FabSwingers.com forum: Unattractive Qualities

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

During a chat today with a Fab friend we got onto the subject of Unattractive Qualities, which got me musing....

My question is dear Fabsters ‘what would you find are Unattractive Qualities’ in a potential Suitor?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sense of humour

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Being a Tory.

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Stingyness

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Racism

Sexism

Homophobia

Transphobia

Citing 'PC gone mad' to excuse their attitudes and lack of respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a twat

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

People who are pushy or demanding.

Huffy and jealous also a big no for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negativity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poor hygiene"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No sense of humour "

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"People who are pushy or demanding.

Huffy and jealous also a big no for me. "

Yeap I have had both of these

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"No sense of humour "

SoH is important.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Arrogance

Lack of humour

Lack of intellect

Lack of a willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn, I'm so out.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Closed minded. Struggling to appreciate alternative viewpoints, even if they don’t quite feel the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have most of these I could be a role model

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I have most of these I could be a role model

I’m holding interviews next week...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Racism

Sexism

Homophobia

Transphobia

Citing 'PC gone mad' to excuse their attitudes and lack of respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a Tory."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this was wierd science you just created donald trump only thing missing is a hair comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge bush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haughtiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close minded, prejudiced, arrogant.... men who can’t stay off their phone for the length of a meet!!

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Close minded, prejudiced, arrogant.... men who can’t stay off their phone for the length of a meet!!

A most unattractive quality! They would probably have a breakdown if the phone went dead! Imagine that?

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Too materialistic.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Unwillingness to travel more than 20 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women with facial hair, back hair and chest hair. I can usually settle for 2 out of the 3 at best but the hat trick is a step too far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"During a chat today with a Fab friend we got onto the subject of Unattractive Qualities, which got me musing....

My question is dear Fabsters ‘what would you find are Unattractive Qualities’ in a potential Suitor?

Answers in the forum please.

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a beer bellied stinking of booze unshaven man waddling around a club with a semi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The type of cunt that nicks all the fudge outta quality street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being pushy

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"During a chat today with a Fab friend we got onto the subject of Unattractive Qualities, which got me musing....

My question is dear Fabsters ‘what would you find are Unattractive Qualities’ in a potential Suitor?

Answers in the forum please.

a beer bellied stinking of booze unshaven man waddling around a club with a semi

Chuffing hell !!

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

People who describe themselves as fit and hung.....

I’ll be the judge of that thank you

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Anyone that uses the C word.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Arsenal fans

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By *Cocksucker84Man
over a year ago

newcastle

No sense of humour, being unable to hold a conversation, poor hygiene, someone who has a chip on their shoulder about everything, energy vampires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being self centred and not being a good listener. The all about them show, so boring, in most cases at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self absorbed.

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

"The type of cunt that nicks all the fudge outta quality street

You are speaking of an actual monster.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Impatient

Pushy

Thinks they are God's gift

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sense of humour!! I can’t cope with dull!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude people.

Disrespectful people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone that uses the C word.

Caravan?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone that uses the C word.

Caravan?"

What sort of cunt uses the word caravan?!!

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By *evensnipeMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Bad breath!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance

Being Shallow

Poor hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Untrustworthy, I’ve met a few of those in my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Racism

Sexism

Homophobia

Transphobia

Citing 'PC gone mad' to excuse their attitudes and lack of respect.

Add snobbery to that and we're good to go.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

2 more dickheads to add to the block list then

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Miserable

Cruel

Aggressive

Insensitive

Smelly

Rude

Offensive

Boring

Bad mannered

Jealous

Demanding

To name a few

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Miserable

Cruel

Aggressive

Insensitive

Smelly

Rude

Offensive

Boring

Bad mannered

Jealous

Demanding

To name a few

Any more?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Miserable

Cruel

Aggressive

Insensitive

Smelly

Rude

Offensive

Boring

Bad mannered

Jealous

Demanding

To name a few

Any more?

Sorry

I got a bit carried away

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Racism

Sexism

Homophobia

Transphobia

Citing 'PC gone mad' to excuse their attitudes and lack of respect.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

A sense of entitlement...'I am a gold member, and I want sex now'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything on my profile

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Everything on my profile

Dives to view profile but trips up on the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"During a chat today with a Fab friend we got onto the subject of Unattractive Qualities, which got me musing....

My question is dear Fabsters ‘what would you find are Unattractive Qualities’ in a potential Suitor?

