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Couples.... Who is more romantic?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I am rubbish at romance and really struggle with valentines day (yes I know all you cool kids.... It's a hallmark holiday, its bull shit, no self respecting trendy would be seen dead with a heart shaped card!)

Been seeing someone for a few months now and he majorly over gifted at Christmas so I am a bit concerned (and excited) what Wednesday will bring.

So far I've bought him star wars boxers.... There's a limit to how much novelty star wars crap I can buy him isn't there?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am rubbish at romance and really struggle with valentines day (yes I know all you cool kids.... It's a hallmark holiday, its bull shit, no self respecting trendy would be seen dead with a heart shaped card!)

Been seeing someone for a few months now and he majorly over gifted at Christmas so I am a bit concerned (and excited) what Wednesday will bring.

So far I've bought him star wars boxers.... There's a limit to how much novelty star wars crap I can buy him isn't there?! "

Fuck no!! There is loads of Star Wars crap still to buy!!

Geeky x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I am rubbish at romance and really struggle with valentines day (yes I know all you cool kids.... It's a hallmark holiday, its bull shit, no self respecting trendy would be seen dead with a heart shaped card!)

Been seeing someone for a few months now and he majorly over gifted at Christmas so I am a bit concerned (and excited) what Wednesday will bring.

So far I've bought him star wars boxers.... There's a limit to how much novelty star wars crap I can buy him isn't there?!

Fuck no!! There is loads of Star Wars crap still to buy!!

Geeky x"

I bought him a storm trooper pez dispenser at Christmas lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m more the one for buying gifts, whereas Paul is the one for telling me how he feels. I think it balances us out nicely x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I’m more the one for buying gifts, whereas Paul is the one for telling me how he feels. I think it balances us out nicely x "

See. I'm not into overly soppy words in cards either lol

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

There was virtually no romance in my marriage but Frank loves all the mushy stuff so i’ve pushed the boat out & got him a card

B x

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We don’t bother with Valentine’s Day any more than a meal out.

Holidays, birthdays, anniversary’s etc kind of got out of hand with us so as we live together now we’ve set a limit of no gifts more than £500 otherwise we’re just buying bullshit neither of us need all the time.

It’s kind of arbitrary when we have what we want anyway, why should somebody dictate a day that we have to buy each other things to prove we love each other.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"We don’t bother with Valentine’s Day any more than a meal out.

Holidays, birthdays, anniversary’s etc kind of got out of hand with us so as we live together now we’ve set a limit of no gifts more than £500 otherwise we’re just buying bullshit neither of us need all the time.

It’s kind of arbitrary when we have what we want anyway, why should somebody dictate a day that we have to buy each other things to prove we love each other. "

All very well to not buy into it when you've been together a while but this is the first one here. Or have you always been like this?

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"We don’t bother with Valentine’s Day any more than a meal out.

Holidays, birthdays, anniversary’s etc kind of got out of hand with us so as we live together now we’ve set a limit of no gifts more than £500 otherwise we’re just buying bullshit neither of us need all the time.

It’s kind of arbitrary when we have what we want anyway, why should somebody dictate a day that we have to buy each other things to prove we love each other. "

£500

Bloody hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your seeing someone you should be telling how you feel everyday not just as single day in the year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did an early valentine's for my new bf, as he's away on Wednesday and you can't miss your first valentine's, right?

Bought him a card, fave chocs, a little cuddly leopard, and pjs with "the boss" on.

Bought new red lingerie, scattered rose petals from the front door to the bedroom and all over the bed.

Laid down in a sexy pose and waited for him to arrive.

I woke up to several missed calls and texts, having slept through 20 minutes of him waiting at the door, in the cold, and finally giving up and going home thinking I'd forgotten I'd invited him over and that I'd gone out instead.

Fortunately he saw the funny side, forgave me, came back, and was very appreciative of my efforts.

A memorable first valentine's, for sure.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Did an early valentine's for my new bf, as he's away on Wednesday and you can't miss your first valentine's, right?

