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By *attooe bitch OP   Couple
over a year ago

blackwood

Just wondering do people trust people on here am comeing to the conclusion not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two yeah... ones that I've known for ages and met multiple times. Others, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like life...some you can and some you can't.

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By *attooe bitch OP   Couple
over a year ago

blackwood

Its hard these days to trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are only a small minority that I trust. I follow my gut, which tends to steer me right. I've met people from 5 years ago, on here, that are still in my life today. I don't just trust from the offset though. It's something that is earned over time .

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I trust my gut instinct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm usually a good reader of what someone is like.. so if it's at a stage further than the social.. yes usually I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its hard these days to trust"

These days? I don't really understand where you're coming from with that comment. Can you explain please?

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By *attooe bitch OP   Couple
over a year ago

blackwood


"Its hard these days to trust

These days? I don't really understand where you're coming from with that comment. Can you explain please?"
sorry meant for a tex but i was in here lol

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By *attooe bitch OP   Couple
over a year ago

blackwood


"Its hard these days to trust

These days? I don't really understand where you're coming from with that comment. Can you explain please?sorry meant for a tex but i was in here lol"
thought i could trust someone but not sure if i can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust them about what?

I've met lots of men in hotels or their places.

I trusted that they wouldn't kill me or get too rough with me, and they didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wary at first but I try to take things at face value until I'm given reason not to.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Its hard these days to trust

These days? I don't really understand where you're coming from with that comment. Can you explain please?sorry meant for a tex but i was in here lolthought i could trust someone but not sure if i can"

If you're not sure then you know the answer

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I think as far as fab is concerned, you need to trust your gut instinct. If something is making you wary then best to back away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its hard these days to trust

These days? I don't really understand where you're coming from with that comment. Can you explain please?sorry meant for a tex but i was in here lolthought i could trust someone but not sure if i can"

If there's doubt then go with that. I only trust when I'm completely comfortable with a person.

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"Its hard these days to trust

These days? I don't really understand where you're coming from with that comment. Can you explain please?sorry meant for a tex but i was in here lolthought i could trust someone but not sure if i can

If you're not sure then you know the answer "

This is perfectly put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If none of us trusted peeps, we wouldn't in all probability ever actually meet. So of course we have to "trust". What we can and should do though is be prepared to "walk" if we do not feel things are right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have trusted people on here with stuff that was used against me, so I find it more difficult to trust people on here now, even when I like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle with trust anyway but there are a few that I’ve met, or due to meet that I trust. X

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By *attooe bitch OP   Couple
over a year ago

blackwood


"I have trusted people on here with stuff that was used against me, so I find it more difficult to trust people on here now, even when I like them. "
aww tjats shit tbh

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By *attooe bitch OP   Couple
over a year ago

blackwood


"If none of us trusted peeps, we wouldn't in all probability ever actually meet. So of course we have to "trust". What we can and should do though is be prepared to "walk" if we do not feel things are right."
thats a good point tbh Think i need to take ur advice

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I need to meet them first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like life...some you can and some you can't."
trust nah no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Earn my trust if you can and....

Break my trust and .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are people whether they're on Fab or not. Trust comes down to your judgement.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I trust people on here up front but I trust my spidey senses more. I have no issue walking away if I get that gut reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering do people trust people on here am comeing to the conclusion not to "

You can't trust anyone on site, even the well meaning ones. It's the nature of the site. I learn that the wrong way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In life I'm generally a very wary person, until I know I can trust someone then I'm more open, just the same on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have trusted people on here with stuff that was used against me, so I find it more difficult to trust people on here now, even when I like them. aww tjats shit tbh "
yep it was a pretty shitty time

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By *attooe bitch OP   Couple
over a year ago

blackwood


"I have trusted people on here with stuff that was used against me, so I find it more difficult to trust people on here now, even when I like them. aww tjats shit tbh yep it was a pretty shitty time"
still wrong

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"People are people whether they're on Fab or not. Trust comes down to your judgement. "

Sometimes we are right to trust and as always sometimes not, but if you don't put some sort of trust in to start with you will never know.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Trust isn't just an either or for me - but trust is something that's progressively built up - or lost.

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By *attooe bitch OP   Couple
over a year ago

blackwood


"Trust isn't just an either or for me - but trust is something that's progressively built up - or lost. "
i think its lost with me tbh

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

With fab it can take a long time to trust someone but it can be broken just like that!

I rely on my women's intuition, any hint of weirdness and that's it, game over.

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By *attooe bitch OP   Couple
over a year ago

blackwood

I think its broken tbh but yea i agree

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By *llfoursWoman
over a year ago

north east


"With fab it can take a long time to trust someone but it can be broken just like that!

I rely on my women's intuition, any hint of weirdness and that's it, game over. "

Women’s intuition is a marvellous thing. Usually 99% of the time I’m right.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There's varying degrees of trust - and they get built over time and as others have said it comes down to gut instinct ultimately, albeit one built out of getting to know a little about people.

Some people on here I instinctively know I couldn't trust with anything - others I'm quite happy to trust enough to tell fairly personal details to or travel a fair distance to meet and know they will be there and others fall somewhere in between

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I trust until im given reason not to. I prefer to see good in all until they fuck up.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Trust isn't just an either or for me - but trust is something that's progressively built up - or lost. i think its lost with me tbh"

I can understand that and have seen people I know get to the same position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just watching... my murderer on line

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I dont, but I see loads do, they meet a girl become a couple profile, trust each other, bareback, split up, do the same over and over.

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By *attooe bitch OP   Couple
over a year ago

blackwood


"There's varying degrees of trust - and they get built over time and as others have said it comes down to gut instinct ultimately, albeit one built out of getting to know a little about people.

Some people on here I instinctively know I couldn't trust with anything - others I'm quite happy to trust enough to tell fairly personal details to or travel a fair distance to meet and know they will be there and others fall somewhere in between "
i thought i could trust this person but gut telling nope x

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