Answers in the forum please.

a beer bellied stinking of booze unshaven man waddling around a club with a semi

I see we have met then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A sense of entitlement...'I am a gold member, and I want sex now'"

Actually I am a platinum member so I want sex later !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everything on my profile

Dives to view profile but trips up on the way!

Saved you 90 seconds of your life you will never get back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Racism

Sexism

Homophobia

Transphobia

Citing 'PC gone mad' to excuse their attitudes and lack of respect.

Add snobbery to that and we're good to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pushiness, clingy, bossy, ignorant, impatient and lack of common sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"During a chat today with a Fab friend we got onto the subject of Unattractive Qualities, which got me musing....

My question is dear Fabsters ‘what would you find are Unattractive Qualities’ in a potential Suitor?

Answers in the forum please.

a beer bellied stinking of booze unshaven man waddling around a club with a semi

Chuffing hell !!

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well its pretty unattractive wouldn't you say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"During a chat today with a Fab friend we got onto the subject of Unattractive Qualities, which got me musing....

My question is dear Fabsters ‘what would you find are Unattractive Qualities’ in a potential Suitor?

Answers in the forum please.

a beer bellied stinking of booze unshaven man waddling around a club with a semi

I see we have met then?"
Awwwww is that you really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who take NO, for an answer.

Shows lack of perseverance.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"A sense of entitlement...'I am a gold member, and I want sex now'

Actually I am a platinum member so I want sex later !"

Does that mean you expect tea, too?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Neediness

overly insecure

No sense of humour

Possessiveness

If they wanted monogamy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance

And kind of prejudice (racism, sexism etc)

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Lack of manners

Possessiveness

No interest in mutual satisfaction (more common than you'd think!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being weak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't got time to list them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being weak "
god I'm so strong I picked up these flower planters the other day long wooden ones full of earth and plants really awkward lift

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being weak god I'm so strong I picked up these flower planters the other day long wooden ones full of earth and plants really awkward lift

Not that kind of weak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being weak god I'm so strong I picked up these flower planters the other day long wooden ones full of earth and plants really awkward lift

Not that kind of weak

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nooooooo .......really

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By *lymanMan
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

Makes crap cuppa tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Racism

Sexism

Homophobia

Transphobia

Citing 'PC gone mad' to excuse their attitudes and lack of respect.

Add snobbery to that and we're good to go.

I'm good with this... plus a Tory can piss right off

Oh and people who relish drama.

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"A sense of entitlement...'I am a gold member, and I want sex now'

Actually I am a platinum member so I want sex later !

Does that mean you expect tea, too?

Now you’re talking, sex AND tea!

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

Arrogance and lack of respect. Can't stand the look at me brigade. G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

arrogance

sense of entitlement

hygiene

no sense of humour

doesn’t like jaffe cakes

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Materialism.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"arrogance

sense of entitlement

hygiene

no sense of humour

doesn’t like jaffe cakes"

The Jaffa cake one is important...

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Labour supporters

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Got to keep the balance right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Creme eggs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insecurity

People who think their soh is funny when it's clearly not

Passive aggression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The inability to be self effacing and taking yourself too seriously.

Oh, and the entitlement thing. Just because I'm male, doesn't mean just being a female automatically gets in to my pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Insecurity

People who think their soh is funny when it's clearly not

Passive aggression "

Was that middle one aimed at me hahahaha

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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The irony is strong on this thread.

Also, people who clearly have short term memory loss and contradict themselves.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"The inability to be self effacing and taking yourself too seriously.

Oh, and the entitlement thing. Just because I'm male, doesn't mean just being a female automatically gets in to my pants

Are you sure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The inability to be self effacing and taking yourself too seriously.

Oh, and the entitlement thing. Just because I'm male, doesn't mean just being a female automatically gets in to my pants

Are you sure? "

Are you implying that I am easy Miss H?! Or testing my ability to be self effacing?

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Poor hygiene & bad teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hypocrisy. I despise it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile blurb of any consequence. Total twats.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"The inability to be self effacing and taking yourself too seriously.

Oh, and the entitlement thing. Just because I'm male, doesn't mean just being a female automatically gets in to my pants

Are you sure?

Are you implying that I am easy Miss H?! Or testing my ability to be self effacing?

Actually, I was referring to the 'I'm male' part.

Your narcissism amuses me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The irony is strong on this thread.

