FabSwingers.com forum: Best way

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To tell someone your not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say sorry not into u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Through clarity and honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore messages/friends requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By being honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and delete.

Both in Fab and real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To tell someone your not interested"
say I like you as a person just not my person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say thanks but you don't think you can offer them what they need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please go away and haunt someone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone seeing a message they sent in sent box with a line through the word deleted with no reply may give them some idea,maybe ??

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

On here..? Block or delete

In real life.. no.. maybe not as direct.. perhaps adding some subtleness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone seeing a message they sent in sent box with a line through the word deleted with no reply may give them some idea,maybe ?? "

Its in person tho

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Say ‘sorry you’re not what I’m looking for but good luck in finding what you want on here’.

Then block just so no future messages come from them again.

Manners and tact at all times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, I’m not interested.

On here and in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To tell someone your not interested"

"I'm sorry, but I don't think we're a match".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Politely, respectfully, gently and clearly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Politely, respectfully, gently and clearly. "

Good answer.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Politely, respectfully, gently and clearly. "

How would you put that into words then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Politely, respectfully, gently and clearly.

How would you put that into words then?? "

“Fuck off you fucking minger”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To tell someone your not interested"

Nicely but without ambiguity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Politely, respectfully, gently and clearly.

How would you put that into words then??

“Fuck off you fucking minger”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Politely, respectfully, gently and clearly.

How would you put that into words then?? "

Well it depends on the degree we’ve interacted before, obviously. As if we’ve had extensive interaction I may add/amend more info according to what has transpired between us.

But to an unsolicited message received from someone I’ve had no interaction with I might say something like:

What a lovely message, appreciated. It’s a polite and respectful thank you but no thank you from me though. I do wish you all the best with Fab. Enjoy. x

If it was a rude or crass message, I might omit the first sentence.

If you mean how to let someone down who you’re friends with I’d need more context, as it’d be a very personal and individual conversation in order to attempt gentleness for their specific situation/history with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Politely, respectfully, gently and clearly.

How would you put that into words then??

Well it depends on the degree we’ve interacted before, obviously. As if we’ve had extensive interaction I may add/amend more info according to what has transpired between us.

But to an unsolicited message received from someone I’ve had no interaction with I might say something like:

What a lovely message, appreciated. It’s a polite and respectful thank you but no thank you from me though. I do wish you all the best with Fab. Enjoy. x

If it was a rude or crass message, I might omit the first sentence.

I'd be pretty chuffed if I got that refusal.. not something I'd ever expect - given the AMOUNT of messages most women are sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tonight it was, thank you but I’ll pass

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Oh just tell them to fuck off,it's quick,simple and to the point. Life is to short for fannying around

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Say thanks but you don't think you can offer them what they need."

I use this but then they try and backtrack to fit what you say. Which is annoying.

So I rarely get back to those who I don’t think I would potentially match well with.

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