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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham

have joined several 'dating' sites this weekend but try as i might almost every conversation i have had has turned to sex

maybe i am not meant to go on dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the feeling, hence I am back on here!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

stay single.....

i love it..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"have joined several 'dating' sites this weekend but try as i might almost every conversation i have had has turned to sex

maybe i am not meant to go on dates "

I had a friend who was on Match and he said most the women who contacted him were just looking for one-night stands, not relationships.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not sure i could imagine myself on a vanilla dating site lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure i could imagine myself on a vanilla dating site lol"

.

It is not for me either.

I am too liberal and off the trolley for vanilla dating sites!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/10/11 16:53:07]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same with me.. its blooming hopeless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 09/10/11 16:53:07]"

Bugger put another site name in it and it took me flipping ages to type as well

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"have joined several 'dating' sites this weekend but try as i might almost every conversation i have had has turned to sex

maybe i am not meant to go on dates "

Vanillas do have sex as well you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't be arsed with all the needy clingy gents I encountered via vanilla sites.

Those that I liked found me too unconventional and liberal for their liking, can't win!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"have joined several 'dating' sites this weekend but try as i might almost every conversation i have had has turned to sex

maybe i am not meant to go on dates

Vanillas do have sex as well you know."

haha i know but i am looking for sex AND a relationship on those sites

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 09/10/11 17:05:31]

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"have joined several 'dating' sites this weekend but try as i might almost every conversation i have had has turned to sex

maybe i am not meant to go on dates

Vanillas do have sex as well you know."

yes I met one once... was in 1987, I got over it by the 90's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are little things I miss about being in a "relationship", however, I would rather be single than in a relationship with the wrong person.

Besides, I know for a fact that I am too independent and too set in my own little ways to be able to fit into another person's life or visa versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you guys tried fabflirts?? lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly get any messages on FABflirts, probably peeps find my profile too long to read and decide to go for easier fries instead!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"you guys tried fabflirts?? lol x "

haha yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it all boils down to sex on date sites

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

In all honesty I wouldn’t want to go down the dating route without talking about sex.

The danger of sites like Fabs is you can become blinkered from the general opinions of the public…. society… the person in the street.

It’s too easy to forget what the vast majority of people still think about recreational sex….. or rather women who enjoy recreational sex.

I could not be with someone who thought men should spread their seed before getting hitched whilst believing the seed tray is damaged goods.

I could not be with someone who had use of the word slag (when referring to women).

It’s not that I would expect a partner to swing… but I would need to know they were open minded about sex generally.

I could not pretend to be someone else or hide what I believe just for the sake of being with someone.

I could not hide my past … especially knowing what they think of people (women) who frequent sites like this… regardless of whether you regularly meet people or not.

You don’t even have to go on a dating site to find men with the ‘damaged goods’ mentality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Polo.

I am very upfront about my sexual preference and being on FAB etc., usually by the second message.

A lot of gents cannot handle that, especially those who are over 40s and have just come out of a long term relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess that's why most single people are on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have joined several 'dating' sites this weekend but try as i might almost every conversation i have had has turned to sex

maybe i am not meant to go on dates

Vanillas do have sex as well you know."

We were all vanilla's once you know, until we got sprinkled with nuts and sauce

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"have joined several 'dating' sites this weekend but try as i might almost every conversation i have had has turned to sex

maybe i am not meant to go on dates

I had a friend who was on Match and he said most the women who contacted him were just looking for one-night stands, not relationships. "

Can you point them my way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have joined several 'dating' sites this weekend but try as i might almost every conversation i have had has turned to sex

maybe i am not meant to go on dates "
Perhaps your just talking to the wrong guys.They don't have to treat you as just another lay. Could try treating you as a person. I find it works on all sorts of sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know what you mean evesham! I met a guy through work on friday, he asked for my number, we chatted, flirted all totally innocent and then within an hour the texts we were exchanging turned sexual and he sent me a pic of his cock lol

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