Also, people who clearly have short term memory loss and contradict themselves. "
its a trait of men as is over thinking for women

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Hypocrisy. I despise it. "

Like when someone lists behaviours they don't like but describes themself?

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By *ally_weaverMan
over a year ago

Stoneyburn

The words "I'm not racist, but..."

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"The irony is strong on this thread.

Also, people who clearly have short term memory loss and contradict themselves. its a trait of men as is over thinking for women

I try not to think, so I have been told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The irony is strong on this thread.

Also, people who clearly have short term memory loss and contradict themselves. its a trait of men as is over thinking for women

I try not to think, so I have been told.

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who would dare say that of you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The inability to be self effacing and taking yourself too seriously.

Oh, and the entitlement thing. Just because I'm male, doesn't mean just being a female automatically gets in to my pants

Are you sure?

Are you implying that I am easy Miss H?! Or testing my ability to be self effacing?

Actually, I was referring to the 'I'm male' part.

Your narcissism amuses me.

Ah, I am so narcissistic in my assumption there. Clearly I should have considered you would question my being male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Close minded, prejudiced, arrogant.... men who can’t stay off their phone for the length of a meet!!

But it's nice to take suitably anonymous pics and share them with your meet as a lovely reminder...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m amazed anyone likes me or finds me remotely attractive as so many of these qualities apply to me some of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat up lines like this!

'I wants to fuck the mrss. I'll destroyed her.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hypocrisy. I despise it.

Like when someone lists behaviours they don't like but describes themself? "

Essentially.

Or my favourite "one rule for you another for me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A sense of entitlement...'I am a gold member, and I want sex now'

Actually I am a platinum member so I want sex later !

Does that mean you expect tea, too?

And brekkie the morning after

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"The inability to be self effacing and taking yourself too seriously.

Oh, and the entitlement thing. Just because I'm male, doesn't mean just being a female automatically gets in to my pants

Are you sure?

Are you implying that I am easy Miss H?! Or testing my ability to be self effacing?

Actually, I was referring to the 'I'm male' part.

Your narcissism amuses me.

Ah, I am so narcissistic in my assumption there. Clearly I should have considered you would question my being male.

Assumptions are terribke things G, you should know this by now.

Anyway. I'm feeling entitled, you're buying dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The inability to be self effacing and taking yourself too seriously.

Oh, and the entitlement thing. Just because I'm male, doesn't mean just being a female automatically gets in to my pants

Are you sure?

Are you implying that I am easy Miss H?! Or testing my ability to be self effacing?

Actually, I was referring to the 'I'm male' part.

Your narcissism amuses me.

Ah, I am so narcissistic in my assumption there. Clearly I should have considered you would question my being male.

Assumptions are terribke things G, you should know this by now.

Anyway. I'm feeling entitled, you're buying dinner

Mumble grumble entitled women effing faffing... no starters or dessert then

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Arsenal fans"

. Above all this is the biggest no no

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Miserable

Cruel

Aggressive

Insensitive

Smelly

Rude

Offensive

Boring

Bad mannered

Jealous

Demanding

To name a few

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Oh dear !! Are there any men left then ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Miserable

Cruel

Aggressive

Insensitive

Smelly

Rude

Offensive

Boring

Bad mannered

Jealous

Demanding

To name a few

Out of that I think I’m just smelly and boring. Ok sometimes miserable. Benefit of the doubt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Miserable

Cruel

Aggressive

Insensitive

Smelly

Rude

Offensive

Boring

Bad mannered

Jealous

Demanding

To name a few

Out of that I think I’m just smelly and boring. Ok sometimes miserable. Benefit of the doubt? "

Actually I’m often aggressive, cruel and insensitive too.

And demandingky rude.

We’re not having sex together are we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Narcissism

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Miserable

Cruel

Aggressive

Insensitive

Smelly

Rude

Offensive

Boring

Bad mannered

Jealous

Demanding

To name a few

Out of that I think I’m just smelly and boring. Ok sometimes miserable. Benefit of the doubt?

Actually I’m often aggressive, cruel and insensitive too.

And demandingky rude.

We’re not having sex together are we?

Not even a boobie woobie hug

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Miserable

Cruel

Aggressive

Insensitive

Smelly

Rude

Offensive

Boring

Bad mannered

Jealous

Demanding

To name a few

Out of that I think I’m just smelly and boring. Ok sometimes miserable. Benefit of the doubt?

Actually I’m often aggressive, cruel and insensitive too.

And demandingky rude.

We’re not having sex together are we?

