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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I am big bearded tattoed cuddle guy. Now i use cuddle not as a different term for fat. Before you point that out I already know.

So this is a thread for guys with meat on their bones and girls that love a big cuddly guy

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By *oobookittyWoman
over a year ago

Derby

As you know .. I love a cuddly bear of a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr Boson

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes

On a different thread a few weeks ago we coined the abbreviation BHM (Big Handsome Man) to be the counterpart of BBW...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chunky guy here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On a different thread a few weeks ago we coined the abbreviation BHM (Big Handsome Man) to be the counterpart of BBW..."

BHM is an expression i have used to describe myself for years but no prefer cuddle bear lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure about the handsome bit, but I can be BM

Not fishing for compliments, oh no not me

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By *oobookittyWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"I'm not sure about the handsome bit, but I can be BM

Not fishing for compliments, oh no not me "

Have you got your rod out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stocky and proud

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its interesting as there is more of a defined definition of what classes as a bbw or a ssbbw.

Most research would class a bbw as anyone over a size 14

But there is not for men. So what sort of size would you class as a BHM and what would you describe as a dad body lol

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By *ailor_poonCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Cuddly and bearded over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tall,big ,bearded and tattooed = my perfect man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure about the handsome bit, but I can be BM

Not fishing for compliments, oh no not me

Have you got your rod out?

"

For the right person. Or persons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tall,big ,bearded and tattooed = my perfect man"

Damn 3 out of 4 here. Unless your 4ft i can not be called tall pmsl

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"Its interesting as there is more of a defined definition of what classes as a bbw or a ssbbw.

Most research would class a bbw as anyone over a size 14

But there is not for men. So what sort of size would you class as a BHM and what would you describe as a dad body lol"

Really? Over a 14 for a BBW? That’s not what we’d describe as BBW...probably over 18 or 20 depending on proportions? Not that we’d use labels at all really...might say “she’s a big girl” or something, but definitely not in a derogatory way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its interesting as there is more of a defined definition of what classes as a bbw or a ssbbw.

Most research would class a bbw as anyone over a size 14

But there is not for men. So what sort of size would you class as a BHM and what would you describe as a dad body lol"

It's an interesting question. I think I am fat, albeit not seriously so, but some people insist I'm not.

My doctor thinks I'm overweight!

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By *oobookittyWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"Its interesting as there is more of a defined definition of what classes as a bbw or a ssbbw.

Most research would class a bbw as anyone over a size 14

But there is not for men. So what sort of size would you class as a BHM and what would you describe as a dad body lol

Really? Over a 14 for a BBW? That’s not what we’d describe as BBW...probably over 18 or 20 depending on proportions? Not that we’d use labels at all really...might say “she’s a big girl” or something, but definitely not in a derogatory way... "

Evans start their clothes at a size 14 ...

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"Its interesting as there is more of a defined definition of what classes as a bbw or a ssbbw.

Most research would class a bbw as anyone over a size 14

But there is not for men. So what sort of size would you class as a BHM and what would you describe as a dad body lol

Really? Over a 14 for a BBW? That’s not what we’d describe as BBW...probably over 18 or 20 depending on proportions? Not that we’d use labels at all really...might say “she’s a big girl” or something, but definitely not in a derogatory way...

Evans start their clothes at a size 14 ... "

Good grief...it’s ridiculous...it’s body shaming by dress size!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not particularly tall at 5'9.... but got 16 stone on the bone.... but don't look it..... been called a robust unit lol.... took it as a compliment

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By *oobookittyWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"Its interesting as there is more of a defined definition of what classes as a bbw or a ssbbw.

Most research would class a bbw as anyone over a size 14

But there is not for men. So what sort of size would you class as a BHM and what would you describe as a dad body lol"

I would say the NHS states for a man if your waist measurement is over 37 inches you should lose weight so any one with over a 37 inch waist lol ..

I think it's difficult as it's about perception of yourself and others perception of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its interesting as there is more of a defined definition of what classes as a bbw or a ssbbw.

Most research would class a bbw as anyone over a size 14

But there is not for men. So what sort of size would you class as a BHM and what would you describe as a dad body lol

It's an interesting question. I think I am fat, albeit not seriously so, but some people insist I'm not.

My doctor thinks I'm overweight!"

MT here i look at your pics and i dont see you as a fat guy lol. I would put you in the new trendy dadbody group lmao.

So i would put you as a DHM or Dadbod hansome man lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tall,big ,bearded and tattooed = my perfect man

Damn 3 out of 4 here. Unless your 4ft i can not be called tall pmsl"
ha,sorry

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I like meeting up with big guys! Favourite has to be a man in his 50's over 6ft. With a tummy like a camel's hump when he's on his back!

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By *oobookittyWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"Its interesting as there is more of a defined definition of what classes as a bbw or a ssbbw.

