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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I touched on this in another thread..

If you were going on a social (possibly with a view to enjoy one another physically afterwards if all went well) and you both agreed that you could wear any clothes you wanted.. judgement free.

What clothes would you..

a) Be most comfortable in yourself?

b) Would want her to come dressed like? (I hope that's not judgemental lol, just a revealing).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

a) Smart baggy jeans and a t-shirt (clean obviously).

b) Tight jeans and a T shirt.

Boring I know.. but hey.. sue me. For the record.. I try and gauge opinion before I dress for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A) smart casual, shirt, tidy trousers, nice shoes.

B) I’ve been asked in the past what I’d like them to wear - my answer was whatever THEY felt most comfortable in, I was there because I was excited to meet them, not form a judgement on their clothing!

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I was going for a Met at a “wet club” once. I expected to be in a towel so dressed in a manky t shirt and joggers. Needless to say I didn’t change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a) a jumper or shirt and jeans or a t shirt and jeans in the summer.

b) whatever they like wearing and feel good in

However it’s a purely academic question as I haven’t met anyone for four years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a) a jumper or shirt and jeans or a t shirt and jeans in the summer.

b) whatever they like wearing and feel good in

However it’s a purely academic question as I haven’t met anyone for four years"

Ahem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A) smart casual, shirt, tidy trousers, nice shoes.

B) I’ve been asked in the past what I’d like them to wear - my answer was whatever THEY felt most comfortable in, I was there because I was excited to meet them, not form a judgement on their clothing! "

That's what I said on the original thread I mentioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a) a jumper or shirt and jeans or a t shirt and jeans in the summer.

b) whatever they like wearing and feel good in

However it’s a purely academic question as I haven’t met anyone for four years

Ahem."

Won’t need clothes for what we’ll be doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a) a jumper or shirt and jeans or a t shirt and jeans in the summer.

b) whatever they like wearing and feel good in

However it’s a purely academic question as I haven’t met anyone for four years

Ahem.

Won’t need clothes for what we’ll be doing "

But I want you to unwrap me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me mankini, her bikini

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a) a jumper or shirt and jeans or a t shirt and jeans in the summer.

b) whatever they like wearing and feel good in

However it’s a purely academic question as I haven’t met anyone for four years

Ahem.

Won’t need clothes for what we’ll be doing

But I want you to unwrap me. "

If you insist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me mankini, her bikini "

Brilliant luminous Borat style one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man told me what to wear when meeting him, I wouldn’t meet him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I touched on this in another thread..

If you were going on a social (possibly with a view to enjoy one another physically afterwards if all went well) and you both agreed that you could wear any clothes you wanted.. judgement free.

What clothes would you..

a) Be most comfortable in yourself?

b) Would want her to come dressed like? (I hope that's not judgemental lol, just a revealing)."

If I was going with a view to playing after, I'd be more concerned at was I was wearing underneath

But I generally go in skinny jeans and a smart top.

So long as the gent was dressed cleanly and was confident in what there wearing then that's fine with me

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I am extremely boring- its pretty much always skinny jeans and top for me. at work, private or for a meet. the kind of top may change but that's about it...

him- whatever he feels comfortable in. mind you maybe no tracksuit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me mankini, her bikini

Brilliant luminous Borat style one?"

You bet, neon green!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me mankini, her bikini

Brilliant luminous Borat style one?

You bet, neon green!"

You fucking legend!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a man told me what to wear when meeting him, I wouldn’t meet him."

I feel the same.. I'm just trying to get the men to be honest about how they feel. To show women that not all of us are overly fussed about lingerie, glamourous dresses etc. So those who feel they HAVE to dress up, but would much rather go casual.. feel it's ok to do so. As I'm quite upfront about that on a first meet..

Like someone said earlier... I'd rather they were comfortable and I'd rather be comfortable, as it can be nerve wracking.

Each to their own obviously. I also fully appreciate some people LOVE getting dolled up, men and women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man told me what to wear when meeting him, I wouldn’t meet him."

I think i might,as long as it wasn't a hideous choice

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I usually meet for coffee or something during the day so.....

a) skinny jeans, boots, a casually smart top.

b) him....whatever he wanted so long as he's clean.

I really hate it if a guy asks me what I'm going to wear, it would put me off him massively!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually meet for coffee or something during the day so.....

a) skinny jeans, boots, a casually smart top.

b) him....whatever he wanted so long as he's clean.

I really hate it if a guy asks me what I'm going to wear, it would put me off him massively!!"

What if he asked like this.. "Sorry to be a twit, I'm not great at this.. Would you prefer to dress smart or casual?" Would that still put you off?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I usually meet for coffee or something during the day so.....

a) skinny jeans, boots, a casually smart top.

b) him....whatever he wanted so long as he's clean.

I really hate it if a guy asks me what I'm going to wear, it would put me off him massively!!

What if he asked like this.. "Sorry to be a twit, I'm not great at this.. Would you prefer to dress smart or casual?" Would that still put you off?"

Not as much as that's not as direct as literally 'what are you going to wear?' I just get visions of them being an old perv

I've had people say I'd love it if you wore such and such believe it or not!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually meet for coffee or something during the day so.....

a) skinny jeans, boots, a casually smart top.

b) him....whatever he wanted so long as he's clean.

I really hate it if a guy asks me what I'm going to wear, it would put me off him massively!!

What if he asked like this.. "Sorry to be a twit, I'm not great at this.. Would you prefer to dress smart or casual?" Would that still put you off?

Not as much as that's not as direct as literally 'what are you going to wear?' I just get visions of them being an old perv

I've had people say I'd love it if you wore such and such believe it or not!!! "

Old perv.. I can see it now "What colour are your knickers _ady lick?" *Rubbing is nicotine stained fingers up and down his thighs vigorously (I need to learn the vomit emoji keys)

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Handlebar or Hitler moustache, multi coloured, knitted tank top and a sparkly, musical thong!

Its a meet! I wouldn't give a damn

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

You would be suprised how many expect women to dress sexy (stockings short skirt etc) for just a coffee in Sainsburys

Men can be total dicks sometimes and really believe that coz we are on here we are happy to go out dressed slutty midday for all to see

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Handlebar or Hitler moustache, multi coloured, knitted tank top and a sparkly, musical thong!

Its a meet! I wouldn't give a damn "

You and ForeignGentleman would be my drinking mates at the bar in a club I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am extremely boring- its pretty much always skinny jeans and top for me. at work, private or for a meet. the kind of top may change but that's about it...

him- whatever he feels comfortable in. mind you maybe no tracksuit..."

I'm the same. Hubby quite often comments on my choice, he prefers me to step out dolled up - but I am most at home in skinny jeans, boots and a tight t/shirt. Stockings, dresses and heels are okay if I'm in the mood. But for a first meet its not my thing, I might not even like them haha.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop


"Handlebar or Hitler moustache, multi coloured, knitted tank top and a sparkly, musical thong!

Its a meet! I wouldn't give a damn

You and ForeignGentleman would be my drinking mates at the bar in a club I think "

Have just looked back at ForeignGentlemans quotes and I agree...but fear club members would gang up on us and push us into the dark room....you practise wolf howls, Foreign owl hoots and I'll do goat, so we know where each other will be.....bromance rocks but there are limits

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