You’re none of those things with me though so never say never

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Miserable

Cruel

Aggressive

Insensitive

Smelly

Rude

Offensive

Boring

Bad mannered

Jealous

Demanding

To name a few

Out of that I think I’m just smelly and boring. Ok sometimes miserable. Benefit of the doubt?

Actually I’m often aggressive, cruel and insensitive too.

And demandingky rude.

We’re not having sex together are we?

You’re none of those things with me though so never say never

Awwwwww

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"The inability to be self effacing and taking yourself too seriously.

Oh, and the entitlement thing. Just because I'm male, doesn't mean just being a female automatically gets in to my pants

Are you sure?

Are you implying that I am easy Miss H?! Or testing my ability to be self effacing?

Actually, I was referring to the 'I'm male' part.

Your narcissism amuses me.

Ah, I am so narcissistic in my assumption there. Clearly I should have considered you would question my being male.

Assumptions are terribke things G, you should know this by now.

Anyway. I'm feeling entitled, you're buying dinner

Mumble grumble entitled women effing faffing... no starters or dessert then

Dessert? Oh no, I'm not eating anything sweet

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over a year ago

"The inability to be self effacing and taking yourself too seriously.

Oh, and the entitlement thing. Just because I'm male, doesn't mean just being a female automatically gets in to my pants

Are you sure?

Are you implying that I am easy Miss H?! Or testing my ability to be self effacing?

Actually, I was referring to the 'I'm male' part.

Your narcissism amuses me.

Ah, I am so narcissistic in my assumption there. Clearly I should have considered you would question my being male.

Assumptions are terribke things G, you should know this by now.

Anyway. I'm feeling entitled, you're buying dinner

Mumble grumble entitled women effing faffing... no starters or dessert then

Dessert? Oh no, I'm not eating anything sweet

No mint flavoured chocolates even?

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over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

(Mr)

It would be easier saying what I do like however here goes.

Arrogance.

Aggression.

Loud.

Racism.

Narcissistic personality's.

Sycophants.

Rudeness, lacking manners.

Dishonesty.

Bad hygiene.

People who don't listen to your answer when they ask you a question or start a conversation with someone else mid sentence with you.

Intolerance and homophobia.

Vanity.

Smokers.

Bad breath.

Chavs.

Back to dishonesty, lying and unfaithfulness is really one of my biggest things,if you can't be honest and upfront from the outset then things are doomed.

Look there's an old saying"beggers can't be choosers"

But if I retain my dignity and stand by my principles ,if this means I Go without then so be it.

I have a beautiful wife whome I love dearly and we have good regular sex,so perhaps I can be overly fussy, trust me I'm no oil painting and my opinion may change if I was single.

Even then the same things would turn me off.

I would say loud, aggressive,rude, racists liar's would be my idea of hell.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"The inability to be self effacing and taking yourself too seriously.

Oh, and the entitlement thing. Just because I'm male, doesn't mean just being a female automatically gets in to my pants

Are you sure?

Are you implying that I am easy Miss H?! Or testing my ability to be self effacing?

Actually, I was referring to the 'I'm male' part.

Your narcissism amuses me.

Ah, I am so narcissistic in my assumption there. Clearly I should have considered you would question my being male.

Assumptions are terribke things G, you should know this by now.

Anyway. I'm feeling entitled, you're buying dinner

Mumble grumble entitled women effing faffing... no starters or dessert then

Dessert? Oh no, I'm not eating anything sweet

No mint flavoured chocolates even?

Only the ones that no one else will eat

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over a year ago

Selfishness is such a ugly trait .

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Taking themselves too seriously and rudeness. Had a meet once yell at a lad in the coffee shop because our coffees took a little while to come. On a busy lunch time. So unattractive.

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over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

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By *haremoreMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"During a chat today with a Fab friend we got onto the subject of Unattractive Qualities, which got me musing....

My question is dear Fabsters ‘what would you find are Unattractive Qualities’ in a potential Suitor?

Answers in the forum please.

People who get in a Paddy for little things

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over a year ago

Bad time keeping.

Punctuality is very important.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"(Mr)

It would be easier saying what I do like however here goes.

Arrogance.

Aggression.

Loud.

Racism.

Narcissistic personality's.

Sycophants.

Rudeness, lacking manners.

Dishonesty.

Bad hygiene.

People who don't listen to your answer when they ask you a question or start a conversation with someone else mid sentence with you.

