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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

people on here are weird stat a chat then block u no reason fakes I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

There is always a reason why people block you. Only they know why and it does not make them fake.

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

I don’t think it means people are fakes necessarily. If it’s happened a few times see if there’s a theme.

I block if people are pushy about photos or meeting. They haven’t been rude or abusive but I feel like I’m on the back foot defending my decision to say no.

I’m not saying that’s what you’re doing but see if there is a point during the conversations that they block.

One bit of good advice might be, don’t be the first one to mention sex. Just chat and see where the conversation ends up.

Good luck.

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

time wasters been ere to long to know

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

I just made conversation if that's how people are then should stay away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"time wasters been ere to long to know "

Just because someone blocks you does not mean they are timewasting.

I blocked someone the other day as they sent a very polite hello message and we responded.

Their next message was i want your bitch to suck my cock.

People are on here to swing abd have fun with. Blocking without reason is not sensible. So relook at your messages and see.

Also coming on forums complaining people are fake and timewasters is not going to help your search for finding fun

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

mate i. not like that I rather have a good chat don't get anywhere being rude to people I made good conversation then block not all guys are same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But why the single kiss as a thread title?

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

my gosh single kiss is that such a bad thing so u have naked pics on ere and I put on single kiss lol

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"my gosh single kiss is that such a bad thing so u have naked pics on ere and I put on single kiss lol "

But a title with a clue about the thread content would be much better...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my gosh single kiss is that such a bad thing so u have naked pics on ere and I put on single kiss lol "

Spidey senses are a tingling with your replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people for a variety of reasons. Main one- rude messages and not taking no for an answer. 2- being way too far yet insisting they're happy to travel. 3- not making conversations. Example from this morning:

Guy: I'm 1h 15min away

Me: And? (as it was his very first message to me, I wanted to establish what he wanted me to do with this information)

Guy: Is it too far?

At this point, I realised I was not going to waste my energy talking to him as he was clearly not getting the point.

4- couples where just the guy wants to meet.

And 5- people who keep trying to chat me up even though I have clearly said before I was not going to meet them. I think of it as helping them move on

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Reading some of the slightly aggressive/ defensive sounding responses here OP one has to assume your messages are in a similar vein. If so, I’m not surprised at you being blocked

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

it's people that pre judge u don't even know wat was said gang up on me why do t ya lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my gosh single kiss is that such a bad thing so u have naked pics on ere and I put on single kiss lol "

Maybe as you are coming accross on here in what could be scene as a passive aggressive manner you need to relook at how you communicate in a positive and friendly manner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people on here are weird stat a chat then block u no reason fakes I guess "

If, as appears, you are getting this a lot it must be you or your messages. You're the common denominator, they're not connected and you can't justifiably lump them under one banner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's people that pre judge u don't even know wat was said gang up on me why do t ya lol "

No one is ganging up on you. You made a sweeping statement that vecause someone blocks yiu they are fake.

People have responded with reasons they block people and suggestions on why you may have been blocked that is all

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

lol agony aunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol agony aunt "

And there we see why you are blocked. Attitude is not a attractive trait in anyone.

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

people block for no reason like I said don't have any reason too. like to know why that's all u make up good conversation then block so to me fake

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

"my gosh single kiss is that such a bad thing so u have naked pics on ere and I put on single kiss lol

Spidey senses are a tingling with your replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people block for no reason like I said don't have any reason too. like to know why that's all u make up good conversation then block so to me fake "

People have already pointed out tgey dont have to justify blocking you its up to them does not make then fake

And it has been pointed out the common factor in this is you. So look at yourself for the answers

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

it's people like u are not understanding and trying too make me the bad trying to get me to come across negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question for the OP... why do you start your threads with x or xxx? Can you not put a title?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suspect a whole lot more 'fakes' are going to be blocking you with this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's people like u are not understanding and trying too make me the bad trying to get me to come across negative "

No your doing that very well yourself. Its amazing how you feel everything is everyone elses fault and as such do not feel that you have to look at your own actions.

Happy fabbing

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

ok enough of the helpful feedback wat u having for tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah he must be fake as he has blocked us pmsl

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By *eziahWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"people on here are weird stat a chat then block u no reason fakes I guess

If, as appears, you are getting this a lot it must be you or your messages. You're the common denominator, they're not connected and you can't justifiably lump them under one banner."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah he must be fake as he has blocked us pmsl "

The sweet irony pmsl

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

PMSL get over it lol so funny this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the answer x or xx or xxx?

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

better than tv this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on your posts on this thread, I'd block you.

If you wanted sympathy and fawning over, you have gone the wrong way.

A block isn't a punishment. It is a tool.

They may have decided you weren't for them. They may have worked out that ultimately they weren't what you were looking for.

