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Why do people who have no pics insist on seeing everyone elses before they'll meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find this odd and hypocritical, what does everyone else think?

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood


"I find this odd and hypocritical, what does everyone else think?"

I think the rising price of biscuits is criminal....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

mostly because they have a vagina and people will jump to their call for an opportunity to slide inside it.

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood


"mostly because they have a vagina and people will jump to their call for an opportunity to slide inside it.

"

Sounds reasonable to me....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have to agree on the price of biscuits lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"mostly because they have a vagina and people will jump to their call for an opportunity to slide inside it.

Sounds reasonable to me.... "

if ya want the jump.... theres gonna be 'how high sweetie'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have body pics on our profile and add face pics when we send people a message and do like to see a face pic come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find this odd and hypocritical, what does everyone else think?"

We think that everybody has a choice to do as they wish.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I find this odd and hypocritical, what does everyone else think?"

I agree, but, I suppose someone has to send first

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

How do you know they have no photos? May be they just don't want to show them to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe this is just a case of they get to see what you look like, and if they don't fancy you, they retain anonymity!!

And we'd all do it if we could!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I rarely message first this isn't a problem, usually people when they message me send a pic or two.

And well, pics don't bother me that much, personality does. If they make me laugh or think (can I have a bunny George?). Then that is more likely to attract my attention than a face pic or anything else

I do have a hard spot (was going to say soft spot but you lot would take the piss) for a gorgeous arse pic though

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I find this odd and hypocritical, what does everyone else think?"

it may be that... but you also have the ability to pass over any ads that have those stipulations..

oh the wonder that is choice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One way traffic? Secret squirrels asking to see all you got while they have diddly,,i tend to avoid.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I find this odd and hypocritical, what does everyone else think?"
Like everyting else in life... it has to be somehow reciprocal...in my _iew anyway

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"One way traffic? Secret squirrels asking to see all you got while they have diddly,,i tend to avoid."

hee, hee, they haven't got their little mitts on my nuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find this odd and hypocritical, what does everyone else think?"

I think if they are having success with the way they use the site then fair enough.

However, if they have these 'demands' in place and are not successful and then start whinging about it ...I'll cast not an ounce of sympathy.

Can I add View is spot on about the 'vagina' comment.... we've had guys send us a message with face pics which I thought 'yep... I wouldn't mind' ....we've arranged a meet without sending ours (accidentally! ) only for them to send us a message at the 11th hour saying "what will you be wearing so I can spot you?"

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I find this odd and hypocritical, what does everyone else think?

I think if they are having success with the way they use the site then fair enough.

However, if they have these 'demands' in place and are not successful and then start whinging about it ...I'll cast not an ounce of sympathy.

Can I add View is spot on about the 'vagina' comment.... we've had guys send us a message with face pics which I thought 'yep... I wouldn't mind' ....we've arranged a meet without sending ours (accidentally! ) only for them to send us a message at the 11th hour saying "what will you be wearing so I can spot you?" "

but from what i can gather, they would have heard you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find this odd and hypocritical, what does everyone else think?

I think if they are having success with the way they use the site then fair enough.

However, if they have these 'demands' in place and are not successful and then start whinging about it ...I'll cast not an ounce of sympathy.

Can I add View is spot on about the 'vagina' comment.... we've had guys send us a message with face pics which I thought 'yep... I wouldn't mind' ....we've arranged a meet without sending ours (accidentally! ) only for them to send us a message at the 11th hour saying "what will you be wearing so I can spot you?"

but from what i can gather, they would have heard you? "

You are a biscuit!.... A very broken one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He did not last long then!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I remember my first meet asking me what i'd be wearing.

A bl**dy great big smile, i said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP has decided to leave us... I thought we were being quite civil

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"OP has decided to leave us... I thought we were being quite civil "

Nope, i sent him a pic.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"OP has decided to leave us... I thought we were being quite civil "

i was going to say that I thought we'd all been nice....

you know what this means now... hijack!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He did not last long then! "

Indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I thought it was a pretty civil thread

Oh well good luck OP if you're reading

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth


"OP has decided to leave us... I thought we were being quite civil

Nope, i sent him a pic. "

ohh which one mushy? lol

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"I thought it was a pretty civil thread

Oh well good luck OP if you're reading "

In his excitement he came too soon?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"He did not last long then! "

yeah, well it was my best picture

hope he had enough tissues

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I thought it was a pretty civil thread

Oh well good luck OP if you're reading

In his excitement he came too soon?"