Intolerance and homophobia.

Vanity.

Smokers.

Bad breath.

Chavs.

Back to dishonesty, lying and unfaithfulness is really one of my biggest things,if you can't be honest and upfront from the outset then things are doomed.

Look there's an old saying"beggers can't be choosers"

But if I retain my dignity and stand by my principles ,if this means I Go without then so be it.

I have a beautiful wife whome I love dearly and we have good regular sex,so perhaps I can be overly fussy, trust me I'm no oil painting and my opinion may change if I was single.

Even then the same things would turn me off.

I would say loud, aggressive,rude, racists liar's would be my idea of hell.

Goodness! Does anything turn you on Mr?

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"During a chat today with a Fab friend we got onto the subject of Unattractive Qualities, which got me musing....

My question is dear Fabsters ‘what would you find are Unattractive Qualities’ in a potential Suitor?

Answers in the forum please.

People who get in a Paddy for little things

People on line who just disappear when in full flirt mode, it’s rude and so chuffing annoying!

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over a year ago

"(Mr)

It would be easier saying what I do like however here goes.

Arrogance.

Aggression.

Loud.

Racism.

Narcissistic personality's.

Sycophants.

Rudeness, lacking manners.

Dishonesty.

Bad hygiene.

People who don't listen to your answer when they ask you a question or start a conversation with someone else mid sentence with you.

Intolerance and homophobia.

Vanity.

Smokers.

Bad breath.

Chavs.

Back to dishonesty, lying and unfaithfulness is really one of my biggest things,if you can't be honest and upfront from the outset then things are doomed.

Look there's an old saying"beggers can't be choosers"

But if I retain my dignity and stand by my principles ,if this means I Go without then so be it.

I have a beautiful wife whome I love dearly and we have good regular sex,so perhaps I can be overly fussy, trust me I'm no oil painting and my opinion may change if I was single.

Even then the same things would turn me off.

I would say loud, aggressive,rude, racists liar's would be my idea of hell.

I think I'm with you there.. apart from the smoking part.. as I am one.

I know it's bad an unattractive.. I keep attempting to quit, but quitting isn't easy.

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over a year ago

"I have most of these I could be a role model

I’m holding interviews next week...!

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lol

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"(Mr)

It would be easier saying what I do like however here goes.

Arrogance.

Aggression.

Loud.

Racism.

Narcissistic personality's.

Sycophants.

Rudeness, lacking manners.

Dishonesty.

Bad hygiene.

People who don't listen to your answer when they ask you a question or start a conversation with someone else mid sentence with you.

Intolerance and homophobia.

Vanity.

Smokers.

Bad breath.

Chavs.

Back to dishonesty, lying and unfaithfulness is really one of my biggest things,if you can't be honest and upfront from the outset then things are doomed.

Look there's an old saying"beggers can't be choosers"

But if I retain my dignity and stand by my principles ,if this means I Go without then so be it.

I have a beautiful wife whome I love dearly and we have good regular sex,so perhaps I can be overly fussy, trust me I'm no oil painting and my opinion may change if I was single.

Even then the same things would turn me off.

I would say loud, aggressive,rude, racists liar's would be my idea of hell.

Goodness! Does anything turn you on Mr? "

Well if anything there listed turns you on that's your perogative.

But the question wasn't what turns you on, of which for me there are many things.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"(Mr)

It would be easier saying what I do like however here goes.

Arrogance.

Aggression.

Loud.

Racism.

Narcissistic personality's.

Sycophants.

Rudeness, lacking manners.

Dishonesty.

Bad hygiene.

People who don't listen to your answer when they ask you a question or start a conversation with someone else mid sentence with you.

Intolerance and homophobia.

Vanity.

Smokers.

Bad breath.

Chavs.

Back to dishonesty, lying and unfaithfulness is really one of my biggest things,if you can't be honest and upfront from the outset then things are doomed.

Look there's an old saying"beggers can't be choosers"

But if I retain my dignity and stand by my principles ,if this means I Go without then so be it.

I have a beautiful wife whome I love dearly and we have good regular sex,so perhaps I can be overly fussy, trust me I'm no oil painting and my opinion may change if I was single.

Even then the same things would turn me off.

I would say loud, aggressive,rude, racists liar's would be my idea of hell.

Goodness! Does anything turn you on Mr?

Well if anything there listed turns you on that's your perogative.

But the question wasn't what turns you on, of which for me there are many things."