Move on and good luck. Just dampen down the hostility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally just the style in which the messages are written would have me reaching for the block button, before we even get to the underlying passive aggression.

Mr Boson

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

ok the end

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

wats ever one up too later

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"it's people like u are not understanding and trying too make me the bad trying to get me to come across negative "

I agree with you O.P. It's ALL the others. They are out to get you , you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok the end "

You can start it, you can contribute to it but you can't end it.

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

they are ones on ere my my

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"they are ones on ere my my"
why don’t you step away from the keyboard op before you type something that might get you a ban

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

any sexy ladies free to chat only 2 not greedy

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

other one with penny's worth

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

"wats ever one up too later"

I’m getting thrashed at chess by my son! What are you up to OP?

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

all work no play

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

just chilling out with cuppa

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

"just chilling out with cuppa "

Maybe duck out of this thread for tonight. Reread the advice tomorrow. Best of luck.

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By *eziahWoman
over a year ago

Hull

OP, Paul, reading this reminds me very much of a young man I encountered in my early days here, in the way that you interact with others with a mixture of pleasantry, thinly disguised vitriol, bitterness, and passive aggression.

Reading between the lines, and given the facts that I can glean from your profile...I would hazard a guess (and I may well be wrong; I reiterate that this is only my opinion) you haven't had much response on here from the female sex for quite some time.

I would also surmise that recently you have approached a lady who offered you a polite reply in way of a response. A few messages were interchanged, and she tried to gently and kindly rebuff your increasingly persistent advances.

At which point your tone turned to the aforementioned thinly veiled vitriolic asides referred to above. She probably tried to protect your clearly fragile ego and mental health for as long as she could, before the block button become her only option.

You were left, once again, a lone fish in the fab pond, shouting into the hollow empty depths (bit of a mixed analogy I know, but it's Friday night and I'm distracted by pizza).

As I said, this is all assumption. My advice to you is to start a new profile....NOT to contact the lady who blocked you, but to give yourself a fresh start. No veri's at all are probably better than three by cam, two years ago.

Measure your approach with a little more reason. Spewing bile at someone because they are the only one who will give you a passing moment of attention is not the way to talk them into bed, or to help you realise the 3sum[sic] that you so desperately desire.

Happy fabbing.

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

my didn't need to write that I do have to laugh tho all the comments well funny I'm laughing it off so yep

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

happy fabbing don't for e them off too sleep tho hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your craic is shit?

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

mmm can u smell that then

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Maybe your craic is shit? "

Nobody likes shitty craic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe your craic is shit?

Nobody likes shitty craic

I dare say there are a few weirdos on here that probably do

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/02/18 19:55:02]

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Or bored with the chat / didn't like the chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, Paul, reading this reminds me very much of a young man I encountered in my early days here, in the way that you interact with others with a mixture of pleasantry, thinly disguised vitriol, bitterness, and passive aggression.

You were left, once again, a lone fish in the fab pond, shouting into the hollow empty depths (bit of a mixed analogy I know, but it's Friday night and I'm distracted by pizza).

Happy fabbing. "

Wise words indeed.... a lot of males and females should take heed of the above. Sometimes you have to step back and reflect fully on what you are about to write or even say back. This only benefits you and your pride!!

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

way same message ad last one copy thread did u lol bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is always a reason why people block you. Only they know why and it does not make them fake."

This

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Maybe after messaging for a bit they realised you’re not for them, simple as that. Doesn’t make anyone “fake”.

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

im.over it like 2hours ago old news move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone found a way to block a thread yet? I can't unsee this thread now that I have read it and I don't want to see it any more. It hurts my soul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe after messaging for a bit they realised you’re not for them, simple as that. Doesn’t make anyone “fake”."

Or just couldn't understand what he was saying ??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone found a way to block a thread yet? I can't unsee this thread now that I have read it and I don't want to see it any more. It hurts my soul.

Just dont read it. Go to the pub confess your sins lol

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

excuses me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You were left, once again, a lone fish in the fab pond, shouting into the hollow empty depths (bit of a mixed analogy I know, but it's Friday night and I'm distracted by pizza).

Happy fabbing. "

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

yeah best thing that was said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow.... real men are able to take the rough with the smooth, so funny - this guy is digging his own hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You were left, once again, a lone fish in the fab pond, shouting into the hollow empty depths (bit of a mixed analogy I know, but it's Friday night and I'm distracted by pizza).

Happy fabbing.

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

still ere lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow.... real men are able to take the rough with the smooth, so funny - this guy is digging his own hole

Yeah hes not trying to climb outta it. Yet

Green arrow lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"still ere lol"

Do 'reply and quote' . Makes it much more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"still ere lol

Do 'reply and quote' . Makes it much more fun "

Shhhhh

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I think I might save you from yourself now

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By *hyguy 38 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

lol so funny my side's hurting

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