Most research would class a bbw as anyone over a size 14

But there is not for men. So what sort of size would you class as a BHM and what would you describe as a dad body lol

Really? Over a 14 for a BBW? That’s not what we’d describe as BBW...probably over 18 or 20 depending on proportions? Not that we’d use labels at all really...might say “she’s a big girl” or something, but definitely not in a derogatory way...

Evans start their clothes at a size 14 ...

Good grief...it’s ridiculous...it’s body shaming by dress size!"

Yep x but I shan't hijack the hubby's thread with my soapboxing

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By *oobookittyWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"I'm not particularly tall at 5'9.... but got 16 stone on the bone.... but don't look it..... been called a robust unit lol.... took it as a compliment "

A robust unit! ..

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"Its interesting as there is more of a defined definition of what classes as a bbw or a ssbbw.

Most research would class a bbw as anyone over a size 14

But there is not for men. So what sort of size would you class as a BHM and what would you describe as a dad body lol

Really? Over a 14 for a BBW? That’s not what we’d describe as BBW...probably over 18 or 20 depending on proportions? Not that we’d use labels at all really...might say “she’s a big girl” or something, but definitely not in a derogatory way...

Evans start their clothes at a size 14 ...

Good grief...it’s ridiculous...it’s body shaming by dress size!

Yep x but I shan't hijack the hubby's thread with my soapboxing "

OK to turn it back to hubby, men don’t have to deal with dress sizes, we get our sizes in inches so we can always compare accurately...about 6” seems to be the about right

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By *oobookittyWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"Its interesting as there is more of a defined definition of what classes as a bbw or a ssbbw.

Most research would class a bbw as anyone over a size 14

But there is not for men. So what sort of size would you class as a BHM and what would you describe as a dad body lol

Really? Over a 14 for a BBW? That’s not what we’d describe as BBW...probably over 18 or 20 depending on proportions? Not that we’d use labels at all really...might say “she’s a big girl” or something, but definitely not in a derogatory way...

Evans start their clothes at a size 14 ...

Good grief...it’s ridiculous...it’s body shaming by dress size!

Yep x but I shan't hijack the hubby's thread with my soapboxing

OK to turn it back to hubby, men don’t have to deal with dress sizes, we get our sizes in inches so we can always compare accurately...about 6” seems to be the about right "

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Tall(ish) big and burly? Yumm!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I like meeting up with big guys! Favourite has to be a man in his 50's over 6ft. With a tummy like a camel's hump when he's on his back!"

Definitely Visceral fat, rather than subcutaneous fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh, yummy thread!

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By *rouble1110Woman
over a year ago

Cleveland


"Its interesting as there is more of a defined definition of what classes as a bbw or a ssbbw.

Most research would class a bbw as anyone over a size 14

But there is not for men. So what sort of size would you class as a BHM and what would you describe as a dad body lol

Really? Over a 14 for a BBW? That’s not what we’d describe as BBW...probably over 18 or 20 depending on proportions? Not that we’d use labels at all really...might say “she’s a big girl” or something, but definitely not in a derogatory way...

Evans start their clothes at a size 14 ... "

I'm a size 14,definitely classed as a large as it say's on clothes i've had delivered,I've been told I'm over weight for my height which is 5'4",

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have love handles hehe

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By *oobookittyWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"Tall(ish) big and burly? Yumm! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well hello

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By *ogisticalBigManMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Finally a thread I can related to.

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By *rouble1110Woman
over a year ago

Cleveland


"I have love handles hehe "

Oh I definitely have those

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"On a different thread a few weeks ago we coined the abbreviation BHM (Big Handsome Man) to be the counterpart of BBW..."

It's a pretty well known and accepted term.

But yes, after losing about a stone before Christmas, my Christmas indulgence hasn't really come to an end yet. Though I have been back to the gym in the last week or so. So currently bit chubby guy here.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Well hello "

You need a 'big strong man appreciation' thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well hello

You need a 'big strong man appreciation' thread! "

Good idea bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a different thread a few weeks ago we coined the abbreviation BHM (Big Handsome Man) to be the counterpart of BBW..."

Can the H stand for hairy?

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By *oobookittyWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"On a different thread a few weeks ago we coined the abbreviation BHM (Big Handsome Man) to be the counterpart of BBW...

Can the H stand for hairy? "

Hairy and handsome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have love handles hehe "
and very nice love handles they are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have more love wings than handles lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have love handles hehe and very nice love handles they are"

Thank ya very much

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Chunky and cuddly here

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By *igguy4youMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Big guy here, would love if someone appreciated me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as medium cuddly

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

I do prefer 'em burly, bearded and tattooed

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By *igguy4youMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I do prefer 'em burly, bearded and tattooed "

I'm burly and bearded, just need to get a tattoo now haha

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