Ha ha you are quite correct but you have the longest list.....are you an Author?

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over a year ago

"(Mr)

It would be easier saying what I do like however here goes.

Arrogance.

Aggression.

Loud.

Racism.

Narcissistic personality's.

Sycophants.

Rudeness, lacking manners.

Dishonesty.

Bad hygiene.

People who don't listen to your answer when they ask you a question or start a conversation with someone else mid sentence with you.

Intolerance and homophobia.

Vanity.

Smokers.

Bad breath.

Chavs.

Back to dishonesty, lying and unfaithfulness is really one of my biggest things,if you can't be honest and upfront from the outset then things are doomed.

Look there's an old saying"beggers can't be choosers"

But if I retain my dignity and stand by my principles ,if this means I Go without then so be it.

I have a beautiful wife whome I love dearly and we have good regular sex,so perhaps I can be overly fussy, trust me I'm no oil painting and my opinion may change if I was single.

Even then the same things would turn me off.

I would say loud, aggressive,rude, racists liar's would be my idea of hell.

I think I'm with you there.. apart from the smoking part.. as I am one.

I know it's bad an unattractive.. I keep attempting to quit, but quitting isn't easy."
just look at the pics of what it does to your lungs its not now its later you'll regret it

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over a year ago

Leeds

"(Mr)

It would be easier saying what I do like however here goes.

Arrogance.

Aggression.

Loud.

Racism.

Narcissistic personality's.

Sycophants.

Rudeness, lacking manners.

Dishonesty.

Bad hygiene.

People who don't listen to your answer when they ask you a question or start a conversation with someone else mid sentence with you.

Intolerance and homophobia.

Vanity.

Smokers.

Bad breath.

Chavs.

Back to dishonesty, lying and unfaithfulness is really one of my biggest things,if you can't be honest and upfront from the outset then things are doomed.

Look there's an old saying"beggers can't be choosers"

But if I retain my dignity and stand by my principles ,if this means I Go without then so be it.

I have a beautiful wife whome I love dearly and we have good regular sex,so perhaps I can be overly fussy, trust me I'm no oil painting and my opinion may change if I was single.

Even then the same things would turn me off.

I would say loud, aggressive,rude, racists liar's would be my idea of hell.

I think I'm with you there.. apart from the smoking part.. as I am one.

I know it's bad an unattractive.. I keep attempting to quit, but quitting isn't easy.just look at the pics of what it does to your lungs its not now its later you'll regret it

Smoking is in my top five most unattractive qualities. Yuk.

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over a year ago

"(Mr)

It would be easier saying what I do like however here goes.

Arrogance.

Aggression.

Loud.

Racism.

Narcissistic personality's.

Sycophants.

Rudeness, lacking manners.

Dishonesty.

Bad hygiene.

People who don't listen to your answer when they ask you a question or start a conversation with someone else mid sentence with you.

Intolerance and homophobia.

Vanity.

Smokers.

Bad breath.

Chavs.

Back to dishonesty, lying and unfaithfulness is really one of my biggest things,if you can't be honest and upfront from the outset then things are doomed.

Look there's an old saying"beggers can't be choosers"

But if I retain my dignity and stand by my principles ,if this means I Go without then so be it.

I have a beautiful wife whome I love dearly and we have good regular sex,so perhaps I can be overly fussy, trust me I'm no oil painting and my opinion may change if I was single.

Even then the same things would turn me off.

I would say loud, aggressive,rude, racists liar's would be my idea of hell.

I think I'm with you there.. apart from the smoking part.. as I am one.

I know it's bad an unattractive.. I keep attempting to quit, but quitting isn't easy.just look at the pics of what it does to your lungs its not now its later you'll regret it

Smoking is in my top five most unattractive qualities. Yuk. "
exactly the amount of people who end up with serious respiratory problems and wished they had given up ,one of my relatives had emphysema it took him 20 years to die he had to sleep upright on the couch with an oxygen bottle and mask and could walk anywhere and not be out of breath

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over a year ago

"(Mr)

It would be easier saying what I do like however here goes.

Arrogance.

Aggression.

Loud.

Racism.

Narcissistic personality's.

Sycophants.

Rudeness, lacking manners.

Dishonesty.

Bad hygiene.

People who don't listen to your answer when they ask you a question or start a conversation with someone else mid sentence with you.

Intolerance and homophobia.

Vanity.

Smokers.

Bad breath.

Chavs.