Bought him a card, fave chocs, a little cuddly leopard, and pjs with "the boss" on.

Bought new red lingerie, scattered rose petals from the front door to the bedroom and all over the bed.

Laid down in a sexy pose and waited for him to arrive.

I woke up to several missed calls and texts, having slept through 20 minutes of him waiting at the door, in the cold, and finally giving up and going home thinking I'd forgotten I'd invited him over and that I'd gone out instead.

Fortunately he saw the funny side, forgave me, came back, and was very appreciative of my efforts.

A memorable first valentine's, for sure. "

Oh at least he saw the funny side!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"If your seeing someone you should be telling how you feel everyday not just as single day in the year."

Who said we don't? Can you not do both?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I got flowers yesterday. I'm not expecting anything tomorrow from my other half...he is what he is, a tight Dutch man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like valentines day especially at the start of a new relationship, I can understand it getting a bit "meh" after a few years though. I like to make something every year to show a bit of effort and creativity plus it means they get something unique and more personal, one year I made a kinda scrapbook / photo album using only card, stickers and a ribbon to hold the pages together, inside was the story of how we met and our first couple of dates together illustrated by shitty stick men figures and I left a couple blank spaces for her to add photos later, it was so ridiculously bad and kinda falling apart but thats what made it good I think, combined with her favorite alcohol and sweets, a hot bath ready and waiting for her getting home and a home cooked roast dinner I think I did pretty good that year awwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am rubbish at romance and really struggle with valentines day (yes I know all you cool kids.... It's a hallmark holiday, its bull shit, no self respecting trendy would be seen dead with a heart shaped card!)

Been seeing someone for a few months now and he majorly over gifted at Christmas so I am a bit concerned (and excited) what Wednesday will bring.

So far I've bought him star wars boxers.... There's a limit to how much novelty star wars crap I can buy him isn't there?!

Fuck no!! There is loads of Star Wars crap still to buy!!

Geeky x"

Go marvel ..... bit of black widow and Hulk roll play

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Seriously guys..... I need help! So far he's got star wars pants and fishing socks!

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I am rubbish at romance and really struggle with valentines day (yes I know all you cool kids.... It's a hallmark holiday, its bull shit, no self respecting trendy would be seen dead with a heart shaped card!)

Been seeing someone for a few months now and he majorly over gifted at Christmas so I am a bit concerned (and excited) what Wednesday will bring.

So far I've bought him star wars boxers.... There's a limit to how much novelty star wars crap I can buy him isn't there?!

Fuck no!! There is loads of Star Wars crap still to buy!!

Geeky x"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a one for show it through the year not just on one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely Lincs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely Lincs "

Flowers chocolate underwear opening doors etc

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Im a one for show it through the year not just on one day"

I do both. It's not an either or situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously guys..... I need help! So far he's got star wars pants and fishing socks! "

Remember it's the thought and the personal significance that makes a gift special; I was just going to get J some chocs and Tammi-in-lingerie, haha, but I spotted the pjs on a rack as I headed for the checkout, and with "The Boss" printed on them it just seemed like destiny. His ringtone on my phone says "your boss is calling you"; his profile on my Netflix is "The Boss"; you get the picture, I'm sure!

At the end of the day they're just pyjamas. Nothing glamorous or glitzy, specially for our first valentines together, but I couldn't have found anything more perfect if I'd tried.

I guess that as long as the star wars pants don't have jar-jar binks on them, if he's a star wars fan he'll love them and they'll be special - because you got them for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a one for show it through the year not just on one day

I do both. It's not an either or situation "

Ditto that.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I haven't got him a card or a gift. I'm cooking us lunch and hoping we have a lovely day together. I wanted to but there's no point in the circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both romantic.. not just on 14th Feb though.. it's important to keep the love/romance alive.

We never go to work without a hug, kiss and "I love you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never acknowledged Valentine's day, we're a bit nonconformist to be honest every day is equally special for us We don't do Christmas on Christmas day either. We will NOT be told when to do things

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