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Live for it, die for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A wiseman once said that if you live for sex, you die for it... anyone else having the thoughts that maybe you are chasing something that is never going to really satisfy you? Maybe I'm just being cynical but hey, that's me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s everything to some, but not to all. Like most things.

It’s pretty unimportant to me, physically. I could live without sex very easily indeed. What I enjoy is everything that surrounds it, which is far harder to live without than the act itself.

Sex with someone you feel nothing for is pretty empty and rubbish, I find.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

That's true of any addiction.

I'm not chasing sex or anything, just seeking to make the days pass with some pleasure before I jump off this big ball spinning in space.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"A wiseman once said that if you live for sex, you die for it... anyone else having the thoughts that maybe you are chasing something that is never going to really satisfy you? Maybe I'm just being cynical but hey, that's me"

I'm not chasing it, I agree. I love sex, but it is not the be-all and end-all, relationships are much more important I believe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lovely words ladies. I agree. I love good relationships with good people. I guess my questions come from being on the site a while and noticing that a lot of the time the focus is on sex or image. Seems like you're kinda missing the point if that's the case... then again, guess a lot of people don't need or want to truly know those around them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Lovely words ladies. I agree. I love good relationships with good people. I guess my questions come from being on the site a while and noticing that a lot of the time the focus is on sex or image. Seems like you're kinda missing the point if that's the case... then again, guess a lot of people don't need or want to truly know those around them"

The focus will be on sex and image for a lot of people as it's primarily what they're here for. I don't think it means that it's the focus of their life outside of fab although it might be for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had sexy time for quite sometime now (yes feel sorry for me )

But not desperate for it..... so definitely not living for it.... if it happens it happens

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"A wiseman once said that if you live for sex, you die for it... anyone else having the thoughts that maybe you are chasing something that is never going to really satisfy you? Maybe I'm just being cynical but hey, that's me"

Who was this 'wise man'?

I think he was talking out of his arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is a leisure activity for me-like reading a book. When I'm in the mood I'll have it. I don't chase it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lovely words ladies. I agree. I love good relationships with good people. I guess my questions come from being on the site a while and noticing that a lot of the time the focus is on sex or image. Seems like you're kinda missing the point if that's the case... then again, guess a lot of people don't need or want to truly know those around them

The focus will be on sex and image for a lot of people as it's primarily what they're here for. I don't think it means that it's the focus of their life outside of fab although it might be for some."

Exactly. But I find if I do the same I feel shallow and cold. I can only have sex with someone more than once if I like the person. I see what you do in your spare time as your life. As it's always the same faces on here and there is a proper community leads me to believe it is the focus for some

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By *eziahWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"If you live for sex, you die for it".

Sounds like an 80's AIDS awareness campaign.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A wiseman once said that if you live for sex, you die for it... anyone else having the thoughts that maybe you are chasing something that is never going to really satisfy you? Maybe I'm just being cynical but hey, that's me

Who was this 'wise man'?

I think he was talking out of his arse."

Ohmega watts I think. And come on, not really rocket science to say "you live for it, you die for it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live for it or die for it seems a little bit dramatic..

Don't get me wrong, I love sex, and with the right person who loves it too - winner winner!

But to the people who lower their standards for the sake of it, boooooo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A wiseman once said that if you live for sex, you die for it... anyone else having the thoughts that maybe you are chasing something that is never going to really satisfy you? Maybe I'm just being cynical but hey, that's me"

I don’t look or chase what will be will be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A wiseman once said that if you live for sex, you die for it... anyone else having the thoughts that maybe you are chasing something that is never going to really satisfy you? Maybe I'm just being cynical but hey, that's me

I don’t look or chase what will be will be "

Does not looking for it or chasing it make you feel more or less satisfied? I guess attention's a good mask when it comes to these topics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A wiseman once said that if you live for sex, you die for it... anyone else having the thoughts that maybe you are chasing something that is never going to really satisfy you? Maybe I'm just being cynical but hey, that's me

I don’t look or chase what will be will be

Does not looking for it or chasing it make you feel more or less satisfied? I guess attention's a good mask when it comes to these topics"