Back to dishonesty, lying and unfaithfulness is really one of my biggest things,if you can't be honest and upfront from the outset then things are doomed.

Look there's an old saying"beggers can't be choosers"

But if I retain my dignity and stand by my principles ,if this means I Go without then so be it.

I have a beautiful wife whome I love dearly and we have good regular sex,so perhaps I can be overly fussy, trust me I'm no oil painting and my opinion may change if I was single.

Even then the same things would turn me off.

I would say loud, aggressive,rude, racists liar's would be my idea of hell.

I think I'm with you there.. apart from the smoking part.. as I am one.

I know it's bad an unattractive.. I keep attempting to quit, but quitting isn't easy.just look at the pics of what it does to your lungs its not now its later you'll regret it

Smoking is in my top five most unattractive qualities. Yuk. exactly the amount of people who end up with serious respiratory problems and wished they had given up ,one of my relatives had emphysema it took him 20 years to die he had to sleep upright on the couch with an oxygen bottle and mask and could walk anywhere and not be out of breath

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couldn't

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over a year ago

Hmmm I could now add something to my list of dislikes.. but I'll keep shtum

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hmmm I could now add something to my list of dislikes.. but I'll keep shtum "

Why is it unattractive if people do not smoke? Some people are attracted to a smoker

Lighten up...!

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over a year ago

Leeds

"(Mr)

It would be easier saying what I do like however here goes.

Arrogance.

Aggression.

Loud.

Racism.

Narcissistic personality's.

Sycophants.

Rudeness, lacking manners.

Dishonesty.

Bad hygiene.

People who don't listen to your answer when they ask you a question or start a conversation with someone else mid sentence with you.

Intolerance and homophobia.

Vanity.

Smokers.

Bad breath.

Chavs.

Back to dishonesty, lying and unfaithfulness is really one of my biggest things,if you can't be honest and upfront from the outset then things are doomed.

Look there's an old saying"beggers can't be choosers"

But if I retain my dignity and stand by my principles ,if this means I Go without then so be it.

I have a beautiful wife whome I love dearly and we have good regular sex,so perhaps I can be overly fussy, trust me I'm no oil painting and my opinion may change if I was single.

Even then the same things would turn me off.

I would say loud, aggressive,rude, racists liar's would be my idea of hell.

I think I'm with you there.. apart from the smoking part.. as I am one.

I know it's bad an unattractive.. I keep attempting to quit, but quitting isn't easy.just look at the pics of what it does to your lungs its not now its later you'll regret it

I had an Uncle similar to that, he couldn’t breath or get upstairs, plus I watched my parents smoke heavy until 1986 when they quit! They never looked back after they quit and died in their 80s which may not have been the case if they had continued smoking

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over a year ago

Stalking tendencies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moustaches. Hate them on women

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over a year ago

"Hmmm I could now add something to my list of dislikes.. but I'll keep shtum

Why is it unattractive if people do not smoke? Some people are attracted to a smoker

Lighten up...! "

I didn't say non-smokers were unattractive, I completely understand that some non-smokers find smoking unattractive. That makes total sense. Not what i was getting at. I meant the Non-smokers who lecture whenever the subject is brought up. It's an addiction, it's not easy to stop it. Judgement doesn't make it any easier to quit. Some people find it easier than others, some can never stop.. despite all the warnings.. or even a life altering illness.

I don't judge fat people for their food addiction.. I don't whittle on about diets and diabetes whenever food is brought up as a topic.

Incidentally, the amount of people who have "Won't meet smokers" On their profiles, yet contact me, or other smokers is odd.

Another societal norm developing by any chance? In Public on Fab 90% (totally made up figure) won't meet smokers.. Yet 50% (again totally made up) seem to be fine with that in private.

Provided I'm attractive/Well endowed/intelligent/respectable/charming-enough to satisfy them.

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over a year ago

"Hmmm I could now add something to my list of dislikes.. but I'll keep shtum

Why is it unattractive if people do not smoke? Some people are attracted to a smoker

Lighten up...!

I don't judge fat people for their food addiction.. I don't whittle on about diets and diabetes whenever food is brought up as a topic.

Incidentally, the amount of people who have "Won't meet smokers" On their profiles, yet contact me, or other smokers is odd.

Another societal norm developing by any chance? In Public on Fab 90% (totally made up figure) won't meet smokers.. Yet 50% (again totally made up) seem to be fine with that in private.

Provided I'm attractive/Well endowed/intelligent/respectable/charming-enough to satisfy them.