Peaked before his time,it can be a hazzard!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I thought it was a pretty civil thread

Oh well good luck OP if you're reading

In his excitement he came too soon?

Peaked before his time,it can be a hazzard!"

I mentioned vagina and that drove the 'spurt'

I is a very bad man

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"I thought it was a pretty civil thread

Oh well good luck OP if you're reading

In his excitement he came too soon?

Peaked before his time,it can be a hazzard!"

Maybe he'll come again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He'll be back as one of them secret squirrels, nae pics, nowt, watch out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mentioned vagina and that drove the 'spurt'

I is a very bad man "

Trust you

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I mentioned vagina and that drove the 'spurt'

I is a very bad man

Trust you "

ta xx

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"He'll be back as one of them secret squirrels, nae pics, nowt, watch out!! "

Yeah but now he's gone his avatar pic looks strangely familiar....

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth


"He'll be back as one of them secret squirrels, nae pics, nowt, watch out!!

Yeah but now he's gone his avatar pic looks strangely familiar...."

sings " i am not here.. i'm just a silouette..""""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find this odd and hypocritical, what does everyone else think?

I think the rising price of biscuits is criminal...."

He Probably got a craving for hobnobs and couldn't pay for broadband.

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By *asteCouple
over a year ago

bristol

Simples! their probably pic-collectors (male)and not really swingers.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I have never got this pic collector thing....why would anyone want to collect pics by devious ways when there are pics all over the net?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one wouldnt show our pics to someone that doesnt have any pics up of themselves. We are into serious meets, and Lucy would rather get the real thing than just become someones play picture. we both have pics, and as we are a couple, we wont go having our faces passed about without knowing who is seeing them, as pics can be copied, you never know what others would do with them afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha….. “insist?” like as in …… I'll scream and scream and scream until you show me your private picture’s and I won’t meet you until you do!!!!!

Yeah right …. Your gonna get a sore throat and some time to kill !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing i do is ask for a pic if thay dont send or have one in profile .. yes i know its the person too not just the pics but its the first thing you go on when you dont know a person . When i first started out i meet a man who looked like streck and did very little for me ... and he said he was fit and good looking must have been 18/20 stone dirty and green theeth ooo so never again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First thing i do is ask for a pic if thay dont send or have one in profile .. yes i know its the person too not just the pics but its the first thing you go on when you dont know a person . When i first started out i meet a man who looked like streck and did very little for me ... and he said he was fit and good looking must have been 18/20 stone dirty and green theeth ooo so never again ."

hahahahah shrek!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First thing i do is ask for a pic if thay dont send or have one in profile .. yes i know its the person too not just the pics but its the first thing you go on when you dont know a person . When i first started out i meet a man who looked like streck and did very little for me ... and he said he was fit and good looking must have been 18/20 stone dirty and green theeth ooo so never again .

hahahahah shrek!"
as long as your not a shreck your ok xx lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First thing i do is ask for a pic if thay dont send or have one in profile .. yes i know its the person too not just the pics but its the first thing you go on when you dont know a person . When i first started out i meet a man who looked like streck and did very little for me ... and he said he was fit and good looking must have been 18/20 stone dirty and green theeth ooo so never again .

hahahahah shrek!as long as your not a shreck your ok xx lol "

id like to think im not a shrek! so did u actually do anything with the shrek?

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Oh for gods sake people!! Can we get back onto the real subject here!!!!

I want to know more about the price of biscuits!!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I have never got this pic collector thing....why would anyone want to collect pics by devious ways when there are pics all over the net?"

Yes, but they don't come framed with a signed personal message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id like to think im not a shrek! so did u actually do anything with the shrek?

No i chated and that was it , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id like to think im not a shrek! so did u actually do anything with the shrek?

No i chated and that was it , lol"

poor shrek mustve thought he`d struck gold when he saw u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that its a bloody cheek. They don't even have any in private.

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By *laphe1Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

It used to bother me,but cant be arsed these days.It does help though because I feel I need to be at least slighlty attracted to meet anyone.Not bothered about body pics I like to see the face because thats what you look at the most.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I think that its a bloody cheek. They don't even have any in private.

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How do you know they don't?

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