And if i had to have a foot cut off, i'd have to replace vwe with average

If you had your head cut off you could say your looks had improved without lying ..... "

hmmm, paranormal ventriloquism

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By *odka n CokeCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

We only play as a couple - same rooms and messages together etc for several reasons.

We didn't get into swinging lightly and had several issues to work through before we started. Jealousy was one of those issues and seperate rooms could generate some jealousy.

Also, my hubby is VERY protective and has to be with me so that he can protect me if need be and see for himself that I'm okay.

We also get very turned on watching each other.

Hope this answers your question

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Because the turn on for us is watching each other enjoy themselves plus if I met alone it would be a twosome not a threesome

Plus, we needed somebody to make us a cuppa, hubby was happy to oblige.

Top bloke.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

The turn on for us is watching each other enjoy themselves.

If I met alone it would be a twosome not a threesome and that defeats the object of having him there watch and the moresome fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us its because swinging is something we want to do together and have no interest in playing on our own, but can understand that some want to, just not for us

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My Time-Travel machine works!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

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Lets see if his fingers are as speedy now !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we are a new couple, and although we met on here and still want to swing, we are still in the early stage of our relationship and decided that's what we want to do. We have discussed separate meets, but neither of us want that right now. Also it really turns us on watching each other. Xx

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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Lets see if his fingers are as speedy now !

Touche!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Serious answer? When we both started this, Les had never had sex with anyone else. She had no way of knowing how other guys were except for porn flicks, so her opinion wasn’t great! (Man gobs on fanny and slaps her hard across the thigh

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She was up for some fun, I had said that she would enjoy it and it would also “redress the balance” of the people I had sex with! So we started with single guys..

When we decided to meet couples, we did notice that some were saying separate rooms only. It put the fears up her and I told her then that I would be there to look after her for as long as she wanted/required it. To this day no change and that is how we like it. I love to watch her get fucked and have even stopped what I am doing to watch initial penetration….

The answer I really wanted to give was……………….

Cos we can!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why ?

Serious Question.

Can those that can only rise to the the b.s. answer of 'cos we can' or 'cos we want' - just not bother .... ta x "

Probably for the same reasons that a majority of single guys are looking for a regular "FB", and a number of single fems already havehave a regular "FB"............. Its more fun.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Why ?

Serious Question.

Can those that can only rise to the the b.s. answer of 'cos we can' or 'cos we want' - just not bother .... ta x "

Because one of the biggest turn ons for us is watching each other having fun.

Also I (mrs) feel as if I can let myself go more when Mr is present as I feel more relaxed and safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we meet as a couple because we are a real couple and i think its safer to aw xx

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Serious answer? When we both started this, Les had never had sex with anyone else. She had no way of knowing how other guys were except for porn flicks, so her opinion wasn’t great! (Man gobs on fanny and slaps her hard across the thigh

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She was up for some fun, I had said that she would enjoy it and it would also “redress the balance” of the people I had sex with! So we started with single guys..

The answer I really wanted to give was……………….

Cos we can!!

But you didn't ...... thanks xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why ?

Serious Question.

Can those that can only rise to the the b.s. answer of 'cos we can' or 'cos we want' - just not bother .... ta x

Probably for the same reasons that a majority of single guys are looking for a regular "FB", and a number of single fems already havehave a regular "FB"............. Its more fun.

I have regular friends-as for terming them as fuckbuddies no thanks..Id create an account for...er...my... 3 pretty regular friends lol....dont think so.

A happY no ties lad for now thanks

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

as others have said.. the fun is in watching each other get turned on.. it makes us both horney and want more.. and after the meet we cant wait to get home and get our hands/lips on each other as we talk about how horny it was watching X as he was playing with me or her as she was sucking his cock..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet as a couple as for us it's a different kind of "time together" - sharing the banter, the fun and the sex. We do like group fun though and a single or two in group fun is no bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love it

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Because we want to add to what we have not replace it. Also safety too.

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