That's too much for me to read. Can you condense it

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over a year ago

"Hmmm I could now add something to my list of dislikes.. but I'll keep shtum

Why is it unattractive if people do not smoke? Some people are attracted to a smoker

Lighten up...!

I don't judge fat people for their food addiction.. I don't whittle on about diets and diabetes whenever food is brought up as a topic.

Incidentally, the amount of people who have "Won't meet smokers" On their profiles, yet contact me, or other smokers is odd.

Another societal norm developing by any chance? In Public on Fab 90% (totally made up figure) won't meet smokers.. Yet 50% (again totally made up) seem to be fine with that in private.

Provided I'm attractive/Well endowed/intelligent/respectable/charming-enough to satisfy them.

That's too much for me to read. Can you condense it"

Lol.. no.. but I get that

Its just my style of writing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay I read it now and it makes sense to me

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Arsenal fans

. Above all this is the biggest no no

That’s two more guys upset then

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over a year ago

Face tattoos

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over a year ago

"Okay I read it now and it makes sense to me "

I know I rattle on.. but it's usually trying to express something multi-layered and complex when I do.. or I'm telling a story.

If it's silly like the other night and I'm in a thread where we are playing off one another's wit.. I keep it short and sweet.

I like writing for myself.. I don't expect or care if it's read. A get a few private messages based on what I've said sometimes..

Probably not as many as others get about me behind my back though

Good job I'm not fussed about it

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Stalking tendencies "

Yep like being followed around the forums....very unattractive and annoying too...

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

Chavvy gobby women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who forget to mention friends in "who's the nicest" threads

Oh, that'll be me...

My pet hate?

People who decide that their way of "swinging" or being on Fab is the correct way and everyone else is wrong...

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"People who forget to mention friends in "who's the nicest" threads

Oh, that'll be me...

Yes most unattractive is that kind of thing!!!

My pet hate?

People who decide that their way of "swinging" or being on Fab is the correct way and everyone else is wrong..."

Problem is we all have different reasons for being here!

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over a year ago

"During a chat today with a Fab friend we got onto the subject of Unattractive Qualities, which got me musing....

My question is dear Fabsters ‘what would you find are Unattractive Qualities’ in a potential Suitor?

Answers in the forum please.

smoking, 420/poppers/pot smoker, hairy transvestites, soiled panties, married guys, quick meets, bad grammer(sic), wanna meet? owned subs, chastity, shall I continue?

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"During a chat today with a Fab friend we got onto the subject of Unattractive Qualities, which got me musing....

My question is dear Fabsters ‘what would you find are Unattractive Qualities’ in a potential Suitor?

Answers in the forum please.

smoking, 420/poppers/pot smoker, hairy transvestites, soiled panties, married guys, quick meets, bad grammer(sic), wanna meet? owned subs, chastity, shall I continue?"

Yes please Tasmin....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People with a drink in 'em

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Okay I read it now and it makes sense to me

I know I rattle on.. but it's usually trying to express something multi-layered and complex when I do.. or I'm telling a story.

If it's silly like the other night and I'm in a thread where we are playing off one another's wit.. I keep it short and sweet.

I like writing for myself.. I don't expect or care if it's read. A get a few private messages based on what I've said sometimes..

Probably not as many as others get about me behind my back though

Good job I'm not fussed about it

I like your writing TSM...it’s lyrical and shit

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

For me a huge no-no is people who are bigoted and/or judgemental! Sadly that’s a hell of a lot of people both on and off fab!

I can be getting on great with someone and the topic of immigration, homosexuality, tv’s/ts or greedy girls etc comes up and occasionally they’ll come out with comments so ignorant or, occasionally, downright vitriolic that I just have to walk away!

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over a year ago

Close/narrow minded min, prejudiced, arrogant. No sense of humour, prioritise and people rights to have fun in life where most people rights are rejected to having fun when they have a disability.

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"Okay I read it now and it makes sense to me

I know I rattle on.. but it's usually trying to express something multi-layered and complex when I do.. or I'm telling a story.

If it's silly like the other night and I'm in a thread where we are playing off one another's wit.. I keep it short and sweet.

I like writing for myself.. I don't expect or care if it's read. A get a few private messages based on what I've said sometimes..

Probably not as many as others get about me behind my back though

Good job I'm not fussed about it

I like your writing TSM...it’s lyrical and shit

Warms my heart xxx Thankyou x

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