Neither as im not looking for nothng.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A wiseman once said that if you live for sex, you die for it... anyone else having the thoughts that maybe you are chasing something that is never going to really satisfy you? Maybe I'm just being cynical but hey, that's me

I don’t look or chase what will be will be

Does not looking for it or chasing it make you feel more or less satisfied? I guess attention's a good mask when it comes to these topics

Neither as im not looking for nothng. "

Hmm swing and a miss! I'll leave that one where it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A wiseman once said that if you live for sex, you die for it... anyone else having the thoughts that maybe you are chasing something that is never going to really satisfy you? Maybe I'm just being cynical but hey, that's me

I don’t look or chase what will be will be

Does not looking for it or chasing it make you feel more or less satisfied? I guess attention's a good mask when it comes to these topics

Neither as im not looking for nothng.

Hmm swing and a miss! I'll leave that one where it is"

No just fucking work on deadlines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm havingthe best sex exclusivelywith a guy on here for the last 2 years and it's getting better and better..kind of down to luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm havingthe best sex exclusivelywith a guy on here for the last 2 years and it's getting better and better..kind of down to luck

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Great when it happens like that

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

Interesting replies....

So what happened to recreational sex....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting replies....

So what happened to recreational sex....?"

???..... no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting replies....

So what happened to recreational sex....?"

Its why people join fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting replies....

So what happened to recreational sex....?

Its why people join fab"

Aha i wondered why i was here

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By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

Mcr

I have chased the conventional and what I thought I was supposed to, and slowly been moving to what I wanted but not wanting to cut the cord as it were.

Now after more than a year out of... essentially out of life (surgery and recovery), lots of changes, and absolutely moving to things I will live and die for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm havingthe best sex exclusivelywith a guy on here for the last 2 years and it's getting better and better..kind of down to luck

"

That's what we are all looking for really, I was very much in the party scene 2015, but found a vanilla man in 2016, and not looked back, why am I still here, nosey cow basically

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/02/18 07:40:07]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A wiseman once said that if you live for sex, you die for it... anyone else having the thoughts that maybe you are chasing something that is never going to really satisfy you? Maybe I'm just being cynical but hey, that's me"
I'm chasing waterfalls

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm havingthe best sex exclusivelywith a guy on here for the last 2 years and it's getting better and better..kind of down to luck

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I'm guessing because of the person not the ac

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm havingthe best sex exclusivelywith a guy on here for the last 2 years and it's getting better and better..kind of down to luck

I'm guessing because of the person not the ac"

*act

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A wiseman once said that if you live for sex, you die for it... anyone else having the thoughts that maybe you are chasing something that is never going to really satisfy you? Maybe I'm just being cynical but hey, that's meI'm chasing waterfalls "

Stick to the rivers and the lakes that you're used to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A wiseman once said that if you live for sex, you die for it... anyone else having the thoughts that maybe you are chasing something that is never going to really satisfy you? Maybe I'm just being cynical but hey, that's meI'm chasing waterfalls

Stick to the rivers and the lakes that you're used to"
lol

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"A wiseman once said that if you live for sex, you die for it... anyone else having the thoughts that maybe you are chasing something that is never going to really satisfy you? Maybe I'm just being cynical but hey, that's me"

I bet that Wise Man never got laid and no one ever replied to his messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A wiseman once said that if you live for sex, you die for it... anyone else having the thoughts that maybe you are chasing something that is never going to really satisfy you? Maybe I'm just being cynical but hey, that's me

I bet that Wise Man never got laid and no one ever replied to his messages. "

He was happy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm seeking fun with friends, not just a fuck.

If the fun imvolves fucking, all.the better. It isn't the be all and end all.

*This is not an attempt to White Knight. Just my personal view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a white knight ,guessing its someone who uses Daz and is whiter than white and says everything he thinks the females in chatrooms want to hear ,so I guess in a way a sensible thing to do ,brown nosing also comes to mind ,I just come here for laughs and occasionally somebody loves my humour so much they invite me on a date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which wise man came out with that pearl of wisdom OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Which wise man came out with that pearl of wisdom OP? "

Ohmegga watts or one of lightheaded

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