FabSwingers.com forum: What am I lacking?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on here a couple months now and still yet to arrange my first meet, want to get it started soon!

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

. You're 20. Average age on here is probably 35--50 and most will consider you too young.

Sorry

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Try organised socials and clubs.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Try organised socials and clubs. "

Agree ^

You are missing a verification or two, so get your arse to a club (loads in your area) and chat to a few people - even if the verification is only for having met you socially it will start the ball rolling...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the club..... oh and the few 1000 other guys that are in the same boat.

Good luck and don't give up.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Been on here a couple months now and still yet to arrange my first meet, want to get it started soon! "

Nice profile although as someone else says maybe your age. Definitely go to clubs and socials to meet people and I’m sure you’ll do well, you come across as a genuine guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Want to get started soon"...

Not sure that is going to help you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

socials are the best way to meet and network yourself, takes times and effort to reep the rewards.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Ten years.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Years....

Maybe fib and add a few to your age?

No no dont do that!

Get to a social or club, you will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try organised socials and clubs. "

Best advice.. Go to socials to get the social veris you need to be allowed in a Club.

Don't expect sex from either.

Decide if you think of yourself as a..

a) Swinging Male who wants this as a Lifestyle - This requires a level of emotional maturity, a willingness to learn and empathise.

b) A Shagger, just after casual NSA sex with single women. In which case, you're likely to have more joy on traditional dating sites. Kinkiest woman I ever met was on PoF, but she had no interest in group fun or swinging of any kind.

c) Looking for love.. See above.

There are a lot of non-swingers on here. I had more joy with 121 fun on PoF, it's much harder here because of the population difference between men and women. 50% of the women are already taken and looking for men who understand how to play nicely with more than one person, who have a deep understanding of sex/relationships.

You've got a lot of competition from older/wiser more experienced men.

Having said that.. I started at 25, there's nothing to stop you being successful on here, only the attitude you choose to adopt.

This is your 2nd post on the subject in as many months and all you've posted on. You must know this is a question asked daily by now.. I suggest you read those posts daily and learn. Start contributing to the Forum in a more meaningful way that showcases your empathy, sense of humour, wit and/or intelligence.. you may have it by the bucketloads.. in which case.. you'll be spotted by someone.. because they're attractive qualities in a potential partner/lover/fucker.

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