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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was watching this ad from last year-

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jD8tjhVO1Tc

It's about looking for the things that bond us rather than those which tear us apart.

It got me thinking about how we make assumptions about people based on basic information or a slight insight online.

What 3 labels do you think others would give you around here? Do you feel affiliated with the others in those groups?

What 3 labels would you prefer to have? What boxes do you think fitting into would help you find the people you'd like to meet? Is 3 enough?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'd like to think funny , forthright, and kind ( one member knows how kind I am ) . But I may be mistaken . I know what I'd say for your 3 Rubi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd like to think funny , forthright, and kind ( one member knows how kind I am ) . But I may be mistaken . I know what I'd say for your 3 Rubi "

Go on then. Tell me

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I'd like to think funny , forthright, and kind ( one member knows how kind I am ) . But I may be mistaken . I know what I'd say for your 3 Rubi

Go on then. Tell me "
Sexy , Thoughtful and Shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labels I think would be given to me?

Dull, harmless, tolerable.

What I would prefer?

Amusing, harmless, different (in a good way).

Desireable, intellectual, unconventionally attractive would also work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think maybe confident, filthy mind and fun? Maybe???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like to think you all think im

Friendly

Comical at times

And slightly random

And thats exactly how i wish to be

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Honest. Up front and real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was watching this ad from last year-

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jD8tjhVO1Tc

It's about looking for the things that bond us rather than those which tear us apart.

It got me thinking about how we make assumptions about people based on basic information or a slight insight online.

What 3 labels do you think others would give you around here? Do you feel affiliated with the others in those groups?

What 3 labels would you prefer to have? What boxes do you think fitting into would help you find the people you'd like to meet? Is 3 enough?"

What people probably think of me..

1. Snowflake.

2. A White Knight.

3. An Attention Seeker.

What I'd hope or like them to see..

1. I'm warm hearted.

2. I'm honest.

3. I'm confident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was watching this ad from last year-

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jD8tjhVO1Tc

It's about looking for the things that bond us rather than those which tear us apart.

It got me thinking about how we make assumptions about people based on basic information or a slight insight online.

What 3 labels do you think others would give you around here? Do you feel affiliated with the others in those groups?

What 3 labels would you prefer to have? What boxes do you think fitting into would help you find the people you'd like to meet? Is 3 enough?"
I'm not a fan of labels so hopefully none apply to me but I'm sure others have different ideas but as a lifestyle we are regarded as non conformists ,so as a confident person ,a good person and a gent I really don't care what others think of me or whether I fit in but would always attempt to be mannerable to others ,would hate to think I've been categorised as a white male perv but if someone did refer to me as that I could take it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult to say as different people will say different things depending on what they see and how much they’ve got to know me.

I’m a joker to some, a knob to others

A friend to some, an irrelevance to others

Deep to some, superficial to others

Trustworthy to some, devious to others

Confident to some, lacking self esteem to others

and so it goes on

I find boxes constraining so I try not to get buried alive in one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say I was polite, funny (big ISH on that one) and charming.

Id say others see me as a boring old cunt (see what I did there)

Actually to quantify the above, I'm longwinded and often use outdated language, I hardly know my lol from .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate labels no matter how much of a useful shorthand they may be. They lead to us being put in boxes where much of what others remember are the labels and the complexity of us is somehow lost a little.

I really don't know how to label myself in three words...

I do know whatever labels I attach to me are totally meaningless...

It's what others see in me...

Or don't see in me....that's the important thing.

And I know that what others see is sadly often not enough....

Especially in those people who matter to me...

I think it's time to go back to the man cave.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Stroppy. Unbiddable. Bossy.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Petulant

Petulant

Petulant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stroppy. Unbiddable. Bossy. "

Unbiddable, what a great word, although I'd apply it to a donkey, and although you've a nice ass, I'd say you're no donkey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Petulant

Petulant

Petulant "

You and I almost arranged to have a drink once.. I'm glad it never happened now Lucky escape.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Stroppy. Unbiddable. Bossy.

Unbiddable, what a great word, although I'd apply it to a donkey, and although you've a nice ass, I'd say you're no donkey. "

I've been called worse

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Petulant

Petulant

Petulant

You and I almost arranged to have a drink once.. I'm glad it never happened now Lucky escape."

Sorry. I meant

Petulant

Neurotic

Aggressive

Fancy that drink?

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Near Rushden Lakes

I’d like to be funny, kind and intelligent (in that order)...but others may think of me as moody, stubborn and contrary.

Bitch on the other hand is loveliness personified (creep).

Twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Petulant

Petulant

Petulant

You and I almost arranged to have a drink once.. I'm glad it never happened now Lucky escape.

Sorry. I meant

Petulant

Neurotic

Aggressive

Fancy that drink? "
you're too late he's moved on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m thought of as

Kind

BBW

Flirty

I’d like to change the BBW to sexy but happy enough with the other two x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Petulant

Petulant

Petulant

You and I almost arranged to have a drink once.. I'm glad it never happened now Lucky escape.

Sorry. I meant

Petulant

Neurotic

Aggressive

Fancy that drink? "

Oh go on, you've twisted my arm now.. Neurotic does it for me every time

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Petulant

Petulant

Petulant

You and I almost arranged to have a drink once.. I'm glad it never happened now Lucky escape.

Sorry. I meant

Petulant

Neurotic

Aggressive

Fancy that drink? you're too late he's moved on "

Heart broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Petulant

Petulant

Petulant

You and I almost arranged to have a drink once.. I'm glad it never happened now Lucky escape.

Sorry. I meant

Petulant

Neurotic

Aggressive

Fancy that drink? you're too late he's moved on

Heart broken"
Awwwww I'm here for you

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